Who is to blame?
a single lady that agreed to date a married man knowing fully well that he is married, yes even if the unfaithful man came fooling himself after marriage, did he force the lady to date him?, i have a chance to say that the lady retains the decipline to say NO to him knowing the effect of such affair to the mans family, but she ignores and gives in, so whos at fault?

Did you read my post?

ofcouse yes i don't care who ever slept with her.

some people just like curses to reign on their heads!

HH:

Who is to blame?
a single lady that agreed to date a married man knowing fully well that he is married, yes even if the unfaithful man came fooling himself after marriage, did he force the lady to date him?, i have a chance to say that the lady retains the decipline to say NO to him knowing the effect of such affair to the mans family, but she ignores and gives in, so whos at fault?

dnt forget hun,there are times when the so-called married men, wont just give the single ladies breathin space. _{them don marry ohh, but its never enough, hiss!}

Busta:

some people just like curses to reign on their heads!

some ladies cheap shaa!

If the woman mess with a man knowing he is married then they both are to blame. But more of the blame would rest on my husbands head.

My husband is the one that stood in front of God with me and vowed to be faithful and true to me till death do us part. Therefore he is the one i am going after with the knife.

She will get her just rewards when Karma gets around to her.

They are both to blame.

Most married men offer ladies (most of the time young women) materialistic things like (cars, houses, shopping sprees, travel packages and all these things) on the other hand, I think that a married woman knows her husband's cheating she just doesn't say anything about it most of the time.


But most married men i've met who do this, do it not because they don't love thier wives but for the sexual thrill and excitement.

You dont hurt the ones you love, so no they dont love their wives, koko.

Makes sense but most men don't see it this way. The treat thier wives well, give thier wives everything under the sun and just ask for a tidbit of freedom.


Don't get me wrong I don't condone this but I know too many married men and this a huge part of thier reasoning.

I love my wife but I need some _sexual excitement.

_{Do you think Elliot Spitzer doesn't love his wife or even the other democrat candidate his name skips me at the moment.}

No. He didnt

Else he wouldnt have disgraced her esp with a call girl

Same with Edwards, is that who you claim loves his wife? Going outside while his wife was dealing with chemotherapy for cancer?

Seriously?

and see that's the thing, people say oh at least he's buying the wife at home, stuff? So what? If she's buying her own stuff n ko? What's the nextt excuse?

KarmaMod:

You don't hurt the ones you love, so no they don't love their wives, koko.

I think thats why many marry women who sense thier husbands are cheating most of the time don't ask questions, especially if thier husbands are giving them every materialistic thing under the sun.

I understand your reasoning but I don't think men who cheat see things that way.

That is why it is imporatant to make sure you take care of all of his needs.  

That way if he cheats then he just cheats and packs his bags knowing he traded in a great thing for a maybe f,uck in the street.

80/20 rule.

Did Spitzer wife or Edwards wife leave ?

madamkoko:

Did Spitzer wife or Edwards wife leave ?

spitzer

both to blame

That is why it is imporatant to make sure you take care of all of his needs.  

good point but sometimes even "meeting all the needs" is not enough

oh I didn't realize Spitxer's wife left.

madamkoko:




good point but sometimes even "meeting all the needs" is not enough

That is why i said if he still cheats then packng his shit is not hard to do.  I can pack his shit knowing i have done all i can as a wife to please and take care of my man but he still wanted to go out there and get his d,ck wet.

That is why i said if he still cheats then packng his shit is not hard to do. I can pack his shit knowing i have done all i can as a wife to please and take care of my man but he still wanted to go out there and get his d,ck wet.

really, you'd send your husband packing ?

Well, if you stay in the states, I think the husbands know thier wives to an extent. He'd know what to say and what not to say.

I remember a married man was dating one of my friends. There was nothing he didn't give this girl. But then, he also gives his wife everything under the sun. In fact, I think that the wife knew of this romance.

Anyways sha, to cut the long stroy cut, the girl wanted him to marry her and all that jazz but he's like, do you know how much i'm worth if I leave my wife for you, I won't have any money so pls leave me as I am, (divorce and alimony payments and all that)

Anyways sha, they broke up and the babe is searching for her own property.

So essence of my story is if the wife knew of this romance and left her husband, i think it would have been a bad idea. In this case, the wife knows her husband is not going anywhere.

madamkoko:


really, you'D send your husband packing ?

what do u expect from an American woman ,

madamkoko:


really, you'D send your husband packing ?

Yes i would.

what do u expect from an American woman ,

L O L. meaning ?

madamkoko:

L O L. meaning ?

they dont give a DAMN!

many white Americans (_{I don't know too many black Americans married to Nigerian but}) white married to Nigerian men I know don't leave and yet they KNOW full well thier husbands are cheating.

Do you mean Nigerian American ?

they don't give a DAMN!

still confused, damn about ?

was tryin to say , you cheats , they are off ,

off to court
off to anywhere,

madamkoko:

still confused, damn about ?

yes please explain?

dyabman:

was tryin to say , you cheats , they are off ,

off to court
off to anywhere,

And a woman is supposed to sit around and accept her cheating husband back home with open arms. Plllllllllllllllllllleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeessssssssssssssssssssssssseeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!

Feed that BS to someone else. I did it w/o you before you and i can do it w/o after you. I will not lay down beside, kiss, love, f,uck, suck you, wash your clothes, cook your meals and cater to cheating man. He can kisssssssssssss my high yellow ass.

sistawoman:

He can kisssssssssssss my high yellow ass.

can i see that ASS

just kidding but im serious