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Re: Opinion: Choose Who You Want Between Me And Your Mother- Very Silly Question by zemaye: 11:12am On Mar 16, 2015 |
Absolutely very silly question to me . BTW A man that cannot hold his own has no business being married! |
Re: Opinion: Choose Who You Want Between Me And Your Mother- Very Silly Question by chuks1love(m): 11:14am On Mar 16, 2015 |
[color=#990000][/color]PRAYER POINT 4 GUYS ONLY.. (1) My father my Father! Anywhere any girl is planning to use me as a MUGU, God destroy her plans! (2) Oh God! Any girl that is using her breast to confuse my destiny, Holy Ghost fire! Born them (3) Any girl that has vowed that she would never date me, God make her to see me taking her 4 shopping in her dream.! (4) Any girl that has slept with 5 different men including me and wants to tie me down with pregnancy that is not mine, God make her forget my name! (5) Any girl that m dating and calls me only to tell me her BIS/AIRTIME has expired.. Oh Lord.. Divert her calls to kidnappers. Gusy say 'AMEN' Girls Hit # like and pray along with |
Re: Opinion: Choose Who You Want Between Me And Your Mother- Very Silly Question by Nctrice(m): 11:17am On Mar 16, 2015 |
as my wife, ask me that question and i would present you with a divorce paper! And say to you! "That's my Answer" 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: Choose Who You Want Between Me And Your Mother- Very Silly Question by mmsen: 11:19am On Mar 16, 2015 |
Good luck trying to reason with such women. Any person who says something so stupid needs professional psychiatric help. |
Re: Opinion: Choose Who You Want Between Me And Your Mother- Very Silly Question by suptol(m): 11:20am On Mar 16, 2015 |
Really, :-)? |
Re: Opinion: Choose Who You Want Between Me And Your Mother- Very Silly Question by Nobody: 11:20am On Mar 16, 2015 |
Mtchew, no woman born of a woman can say dat to me and expect me to still marry her. |
Re: Opinion: Choose Who You Want Between Me And Your Mother- Very Silly Question by wasak(m): 11:24am On Mar 16, 2015 |
slimyem:Where have u been? 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: Choose Who You Want Between Me And Your Mother- Very Silly Question by Nobody: 11:25am On Mar 16, 2015 |
That's really a dumb question to ask a man. Is he my God that he should choose? I don't expect any man to love me more than his mother just the way I can't love any guy more than my daddy. 6 Likes |
Re: Opinion: Choose Who You Want Between Me And Your Mother- Very Silly Question by dablazor: 11:27am On Mar 16, 2015 |
TooNoisy:That isn't what it meant, when two people come together in marriage, they become one, in short, your spouse should always come first in all dealings, its now up to her to treat your MIL right.. But still she comes first, that is the whole idea of marriage, you leave your parents for your spouse. 2 Likes |
Re: Opinion: Choose Who You Want Between Me And Your Mother- Very Silly Question by Nobody: 11:28am On Mar 16, 2015 |
greatgod2012: I share your vision. Though I'm not yet màrrièd, it beats me how some ladies go to the extent of praying and fasting for their to be mothers in law to die before they marry their sons as if thèy won't be mothers in law someday |
Re: Opinion: Choose Who You Want Between Me And Your Mother- Very Silly Question by JoeCutie(m): 11:32am On Mar 16, 2015 |
Vickybee: 3 Likes |
Re: Opinion: Choose Who You Want Between Me And Your Mother- Very Silly Question by Nobody: 11:34am On Mar 16, 2015 |
Op, as you've clearly stated, one thing these ladies called "daughters in-law" seem to forget is that they are very much potential "mother in-laws" in the nearest future. You cant sow cocoyam to go reap cassava. My elder brother's wife is so unfair to my mum.... a big disappointment to everyone in the family. But each time i look at her behaviour, i laugh cos i assume she doesnt know what she's doing. I thank God because she has a son. Let's see what the future holds for her and her son and daughter in-law. 2 Likes |
Re: Opinion: Choose Who You Want Between Me And Your Mother- Very Silly Question by queen91(f): 11:34am On Mar 16, 2015 |
why would a reasonable person ask this kind of question in d first place. Mother n wife r different personalities n av different roles. Both r just incomparable. |
Re: Opinion: Choose Who You Want Between Me And Your Mother- Very Silly Question by sinizia: 11:35am On Mar 16, 2015 |
babyosisi: You've said it all!! Sometimes, before a woman makes such statements, something bad done many times by the MIL must have prompted it. Mothers should learn how to allow a couple plan and live their lives blissfully without meddling into their affairs unnecessarily. A wife and a mother should know their roles in a man's life and respect their boundaries. 8 Likes |
Re: Opinion: Choose Who You Want Between Me And Your Mother- Very Silly Question by tivta(m): 11:36am On Mar 16, 2015 |
greatgod2012:. Men, your wisdom 'bad' oh. I swear your children will enjoy you die. Its not a prayer but a FACT. |
Re: Opinion: Choose Who You Want Between Me And Your Mother- Very Silly Question by tivta(m): 11:37am On Mar 16, 2015 |
@babyosisi All I can say is, remember that you too will become a MIL one day so whatever you sow so shall you reap. 4 Likes |
Re: Opinion: Choose Who You Want Between Me And Your Mother- Very Silly Question by Nobody: 11:38am On Mar 16, 2015 |
Respect they say is reciprocal...as a MIL respect ur position nd remember that ure a MOTHER and your son / daughter has got a LIFE partner as a wifey/hussey over respect ur MIL so ur marriage will be blessed keeping in mind that one day u will be in that position Godwilling.......God I cherish good mothers... #thank God for my mumsy o...my Bruvs wifey is in for a world of enjoyment...I pray for good in laws...Amin 2 Likes |
Re: Opinion: Choose Who You Want Between Me And Your Mother- Very Silly Question by Nobody: 11:38am On Mar 16, 2015 |
JoeCutie:It seems all the guys on this thread(both married & unmarried) want to love their mummy than wife. Well, it's girls that are getting theirselves worked up on trivial issues. If I notice that my husband love his mother more than me and consult him before taking decisions, I'll love my daddy more than him too and consult him before taking decisions. The feeling is mutual. 19 Likes |
Re: Opinion: Choose Who You Want Between Me And Your Mother- Very Silly Question by sinizia: 11:38am On Mar 16, 2015 |
babyosisi: Exactly!! She made it look like MILs are all saints and the faults are solely on the DILs. I didn't even read up to half of her epistle before I hissed and moved down to the comments. Her advice is biased!! I'm a man, but the OP is wrong in her advice. All MILs are not saints. Some are bad, some are good. It's up to the man to step up and handle his business like a grown man. A mother should know her boundaries when it comes to couples. That she's the husband's mother doesn't mean she can step into the marriage and act anyhow. What nonsense!! 18 Likes |
Re: Opinion: Choose Who You Want Between Me And Your Mother- Very Silly Question by tivta(m): 11:40am On Mar 16, 2015 |
TooNoisy:. Am surprised am reading this from a woman, wow am really impressed. My dear please don't bother talking to those feminist girls cause they would just give you unnecessary BP. Let's just pray that whatever they sow so shall they reap. 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: Choose Who You Want Between Me And Your Mother- Very Silly Question by Nobody: 11:43am On Mar 16, 2015 |
Vickybee: Coolest signature sis... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Opinion: Choose Who You Want Between Me And Your Mother- Very Silly Question by tivta(m): 11:44am On Mar 16, 2015 |
Khabuqi:. Don't get angry when your children also abandon you for their wives |
Re: Opinion: Choose Who You Want Between Me And Your Mother- Very Silly Question by bukatyne(f): 11:47am On Mar 16, 2015 |
TooNoisy: Re your last statement, what a mother would be happy seeing her daughter's husband doing, she might not like her son doing it. 2. She cannot claim rights in her daughter's martial home @OP: the question is crazy. 3 Likes |
Re: Opinion: Choose Who You Want Between Me And Your Mother- Very Silly Question by Nobody: 11:49am On Mar 16, 2015 |
tivta: Yeah. If they marry, their wives should be their first priority. Just like my mum is my dad's first priority. 5 Likes |
Re: Opinion: Choose Who You Want Between Me And Your Mother- Very Silly Question by cacali(f): 11:50am On Mar 16, 2015 |
Don't be so sure that all men will choose their mothers over their wives. Know so many men that have chosen their wives jejely. But I totally agree that it is not a realistic position to put aman in, because many a times it backfires. But truth be told some MILs are just so overbearing that they refuse to give their sons and DILs breathing space. And at that point the woman needs to take a stand. But rather than ask your hubby to choose between you and his mother, you can call in some elders of your faith to intervene, especially if the man takes his faith/religion seriously. Don't deny your husband sex or food o. Hian!!! Those things are all over the place and he can even get it free of charge if he wants, with jara on top sef and then, Mrs. Wifey looses at the end. I have a fantastic MIL and I've no issues with her in the last 16 years. She no even get time as she is busy taking care of her goats and crops in the village. Her own is just make sure you feed her son. Shikena! 3 Likes |
Re: Opinion: Choose Who You Want Between Me And Your Mother- Very Silly Question by sinizia: 11:50am On Mar 16, 2015 |
Khabuqi: Reasonable guy!! Thumbs up!! |
Re: Opinion: Choose Who You Want Between Me And Your Mother- Very Silly Question by Nobody: 11:52am On Mar 16, 2015 |
sinizia: Na so my bro |
Re: Opinion: Choose Who You Want Between Me And Your Mother- Very Silly Question by tivta(m): 11:54am On Mar 16, 2015 |
Godshand:. My brother, karma is a bittch that fuccks every one. What goes around comes back around. I pity all these women shouting "MILs" are bad, they too shall reap what they sow. |
Re: Opinion: Choose Who You Want Between Me And Your Mother- Very Silly Question by bukatyne(f): 11:56am On Mar 16, 2015 |
greatgod2012: In this story the wife is more @ fault. Don't know the full story to exhonorate the husband 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: Choose Who You Want Between Me And Your Mother- Very Silly Question by tivta(m): 11:58am On Mar 16, 2015 |
cacali:. So fighting fire with fire will solve the problem? Women just can't tolerate themselves yet they forget karma is real. Why don't men fight with their MILs? Its a female thing that needs to be changed. Women are their own worst enemies. 2 Likes |
Re: Opinion: Choose Who You Want Between Me And Your Mother- Very Silly Question by tivta(m): 12:01pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Khabuqi:. You are sounding selfish. Why say IF? You don't want them to leave you abi? My dear you can't eat your cake and have it. |
Re: Opinion: Choose Who You Want Between Me And Your Mother- Very Silly Question by pansophist(m): 12:03pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
crackhaus: Exactly, very nice point. Any woman who utter such nonsense should be watch thoroughly. It expose a huge reservoir of her intent. 2 Likes |
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