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please you guys should quit the jabs taking over. we need more pills.

Yellowblack:
Nice one bro... Keep it up...

Nevertheless... If you get the money forget spend it on your woman... Make her dey shine bro..

word! my own method: I spend some nairas during her testing stage to let her know of a hustler I am and I can be comfortable, just to get her interested a lil. but next move is that I withdraw my resources henceforth and don't give her any further. as I also expected reciprocating gestures from them but they all proving selfish.

I noticed they'd all whyne and whyne about how I've suddenly changed. I always laugh at them when they do . for their mind dem don see maga, at least after I've banged the hell out of them.

so bottom line be say I always withhold my little resources and don't commit any further till I get same treatment from them. any lady too broke and selfish enough not to return the gestures will be kicked out without looking back.


resources take time and sweat to acquire. don't waste it unnecessarily. only a deserving woman is worthy of those resources- (young, fertile, virgin, etc)

I don commot viewing center. Match is boring and Liverpool just dey play anyhow. The defense is the problem. They're finding it hard to string passes to the front. We just dey defend ni.

jrobbins:
Your last line, pls, kindly state what they're benefiting from the women?

Hope not se*x? Cos that's not and will never be a benefit to a man

sex is no benefit. as a matter of fact, sex weakens a man after cum.

ZIINI:
Even if she not broke I bet you she won't give that guy a penny
Girls of today na only pussy dem fit render for relationship

could you believe my last relationship, my girl never spent or bought me even N100 worth of gift for 2 years?. Mehn I had to run.

I fawking hate selfish individuals that find it difficult to part ways with their money or make sacrifices.

mrpaedo:
Simpin' Ain't Easy....

weak men don't deserve to breath in oxygen at all. A man can be well to do(rich) and still weak.

Chinemeremjosh0:
Nna mee!! This current leeds United! Are another Manchester city in disguise!! I pray my club Chelsea not to fall hand when we meet them!! Cause what my eyes is seeing right now in this game hmmm!!! May God help us shaa!!

lol. I tells you bro. the day wey dem jam Man City ehn, dem wan kill city with pressing . they bossed the game with everything from possessions to shots on goal .

BTW, arsenal ain't seen nothing yet

leeds na my second EPL favorite to watch (matches) after my beloved Liverpool.

pls add me abeg... 081 0 9 49 27 8 2

COOL10:
Something happened today that just reaffirmed my beliefs. I wouldn't want to go into the details but please remember this.

Your interests as a man will always remain inferior to the female disposition. I don't care what you think or say. Women are incapable of love. It's purely self interest. Your wife doesn't love you, your girlfriend doesn't love you, even your mother will place your sisters above you when it suits the female disposition. They CANNOT love you. It's impossible. Let that ring in. They are more animalistic than the world would have you believe. It's all about survival and greed, to them. Do with this information as you please.

I keep forgetting these things because I am not one to hold grudges but I am thankful for the constant reminders.

Truer words have never been written or said. I wore that cape while dealing with my ex girlfriend and guess what? it played out just as expected. I knew from the genesis of our relationship that women don't love, they seek comfort and resources to take care of their offsprings and it checked out just as I predicted-she left me a low refined dude that works in the lower hierarchy of company in Delta state.

resources? I don't have them yet as I'm still a work in progress and she knows this. Do I blame her for leaving? no!. do I feel pained? not one bit as Ive never gained anything from her in the course of the 2yr relationship not even 1k worth of gift and I don't invest emotions in relationships.

Bottom line is: I've made it imperative to seek for lady that got resources too and not a lazy liability looking for a made dude to come save her from poverty, as an average Nigerian lady doesn't really care whatever efforts you put up with to make bread. for as long as you turn up, she can fool you with love and massage your ego.take away those resources and see her for her true scheming self.

KingWarri:
Yeah true but ah don't feel anything called when I'm with them... Right up in my mind ah start calculating the expiring date... Just looking for a way to get out of the relationship even when everything is going well...

we're in same shoe. I get tired easily and that with the sex inclusive.

Ebenezer2021:
Gbenu e soun.
Bastard your profile picture and even your environment gave you out as a jobless, broke and Ugly fellow.
Even your posts are still visible in the jobs and vacancies section were you keep begging for jobs with your mediocre OND.
You better go and further your education.
Below is the screenshot I took from your post were you said you were so tired of staying at home and even begged to be lab attendant and cleaner and you're here claiming official car and a white collar job.
Thunder strike that your lying mouth there.
Oponu

LMAO. caught her pants down . but that's 2years ago sha. God fit don pick her calls.

Sixfeetbelle:
Didn't I just say I will assist in your farm if you had one?


Define "contribute" cause all I'm seeing here is you wanting the wife to work and earn salary too. That's not the direction I'm going though.


What happened to traditional men?

unfortunately, women these days have lost the values our mothers had years back to be termed "Traditional". if you want traditional men ask yourself if you're traditional.

our mothers married as virgins,
worshipped the ground the men walked on and always supportive of the husband when his income takes a toll. These are core values of a traditional marriage.

but now, Y'all on a premarital fuçking spree and lost your core value as a bride to start with.

you're all impatient and the fake respect a woman has for her husband starts dying the moment his income suffers a setback.

so pls, cut the traditional shiit with us abeg.

cheating wife.
I'm afraid I don't know how to love.

the one that scares me most : responsibilities ranging from shelter, food, children and wife's school fees and bills etc. at least I can always kick out a cheating wife or when she pushes her lucks too far with naggings and shiit.

The thoughts alone made marriage unattractive to me. why go through that kinda spirit-wrecking long-term stress while the woman isn't expected to be made before marriage?

LINTUNE:
na god go help us, anyways not only women enjoy attention from the opposite sex, men too loves it, it makes our head swell, lol, ...so for now, we cant help it, lemme continue deceiving, who knows one if the ladies we are whining for now, might be our future wife in posterity, its not ideal to chase every gal thats into u as a guy, cos u never can tell, who ur future wife is, forget girlfriend matter, 80% of nigerian relationship is just a waste of time..

nailed it. over 80% of relationships na just cruise.

FanOfMyself:
09074191547

I'll save yiur number and send you a whatsapp DM when I have the money for the material you talked about. It's in web development right?

how old are you?
Do you still get morning wood and wet dreams?

Research has it that erection quality reduces naturally with age. if you're closer to your 30 then it's normal to experience a drop in libido and erection quality like that of a teenager but not total loss of erection.

womenareapes:
why won't them be no men?

no men would want to marry a 1000 diameter blackhole


when there are young you will see those ape forming "he is not my type" "must have 6figure"
blabla bla, but once there are getting old even goat will be a suitable candidate for them to get married to!

you see! the problem with Naija women is that they lack common sense!
dey think just by having a hole and two grape they can rule the world but little did they know that this world is be ruled by men.

When you tell them "It's a man's world", they scoff at you. because as dem no get sense, dey couldn't read meaning to that statement.

las las a man is a god on Earth. no vagina people can hold us to ransom.

that you shouldn't be too knee deep to the point where you believe that's the last bus stop.

That no one is truly yours till you're married as shyte happens and the once lovey dovey relationship can capsize any freaking time.

I saw the signs and impeached her immediately.

I went further to delete her pictures and contact from my phone to avoid stalking each other on whatsapp & FB and not give her this impression she's gold.

after 4 weeks, I saved the number and guess who popped up on my status viewers.- she still got my number

went ahead to delete the contact again for life.

zynzyn:
21 Cents confirming the above!

ladies love prick. all the babes wey don visit me came with a shaved kpekus. what do think they came for??

NACE13:
Bro, no offense but either your sexuality is not really in check or you're confused. A girl who likes you won't make things difficult for you. She's attracted to you in every way and you believe she's cheap because she willingly gave herself to you.
Do you know how many guys are at her feet begging her, yet she chose you and you see her as cheap.
I'm sure you'd say married women are cheap if they they initiate sex with their husband.
Change your mindset, bro

married women and a random girl I just met fir the first time, are they same? is that how cheap you are as a man?

I don't eat pussy like that. naxo you go do dey succumb to pussy and at the end of the day go give you HIV and STDs because you can't reason with your head instead of your dick. and no, there's nothing wrong with my sexuality.

Dreamliner787:
If us resume this year, u fit resume next near, nobody hold you..

abi o. they can even stay at home till 2022 sef. serious ones wan resume

WoundedLamb:
You are here to shout at girls and not the opportunistic boys who think a girl coming to their houses is an invite to fvck. I really feel bad when some men defend assault by saying things like "if she didn't want to do it, then why did she go to his house?". Now, the same men are here to still scold girls for being cautious. Will girls leave these planet for you people?!

First time a lady came to my crib after I passed the wooing stage she initiated sex by trying to seduce me and kissing me but I didn't yield, and I felt disgusted of her. in my mind I was like- if she could do that to me then she's been doing it with guys before we met. this one na fine girl o.

she came off too cheap because i expected the initiation should be ignited by me.

MusaChukwudi:
This foolish mentality creates poverty and population explosion.

lol. it's a foolish mentality indeed .

don't mind that cunning bitçh see her mouth like marry early. these liabilities be looking for a horse to work for them and their children while they bring nothing to the table but pissy.

seanwilliam:
all of them dey mad..

See as I dey cry reading the post cos I no fine and I no get money .. awon oloshi gbogbo

Shortyy:
In other words a 26 year old lady shouldn't marry because a hymen has cut.

I'm sorry to say this, but this is a very useless post.

Seeking an intact hymen is one of the paramount qualities of a virtuous and morally upright woman for marriage. that hymen is not only physical but its needed to cement bonding within spouses. don't get disturbed when men are seeking for it.


Settling with a perforated hymen is disastrous. her spirit is tied to that first man forever, reason why God in his infinite wisdom placed it there as part of "pair-bonding mechanism" for whom it is meant for -(husband).


sorry if you've given out yours for coke and indomie, but na you Sabi as God cannot be mocked. Wahala for whatever man that marries those non virgins. they can never love another man wholeheartedly no matter how much they deceive you with their fake love. they only love what you're providing and seeking a better future for their unborn kids.

Any man that doesn't agree with the last paragraph is free to delude himself. time will tell.

phazotron:
Mine

She turned cold and I had no choice than to dump her

Even overheard her telling her friend a guy sent her voice note while on a call With her

Something that she would have told me str8 up before

It was majorly my fault because I couldn't give her all the attention she wanted

But she really did love me

Second issue was that she had a tendency to over react to little things

Me trying to ask after her welfare would become a war of words

After several complaints about her new behavior and no change from her in sight

I blocked her in January one fateful Tuesday morning no hello no explanation

I felt guilty for the way I ended things

I called her today to let her know why I did what I did but she no pick

I'm laughing at her because she go dey believe say na me lose

Woman too Much for outside make I come dey waste my time with person wey no wan cooperate

I will try again to contact her but if she like make she no pick na her cup of tea b DAT

Person wey no get university degree

I need to level up and upgrade not downgrade

#i no need liability

lol. my man. you're right- level up and leave these hoes that ain't worth it.

no degree!

ND1 but poor GP.

no skills.

no money making traits.

but she dey gimme attitude. I sometimes wonder what came over me dealing with such girls in the first place.

Tonsil stones ( small spores-like white-yellowish-milky stuff) are lodged somewhere in your throat.

when brushing, try scrubbing your tongue with your brush too..

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Same with guys. Infact u u you want guys to be running after you, just pretend to be going to work everyday and they will star calculating how much you are making without knowing the nature of your job. Guys dey find money from babes this days pass before o. Once they notice you have a small source Ong income or you are a hustler, they will start disturbing your eyes with how they want to settle down in few months.

which is a good thing. I as a man ain't lazy by default because I must shoulder responsibilities that comes with family. but there isn't anything bad if the partner too earns something. wife is an helpmate, not a liability that wants to sit and be fed with all the goodies and also opening legs for cum.

what happens when the man faces financial difficulties which is almost inevitable in this world or worse the husband dies after 2 kids? have you given this a thought? I've seen where such happened and the kids quit their schooling cos breadwinner don kpai and relatives no send.

EVILFOREST:
Why are they now interested in MARRIAGE...
Thought these FEMINISTS want to stay alone..?
Are they tired..already..?

PLEASE, MEN hope you know our open secret.
Please never settle for empty vessels.
The world is becoming difficult.
Go for LADIES who have a lot to offer.
For They deserve HUSBANDS.

this right here is the bitter truth. even an aunt of mine advised me this way to let go of girls that have nothing doing coupled with good education.