₦airaland Forum

luminouz:
When young,yes but as they get older, the pool of better guys dries up exponentially.

abi. their window of shakara is within 18-24. girls within that range thinks the world will revolve around them forever and will so bullshytte so many guys their age then due to the mammoth attention they get everywhere especially SM.

but I figured their shakara dies slowly from 25 upwards. and men should have it in mind that tons of girls turn 18 everyday.

Ninejaywon:
Anytime a lady calls me a stone hearted man, I just smile because deep down I am doing something right. Funny thing is , she still keep on attaching herself to this stone hearted man.

Getting overdosed on the redpill.

LOL yes o.

CaveAdullam:
Becoming more virile on a daily basis will enable you to know women who are worthy of your rewards and commitment, and thereby forcing wh0res into extinction. Pure masculinity must dovetail with pure femininity.

Stop rewarding b!tches with your time, money, resources and most especially testosterones.

Don't be a simp.

Authority: make women great again.

pure masculinity must dovetail with pure feminity. Damn what a spirit-invoking line.

Weldone sire. Well done.

Beirut01:
All of you guys here are too smart. Is like you're all psychologist or something. This is so true cuz I'm going through this. I'll still scroll down to see those status

Ghost her!
how do you ghost?

Delete contacts, this would prevent seeing each other whatsapp statuses.

Unfriend from facebook and other SM.

Ghost her in such a way that she won't be getting updates about your Life anymore which would make her curious. go this way for more than a year while using that time to reinvent and add values to yourself.

trust me by 6months, you'd start saying to yourself: what the hell was I thinking going emotional for that girl?

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Are you confused because you love her and want to be with her or you are confused because you thought she was a virgin?
Now my advice to you is, if you love her and you are ready to keep a woman, you must not look at how many men she has slept with in the past. Look at how well she has changed or how good she has become. But if you are just looking for someone to add your your own body count, leave na you know how you want do am.
No be one is a saint. Even guys with 150 body counts still settle for one woman when they are struck by Cupid's arrow.

LMAO. Chai men don suffer

FYI, a man is valued by his resourcefulness and provisions. a woman is valued mostly by her youth, purity(virginity), and beauty.

right now you're expecting a man to lower those standards to save the damaged girl. can you do Same to a man? if no, then permit me to call you a hypocrite.

KimberlyWest:
Note: This is the last time I'll respond to you. You're a big he-goat for those first 4 alphabets you used. Do I look like your kid or what?

Go out there and see ladies loving men and helping them stand back on their feet. Stop staying online and swallowing any nonsense philosophy you see on this forum, WhatsApp and Facebook.

apologies for the first four alphabets. already modified it

KimberlyWest:
If you will listen to me, GROW UP!!!

Her salvation should be from God? Mad!!! So, God is going to come down to do this work

Did you skip the part where he said she's moved on from that kind of life? God has done his own work. It's now left for a human to make her feel loved and wanted.

I'd have loved to stay here and debate with you, but I can already sense the redpill childishness in you. I know some redpillers, and they're still sane. You're already moving towards damage yourself. So, if the damaged lady was your sister, you'll tell the guy not to attempt to save her?

Whatever my sister sows she reaps. Shes even a still a virgin sef at 23. My elder sister however, was a loose cannon when she was 19-23 and now she's praying for someone to come save her at 30 and I don't really give a fuçk about her. she took her decision years ago to be loose, and smart men swam across and left her. that's karma right there. Do I feel sorry for her? maybe, but I'm not too bothered.

KimberlyWest:
Never save a damaged girl? What the heck is this forum turning into?

The worst advice anyone can give to you is to not save a damaged person. That's like killing the humanity in you. Karma is real. Nobody will attempt to save you when things go wrong.

If you're going to swallow the redpill, make sure you do it with sense. Else, you'll become a sad, bitter human in the near future.

Don't try that emotional humanity game with me pls.

Karma is real you say? sure it's damn real.

can any lady in today's world save a man or help him get on his feet? no they'd rather japa yet you're crowing out loud to be saved. women and their hypocritical self-centered nature is just fascinating.

KimberlyWest:
Op, don't listen to these kids who are still thinking there's a perfect relationship anywhere.

If you like the girl, and you are sure you want to walk her through the process of recovery, then do it.

Women attach emotions to sex and guys don't. I'm assuming she was traumatized after her experience, and that took the "emotional aspect" out of her whole sexual experiences. Let's just say she was giving in to any guy who wanted her without minding if they were cute, rich, broke or whatever. She's already assumed that the only thing a guy wants from her is her body.

I've witnessed same things. I have friends who have been through similar traumatizing experience and I can tell you that what you're about to do is not going to be easy. It's going to take time to get the idea that the only thing a man wants from her is sex, and that's her only relevance on earth. It's going to take her time to open up her heart to you, and to see herself as a human who's worth all the love on earth.

If you know you truly love her, go for it. I know someone who married a girl that was pushed into runs because of financial problems. Just to take care of herself and her younger ones. She wasn't a slayqueen, neither was she using the money to buy bone straight wigs. He met her and she told him her story, and his response was "This place and this life is not meant for you."
He helped her recover, become a better person and they're married with kids. I've never heard anything about cheating. He's happier than most men who married "good girls"

Your girlfriend did not sleep with 35 men because she wanted that kid of life, she did it because of her low self esteem. It's the result of getting raped, and not having anyone to talk to. Being raped three times is a lot. I wouldn't wish that on my enemy.

OP this mischievous advise is coming from a woman so don't be surprised. birds of a feather flock together..

I repeat, do not attempt to save a damaged woman. do that and you're slowly digging your grave. Let her salvation be from God and not you.

before marrying any girl, make sure you vet her ruthlessly. I don talk my own.

The redpill taught us men to never save any damaged girl no matter what. do no save her. I repeat, do not attempt to save a damaged girl.

if she ain't a virgin, she's a used pusscy already.

Flee mothafvker, Fleeeee!

Misslilbootay:
Virgin?
But you haff chop before na

still doesn't matter. whosoever I'm putting in my home as a wife and mother of my kids must be pure and not a tokunbo used merchandise..

I don't understand why some ladies get worked up if a man seeks a virgin for a wife. wife different from girlfriend hope you know.

Pious
intelligent
Beautiful
virgin
Good cook.


These are the most important. others can be jara. but these are non-negotiable.

mattfeuter:
Saw this on Instagram and you need to see the comments!

- can you afford dna lol

- no man can do dna without my consent

And my fav

- if the wife says you’re the father, then you’re the father LOL


Wahala for who nor chop RP

lol. big wahala

itsRhamzy:
I've actually seen her pictures via my cousin. She sent me some and she's fairly beautiful but I pretended i haven't seen her. Just asked her myself as a test to see if she's worth my time.

lol she wan dey use you catch cruise. She must've been shocked by your response after telling you NO!

Bornsinner7:
WTF!!
These ex shit keeps ruining a lot of marriages, our generation is going if not already full of failed marriages..

look at this one now saying he is thinking of his ex, who knows if he still goes to Bleep them secretly..

lol. now I know why my friend married a girl that just graduated from sec sch last year, while he's a graduate.

him say any girl wey no be virgin na used product, and that those she's had in the past can never be erased from her memories for life. said best to marry a girl not more than 20. cos them never too use her for that age.

so many redflags in my previous relationship. girl was still keeping her exes contacts on her phone. I found out recently she still got my number too. abeg try distance yourself from those kinda girls that still dey keep ex numbers for phone. it's very disastrous to marry that kinda girl.

Bornsinner7:
You are not ok with your marriage

3 ex!! damn

Coming from a man.. a lady will be having an average of 7 ex.. marriage is useless in this generation..

Not only the fact that your partner has been used but they are just getting married just to fulfill societal custom

lol. TBH, marriage these days na scam.

I always make sure I figure number of exes a girl has had in the past. imagine a 20yr old girl having about 3 exes already. even had the nerve to tell me she once stayed for 7 months celibate without prick.

mehn I had to do the needful and dump the emotionally wrecked girl.

GLYCOLYSISS:
√Complaining [always ] emasculates a man.

It indicates there’s a problem and he’s too helpless to solve it.

It turns him into a weak and powerless victim.

A man either solves his problems or accepts with grace that nothing can be done, and gets back to work.

this is spot on!

Danycrusoe:
Our cases are spectacularly similar, very very similar. At some point she started talking as tho she was doing me a favor, I was irritated.

I didn't know game too, I got played, I wasn't even trying to play,.

I don't know y I was banned by d mod sha.

reason why I learnt here that it's good to have abundance mindset.

make her know you're cool with walking away from the beginning so that she wouldn't feel way too over her head. but unfortunately I figured the girls prefer simps all things being equal.

dunmorris:
Hello Redpillers, it is already one month now that a lady agreed to be my gf, ever since then i have been the one calling - Which i later stopped, sometimes she doesn't blue tick my messages, I told the person that refer me to her, that I don't like the way she behaved, i was told that I should be patient with her - that's how they will start turning someone to simp, in which I won't waste time to give her distance.

But deep inside I don't mind dumping her and moving on to get another serious person.

Thing is: you need to start seeing yourself as the prize. her window of shakara is within 18-25. las las her shakara go end by 28. while your own shakara as a man starts towards 30 till about 50 or so because that window is when things mostly falls in place for you and you can handpick from the young girls around. by then you start seeing the lady as evening newspaper.

if you're really busy improving yourself as a man, you wouldn't have time for someone that's treating you like an option whereby she doesn't respond messages fast or call you.

Authority: See yourself as the prize. women's hypergamic nature makes things hard for an unestablished young man. because of that, focus on yourself. focus!

hustla:
4 children in this economy



The only thing wey fit make me get pass 2 na if na triplets

lol baba you hit the nail on the head .

everytime I remember pampers, napkins and baby food money, I hold my prick for boxers and turn down any girl wey wan visit me. life too hard right now abeg.

shedomains:
[/b]
please speak for yourself alone, if submissiveness is not negotiable then why is it difficult to find a submissive girl,seems you go tey for market,at the bolded they never said they needed you ,you are the one looking for one.

who's feeding you that line @bolded? me tay for market? I've dated three girls, 2 were submissive kpa!.

shedomains:
bro eradicate submission and replace it with co operation, the women have gone pass this naa ,if you truly want a submissive woman please check up remote villages,most of this chics make good money ,so they dont need your coins that calls for submission,what ever you can offer them ,they can also buy for themselves double.if you dey look for submissiveness you go tey for bus stop. and lastly tone down your ego ,the women have all evolve.

. evolve my black ass. Submissiveness isn't negotiable. There can only be one captain on the ship. Not saying I'll be treating her like shit or being disrespectful towards her. But a man is a man any day and doesn't want competition with a woman. Any lady that can't submit doesn't need a man.

CalliDora1:
I knew it will be money related. That's another reason relationships don't seem to work out these days. Everyone is trying to be overly smart but little do they know that in a relationship, one person will have to be the "fool" for it to work.

Marriage is deep and goes beyond all what is being said here. Marriage is not rice and stew. If you know you're not ready for rubbish then stay single because you'll see a lot of rubbish and nonsense.

in this case the wife has to be the "Fool" for peace to reign in the house as a man naturally hates being undermined in his own house.

Tyewolove:
99% are whores!!! How did you came up with this percentage... I doubt if you're sure of this percentage.

I dated three ladies within 19-22.. I met none of them a virgin. that pretty much means they've been hoeing around since sec school.

luminouz:
Good of you.
If she can't talk to you directly,then its a shit test for control.

lol. I suffer my exes thru that shiit and I can tell it always hurts them especially when you let her know she ain't shiit afterall.

broke up with babe and at that same hour, next thing she did was to start posting jabs videos at me indirectly on her status. deleted the bitch's number and unfriended her from facebook.

messaged her friend on WhatsApp to help pass her a message. I asked for my refund of 10k I lent her 2 weeks prior. long story short I got my money after a month.

I hate it when bitches, especially the lazy broke ones let their physical attributes get way over their heads when dealing with me.

I saved her contact after 3 weeks to see if she still got my number and guess who popped up on status updates?? I then deleted the number forever.

I no dey allow girl use me catch cruise cos na see finish. at the first sign I noticed she's deviating from me, I dump them at the gutter next to me.

purpinkx:
Boss man, what you did is very wrong.

Dude has an addiction and he's working on it. Why do you have to call him out for it?

Are we not here to self-improve?

Well Sha.

pls let sleeping dogs lie.

you shouldn't have quoted this in the first place. we want sanity on this thread and not needless back and forth superiority battles.

Zyxzzzz:
Pubg, fortnite, COD my games that year

+ Nova legacy

CaveAdullam:
"Fantastical grandiosity": Modern day women think they are bigger, better and smarter than all the men around them because of the enormous amount of attention saturated upon them through social media outlets and simps, when in reality, the only reasonable thing they can offer is sex: which is not quality enough as they lack good bedmantics, and still require the efforts of men to bring sexual satisfaction.

Authority: Dump dummies.

yes sire!. Spot on

ubunja:
we fvck hoes and we marry virgins.
Any woman who has a problem with that needs to choose which one between these two she'll be. Simple.

How is your day Caleb?

I gotta screenshot this ASAP lol.

ClassicCaleb:
True,I can never wife a hoe but only Bleep and dump her in the future,I love reserve girls

Gbam!! I dumped my ex girlfriend because of that.

first time she came to my crib she was cuddling me kissing me tryna seduce me. I could tell she wanna fuçk but in my mind I was like bitçh why not calm down and allow the man to make the first move?? if you could try that with a guy you just met then you must've been doing it steadily with other guys prior to our meeting. I hate hoes. I felt so disgusted of her that day but had to get down with her the second time she came.

long story short, I don waka commot the relationship. this one na fine gyal o. I hate cheap girls for my life.

Skepticus:
The burden of whether he practices what he preaches or not, rests solely on him, not you. It's nothing to worry about. If he doesn't, women would spot it, and get him "punished" for it.

All you have to do is to pick whatever part of the red pill that works for you and move.

well said.

xynerise:
You know nothing....

please don't mind that Jon Snow . experience is the best teacher