Why?

Sexylady,
YOu are in a tough spot. I too am in love with a married man and I can tell you that the only decision that you need to make is what is best for you. If you are okay never being number one in his life then youhave ot accept all the responsibilty for what happens. If you want and realize that you deserve to be number one then both of youhave some tough decisions to make. Noone can tell you that you are or ane not in love only you know that. Be honest with yourself and be honest with him. You deserve to be happy but remeber there are others inthe equation and he should be occaionally reminded of that as well.
I want mine ot leave becasue once I , or someone like me is in ones life then there is already problems. You are not the problem you are adding to it but you are not the probelem there wereproblems before you but as a society you will be blamed and stigmatized by your actions.
Do what is right for you, sorry that is al ltheavice I can give.
BE TRUE TO YOURSELF

i think you have a problem

Think about it, what if someelse is in love with thesame man you are in love with? i guess is gonna hurt you .so back up cos i believe there is a man out there killing him self just to have you say hi to him. remeber you are about to break a home

Well, i am married and would be hurt if my hubby would cheat on me ( he knows better anyways) but all the same, you do what you think is good for you, i hope that means breaking off with hime since you already found out he lied. Besides how do you know how many of you he is playing out there and lets say he leaves his wife for you, would you trust him?. You have all the answers i think.

Then again if he is one of those people that believe in having more than one wife and you are down with that, then good for you guys. I know that in this my casa (home) am forever gonna be the only QUEEN with my KING.

I think you should stop it, put yourself in the situation of the wife and another person is going out with your man, what would you do?

i agree with u

RIDE ON

have a personal disgust for people like you,

Wrongdudu pple like who?

are u sure u took a vow? i doubt if not why go back on your words.see the way you lay your bed so u will , if u fall 4 him and take him away from his wife just because u can, concequently some other women or men will fall 4 him or you and God knows what. think honey

hey jaybabe, initially my message was for the confused lady in love with a married man but same goes for you

WrongDuDu F-U-C-K O-F-F

a A-J-U-J-U

did i hear u say love?its no love baby its LUST,and i,m sure d guy has money,and probably he is BIG,STRONG AND RELIABLE[love my foot}.GO LOOK FOR YOUR OWN HUSBAND,HE IS SOMEWHERE LOOKING FOR YOU.

@ Olutomiwa A-K-U-K-O (STORY)

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@Jaybaby
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@jaybaby,not surprised,you are birds of the same feathers{homebreakers}

@lioness
abeg help me tell am,instead of you praying to God to give you your own husband you are loving another woman's husband.abeg just forget it and pray for your own to come.

Dearest Sister,

Personal interest makes you think you love him or that he loves you,How much CASH are you getting from him that you can't let GO?? I love my Blessed country and its people so much,and can't bear to see any Nigerian in pain, my Sweet sister please forget that Prostitute man and Look very well your GOD'S destined husband or lover is standing nearby,he is not yet in your life cos that married man is standing on his way. THINK BABY. you can reach me :honestysmith@yahoo.co.uk I will tell you what I can't share with you online.

Echidime

My dear its not easy to just break off something you're so into i know,
its not easy, but please try, am with you on this one

get a life, get a move on, find ur own and stop attempting to break someone else's home, dnt mean to be harsh but u need to be shocked out of ur dilemma,

I suppose for now the DELEVERIES are good.
I would only say enjoy while it last because u
are already telling urself the truth.ENJOY

Do to others as you wish others to do unto you. That man no be ya husband. Na you know wetin u still dey find for the man body now wey you done discover say im done marry.

Wake up, girl!

The married guy is just using you! Right now, you are the advertising break/interlude between his marriage programme. If he really loved you, you would be the one wearing his ring, bearing his name & sharing his villa. But you aren't, are you?

_{*a bit off topic*} Laudate, are u in NN?

You are not in love with a married man, you in a haste to go to hell. oes the married man love you? even if he pretends he does, he is a liar let him make u a second wife.

Just pray he is not my husband because if i was the wife and found out, they would still be looking for your body (ok that was my Id talking)

but true advice, get over it.

babe - no disrespect
consult a psychatrist

if the only people you fall in love with is married Men,
Exact reason why I say women re the cause of their own problem

The poor wife of this man You are in Love with, wont know you are aware he is married.
and u still decide to hang on, !
and wen kasala burst now, she go dey blame the guy - not Knowing you re the One that has a fish brain.

I wont blame the guy, who go see free constant , all conditions gear ponano,
Weh no go wan knack am,