xMyloXyloto:
Isn't the answer obvious?
It's like you're trying to negate his argument by supporting it...

xMyloXyloto:
Isn't the answer obvious?
It's like you're trying to negate his argument by supporting it...

xMyloXyloto:
Isn't the answer obvious?
It's like you're trying to negate his argument by supporting it...

haibe:
Let the person I asked answer. I want to fully understand his stance on this subject so I can kniw whether t1o see it as his opinion. . Everyone has a right to his/her opinion

xMyloXyloto:
OK sir
But again, you seem to make contradictory statements...
His opinion stands whether or not you 'see it as his opinion' because of the simple fact that it is HIS opinion.

Or do you mean... Actually, never mind. Sorry for the interruption
Have a blessed day

Brytawon:
FTC! Yes I made it!
Like to dedicate this privilege to any woman who has stood for her dignity, who upholds her integrity not because of circumstances but because of her respect for her future husband. Every woman's pride lies not only in her preservation but the respect her husband renders to her for not doing otherwise.
Thumbs up @Op.
FP material!!!
I said it...

safarigirl:
FINALLY! Someone who gets it. Bless you for your superior intellect dearie

freecocoa:
Chai! So you couldn't tell from my posts that Kandikane and I are saying exactly the same thing? Is stealing not an act related to morality? Is stealing subjective? I've explained so much, yet you didn't get it? Abi na the grammar make am hard for you? I'm really baffled.

1dafullymade:
it is wll dear...God gives His children their heart desires & even wen He doesn't give u exactly what u WANT,He sure gives u what u NEED 'cus "His thots 4 us are EVER good thots...." hv a great day

kandiikane:


What a bloody child! Grow up and focus on your goals rather than coming here with lies about a random girl you probably have never met. Bloody overgrown baby with peas for brain.

winie:
Haba! She never said sex was bad nor immoral. She only implied from her write up that pre marital sex is irresponsible. Fairy tale god you say...anyway, even our culture forbids pre marital sex. Why? Cos sex within the umbrella of marriage is clean and moral. At the risk of sounding judgemental, unwanted pregnancies, STDs, diseases, mental and emotional traumas, abortions, deaths, dysfunctional societies fill with baby mamas and papas, etc, is where "learning about and improving on sex" (as you brazenly put it) has brought quite a number of people. The fact that some were consensual, doesn't erase the above consequences. You are a man abi? We have a saying in my place-"good is good, and bad is bad, who ever say something bad is good, let come in quantum to him, and whoever say god is bad, may he never see good". So my dear, n matter how you look at it, GOD can NEVER be a liar. I rest my case

stonecoldcafe:


I hope you won't be finding fresh virgin to marry. I hope you won't mind if your wife has been round the block a couple of times. After all the sex is amazing. There is no immorality there and she is free to what she likes with her body.

RiffRaff:
What is with myopic people and their obsession with virgins? dude, i don't care if my wife is a virgin or not. what ever she has done before she meet me is of no consequence. you might be obsessed with virgins but to me, my sense of value of a woman is not based on weather she has had sex or not....
Virgin this, virgin that... Are you a Virgin yourself?

RiffRaff:
Our culture also forbids giving birth to twins, we used to throw them in the evil forest
No one should be forced to conform to cultural practice. like i said "evrybody has a choice"
There are people who have choose not to get married in life. should they be denied the pleasure of sex because of that?
Sex is not just for procreation only, so the emphasis withing the umbrella of marriage is flawed. There is nothing immoral about having sex outside of marriage.
all the cons you listed only happens to people who refuse to take precautions. hello! that is why condom was invented and other contraceptive.
anybody who chooses to have sex with protection should take the consequence in good faith.
Sex is Good! its one of the most beautiful things nature has bestowed on living things.

GOD can NEVER be a liar where did God tell you not to have sex? *personal encounter only please*
Dont bother answering that question, if you will be quoting from fairytale religious books. those are books fabricated by men and guess what? Humans tell lies.

haibe:
Let the person I asked answer. I want to fully understand his stance on this subject so I can kniw whether to see it as his opinion. . Everyone has a right to his/her opinion

alphalpha:
Some people just come here to claim all knowing, but in reality they are poor deluded fellows. Come here to claim that sex with someone who isn't your wife or husband isn't immoral? the height of self deceit. I've read books that tell of history that even before the white man came to Africa with his religion, sex before marriage was a taboo in villages, not only in Africa but also in the rest of the world. These guys are just being mislead and abused by this "I think for myself lunacy."

kandiikane:


Oh hush up, you read books but you know nothing. Maybe you should read abit more.

alphalpha:



hush up so that your lot would go on deceiving yourselves and innocents?
for a know-it-all, you should know better

kandiikane:

I know better that is why I am telling you to hush up and read more.

alphalpha:
Some people just come here to claim all knowing, but in reality they are poor deluded fellows. Come here to claim that sex with someone who isn't your wife or husband isn't immoral? the height of self deceit. I've read books that tell of history that even before the white man came to Africa with his religion, sex before marriage was a taboo in villages, not only in Africa but also in the rest of the world. These guys are just being mislead and abused by this "I think for myself lunacy."

jxdee:
I doubt if the people making snide comments really read the whole post before contributing. The op is talking about premarital sex, which is a form of sexual immorality in this 21st century. She did not say sex is bad. Obviously, any lady that says that a guy slept with her, got her pregnant and dumped her has been engaging in premarital sex. All those people asking if she is a virgin and making other snide comments are just bitter because they have engaged in premarital sex and have regrets. It's paining them. Almost all of these people are either Christians or Muslims. Now which of these two religions embrace premarital sex? The non-religious people, does the norm in your village embrace premarital sex? If you claim to be part of a group, you have to conform to the norms. You are behaving as if it's not the same thing our pastors, imams and parents preach to us. You could not keep yourself for marriage, maybe you have valid reasons. Fine. No one is judging you. But whether you jump high or low, premarital sex is wrong for the many obvious repercussions we see in society today. The Bible, Quran and the norms of society has not changed. You are just looking for a way to justify your wrongs. Can anyone ever say that stealing is ok as far as the thief feels he's doing the right thing? This is not a matter of your conscience judging you. Have you never heard of dead conscience? Imagine we allow our individual consciences to decide what we allow as good and bad, how will our society be like? Youth, wise up!