Neduzze5:
Agarawu 23... Where art thou?

oga work hold me oh

how you see the topic?

simplex2:
Am I the only one finding it hard to understand what the ramblings is all about?

First of all, there is nothing 'IMMORAL' about sex; unless non-consensual acts like digging the holes and painful positions. Anything consensual is not immoral.

Secondly, apart from pregnancy, you failed to mention the other bad things that emanate from sex. I believe you were having this discussion with adults and they all know what safe-periods and unsafe periods are: and have at least heard the word 'condom'.

I never said having sex was bad, it just shouldn't be justified. I said people should stop making excuses for it. If you read the last part of my write-up, you'd see where I said that.

It's funny how people respond to threads like this. You will be seeing posts like 'are u a virgin' 'se na u holy pass' 'op u dey form virgin Mary'.. But when a lady comes out to talk good about premarital sex, it's all good and nice. Such perversion!
Not everybody is hypocrite. Some people endeavour to live a decent, so if you don't, stop thinking everybody is like you.

Nice one because I totally agree with you. No justification for the sort of things happening now. But before I continue to praise and adore you for your boldness, eloquence and possible conservative nature, have you ever done the following;

Put on trousers,
Leave your hair open during worship,
Play along with a guy out of curiosity? Just to mention a few. If you limit the subject to sexual immorality alone then you ain't CONSERVATIVE as you think.

Lots of natural laws been amended in the 21st century and we term it civilisation.

wallflower:
Good for you, now leave those that want to be "sexually immoral" and mind your own business.

was she forcing it on anyone?

Emodeee:
Safarigirl has been writing about sex since 1822.

I want to ask u, r u a virgin?@safarigirl

whether I say yes or no won't change your opinion, will it?

eightsin:


Aptly captured. Don't like it when some religious fanatics comes to me and say this is bad and this is good. I just tell them I have a conscience and when it tells me I'm doing wrong, I'd desist from it.

True that bro!. Lemme even ask the OP safarigirl, are you a virgin?. If you are then how come you condemn something you've not experienced first hand and if you aren't how come you chastise those who engage in sexual intercourse?.

safarigirl:
I never said having sex was bad, it just shouldn't be justified. I said people should stop making excuses for it. If you read the last part of my write-up, you'd see where I said that.

Your topic said it all: Justifying Sexual Immorality in 21st Century!

agarawu23:
oga work hold me oh

how you see the topic?

I'd prefer to skip commenting on this

@Safarigirl
as much as anyone having sex should accept the consequences of their action, i think that there is NOTHING wrong with a lady making love to a man because he did everything her MIND desired, in order to open her legs. what is wrong here is NOT protecting herself properly while being in such risky situation, so that there wont be any issues of pregnancies, STDs or worse. so yes it is a gal's fault if she gets pregnant to a playa, but there is certainly nothing wrong with having a great time in bed with someone you "believe" loves you.

as for going to a virile man's house, there is nothing wrong with that, and that shouldnt automatically means they have to have sex. sex should always be a desire by TWO people to co.pulate, not just one. there is nothing "not" smart about going to a man's house.

you have ALL the rights to not want to involve yourself with premarital sex, but there is nothing wrong with people who do it, and do it WISELY....important word here is "wisely". the fact that you are trying to make sex as something bad because some unwise friends of yours may have gotten pregnant by phoney guys is laughable. why should anyone make excuses for themselves for having sex?! what kind of deluded women do you have as friends?!

as for your comparison of people who do go out and/or have an healthy sexlife as ashawo/public toilet, you are entitled to your opinion.

simplex2:


Your topic said it all: Justifying Sexual Immorality in 21st Century!

those words can mean a ton of things. It could mean homosexuality, multiple sex partners, unprotected sex. That you gave it one definition doesn't mean I meant it in whatever way you translated it to.

I keep hearing people questioning those who are against immorality if they are virgins.But if one has made error in the past and finally realised his or her mistake and amends his ways, issue of virginity should not be an excuse to continue in immorality.Even if you were a prostitute and finally embrace celibacy, I believe that decision is noble compare to a one time virgin now turn olosho.....once you know what is right, then it can't be too late to amend.

'like' if u havent felt any bit of guilt afta sex n 'share' if U av

joseph1832:
True that bro!. Lemme even ask the OP safarigirl, are you a virgin?. If you are then how come you condemn something you've not experienced first hand and if you aren't how come you chastise those who engage in sexual intercourse?.

if you have to put your hand in fire before you know it burns, then you're not very smart

well said @ op...
i keep telling people that because everyone indulges in sexual immoral act does not make it right and
because no one does it does not make it wrong...
thank God for right thinking people like you...kudos

1dafullymade:
dearie not in ds case, cus d MANUFACTURER already gave out a manual on how it shld be used...itz wen misued dat PROBLEMS abound..

I LIKE UR COURAGE,WELL WATIN I GO TALK...U WIN...I DEY ANYTIME...

safarigirl:
if you have to put your hand in fire before you know it burns, then you're not very smart

If that fire truly burns then I'll ask why didn't it burn your parents?.


No insult Intended!.

joliej:
well said @ op...
i keep telling people that because everyone indulges in an immoral act does not make it right and
because no one does it does not make it wrong...
thank God for right thinking people like you...kudos

Pardon me but what's your definition of 'immoral?'.

Sexual morality is a choice and so is the contrary. No excuses before God and man.

Sexual permissiveness is the order of the day. The atmosphere is suffused with sex, implicit and explicit. It will get worse. More bodily exposure of women will take place in the name of fashion and personal right. Each person will decide for self. Parents God help you with your children. The spirit of disobedience is very active. Be their friend. Share their world. Be available. Know their friends. God will grant you wisdom especially in handling your daughters on sexual matter.

JESUS IS LORD!

All this useless girls of nowadays.

Op, keep that to yourself, weather you won bang or not, he no concern anybody.

everyday, same topic on FP, virginity, premarita s*x,... I Don tire Oo, if U are virgin, pls, Keep it to ur self, many ppl dont know the more U broadcast, the more U are likely to fall to victim to what U are even preventing. Abeg, fuel no dey, make we hear word.

All this useless girls of nowadays.

Op, keep that to yourself, weather you won bang or not, he no concern anybody.

charles316:
One idio.t was advocating sex before marriage..

are you just a trouble maker or you are a troll

jeez. contribute to the topic and stop picking on that handle.

Na today

safarigirl:
I never said having sex was bad, it just shouldn't be justified. I said people should stop making excuses for it. If you read the last part of my write-up, you'd see where I said that.

if you feel its not bad, why then cant it be justified?

@op your advice for sweet if to say u be virgin

safarigirl:
those words can mean a ton of things. It could mean homosexuality, multiple sex partners, unprotected sex. That you gave it one definition doesn't mean I meant it in whatever way you translated it to.

so what is your own sexual immoral definition?
In this context, i wud think u referring to sex?

RiffRaff:
It is your business if u decide not to have sex in a relationship...
As far as i am concerned, it is a free world. Wether you choose to have sex or not is a personal decision.
My biggest grouse with this write up is terming Sex is as "immorality".
Sex is a beautiful part of nature. As long as 2 conscenting adult decides to have sex & it is not rape. There is absolutely nothing immoral about it.
Everybody should find their own kind. You wanna keep yourself till marriage, fine.. Goodluck to you!
Let those who wants to have sex do so by all means. Different strokes for different strokes.
People should stop quoting retarded lies from fabricated middle eastern & Jewish Religion and fairytale God to back up the claim that sex is "Dirty or Immoral"
Dont feel guilty about something as amazing & beautiful as sex, its an important part of nature.
So ladies and gentlemen, have sex, learn more about it, improve on it, make sure you stay PROTECTED always and if you choose not to, make sure you are always ready for what comes after.
Cheers!

One way or another, I'm tempted to say, this made more sense!

Good talk.... But he dat tinks he is standing should beware he does not fall.... Keep up the good resolution and dont forget to pray to God to help u sustain it.... No by how you talk reach

While I was reading this,I decided to peep at who this op might be. When I saw your name safari.. I wasn't surprised..

Nice one gal.

This is the kind of thread very ugly girls create.

sladimeji:

Both of una should face una book....argue about something else