tohpahz:
Now this is something that has been on my mind for quite a while..

I hear people say they fell out of love with their partner, and I've also seen cases where attitude and everything just changes because of the same reason..

Personally, i don't know and it's getting me a lil bit confused here and there..(i sometimes think the person never loved the partner )

So i want to ask,
Can someone fall out of love with his/her partner
Isn't love supposed to be a forever thing..
What causes this?
Can it be prevented(if it exists )

Thanks...

missclasssy:

Love is an emotion and like all emotions, it is capable of wearing off.

jearile:

Figuratively, we say people "fall in love" but in reality and ideally people actually grow in love. Love is not something you fall into otherwise it is very certain you'll fall out of it sooner than you think. The reason why there're so many break ups boils to the fact that more often than not people "fall in love."
To "fall in love" is simply an infatuation. Infatuation is simply being ignorant of who you are - what your values are, what you really want, who you really need and the why's of them all. So we fall for "packaging" not actually love. Appearance creates opportunity for likeness.

Love is not emotion (feelings). Feelings are subject to change but love is not subject to change. Feelings are ways in which we express love and that's why especially in marriage you are adviced to love your wife at all times even when you don't feel like it (not in the mood). You know Hollywood has so redefined the true concept of love to make it look comical so much that people "fall in love" with their common sense on sabbatical.
Notwithstanding, all relationship don't last forever. We most times call it quit when there're huge incompatibility differences; some negotiable with time if you can wait, some nonnegotiable and that is not to say they "fell out of love" provided it wasn't for any selfish reason. Part of this is why overdue years of long relationship is unsuitable because people change and alongside their values. Go into relationship when you are ready and prepared for marriage - experience is a student teacher when it comes to LOVE matter.
In summary, you "fall out of love" only when you "fall in love." Husband stops "loving" the wife after she drops two - but he "loved" her when her figure 8 was still perfect. So that he married you is not a guarantee is really truly loves you.


LOVE FAILS NOT!

Ps: The difference between a bush and a garden is order. Like a garden, if you don't sustain its beauty it looses order and becomes unpleasant. Likewise, if you don't want to loose "order" in your relationship, as a matter of priority you must learn to spice it once and again and not once and for all.

Wonderful, u clarified me to confuse me again..
So u mean one can't fall in love or Love doesn't exist

tohpahz:

Wonderful, u clarified me to confuse me again..
So u mean one can't fall in love or Love doesn't exist

jearile:

Love exist when you grow in it not when you fall in it... Capisce!
Gabby's elder bro speaking...

Now i get,Thanks... wait!! Gabi asin ab*zu??

tohpahz:

Now i get,Thanks... wait!! Gabi asin ab*zu??

jearile:


Good to know... asin yepi

tohpahz:


Yekpa and u remembered my face

Dotwillis1:
love fades

tohpahz:
Now this is something that has been on my mind for quite a while..

I hear people say they fell out of love with their partner, and I've also seen cases where attitude and everything just changes because of the same reason..

Personally, i don't know and it's getting me a lil bit confused here and there..(i sometimes think the person never loved the partner )

So i want to ask,
Can someone fall out of love with his/her partner
Isn't love supposed to be a forever thing..
What causes this?
Can it be prevented(if it exists )

Thanks...

Dhavids:


When the nigg compares love to 2 yards Adire material... ...abi oti fade niii!!

Dotwillis1:
lmao ...