Rickbee1:
No idea...sorry ooo

sholikay:
This write up may be lackadaisical and irrelevant to some here, but I just need you guys to just over look it, and help a brada out.. I'm in my mid-twenties.. I have a problem of wooing ladies (I'm imagining how I'm gonna get my wife sef ). Obviously, the only tactic I have is just being humorous to them ladies., in which I use to get their attention, at the initial stage. But midway, everything will just crash, kuz I always spoil the formation.. And the ladies won't stop stealing my heart away.. Since we are now in the "ERA" of change, I just want to lock up on ladies matter for the time being, so I could focus more on my professional course(mechanical engineering)..
So to my big Bros'es in the house, who's more experienced in "ROMANCE". I need remedies and measures, in shutting ones feelings for the opposite sex...
Thanks in advance for any bashing and helpful response..

sholikay:
This write up may be lackadaisical and irrelevant to some here, but I just need you guys to just over look it, and help a brada out.. I'm in my mid-twenties.. I have a problem of wooing ladies (I'm imagining how I'm gonna get my wife sef ). Obviously, the only tactic I have is just being humorous to them ladies., in which I use to get their attention, at the initial stage. But midway, everything will just crash, kuz I always spoil the formation.. And the ladies won't stop stealing my heart away.. Since we are now in the "ERA" of change, I just want to lock up on ladies matter for the time being, so I could focus more on my professional course(mechanical engineering)..
So to my big Bros'es in the house, who's more experienced in "ROMANCE". I need remedies and measures, in shutting ones feelings for the opposite sex...
Thanks in advance for any bashing and helpful response..

Kasimaramma2:

From your description,you seem desperate.There is more to life than relationships.i certainly believe that one should not date for the purpose of dating but to date for the purpose of marriage n i am sure you aint ready for marriage.
You are stil young and should focus more on your career,n education.now is the time to dissipate your talents not become a comedian just to woo girls.Girls nowadays are looking for READY-MADE men not men that are not yet made n are still trying to make it because when they stay with a man when he has not got a name for himself n is trying to make it,in most cases when the man makes it,he leaves them for another girl.When you are ready for marriage n want to start a relationship with your wife to be,pls dont try to be humorous,stalk her or the rest,tell her your intentions plainly n be ready to accept rejectn bkus it is part of life.I cant say there is anything wrong with you,it is your lack of confidence,desperation n haste that may be the cause of it.when you have dealt with this three issues n you are ready to tie the knot with your hearthrob,remeba these:
you have to love yourself first then you would know how to love others.
Dont look for someone that would make you happy,but someone you would share your hapiness with.best of luck!

kpolli:

Alcohol

sholikay:
Bros me na gentle guy. I no dey drink alcohol oooo.

Kasimaramma2:

From your description,you seem desperate.There is more to life than relationships.i certainly believe that one should not date for the purpose of dating but to date for the purpose of marriage n i am sure you aint ready for marriage.
You are stil young and should focus more on your career,n education.now is the time to dissipate your talents not become a comedian just to woo girls.Girls nowadays are looking for READY-MADE men not men that are not yet made n are still trying to make it because when they stay with a man when he has not got a name for himself n is trying to make it,in most cases when the man makes it,he leaves them for another girl.When you are ready for marriage n want to start a relationship with your wife to be,pls dont try to be humorous,stalk her or the rest,tell her your intentions plainly n be ready to accept rejectn bkus it is part of life.I cant say there is anything wrong with you,it is your lack of confidence,desperation n haste that may be the cause of it.when you have dealt with this three issues n you are ready to tie the knot with your hearthrob,remeba these:
you have to love yourself first then you would know how to love others.
Dont look for someone that would make you happy,but someone you would share your hapiness with.best of luck!

naija1stpikin:
Ireneony

kpolli:


Then you never ready gather liver get correct woman....
I used to crack jokes and be friendly, omo friendzone nearly castrated me....

Then I met a bottle of Absolut Ruby red and now I have many exes (but no wife )

ireneony:
what?

naija1stpikin:
Ireneony

sholikay:

naija1stpikin:


I'll advise you start with a sugar mummy or olosho. I'm sure you are still a V

naija1stpikin:


Be nice. Asking 'what' is so rude
Anyways, I've got something to tell you. Can I PM you?

ireneony:
why can't u say it here

sholikay:
sugar mummy, olosho keee ?!!!.. Ayaaf kill me be that.

ireneony:
why can't u say it here

naija1stpikin:

Kinda private

ireneony:
ok go ahead

sholikay:
seconded

shockwave91:
sorry bro, we're alike so i got nothing

& i actually tot ur problem was that u loved eating a5s & needed help stopping it. & Even @ dat i still would have had no help sorry

4everGrand:
Hellooooooo people!!!!!! The dude is looking for ways to get his attention off ladies, una dey dere dey give am advice on how to toast more ladies.

Its well o. Bros I got no other advice to give u than this: be disciplined enuf to choose one, ur education or gals.

It all starts and ends with u, so...

LogoDWhiz:
Sorry OP.
I understand how u feel.
U might need to work on your self confidence.


There is this guy on NL here 'xxxtedyxxx'. He created a thread on this.
Just read through and I promise u, you'll get better

sholikay:
I will try that Bros.. Thanks for your contribution.