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Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by 2dice(m): 12:06pm On Jun 05, 2015
nma24:
for Naija Patient no dey see any bone, d sharp ones go choi d fattest bones na
lmfao .... Love will find Him ...abi u be de bone him dey wait for sef cheesy
Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by MsTIQ(m): 12:11pm On Jun 05, 2015
2dice:
U would my friend .... Not to worry the patient dog get the fattest Bone
Of course he would when the time is right BT that proverb ehn E no dey too work nowadays oo, me i'd say ' The sharpest Dog eat the fattest bone+meat, while the patient one eat the sharpest's crunches and broken bones grin cool Péace!
Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by Nobody: 12:17pm On Jun 05, 2015
2dice:
lmfao .... Love will find Him ...abi u be de bone him dey wait for sef cheesy
I doubt... Much Drama
Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by Nobody: 12:22pm On Jun 05, 2015
folajoseph:
I'm an ardent reader and i will like to share my story with you since a problem shared is a problem half solved.

I'm a 30 years old man, i started dating a girl in August 2008 (she's igbo and i'm yoruba) we live in the same estate and the relationship was the best time of my life until one day, not long into the relationship i was planning to move to my own apartment since i was staying with parents as i walking her home she told me we should call the relationship quit after about 1 year, i asked her why and she said because i was moving, i explained to her that we would always visit each other but she said No, so i left her and went home feeling bad, i didn't even sleep that night.


To cut the long story short she apologized and we were back together, not long after she moved to Enugu from Lagos to stay with her sister and we only talked on phone, all of a sudden she broke up with me again for no reason, in fact she broke up with me 3 times without stating any reason and came back begging me by herself (thought she was still a virgin), when she did it the 4th time, i had fallen out of Love with her, the passion was gone.

I had wasted over 3 years with this girl and i felt used so one night i came back from work and went to a bar alone to get drunk, i met a girl through a lady friend and we had s*x that night, my x called me after then and started begging me again but i said this time it’s over for good but unknown to me the girl i had s*x with was pregnant but didn't tell me, when she was 7 months pregnant her mother called me to break the news to me, i was sad because she didn't tell me for 7 months that she has been pregnant and secondly she was a rebound girl i never Loved her.

She gave birth to twins(2 boys) though i have a good job but it would have been better to have the kids with the one i Loved, i later found out that she was a promiscuous girl that sleeps around and to my greatest surprise she is also a clepto whom i have bailed out of different situations which made me to take my kids away from her to my parents whom have been taking better care of them though i pay all their bills conveniently (in fact i'm happy i had those kids, they are amazing and people always commend me when they see me with them especially in their school)

Now i find it hard to forgive the mother of my kids for not telling me initially and also my girlfriend for all she did to me (though she said it was due to tribal difference) but i find it hard to meet nice girls plus i don't know if i can Love again, i need help.
Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by 2dice(m): 12:25pm On Jun 05, 2015
nma24:
I doubt... Much Drama
lol ...drama queen... things ... Thanks for warning my friend off cheesy

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Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by Nobody: 12:32pm On Jun 05, 2015
Enough advice has been given bro. Take care of the kids and one day u will find the one that appreciate your personality. .
Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by Nobody: 12:37pm On Jun 05, 2015
TheSonOfMark:

Relationships are crazy. Completely avoid them and you are crazy.

Being celibate and avoiding the opposite sex isn't an option. They are a necessary evil and a painful good.smiley


grin grin





#Team Scent
Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by Nobody: 12:38pm On Jun 05, 2015
2dice:
lol ...drama queen... things ... Thanks for warning my friend off cheesy
cool
Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by talktonase(m): 12:43pm On Jun 05, 2015
Am sorry for u oh! Since ur pen1s does not have the brain to understand coitus interuptus ur troubles will continue to multiply in unwanted pregnancy! Do ur self a favour and humbly marry the mother of ur children!!!
Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by 2dice(m): 1:30pm On Jun 05, 2015
nma24:
cool
tongue
Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by Decentdamsel(f): 1:33pm On Jun 05, 2015
bastien:
No love found no love lost. wink
. Actually its no love lost,no love found
Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by bastien: 1:39pm On Jun 05, 2015
Decentdamsel:
. Actually its no love lost,no love found
thanks decent lady wink
Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by dancok(m): 1:40pm On Jun 05, 2015
Op what is making u happy about the kids, they might not be yours, go do a test know they are yours . fast.
Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by Nobody: 1:46pm On Jun 05, 2015
GO TO THE MAN OF THE CROSS..... HE STILL HAS PLENTY LOVE TO SHOW YOU AND TEACH YOU
Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by oneluvs: 2:37pm On Jun 05, 2015
MissNairaland1:
Talking about love, i never heard of one meeting his/her partner on Nairaland...............................But i have this strong feeling i will meet mine someday...somewhere.....somehow cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry


Miss you have found your love on nairaland now. Use this opportunity to get back to me. Am just like you so let see what is going to happen........ am waiting for you. Just PM. I try to get in touch but it seems d network is bad you can reach me on my phone. Am waiting
Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by NgwaManNaija4LF(m): 2:39pm On Jun 05, 2015
Bro, I hope you're not using this tread to hook another girl, well the Igbo girl had just realized that Yiribas can not be trusted and it's better to find a honest dude from Igboland. Take heart bro.

Our girls don't take shit.
Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by folajoseph(m): 4:10pm On Jun 05, 2015
NgwaManNaija4LF:
Bro, I hope you're not using this tread to hook another girl, well the Igbo girl had just realized that Yiribas can not be trusted and it's better to find a honest dude from Igboland. Take heart bro.

Our girls don't take shit.

I thought I've seen the dumbest comment so far until I saw this!
Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by NgwaManNaija4LF(m): 4:40pm On Jun 05, 2015
folajoseph:


I thought I've seen the dumbest comment so far until I saw this!

Story for the gods.
Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by Josaj(m): 4:55pm On Jun 05, 2015
Yomieluv:
What do you need help for?
1. To help you bring your. Ex back?
2. To scold your baby mama for not telling you on time she was preggy?
3. Help you Train your twins?
4. To cast out the kleptomaniac spirit from your baby mama?
I don't get it?
I tire o
Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by skj1377(m): 5:08pm On Jun 05, 2015
I think you should do a DNA test, i smell a fish. How come the girls mother was the one to break the news after seven months besides did you not see her at all for seven months?. But come to think of it what do you do for a living don't you meet other ladies or did the ibo girl charm you.
Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by Goldenboy007(m): 7:07pm On Jun 05, 2015
Hey bro, first thing you need to realize is your case is normal. We all have our own cross when it comes to our experience in relationships. Actually as it is now, you don't need to be in love to have a woman living in your house , just make sure she is someone you can tolerate. The greatest delusion is to think there is a perfect lady out there. Life is never perfect, you win some you lose some, however giving up is the real failure !

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Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by folajoseph(m): 7:16pm On Jun 05, 2015
Goldenboy007:
Hey bro, first thing you need to realize is your case is normal. We all have our own cross when it comes to our experience in relationships. Actually as it is now, you don't need to be in love to have a woman living in your house , just make sure she is someone you can tolerate. The greatest delusion is to think there is a perfect lady out there. Life is never perfect, you win some you lose some, however giving up is the real failure !

Thanks a whole lot bro, you've inspired me positively with your humble comment, remain blessed ma bro!
Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by tpiander: 9:07pm On Jun 28, 2015
hm, twin boys from a booty call?

hope you don't produce quintuplets next time.

btw who is responsible for their upkeep? although, at 30, one would expect you to be a little more matured but I guess not. . . . . . . .
Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by tpiander: 9:11pm On Jun 28, 2015
Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by Kasimaramma2(f): 9:18pm On Jun 28, 2015
folajoseph:
I'm an ardent reader and i will like to share my story with you since a problem shared is a problem half solved.

I'm a 30 years old man, i started dating a girl in August 2008 (she's igbo and i'm yoruba) we live in the same estate and the relationship was the best time of my life until one day, not long into the relationship i was planning to move to my own apartment since i was staying with parents as i walking her home she told me we should call the relationship quit after about 1 year, i asked her why and she said because i was moving, i explained to her that we would always visit each other but she said No, so i left her and went home feeling bad, i didn't even sleep that night.


To cut the long story short she apologized and we were back together, not long after she moved to Enugu from Lagos to stay with her sister and we only talked on phone, all of a sudden she broke up with me again for no reason, in fact she broke up with me 3 times without stating any reason and came back begging me by herself (thought she was still a virgin), when she did it the 4th time, i had fallen out of Love with her, the passion was gone.

I had wasted over 3 years with this girl and i felt used so one night i came back from work and went to a bar alone to get drunk, i met a girl through a lady friend and we had s*x that night, my x called me after then and started begging me again but i said this time it’s over for good but unknown to me the girl i had s*x with was pregnant but didn't tell me, when she was 7 months pregnant her mother called me to break the news to me, i was sad because she didn't tell me for 7 months that she has been pregnant and secondly she was a rebound girl i never Loved her.

She gave birth to twins(2 boys) though i have a good job but it would have been better to have the kids with the one i Loved, i later found out that she was a promiscuous girl that sleeps around and to my greatest surprise she is also a clepto whom i have bailed out of different situations which made me to take my kids away from her to my parents whom have been taking better care of them though i pay all their bills conveniently (in fact i'm happy i had those kids, they are amazing and people always commend me when they see me with them especially in their school)

Now i find it hard to forgive the mother of my kids for not telling me initially and also my girlfriend for all she did to me (though she said it was due to tribal difference) but i find it hard to meet nice girls plus i don't know if i can Love again, i need help.
let your gf go to hell,she played with your heart like football.
For the other lady,dont blame her.first,i have seen many cases were a lady doesnt know she is pregnant for many months.Genevie,nollywood actress never knew she was pregnant till seven months.many girls are afraid of telling guys that they are carrying their baby because they fear the guy may deny it'since u dont love her,dont date her,but take care of her.

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Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again? by folajoseph(m): 6:28am On Jun 29, 2015
tpiander:
hm, twin boys from a booty call?

hope you don't produce quintuplets next time.

btw who is responsible for their upkeep? although, at 30, one would expect you to be a little more matured but I guess not. . . . . . . .

U guessed wrong plus I'm financially stable unlike u know who! Thanks for reviving the thread anyways...

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