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Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by gamaliel121(m): 1:29pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Really ur boyfriend is bleeped up....hu does that?...instead on apologizing and asking for mercy his feeling rugged shey?? Sorry....I know how u feel.... Buh u gatto know..ppl that cheat never stop..even if der say derv changed...once d chance shows up..der'll still Bleep outside.... So. Leave the RoosterDrinker pls. |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by mikolo80: 1:30pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
ginawest:you get another fish to give am |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by beautycrush24(f): 1:31pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
ginawest:Yes there are. But some are sharks and some are dolphins. Be wise |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by Nobody: 1:32pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
I will like you to move on o. No one eats his cake and still have it. Dating any man for five years is too long> When next you 're ready to date again, make it minimum of six months and maximum of ten months> Don't be carried away and don't be desperate> If you 're want us to talk more feel free t send a mail to my inbox> Cheers. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by MizMyColi(f): 1:34pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
EZEUDENE: Naansense! Rabeech! Sort what out bro? Let's assume her story is true. A man you've been loving on for 5 years, after putting you on hold messages you to say he's been screwing some girl. For all we know, he might have been screwing her too. Eiiissshhhh, this one pain me! If he was screwing this babe before meeting OP, that I understand, but even at that, isn't 5 years enough to sort out his issues and declare to himself whom he really wants to be with? OP Please move on. I understand that somedays, the burden will be light, other days, it will be hard. Allow yourself to grieve, but please, while at it, allow yourself to nurse the idea of being in Love again. #Bless |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by Zellie: 1:34pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Sorry missy but he has already let you go. Its like he's not even sorry |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by sirkezman: 1:35pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
A guy who loves you, wont tell you he is sleeping with another lady. move on. Sexytemi: |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by Maximus85(m): 1:37pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Sexytemi: sis, I know your pain. The problem started when you guys weren't staying in the same city. Thank God that he opened up to you on time and didn't waste your time. What if he didn't say anything? It goes to show you the kind of person he is. In every disappointment there's a blessing somewhere. Wipe your tears and move on. Nb: DON'T POINT ALL THE BLAMES AT HIM, SEE YOUR OWN FAULT AND LEARN. |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by pawesome(m): 1:38pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
i dnt knw if dia is anibodi hia dt notices sumtin...buh all d same,laugh wn kill me fr hia...Poo aint worth it |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by PreacherxSon(m): 1:39pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Op, u na fine gal na, why waste time on dat d!ck head, BTW, u ar tellin us u neva had any side d!ck all these while Just askin shaaaaaaa Eheeeeeee, u would have know if he is d sex fricked kinda guy b4 d distance ishhhh, Buh a ll d same welcum to d SINGLE world.. Sorry if i talked off point was high on a many thinx, single guys knw bera.... |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by HenryThegreat1(m): 1:39pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Everybody commenting laying blame to d guy without trying to ascertain wot really went wrong. Nothing goes for nothing. I refuse to blame d guy just like dat because if he come here and post his own side of the story, some people comment will change. |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by DrBulalaa(m): 1:40pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
The guy is looking for a way out, You are asking if you should forgive him. My dear walk away. |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by Holatunde007(m): 1:42pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Tashaamania:U see of all comments u are the only one that made sense out of it...........pipu here on NL are very good at saying wat they can't really do, if he calls her back he deserve a second chance instead stewpid advice pipu r giving her to throw away 5yrs relationship out just like that...........at sometime we men are found of throwing away wat we cherish smtymz, only for us to realize hw useful they were. @OP pls 5yrs is not a joke, stop calling him for now, but pls if he dare calls you or text you reply him with absolutely maturity, he has stayed longer in the relationship in the 1st place, he deserve a 2nd chance if only he requested for it with absolute sincerity........I still say 5yrs ain't a joke*******and for those blaming you for dating him dat long, only there rough pussy can tell the numbers of guys they've dated within 1yrs |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by Aystarz: 1:44pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
VickyRotex: And when everybody sees you as just another option? You then need to begin to look inwards as by then, the pity party will be gone . How are we even sure the OP is clean herself?? If NL has taught us anything, it is that U can't vouch for all these daily 'private reporters' on the site. |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by boxypane(m): 1:44pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Pls just quit the relationship. U just hav 2 let go. |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by UjSizzle(f): 1:44pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Sexytemi:Don't think it's going to be easy cuz that's the biggest lie you'll be telling yourself. Wish you the best. |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by Modelling(f): 1:45pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Sexytemi:#myownopinion# 3things may be involved 1. He may wants 2 try u: This ds is so expensive a joke 4 such a thing. Why did i say this, there is no way he'd av told u by himself dat he had series of sex wit a lady evn wen u did not find out urself. Howevr, he didnt consider d fact dat u missing his sister's weeding may make u not take as easy as he thought. 2. He may want 2 dump u sharperly: He may have found another person dat he doesnt evn need anybodys distraction from keeping. This is y he did evn pick ur calls 2 avoid any form of suspect. Howevr, if ds is d case, he would av picked d calls one day 2 embarrass u in other 2 prove 2 d girl dat u are a kind of stalking at him. 3. May be he is just tired of u. Like sombdy said here dat d contract has expired, lol. He wants 2 find himself a fresher babe. #myadvice# U need 2 find out whatevr is d case. D problem is d distance, if not u'd have gone there urself 2 no wat is exactly happening, ds u'd hav done 3days after he stopped picking ur calls. He dint pick ur calls 4 up to a week b4 weddin n u dint bother 2 no why till after d wedding. Or is there anytin u knew dat could av led 2 dat(his refusing ur calls)? If no den u dint try at all, dats wen u'd av called smbdy 2 confirn he 's okay. Finally, wateva d case may be, he will need 2 explain very well n show remorse in a serious way b4 such 4giving. Howevr, u may b required 2 be d one dat will travel 2 see him but if he fail 2 appreciate, he may have been tired of u, then call it a qiut till he . . . . .. . . . . 1 Like |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by Nobody: 1:47pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
younghartz: mschew you dont even knw the fulk story u r already advising dump the guy. I shake my head. How do you knw she isnt also sleeping around. Why did he suddenly stopped callin or picking her calls? In my opinion this is nt the full gist. Its only wen we get dat wr can advise. |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by Eluwilussit(m): 1:47pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Sexytemi: No, don't let him go. Keep the he-goat. At least for old times' sake and for a rainy day. Nonsense! |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by Nobody: 1:48pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Evano: So every six or ten months she should change boyfriend? What are you even saying? She shouldn't be desperate and U gave her a minimum and maximum dating duration in months nt upto a year What happened to building future together? marriage is not by force oh! Take time to understand yourself properly,and if that time is five year;so be it!!! 1 Like |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by sauceEEP(m): 1:48pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Op I like your mark Dump the nigger ASAP... |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by Eluwilussit(m): 1:48pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
keyman0007: You work with what you are given. How do u wanna get the real gist? |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by sleek82(m): 1:49pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Sexytemi:I'm sure you are only here to build/fuel on your already-made decision.....i'm a guy and I can tell you categorically that if a guy cheats on you and you caught him ...if he comes begging and shows remorse, trust me he still has an iota of respect for you, it may/may not work out betw you guys. But if a guy sleeps wit a lady and you ddnt catch him but he made it known to you....pls forget you ever had such a guy cos he doesnt have any form of respect for you again.....I only gave you my piece just based on your narration.....though he might have a diff version of the story |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by Intendy: 1:50pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Sexytemi:let me don't deceive you.try and confirm all he said to some extent.if true,waka and jump pass |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by sweatlana: 1:54pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Don't waste any more of your time with that looser. Ladies pls you don't date a guy for five years..... If you are ready to get married and are dating, you should know if the guy is ready or not within 6months |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by teabully(m): 1:54pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Quite interesting, from ur expression, i decipher u are kinda obsessed with d guy in question, he is way too handsome for u to loose to some oda gals, or he spends for u alot, or maybe he is d one who got u deflowered, like what someone said up there, "there are too many fishes in d water" so babe d choice is urs; stay wit him and face many heart aches or better still look for som1 who cherishes you 1 Like |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by abbey621(m): 1:55pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
I don't believe your story one bit! Most guys even when caught red handed will try to make up an excuse or deny cheating outright! Are you telling us that after telling you he was banging another chic, he asked for forgiveness or are you the one still hung up on him? Let me be honest with you, when you date someone for a long time such as your case there are bound to be issues, perhaps the guy just decided to cut his loss and find an alternative, I suggest you do the same instead of reminiscing about a stale relationship! |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by Nobody: 1:55pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Kentrasso: You lack manners and it's your father that is st.upid. You this use and dump thing |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by sweatlana: 1:58pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
God always whispers to us before we make mistakes warning us of the future danger... This is God telling u to get out now that you can. Pls don't doubt it..There are too many women suffering cos of wrong partners. |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by Teespice(f): 1:58pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
MrTeymee: really? hope you would tell your niggas never to refer to females as having fish brains.... 1 Like |
Re: Should I Forgive Him And Continue Dating Him, Or Should I Just Let Him Go? by izzbaby22(f): 2:00pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
younghartz:Dis guy just said it all go with his advice, some people always feel dey can go about nd misbehave and come back 2 u like u r a dumping site. d nigga isnt even apologetic sef babe free him. he ll deffy come back begging wen he is done eating d outside cakes well d ball is in ur court 1 Like |
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