peedeeasobie:





After writing a thesis on how slutty she is, what's your solution?

She made a mistake, a stupid one at that but what's the use flogging a dead horse!

She needs help not bashing!

YoungDaNaval:
Lie Lie! Ah no agree with u 4 this one at all!

kilode100:


Pls post the video for appropriate advice
Who knows, I might even self-service if it's steamy

jayfolarin:


Besides telling the fiance, I am 100 with ur suggestion. The idi.ot will definitely pay for this.

Girlfriend was just with me now, I even showed her this thread and the comments. She is just really scared a revelation such as this could ruin her relationship completely.

"He has been transparent with me, I know basically everything there is to know of his past, how do I tell him now that I did something this appalling and didn't mention it until now that's just few months to our wedding?"..her words

Mehn this matter just weak me.

Orkpekyandega:

I get your point. But my worry is this, So if the fiance refuses to swallow that kind of mess, it means he doesn't love the girl abi?
What then is this love? People don't only love you just because you look beautiful and sexy, they cherish your past, who you are and what you do. It is quotes like this "If the guy trully loves her, they will fight the idiot (blackmailer) together" that encourage people (both men and women) to behave carelessly, after all if he loves me he should take me the way I am. That is a risk that hurts afterwards.

gensteejay:

Some Nigerians portray love in a manner that is not pragmatic. This ilk think they are living in an utopian world, as depicted in these Mexican and Indian soaps. Love is much more deeper than these people think, you don't just love a person because of her beauty; traits like attitude and her personality are also important. If any of these traits is found wanting in a partner- male or female- then the love one has for that person may die a natural death. Though nobody is perfect.

Toks2008:


An emphatic NO.

Im even surprised you are asking this funny question.

How can a man be a slut for doing thatYes he is foolish and irresponsible but sluttiness is the least word because to the guy the lady is an object of conquest and just as a lady poster wrote,she will even be happy if her hubby performs well in a sex recording but im yet to see a man that will be proud of his woman sexing so good in a video recording.

I remember the day my ex insisted we record a sex session and i vehemently refused yet she went ahead to do it and i had to delete the recording.

Imagine now that we are no longer together and that tape is with me,even if i dont use it against her,the fear that i have it will almost kill her.

ladies should get their brain set because you can fall out of relationship with even a guy you never taught you can part with.

Some thibgs are better imagined than viewed.

Cutehector:
In d case whr it may not be a bluff, I guess she should tell her fiance someone in her past is tryna blackmail her...

jameseva:
Tell him about sex video? Lol!Tell her not to try that nonsense if she likes her marraige oo. Even if the guy posts the recording, chances of your fiance or friends seeing it is pretty slim. Another advice, although bad, is that she should go hookup with the guy to silence him, it's not like it's d first time he's hit it. That way she can save her marriage and beg d other guy to delete d video or something. Whateva u decide, goodluck.

BUTCHCASSIDY:
This is what she needs to do:
1. Tell the husband to be about the sex tape
2. If she feels the husband to be wont be able to stomach it then she should get a close relative or friend to pose as the fiance then call the blackmailer and be like
'Yo dude I heard U got my girl on camera. Well fvck U I still love her to bits'. Simple

pretydiva:
pls how old r u..no offense

pryd:
The ex might be bluffing but does she have the courage to find out if it's actually a bluff? It's a massive risk!
OP you might be tempted to involve "one of ur guys"; plz apply caution, you can't really tell who means well.

This one is strong mehn...

DancingSkeleton:
see wetin Kim kardashian cos

Dollyak:
Why allow any guy to have you on tape in the first place?

She should come clean to his fiance and let the guy do his worst.
Alternatively, she can scare the guy with some area boys. The guy is a small boy.

Freemanan:
I don't care.... If you tell him, see beat and heartbreaking for you.... If you don't, see hate and break up when he eventually knows..... So, either way you are so bleeped$you


As I said, I don't care...

coolhamid:
When will some gals have sense? imagine making video with a guy you dated , not even your husband oo..
Even if your husband ask you to share unclad picture of yourself with him, Say NO...
Talkless of a boyfriend..

ghettodreamz:


Should she tell him, OR should you tell him about the videos?

Nairalanders and their funny ways of framing things .

BTW, is that your picture on your profile? More reason, I doubted the ingenuity of this story as you had painted it to be. More like you found yourself in this mess and not your so-called friend.

dam4wummy:


What if after hitting it again and doesn't delete the video

To me, just tell ur fiance, if he truly loves u, he sure would understand and help u find a way out.

suzzy16:
kai,I dnt knw why some people find pleasure in destroying someones life

ekiloui:
why's she crying?

Typical bluff!

His a.ss is on the same clip, let him post it on the net so his wife and kids can watch their IndecentStar dad

pryd:


I wonder oh, we just need to be more careful.

Exponental:
big lie.... she shld try set him up n let him be on d begging side.
in as much as she is not claiming virgin, she can hint her fiance.

kilode100:

So? What's good for the kini is for good for kini naa...



Let's all self-service to the video and be Merry

sonofananimal:




MY BROTHER I DEY TELL YOU OHH.

ONE OF MY FRIEND WERE DONE MARRY, JUST DEY REGRET HE LIFE NOW. HE FIND OUT SAY HE WIFE DEY COHABIT DURING HER SCHOOL DAYS, AND SHE NO TELL THE GUY OHH.

suzzy16:
and wats wrong with cohabitating

suzzy16:
lol