themodernman:


See ds mumu...

Have you 4gotten the excommissioner of Zamfara state? Don't be so naive...d guy may have it...

suzzy16:
lol,I'm telling ya,they re d reasons why d word "sadist"came into use

jayfolarin:


Besides telling the fiance, I am 100 with ur suggestion. The idi.ot will definitely pay for this.

Girlfriend was just with me now, I even showed her this thread and the comments. She is just really scared a revelation such as this could ruin her relationship completely.

"He has been transparent with me, I know basically everything there is to know of his past, how do I tell him now that I did something this appalling and didn't mention it until now that's just few months to our wedding?"..her words

Mehn this matter just weak me.

lasheez:
Guy give your own advice and stop insulting others.

themodernman:


Sorry for insulting you..it's not what you said that actually pissed me but how you said with so much confidence especially when it makes no sense.

lasheez:
But it is true naa because if you check it out,the guys face will also show in the video and he coincidentally met with his ex.Besides he traveled abroad for 2 years and settled with his family.How then is it possible that he met her and all of a sudden talking trash.Guy check am out naa.Some things are not worth keeping like that over the years.

Jonwesley:
I don't care about that fucking video. Ray Jay episode and a music titled "I hit her first" didn't stop Kim Kardarshian's celebrity status. To hell with the ex. He can do whatever but no way to go down with the chick anymore.

The lady should not fret, hold your fiance and be bold to tell him some fun U had, no big deal. Your past is meant to make U a better person today and future and past is past anyway. Some women who are married today were prostitutes in the past, just that we don't or cared to know.

If he continues after the bluffs, you can use the police set up and that will further dent his image and his US wife might kick him out if not careful. Rubbish crazy hediot!

Orkpekyandega:

I get your point. But my worry is this, So if the fiance refuses to swallow that kind of mess, it means he doesn't love the girl abi?
What then is this love? People don't only love you just because you look beautiful and sexy, they cherish your past, who you are and what you do. It is quotes like this "If the guy trully loves her, they will fight the idiot (blackmailer) together" that encourage people (both men and women) to behave carelessly, after all if he loves me he should take me the way I am. That is a risk that hurts afterwards.

iykedare:
Let your ex show your husband the video so that he would see that he just purchased a fairly used puSs.y.

jayfolarin:
Hi nairalanders. I have been around for a while but this should be my first topic/post in the romance section. This incidence is a long epistle but i'll try and summarise.... I need urgent and reasonable advice here pls..

Just about an hour ago, a girlfriend of mine (a buddy that is a girl) came to me with tears and lamented with the hope that I can offer a 'do not worry yourself, it's a small thing' advice like I usually do.

It was about a boy she dated in d university who bumped into her again about 2weeks ago. As they didn't end things on a sour note back then, she was glad to have met him again and could not even wait to announce to him that she was now engaged with wedding plans underway.

According to her, the boy acted all good and even offered to pay for d stuffs she got at domino's. They exchanged numbers again with d promises of keeping in touch and expectation that d boy will be attending her wedding later in September.

To her utmost surprise and dismay though, the boy has been calling since last week and telling her all sort of things like he has been out of naija since after nysc, has a wife and 2 kids in d US, he still likes her, wants them to get intimate again while he's still in the country, bla bla bla...she wasn't interested in anything more than being friends, she said.

The heartbreaking part here is where the guy has now threatened to post a sex video they made together back in school on the Internet coz my homegirl said NO. The attempt at the cheap blackmail just to getdown with her disgusts me to the bone but i'm still at a crossroad on what to do to this guy.

The question now is she thinks the guy is serious, she acknowledged that they recorded intimate sessions on more than 2 occasions back in the uni, she loves her husband-to-be and could get suicidal if he leaves her (her words), SHOULD SHE TELL HIM ABOUT THE VIDEOS??

Dollyak:

Alternatively, she can scare the guy with some area boys. The guy is a small boy.

BUTCHCASSIDY:
This is what she needs to do:
1. Tell the husband to be about the sex tape
2. If she feels the husband to be wont be able to stomach it then she should get a close relative or friend to pose as the fiance then call the blackmailer and be like
'Yo dude I heard U got my girl on camera. Well fvck U I still love her to bits'. Simple

fman:
smh

TrishaP:
All that is a bluff. Why would he be saving the video till present?!.. Or was he still hoping to date her again!? That blackmail is a cheap one and she shouldn't fall for it. The best she can do is to tell her fiance that they both once dated, that'll be enough info for now.