Shagati:
He has a wife and kids in the US? Very good.

-Source out his family via the internet; Facebook. Twitter. Instagram (get pictures)
-Get as much details as you can about him. Home Address, office, church, favourite bar, strip joint etc.
-Save all the chats between yourselves. (Screenshots)
-Show him all the evidence you have of his cosy little life and tell him if he as much as sends you a message again you will make his life a living hell and destroy any fvcking Utopia he thinks he has.

I can provide the above service free of charge to you


#DamnIhateblackmailers!!!

simpleseyi:
A girl who has thought of and even gone ahead to make a sexx video is not good enough to be called anybody's wife. Such a girl is supposed to get a room in a brothel where she can take her profession to greater height. Even Tuface Idibia or Flavour whose diicks knows no boundary will not want a one night stand with such a girl.

chimerase2:
So assuming now u b babe way I wan marry na to open ua dirty mouth de reason me say u been do MOJO with ua boi friend
De kind bite way I go bite amu eh even suarez no go believ amu hin go shock becos hin neva see dat kind biting before

jabojafa:
as ur name implies, u are an animal bt d lowest of all animals for saying such abt our wonderfu naija girls/future wives/mothers. Menh becos a silly girl made a mistake in d past doesnt gives u d effontry to call our ladies demeanin name. You r jst lucky am nt a badmouth guy, i sure wud hv rained insult on u. There is no society dt dont hv d good n bad. Even in ur so called yankee, dey hv bad, ugly n good one.

AsanwaKC:
get rid of him ASAP...he asked for it

jameseva:
Tell him about sex video? Lol!Tell her not to try that nonsense if she likes her marraige oo. Even if the guy posts the recording, chances of your fiance or friends seeing it is pretty slim. Another advice, although bad, is that she should go hookup with the guy to silence him, it's not like it's d first time he's hit it. That way she can save her marriage and beg d other guy to delete d video or something. Whateva u decide, goodluck.

mightsparrow:
Don't underestimate the power of technology, i have all my videos and pictures backed up since 1999. Although, i don't do that shiit (sexx videos and nuude pictures) it disgusts me. The best bet for the girl is to tell her fiance the whole truth before it blows in the open. If the guy truly loves her, they will fight the idiiot (blackmailer) together.

TrishaP:
All that is a bluff. Why would he be saving the video till present?!.. Or was he still hoping to date her again!? That blackmail is a cheap one and she shouldn't fall for it. The best she can do is to tell her fiance that they both once dated, that'll be enough info for now.

Insidous:

Ode!
You need help!
Mentally deranged fellow

YoungDaNaval:
Quiet! He's Kinda Right.

Insidous:

Ode!

YoungDaNaval:
Whats Ode?

godoluwa:
or a virgin. honestly, its a must 4 me to marry only a virgin gal. i dnt care if shes 4rm d village. TO HELL WITH ALL UNMARRIED LADIES THAT AV LOST THEIR VIRGINITY WILLINGLY!!!

TrishaP:

The thing now is that, she is dealing with a heartless psychopath. Your points are made fair, she should open up to her man, Afterall everyone has a past and did crazy things.

oyindare:
am so sure of it....guys can say anything just to get back old love...

Insidous:

That would be you

jameseva:
Tell him about sex video? Lol!Tell her not to try that nonsense if she likes her marraige oo. Even if the guy posts the recording, chances of your fiance or friends seeing it is pretty slim. Another advice, although bad, is that she should go hookup with the guy to silence him, it's not like it's d first time he's hit it. That way she can save her marriage and beg d other guy to delete d video or something. Whateva u decide, goodluck.

Melahou:



What if i told you i have such videos and it has been with me even after 10yrs would you believe me...
It may not be a bluff. The lady should thread with caution.

onelife97:
She is indeed very stupid,I mean idiot of the highest order.
How in her nincompoop mind will she think she can invite ur ex to ur wedding not even an ordinary ex,ur ex pornmate.
I guess she wan continue where she stopped with the ex.
She can't be trusted enuf like most 9ja babes.

If I were the fiancé,I ll definitely call off every preparation with this untrusted b.iatch.PERIOD.

@Op,#Msadviser just tell her as u think."e no concern u".

Atlantian:
This life is funny, I am running away from sex while other men are blackmailing for it...

poseidon12:


Very bad advice. Whatever she does, she should never give in to the ex's blackmail. If she does, the guy will be coming back to make more demands on her perpetually.
She should record her conversation with the guy, try to get the guy's contact in the U.S. And then threaten to report the guy's advances to his wife in the U.S. If she can also get information about where the guy works, she should also threaten to report him to his employer. These steps should put the guy in his place.
I don't think the guy would like his colleagues in the U.S. to know that he is blackmailing his ex in Nigeria.

DivideUs:
A lot of people here have no idea what they would do too in the same situation but are here shouting tell the guy, tell him what? That she is that big of a h** that she has videos of her flying around? How many guys here can claim they'll still go ahead with the marriage? And say the guy dumps her after setting dates and all, do you think he'll not have to explain to his and her family why?

Look this girl is in hot pepper, she should get this friend of hers that's the op, go sit, cry and beg the guy and make him see reason, go to the police and destroy your life don't forget he can always claim his phone was hacked and sadly society will not treat him as bad as the girl if the video leaks, and yes some people have videos or photos of their ex's for long time after breakup. Don't risk it!

I agree with a lot of you though, the guy is really a bastard! Hope he gets brain damage