Pataki:

From your posts above, I can deduce that you expect this thread to be all of praise singing and cheers to the moderator. Once such does not meet to your expectation, people found to be erring are deemed as babies, right?

If life was a one-way road, how boring would it not have been for all. In case it was missing on you, the topic reads: Moderator Feedback: Talk to Debosky. You might want to check the meaning of ''Feedback.''

Feedback:
the return to a point of origin of evaluative or corrective information about an action or process
Source

If complaining to the Moderator is not a form of evaluative or corrective information, I wonder who is the baby then?

DaPhoenix:


If you had to been following this thread, you'd realize that all he has been trying to do is play the victim. He believes that Debosky has nothing else to do but "oppress" him. Other people's posts were deleted too and you don't see us complaining or whining in his case as Dereloaded rightly put it because we knew it was off topic. But you wouldn't know that because you weren't following this thread so go sit down with your dictionary and keep it cute if at all possible.

Pataki:

OMO IBO with his incessant jibber-jabber is not my grouse. But rather the means of silencing posters who do not tag along with some others reasoning in whichever thread most especially on the romance section is unbecoming.

Everyone has a voice, it does not suit your hearing, move along.

A perceived nairaland poster makes known his/her issue of annoyance or whatever to the moderator on this thread, tag-teams of other posters come along and attack such a poster, simply because it does not suit their taste, is totally wrong.

Pataki:

Everyone has a voice, it does not suit your hearing, move along.

DeReloaded:

diapers need to be changed

wahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh  

debosky:

Very true - diverse opinions should be encouraged as much as possible, as long as it remains civil.
I agree with this, but with a few qualifications. If it doesn't suit you, you are free to express opposition to that voice - in a non-aggressive and civil manner. We can't stop two people from posting similar opinions that they individually agree on just to appear not to be 'ganging up'. As long as you express your opinion without insults and with due civility, no opinions should be withheld or restricted.
What constitutes an 'attack' in this case? Is disagreement and civil expression of such by two or more people tantamount to an 'attack' or is that simply just a case of hypersensitivity or misreading of intent?

Pataki:

Moderator, you have been on this forum for quite a long while. You are sure familiar to the terrains of attacks and counter-attacks and tag-team collabo. To color it now with English terms such as: ''hypersensitivity or misreading of intent'' is what I would call a blithe ignorance of the true situation. (Please note: that is not an insult!)

Ebony-Silk:

@debosky
One complain: why oh why are my posts being deleted

stillwater:

Someone would think this is the politics section. I don't really see the issue here. My posts have been deleted too. It just shows how some people take life.

@debo
Whether you like it or not, some threads are stupid.

Don't delete a thread just because it's stupid. Stupidity is not a crime. You can save such threads by renaming or adding to them.

Ebony-Silk:

If we report to a moderator, who answers it?

I, personally, want mines to go str8 to your NL inbox abi wetin dem dey call am?

Well even if they are, you are not allowed to simply post 'stupid thread'   Besides, our honourable admin gives the following guidance for treating 'stupid threads

debosky:

Besides, after all the accusations of bias against me, getting ALL your reports coming to me will be picked up by the nairaland police.

stillwater:

Really? I've done that more than I can count.

Ebony-Silk:

Admit it, even you did not read the rule thread

spikedcylinder:

Debo, please how much do they pay you mods? Because it seems that you sef are taking things too seriously.

debosky:

Mods don't get paid, it's just out of the goodness of my/our hearts. That said, some mods have abused their powers and have been punished for it, similar to Doyin's accusation that someone threatened him via PM about opening Toyosi's profile

Lol. Viewing people's profiles (especially "hot" people) isn't against the rules is it?

MrCrackles:

Debosky can i e-slap RAILWAY people?

MrCrackles:

Debosky can i e-slap RAILWAY people?

Slap me baby, slap me.

~Sauron~:

Please. . . . . .Lemme be the executioner.
Spikedcylinder, DaPhoenix, big_bumper, etc should royally get their asses whupped!!!

Chineke! Why na? Have not been a good girl?

~Sauron~:

Please. . . . . .Lemme be the executioner.
Spikedcylinder, DaPhoenix, big_bumper, etc should royally get their asses whupped!!!

PS: Sauron, unless you're using your magic stick, I refuse

~Sauron~:

@ Debosky,

I have a score to settle with someone in this section. . . . .
Ma fingers are itchy. . . . .Can i squeeze the trigger??

debosky:

Scores to settle? No trigger squeezing allowed. Fights are not allowed in Romance. . .

debosky:
If it is romance (main board not sexuality or dating & meet up) related it comes straight to me. Other section reports go to other mods.

Ebonysilk:
Anywaz, thanks,babe. Since you guaranteed that my report will be read by you and you ONLY, I'd start reporting na

debosky:

@ big b

While that might be a 'matter of the heart', this is about the romance section and feedback on issues/problems with the section or the moderation thereof.

debosky:

Just being pedantic for a moment, but isn't inquiring about the identity of big b going off topic
The post is still up there and I don't hear any clamour to get it deleted.

Ebony-Silk:

Iyalode, don't even try it. . . . .You might not know o, Mukina and iice may accidentally receive your love PM

That's why I asked