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2 Women, And I Dont Want To Lose Anyone Help! by wills(m): 10:04pm On Sep 28, 2006 |
Hello All, since we are talking about romance i thut i share this with all of ya. i have or should i say had this female friend in my office, i was getting used to,but nothing serious, always playing pranks and sending mails back and fort, u know, just acting the fool with her, some how, i almost started having a thing for her but i fought with that feeling. she for one, is a very HOT chick, guys hit on her like crazy, at the office and even when we sometimes go home togthere from work i didnt want to just join that long line of spinners. But as faith will have it, while fighting with myself, to suppress any emotions towards her, i met here kid sister, and instantly we fell for each other,n she was game, she didn't hid her emotions like her elder sister who's my colleague, so whats a brother to do? other than to ask her out, , the sad side of the tale is that my friend and colleague is now biffing me, we don't joke or talk as we used to, i tried to conceal all thats going on b/w me and her kid sister, she knows but she can't really tell how far we have gone. The problem with her is, i know i can't Handel her, even if i were to date her, i feel she will be a bit too much for me to Handel, even though she by far younger, in terms of age, she has been a good friend and a good colleague, i don't want my dating her sister to come b/w us , things might change but i don't want a biff b/w us, Please people if you do read this , What should i do , because every day, 5 days a week i work with her in the same office and most importantly for me i don't want to because any hic ups b/w her and her kid sister, So my quest is for HELP! i don't want to lose a friend and colleague and then gain a relationship with her sister, |
Re: 2 Women, And I Dont Want To Lose Anyone Help! by kiki(f): 10:08pm On Sep 28, 2006 |
wills: how can she be youngger in age and u are datin her kid sister |
Re: 2 Women, And I Dont Want To Lose Anyone Help! by wills(m): 10:13pm On Sep 28, 2006 |
Ya @ Kiki, she is younger than me, that make her kid sister even a lot younger then me,, but age aint nothing but just numbers, she did ask me the younger sister , of my age and i told her, the good thing about me is i can pass for 25 or 26, but i just clocked 30 or there about, |
Re: 2 Women, And I Dont Want To Lose Anyone Help! by kiki(f): 10:14pm On Sep 28, 2006 |
well personally i don't think u like her kid sister that much its her sister that u want rite? |
Re: 2 Women, And I Dont Want To Lose Anyone Help! by wills(m): 10:18pm On Sep 28, 2006 |
initially ya! but rite now, i think i have gone too far , to turn and go back, , when a woman show this tough exterior attitude, , she is bound to scare some folks away, i guess thats what made me run,, its jst my luck that i had to pick her kid sister, |
Re: 2 Women, And I Dont Want To Lose Anyone Help! by kiki(f): 10:23pm On Sep 28, 2006 |
well the point is u still want her and u just had to settle for small cos u don't think u are man enough to handle her well i think she likes u too and she's mad at ya cos she wasn't expectin u to go for her lil sister she was expectin u to go for her or maybe she just tryna keep her distance from her lil sisters boyfriend cos u know she don't want the sister to think their is somthin going on between you 2 |
Re: 2 Women, And I Dont Want To Lose Anyone Help! by kokoletz(m): 10:34pm On Sep 28, 2006 |
You are btw d devil and d deep blue sea, quit d show man. |
Re: 2 Women, And I Dont Want To Lose Anyone Help! by wills(m): 10:34pm On Sep 28, 2006 |
kiki: I never thought of this, i guess so, but she dont have to be biffing me just to keep her distance, and her kid sister already knows we used to joke a lot and play lota pranks in the office. |
Re: 2 Women, And I Dont Want To Lose Anyone Help! by kiki(f): 10:37pm On Sep 28, 2006 |
well maybe she likes u then if i liek a guy and he goes out with my kid sister i'll do same thing tryna stay away from him b4 somthing else happens |
Re: 2 Women, And I Dont Want To Lose Anyone Help! by wills(m): 10:42pm On Sep 28, 2006 |
Been thinking of just having an open disscusion with her about it, but if m right and i know her for what she is she will deny that she never felt anything b/w us, and since i dont think i can go back now , i feel talking to her is not really important, but i hate Biffs, thats my problem, one day am trying to jike with her n the next we just faceing our PC acting like the other person is not there. I really praying for another job now, or to jus get moved from that office, |
Re: 2 Women, And I Dont Want To Lose Anyone Help! by kiki(f): 10:45pm On Sep 28, 2006 |
movin away from the office doesn't solve it she;'s still gon be ur gurlfriend's sister well just talk to her don't say nothin about like or no like just ax her y she been ignorin u u know a lil communication can't kill ya its gon help then if she don't talk to u try ur best atleast u know u've tried |
Re: 2 Women, And I Dont Want To Lose Anyone Help! by wills(m): 10:51pm On Sep 28, 2006 |
Guess thats the best option now, cuz am really crazy about here kid sister now, n i dont want this issue to come inbetween us. Thanks kiki, ,appriciate |
Re: 2 Women, And I Dont Want To Lose Anyone Help! by kiki(f): 10:52pm On Sep 28, 2006 |
u welcome u can holla at me anytime and can u tell me wat happened cos i want to know but like i said its all about a lil communication |
Re: 2 Women, And I Dont Want To Lose Anyone Help! by wills(m): 11:00pm On Sep 28, 2006 |
Sure Kiki, will do, i will keep u posted , , i just added ya to my yahoo Msg, so i can leave u offline message from time to time. Peace and thanks! i just figure out that sometime emotions dose not grow with age, |
Re: 2 Women, And I Dont Want To Lose Anyone Help! by kokoletz(m): 11:13pm On Sep 28, 2006 |
God is control man. |
Re: 2 Women, And I Dont Want To Lose Anyone Help! by kokoletz(m): 11:18pm On Sep 28, 2006 |
God is in control man. |
Re: 2 Women, And I Dont Want To Lose Anyone Help! by Busta(f): 1:53am On Sep 29, 2006 |
kokoletz:lol, real funny |
Re: 2 Women, And I Dont Want To Lose Anyone Help! by wills(m): 8:04am On Sep 29, 2006 |
Busta: Dont see whats funny, about that, God sure is in controle |
Re: 2 Women, And I Dont Want To Lose Anyone Help! by Dalby(m): 10:05am On Sep 29, 2006 |
Guy, i think the woman you want is the lady that works at your office. Her sister was just a means to break down the defenses of collegue at the office. The way you are going, you are bound to lose both of them. The younger sisters move was a bad move and would have implications on all 3 of you!!! |
Re: 2 Women, And I Dont Want To Lose Anyone Help! by wills(m): 10:33am On Sep 29, 2006 |
Dalby: i dont want this to happen, i cant afford to lose both, i guess the kid sister knew the elder one was not serious with letting what ever she had for me show, thats even if she had anything, ( cuz with women you never too sure, the min you open your mouth , then they slam you with the Suprised oh NO!! , you got it all wrong speech, i didnt set out to get into a relationship when i got employed into that office, and if i end up with a fellow collegues sister, its not all that bad, so ni cant see why she cant justaccept it and lets all us move on! |
Re: 2 Women, And I Dont Want To Lose Anyone Help! by defacto1: 5:36pm On Sep 29, 2006 |
you are a thief. people like you cause cat fights. i cant tell you wat to do only that u are a hopeless self centereddysfunctional prick. u should be vapourised |
Re: 2 Women, And I Dont Want To Lose Anyone Help! by Busta(f): 3:48am On Sep 30, 2006 |
[/quote][quote author=wills link=topic=25125.msg632907#msg632907 date=1159513445]if didn't see then don't talk. |
Re: 2 Women, And I Dont Want To Lose Anyone Help! by wills(m): 3:02pm On Sep 30, 2006 |
---- I KNOW ITS U Masquerading AS de facto , I CAN SEE YUR THE REALLY LOSER HEAR WITH A BAD MOUTH, TOO, , U WANT ME VAPOURISED WELL, DONT FEEL BAD CUZ I MADE MY PICK, SHE MAY BE YUR KID SISTER, BUT SHE A WHOLE LOT BETTER THAN U WOULD EVER BE, MISS WILD THING!!! |
Re: 2 Women, And I Dont Want To Lose Anyone Help! by Busta(f): 5:14pm On Sep 30, 2006 |
wills: who exactly is that directed to?? |
Re: 2 Women, And I Dont Want To Lose Anyone Help! by kiki(f): 10:19pm On Sep 30, 2006 |
@wills now who are u talkin to damn he is losing it @Busta gurl ax him again cos i think that man is losin it |
Re: 2 Women, And I Dont Want To Lose Anyone Help! by wills(m): 6:54pm On Oct 01, 2006 |
kiki: Howdy ladies, (kiki&Busta), am not losing it, am still in the right frame of mind, i said that cuz i thut that Bad mouth @defacto ,is the lady in question, i kind believe she hangs out at this forum too, , she's been really bitchy to me lately at the office, am trying hard not to get nasty too, and to make matters worse her kid sisters over the weekend has started acting strange, she's saying stuffs that to me suggest she wants to get rid of me, i just realised am the one in the dark here, seems this two sisters had a score to settle and they are useing me to play bait, My Goodness, I been Had, Women! really aint nothing but trouble!!! |
Re: 2 Women, And I Dont Want To Lose Anyone Help! by Busta(f): 7:26pm On Oct 01, 2006 |
@ wills Maybe u allowed ursef to be played. |
Re: 2 Women, And I Dont Want To Lose Anyone Help! by wills(m): 7:37pm On Oct 01, 2006 |
Ya!! may be i did ,, But at least i could have taken chance of the situation to do what most men will do, SLEEP with both of em , while i had the chance, but i didnt, cuz i want to do right!, i did pick the kid sister to get back at the older one, i thut she really liked me, but now i know better, its a part of her own grand design to get back at her sister, , my own be say them 4 just leave me out!!, |
Re: 2 Women, And I Dont Want To Lose Anyone Help! by Busta(f): 11:14pm On Oct 01, 2006 |
@ wills, that would only be making matters worse that it already is. Learn from that and move on! ain't the end of the world. |
Re: 2 Women, And I Dont Want To Lose Anyone Help! by kiki(f): 11:18pm On Oct 01, 2006 |
but no matter wat happens try to talk to d elder sister and be friendz with her again don't let some lil thing like this come between yall and also i hope u learned ur lesson |
Re: 2 Women, And I Dont Want To Lose Anyone Help! by wills(m): 8:15am On Oct 02, 2006 |
KiKi N Busta!, Thanks life is all about learning, for me no hard feelings, i just move on, |
Re: 2 Women, And I Dont Want To Lose Anyone Help! by kennyuche(m): 10:24am On Oct 02, 2006 |
U cnt lov 2 @ d same time. Who do u feel for?. Whicheva 1 u feel for let d other 1 know about it. @ least u r nt goin to lose both. It s only wen u try to please both of em tha u'l lose both. Define ur feeln n let the cat out. Cmon! Be a man, its ur game. |
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