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Re: When Your Fiance Says "Get Pregnant Or Forget About Wedding" by Nobody: 6:45pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
Wow, extremely terrific! |
Re: When Your Fiance Says "Get Pregnant Or Forget About Wedding" by AroOkigbo(m): 6:51pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
AfroKnight: Many childless couples do pass the so called "fertility test". Some things can't just be literally explained. Even at that...pregnancy before marriage is wrong.- religion and culture. |
Re: When Your Fiance Says "Get Pregnant Or Forget About Wedding" by Nobody: 6:51pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
Gaborone: Babe wey u c a guy that sincerely wants to marry u and his mum demands u to b pregnant b4 he goes ahead to marry say no u hear U go old. d world is changing so u beta change along side it. Tho I don't support the notion bt wen a girl of 14, 16 virgin* don wide pass woman wey don drop 4kids and she is getting married @ 32 y I no go demand "get pregnant" 1st? By d way, are u a virgin that u wouldn't want to get pregnant to b d bonified wife? After all Mary the mother of Jesus was pregnant b4 Josphe married her o so what's wrong with a woman getting pregnant b4 married? |
Re: When Your Fiance Says "Get Pregnant Or Forget About Wedding" by Nobody: 6:52pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
CSTR2:Bar man samma dis dude one bottle of orijin....chilled one...bros sha pay after u finish...ntn free |
Re: When Your Fiance Says "Get Pregnant Or Forget About Wedding" by Nobody: 7:04pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
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Re: When Your Fiance Says "Get Pregnant Or Forget About Wedding" by wrongnumber: 7:05pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
Gaborone: Bride price things... Sometimes you cant blame us o. See its like getting married to a man you no dey sure say the kini dey active so please try and understand. Many babes don abort before and one innocent guy go shook head mba. As i wrote before,i go do intro nut you must get belle bfore real marriage or take a walk. Afterall its not a one way thing because if u dey sure of urself then it will also save you from marrying a guy wey no fit fertilize. |
Re: When Your Fiance Says "Get Pregnant Or Forget About Wedding" by Nobody: 7:07pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
forix4u: When you get married and have daughters, teach them to become a man's lab in their desperation to get married. As for me, I was not raised that way, so, come rain, come shine, I'll continue holding on to what I was taught as a child. You have every right to hold on to yours too, so I wont be challenging your value system. And no, the role of an armchair god doesn't fit you... get off it. Thank you. |
Re: When Your Fiance Says "Get Pregnant Or Forget About Wedding" by Youngpo413: 7:10pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
kelot:remember they were not forced,they should have said no and stick to it,so as to keep their virginity to their future husbands. |
Re: When Your Fiance Says "Get Pregnant Or Forget About Wedding" by galantjoe(m): 7:11pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
well said. but the op forget that we are in the world of unrighteousness, unfaithfulness and deceit. premarital pregnancy is not really premarital because the both patners might have not done some certain things like introduction and agreed to take the step. so i dont see any bad thing on it since the couple agreed upon. doing church wedding is not a mariage, mariage is when a man goes to the parents of the a girl to seek their approval for their daughter hand in marriage. once they agreed the marriage is done. church wedding is just to show the world that u have been marriage. that is all. |
Re: When Your Fiance Says "Get Pregnant Or Forget About Wedding" by ebbybest(f): 7:18pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
I just had a conversation with a guy based on this issue. I went to watch a wedding match of a guy in my team who got married. He is nt officially married to the lady but she was heavily pregant for him he already informed us that his traditional wedding was the next weekend. As i was watching the football match, a guy made a mistake and i commented based on it the guy asked if i play football, i answered him. Below is the conversation between me and him: Guy: do you play football? Me: no Guy: how den did yuh know wat he was suppose to do there that he did'nt do Me: i just feel thats the best thing to do. Guy: wer are the couples sef? Me: i dnt knw Guy: ok see dem there but the wife is pregnant, and he has nt wedded her. Well i like him style mayb d babe bride price too much dats why him follow shortcut. Me: hmmmmmm; wat is it with yuh guys of dis days Guy: seriously thats the best way to marry now. I was short of words. I pretended concentrated on d match |
Re: When Your Fiance Says "Get Pregnant Or Forget About Wedding" by Nobody: 7:27pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
wrongnumber: I have no right to challenge your choices, so, I wont. But then, while I am appreciative of your hidden advice to me, I'm not so sure I can play God very well; hence, I would rather trust Him and commit things like this to him, rather than going on a trial and error frolic of my own. Beautiful week ahead! 1 Like |
Re: When Your Fiance Says "Get Pregnant Or Forget About Wedding" by gen2lpatty(m): 7:36pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
misspicy: Nicely said. Team UNDERSTANDING |
Re: When Your Fiance Says "Get Pregnant Or Forget About Wedding" by Youngpo413: 7:39pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
ladyF:this will only work if the lady is a virgin cos the way ladies are fucccking and aborting these days is alarming,so I support getting pregnant first....I repeat except she is PURE aka V. |
Re: When Your Fiance Says "Get Pregnant Or Forget About Wedding" by bukatyne(f): 7:39pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
donholy28: If all the men are innocent and all the girls are useless, who uselessed the girls? Ghosts? 2 Likes |
Re: When Your Fiance Says "Get Pregnant Or Forget About Wedding" by Youngpo413: 7:41pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
missKiffy:what difference does it make,after all she is not a virgin. |
Re: When Your Fiance Says "Get Pregnant Or Forget About Wedding" by Youngpo413: 7:42pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
SaiBuharii:thank you my guy,but the b!tches will still pretend as if all is well. |
Re: When Your Fiance Says "Get Pregnant Or Forget About Wedding" by Youngpo413: 7:43pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
CSTR2:GBAM. |
Re: When Your Fiance Says "Get Pregnant Or Forget About Wedding" by Youngpo413: 7:45pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
wrongnumber:so many oloshos,dem full here sef. |
Re: When Your Fiance Says "Get Pregnant Or Forget About Wedding" by Youngpo413: 7:48pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
Gaborone:No man will ask for that if the said lady is a virgin,but for non virgins,they should get pregnant first,its not a big deal. |
Re: When Your Fiance Says "Get Pregnant Or Forget About Wedding" by Youngpo413: 7:50pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
octopusfreaky:yeah very true,ladies should learn to close their legs till their wedding night. |
Re: When Your Fiance Says "Get Pregnant Or Forget About Wedding" by onunwa21(m): 7:53pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
No wahala
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Re: When Your Fiance Says "Get Pregnant Or Forget About Wedding" by Youngpo413: 8:03pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
cococandy:and only a foolish man will marry a non virgin without her getting pregnant first. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When Your Fiance Says "Get Pregnant Or Forget About Wedding" by Youngpo413: 8:05pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
Pidggin:I'm sure you virginity is still intact,that's why you are so CERTAIN... |
Re: When Your Fiance Says "Get Pregnant Or Forget About Wedding" by Empredboy(m): 8:06pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
Me I won't disagree with the op but as a married man, why I sampled my fiancé before getting married to her was that I didn't want to av any extra marital affair. So I choosed a lady who can perform these 3 task for me. They are GOOD COOK cos I love good food, NEAT AND ORGANISE cos I needed who can plan and tidy my home then the last but not the least is SEX. A woman who is good in bed so dat the guy no go look outside. So the sex aspect can be achieved if the guy sampled the lady before marriage. Now I am 5yrs in th game of marriage and still counting. 1 Like |
Re: When Your Fiance Says "Get Pregnant Or Forget About Wedding" by Youngpo413: 8:07pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
toyese01:getting pregnant before marriage shouldn't be a big deal,especially for non virgins. 1 Like |
Re: When Your Fiance Says "Get Pregnant Or Forget About Wedding" by Youngpo413: 8:15pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
Gaborone:in order words you are a virgin right?that's nice,its ladies like you I always respect cos its not easy,pls keep it for your future husband and don't be a man LAB in desperation to get married. |
Re: When Your Fiance Says "Get Pregnant Or Forget About Wedding" by missKiffy(f): 8:16pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
Youngpo413:So? |
Re: When Your Fiance Says "Get Pregnant Or Forget About Wedding" by Youngpo413: 8:22pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
missKiffy:so no forming,she just open the leg and take in joor,afterall she has been doing it since. |
Re: When Your Fiance Says "Get Pregnant Or Forget About Wedding" by kingstylo01(m): 8:43pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
Tallesty1:on point bro. Plus some girls kicking against pregnancy before marriage have been sleeping around, now them wan form V. |
Re: When Your Fiance Says "Get Pregnant Or Forget About Wedding" by Mcbussy(m): 8:46pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
Pregnancy b4 marriage is wrong But sampling and test driving b4 buying is allowed |
Re: When Your Fiance Says "Get Pregnant Or Forget About Wedding" by missKiffy(f): 10:14pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
Youngpo413:Na you sabi |
Re: When Your Fiance Says "Get Pregnant Or Forget About Wedding" by Holyfield1(m): 10:25pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
pretydiva:Are you a virgin? |
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