DollyParton1:
That doesn't stop her from being dumped.

well maybe not

endeedike:
Bros..no gree

ayaf yhear

free2ryhme:

you speak from a position of insecurity

how do you mean

ojnnaco:
from my observations ur worries are just dat other babes will be checkmated ....Guy ... try and be a man ....

well.......

youmour:
Na only God know why i dey laugh,be like say i sabi your GF

u dey because na ur season of laughter

youmour:
Na only God know why i dey laugh,be like say i sabi your GF

u dey laff because na ur season of laughter

Toks2008:


How does staying with the guy prevent this?cos in my school of taught,the move will even give room for that.

shebi?

sinola:
Guy,u don enter one chance

chai!

youmour:
Amd i been dey beg my ex that year to move in with me,LIFE!!! Truly different strokes for different folks

eeyah

Lexusgs430:


Sharp badtbabe, she knows you too well and she FEELS shaking up with you would curb your wandering ways.
Don't tell her, hotels are plentiful for short, long or overnight stays.
NB: Hopefully she would not open a thread in the future, asking how she could stop her husband from playing away match, a trait she saw pre-marriage, but still went ahead and married her boo!!!!!

hehehehehehe

okitikpo:
cohabitation has become the norm in our indomie generation, so I no longer know if it is right or wrong

When i wrote about paying bride price as well as organizing a wedding according to what a man can afford,this same indomie generation were asking for my head.

in future if this same girl ends up marrying another man,the guy will b xpected to spend huge money on list,bride price,blue green whilte and purple wedding.

This would hve been perfectly ok if the guy has the money and willing to spend it on the lady..afterall she is his wife to be but the annoying part is that the society now compels us to spend lavishly on a lady other men have done even moore than you will possibly do with her in your entire marital life.

Many ladies these days should be given to their husbands freely with damages fee paid to the man.

SUGARBEE:
I love that babe, she's taking the bull by its horns.. I guess she's trying to avoid you dumping her in future..

so dats ow girls run dat package. By parking into the bf house wen they are not yet married

mrwisesome:
It's not A gud idea For her to leave wit u at d moment but if u say u love then u better Stop playin games wit her cus she love u too dat is why she want to come nd leave wit u so be serious wit her

thanks bro,may the lord advice u in ur time of need

Nna to mi odi kwa sharp na to the port every nite nna u rugged oooo call her sharp sharp

Kakayaraznits:
Dude if u love her, marry her. If u dont have the finance to marry, I advise u to avoid living together. She can come visit u sometimes, but not living like couples cos the value would be lost. Once u start living together, u are illegally married.
Heard of a guy who was forced to wed a dead body cos he didnt marry her legally while she was alive.

iyeah I've heard of that too,as a matter of fact it was my uncle it happenned to

Atlantian:
If you love her, co-habit and make it real. Stop gallivanting.

okay,thanks

ikombe:
so dats ow girls run dat package. By parking into the bf house wen they are not yet married

Abeg help me ask her

jemimaa01:
Habiba is that you...what.isit with some ladies and toothpaste?,Habiba doesn't share her toothpaste too.

lol!

alex81:


unplanned abortions 4 d lady (like 37 times)

Why would a sane man get a girl pregnant unplanned?, women have only 24 hours in a month to get pregnant (master her circle and everything will be alright) better still download ovulation App and apply common sense.

Kakayaraznits:
Dude if u love her, marry her. If u dont have the finance to marry, I advise u to avoid living together. She can come visit u sometimes, but not living like couples cos the value would be lost. Once u start living together, u are illegally married.
Heard of a guy who was forced to wed a dead body cos he didnt marry her legally while she was alive.

The igbos do this i guess.

mmsen:
There's never a good time to allow a woman move in with you.

even after marriage?

easyelliot:
Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Trust me from experience......live separately till u are married. Sleep over her place, she can sleep over ur place but no moving in....you will thank me later.....

Before i got married i lived with this Afrique girl....when it was good it was great but when it started to sour it soured fast.......

DONT DO IT
DONT DO IT
DONT DO IT

thanks bro,u've been helpful

crisycent:
Na belley she wan take hook you so.

I can see that already, women sef!

DedeNkem:


If you're not ready to marry her or don't want to marry her, then living with her is a terrible idea.

aiit

SUGARBEE:


Can you make me feel secure?

you are physically appealing so i guess i can make you totally secured as long as you are not Igbo because i no budget for long list nowlol..

EgunMogaji:


I don't even have to read the thread, just by reading the title I know it's a bad idea.

hehehehehehehe

CozyDblake:
Not wanting to stay with d gal u love is not bad...Livinq together b4 marriage? Plz o abeg, d love will die just b4 it gets to live. Bt if u think ur love can stand it's ground, No Problm!..... M ever ready to hear d other side of d story.

hehehehehehehe

teeowl:
wait till you are married.

abi

jonaifame22:
and I'll keep footing th bills for abortion wetin go come remain for my pocket.

Why you go even give her belle at the first instance?,are you a learner??

unmask:
Guy lay down the ground rules.....and be blunt

No pregnancy
No asking where I have been
It doesn't mean I will marry you
You must not wear wrapper (in fact it is taboo)
It is my house and my rules

Put it in writing and have her sign.....also make a video recording of the event

Then you good to go

chai u're one of the wisest men of dis generation,infact that tying of wrapper ia no, no for me

Raypawer:
Reject It! no matter how much you love her, wait until marriage... stop cohabiting !

aiit,thanks!

jonaifame22:
u knw it's very risky taking the bull by the horns

Especially african bulls.....specifically d ones in Nigeria