I watched my baby girl come into this world..it was a wonderful sight. I must warn though, its not for the fainthearted....

I was there. Big deal if you are lily-livered.

The Guy was ther when he made it, so He can be ther when it's coming out!

Maybe na dat day I go Die..........naija gurlz wicked oooo,Them insist we must be there!!!......if you lyk insist I can't witness such.

prettythicksme:

oya sorry

LOL then there'd be three crying babies in the end (as the case may be)...haha

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Nooo! I'm scared of fearing toto. By the time I look at the elastic limit of her CUNTinent, e fit make me forget about prackin.

i once witnessed a labour situation around 4am in the morning. no vehicle to convey her to the hospital. evryone was a novice so nobody knew what to do. even the ladies ran away. we had to go and hustle for a vehicle and accompany her to the hospital. her screams were horrific, it kept ringing in my ears for days. i dnt think i wnt to do that again!

flightz:
emotions like crying? I don't think I can cry last last I will faint.

For shouting too and sometimes slapping me.

Peachess:
I'd love that… I'll make sure I document the moment so my kids can see it too (at the right age)...

can't imagine seeing ma mom's Puna(worst sef while giving birth) I know I came from there but I have no business there again common what's so special about it that you have to document it? SMH

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Midehi:

and you were there

Yeah I was right there gazing at the opening of her _________


An old man speaks in parable

I think most of the guys can escort his woman if is her great wish or need to bei done....

I did go Into the labour room when our first child was born

I even went in with a cam coder( though I only started recording when he came out)

It was beautiful, an amazing experience.

After that.... I had more respect for women

Now our second child is on the way and I intend to do same too

At least in future, if they start misbehaving in future, I would just bring out the cam coder and show them.... Telling them that I could have easily snuffed life outer them....

But on a serious note... It was an amazing experience and I encourage all men to go into the labor room if given the opportunity

I have 5 kids and my super husband has been there in the delivery room for all of them. He actually sees the baby before me.

It has made our marriage stronger and he appreciates me and I do like wise.

I can't imagine what being in labour all alone must feel like. Pls be there to hear the first cry of your baby and watch the baby take his/her first breath

Midehi:
Guys, can you be bold to enter and see the drama and God's work in a labour room, can you go in there with your wife?


Pls, say your mind and be truthful about it.

Ladies, how will you feel if your man should be with you in labour room..

That is not a difficult task.I was with my wife when she went into labour.God bless women o.it was an action movie.The pains wey dem dey go through no be small thing.one moment she is asking me to hold her and the next moment she is shouting I should let go and get out.

As an engineer who has witnessed so much in life my mind strong pass steel.I held her hands in the labour room during delivery and encouraged her to push while I mopped the sweat from her forehead and I really pitied her.The midwife kept on telling her when to push and to prevent her from having tears she had to use their surgical scissors to cut her womanliness twice.Out of curiosity I watched and I said so I don dey become surgeon today.when the baby's head was about coming out the midwife asked me to encourage my wife to give one last push.na so I say baby please push and I move go see how the baby was coming out.the head all covered with blood and me I no even recognize wetin dey come out as I wonder weda na black stone covered with blood.it was actually his hair and the little head came out while the midwife turned the head slowly,the shoulder,limbs and other parts came out and I saw a little baby.

Alas I heard the scream as my little boy inhaled his first breathe of air for my complicated country and I hugged my wife and knelt down to thank Baba for giving us the gift of life.I waited for him to be cleaned up and the midwife said the baby has to be fed. Na im I say lai lai make una let me hold my son.

I carried my heir ,knelt down and prophesied into his life and raised him up to God and gave thanks to the father for giving me a son whose future will be brighter than mine.Then I handed him to his mum so that he can feel the warmth of the great woman who carried him in her womb for nine months .He weighed 4.0kg

Na so I hand am over to nurse make dem give am baby milk while I called family members and friends to break the good news .

I was still in the labour room while the placenta came out and her womanliness was stitched.I escorted the placenta to the toilet and flushed it.I remember say Chinese people dey chop am.

Though I was told a man fainted in that same labour room even before his wife delivered and the nurses kept on wondering how I kept my nerves.

If u no get liver u no fit witness am.I am looking forward to my wife's next delivery. As usual I will be in that labour room with her. I am from the heart beat of the nation.my liver dey kampe.

Donphilly:
I was with mine in the delivery room when she died this February with our baby while trying to give birth to our child.

I have not been myself since then.

Don't wish it even for an enemy.

I am so sorry for your loss.Many times we ask why & hope for answers but Heaven remains silent.I pray that God will heal your emotions and bless you beyond your wildest imagination.I cannot begin to imagine how you are feeling but my prayer for you is that the peace of God which surpasses all understanding will keep you.Find support & don't let depression in.

AikayDaWrapper:
I would probably pass out when I see the head pushing out.

It's just plain nasty.

I agree that u may pass out, cos of all d blood and escruciating pain, but plz dont use d word 'NASTY' to describe this wonderful event of a child being brought into d world. The atmosphere in a labour /delivery room can be very emotionally overpowering, but trust me, watching ur child/a child being born is one of d most beautiful/magical things to witness. (for those who can stand d blood and pain). My husband tried to stay for our first but it was very difficult for him, he was with me untill the pain got unbearable, i actually noticed him shed a tear b4 he patted me on d back and said. "I will be in d reception" b4 rushing out. He just hung around d hospital until i gave birth. That has bn our pattern. . So yes, for some men, it can be very daunting.

Its compulsory in some hospitals

My dad never went... Why should i?

I have done my part.. Women always have a way of magnifying things... Only two drops of kini o..

And she comes to d hospital with a swollen tummy

I will try as much as i can to be there... We will both as a couple talk about it because i have the intention of recording the video and showing it to my future kids how their lives all began...

Life is precious with very many moments and this one should be one of the best of them. Bringing in a child into the world

I used hanky to clean her forehead and told her I will always be there for her. That I love her and proud that she's about to be the mother of my child.

she smiled and then aaaahhhhhhh!

There came a bouncing baby boy!

Midehi:

choi...see where your mind go

Where u been think say my mind go before? I would never risk that with my wife

eromspete:
I will try as much as i can to be there... We will both as a couple talk about it because i have the intention of recording the video and showing it to my future kids how their lives all began...

Life is precious with very many moments and this one should be one of the best of them. Bringing in a child into the world

Your recording wont be complete without the Intimacy session. since it a very interesting part of how it all began. Mtchew.......if you don't know when, how to use a camera. Go on a cliff, jump and record your fall. it is better than the mess u want to put ur wife in.

Oh yea, my hubby did when we had our 1st child, 4rm begginning till d end, he was present,it was such a great experience 4 him

I join her 4 d child's dedication but d labour xperience is not ma field of expertise......d best I can do is to start encouraging her frm d. day we discover shez pregnant to d day labour surface but not following her inside labour bkos I neva see were teacher dey do revision inside exam hall

I'll rada stay out & b interceding 4 her....save delivery to Ãℓℓ NL pregnant mums,baby mamas & dos dat got preggy as a result of pre or xtramarital affairs

Yes ooooo, so to make it easy for her ....

I don do am twice, no big deal

It's an amazing experience. Been there three times and that was eight years ago.
Try it and you will forever appreciate your woman and women generally despite their diarrhea infected mouths.
Little wonder I can hardly imagine putting my wife through it the fourth time.

Witnessed my 1st child's 1st day. d DOC prmsd us a CS but Almighty GOD surprised her wen I went in2 prayas dat mid9t, turned out a Natural safe delivery & d DOC was amazed. So guys U see it's OK U are dere 4 d power of prayas&bonding!

krazydave:
nah...

I'm too much of an emotional guy, I'd faint or cry through out the process....

lol at faint