IamLEGEND1:
lack of common sense.....

he cheated,but na you dey follow am beg again?

mrsphyno dear,u dey witness diz matter?

Dont mind her

Four years is too long to date anyone. Thats where you went wrong from the start.

Sexologist:

the matter tire me o..... but no be so mrsphyno dey use beg u everytime? lol

He begs me

MrsPhyno:

Dont mind her
Four years is too long to date anyone. Thats where you went wrong from the start.

hence rendering my points valid...

The members of female gender of the homo sapien specie are generally incapable of intellectual thoughts one emotions get thrown into the mix.

IamLEGEND1:


hence rendering my points valid...

The members of female gender of the homo sapien specie are generally incapable of intellectual thoughts one emotions get thrown into the mix.

Ehn? Jus cause ur smart u wan confuse me wit big big words abi

Not true at all.... All human beings emotions overwhelm their intellect at times.... Even most times.

Haba!! Naija sha
So the fact that he's friendly with another girl means he should be crucified abi? Why don't you ask Op how many guys she chats with on Bbm and WhatsApp? You know we talk freely when chatting, since the person can't physically see you, we tend to say what's on our mind. There's a particular girl I can chat with all day without getting bored, because our chats are often exciting and hilarious. This girl is not my type (and she has a boyfriend anyway) but I prefer chatting with her when I'm bored, more than my girlfriend who's in the "k" and "lol" category (not her fault of course). Guess she's just not very inquisitive, which means she hardly reads nor watches documentaries. So when I bring up a topic, she'll be like "oohh, you and these your strange conversations." So tell me, if she reads my chats and goes all ape shit on me, how d'you think I'll react?
Bottom line is the Op didn't say how exactly she 'confronted' said boyfriend, nor did she state categorically that she found irrefutable proof that he's screwing the babe. I suggest you plan a rendezvous with the help of his friends and have a heart to heart. Its possible he sees you chatting with guys or going out with them and feels affronted that you'd challenge him for doing 'less'

MrsPhyno:

Ehn? Jus cause ur smart u wan confuse me wit big big words abi

Not true at all.... All human beings emotions overwhelm their intellect at times.... Even most times.

smart ke?

hmmmmm....says the nerd with the glasses.

anyways,women are way more susceptible to the that shìt......as in way more susceptible...

but like i said earlier,u no go ever gree....

#NeverArgueWithAWoman

IamLEGEND1:

smart ke?

hmmmmm....says the nerd with the glasses.

anyways,women are way more susceptible to the that shìt......as in way more susceptible...

but like i said earlier,u no go ever gree....

#NeverArgueWithAWoman

You are super smart why do u keep tryin to deny it

I'm not a nerd

Yeah I agree they are....
Happy now mumu

MrsPhyno:

You are super smart why do u keep tryin to deny it

I'm not a nerd

Yeah I agree they are....
Happy now mumu

aaaaawwww darling

i luv it wen u insult me like dat...

makes me all tingly on the the inside....

and since u insist....

i gree say i smart,u know i never shy away from taking in the compliments....

i'm just too awesome.but i sight u dat day na,for one thread like dat u just dey spit physics terminologies like song lyrics.,,....

Topsie44:
There is this guy we have been dating for 4years, last week something happened that go him angry, to the extent that he doesn't want to talk to me. I was privileged to have his phone which I checked his chat and so chatted with this girl that notice something was between them, which I confirmed that day, I tried asking him but instead of him to talk he got angry, though I know I was wrong . Been trying to explain and calm him down, to the extent that have asked his friends to beg him on my behalf, he's still not talking to me...
Please I need you people advice on this, what do you think I can do..
And please no insults
Thanks

Topsie44:
There is this guy we have been dating for 4years, last week something happened that go him angry, to the extent that he doesn't want to talk to me. I was privileged to have his phone which I checked his chat and so chatted with this girl that notice something was between them, which I confirmed that day, I tried asking him but instead of him to talk he got angry, though I know I was wrong . Been trying to explain and calm him down, to the extent that have asked his friends to beg him on my behalf, he's still not talking to me...
Please I need you people advice on this, what do you think I can do..
And please no insults
Thanks

...so yor boy frined is angry coz u date another man for four 4years...and then u want us to help u ..abi?.... sweeery u nid help!! (no ofeinse)

IamLEGEND1:


aaaaawwww darling

i luv it wen u insult me like dat...

makes me all tingly on the the inside....

and since u insist....

i gree say i smart,u know i never shy away from taking in the compliments....

i'm just too awesome.but i sight u dat day na,for one thread like dat u just dey spit physics terminologies like song lyrics.,,....

Oh lawd I'm speechless

Yeah u don't.... You're shamelessness is at a worse level than mine is

I'm just regurgitating what they taught me o

Sexologist:


Best advice from the sexologist.

girl, move on. he isn't into you anymore and you didn't do anything wrong. I know 4yrs is a long time but believe me , you gotta move on with your life. He is obviously looking for a new catch.... not all relationships of 4years+ must end in marriage ! Girls beware before you force yourself into enternal sorrow of marriage!

true. He is looking for a way out. It will be painful to leave now, but it will be more painful to stay.

MrsPhyno:

Oh lawd I'm speechless

Yeah u don't.... You're shamelessness is at a worse level than mine is

I'm just regurgitating what they taught me o

well, when you are as awesome and hot as i am,you can afford to be shameless.

regurgitating? isnt that what we all do?

na wetin we learn we dey come yarn na...

#TurnsOnMusic

#PlayingMrEndowed

Hey sexy lady,
I heard you have been searching for the special one
So Imma give you a reason to pick me
I got so many things that you gon' like about me
but I'm gon' give you a few
I am a kind of brother your boyfriends wanna be
cos I am so endowed (I am so endowed)
See the ladies looking at me, I mean because they want to see it's cos I am so endowed

IamLEGEND1:


well, when you are as awesome and hot as i am,you can afford to be shameless.

regurgitating? isnt that what we all do?

na wetin we learn we dey come yarn na...

#TurnsOnMusic

#PlayingMrEndowed

Hey sexy lady,
I heard you have been searching for the special one
So Imma give you a reason to pick me
I got so many things that you gon' like about me
but I'm gon' give you a few
I am a kind of brother your boyfriends wanna be
cos I am so endowed (I am so endowed)
See the ladies looking at me, I mean because they want to see it's cos I am so endowed

He don come again o
Please note the spelling

Funny enough as much as I like all kinds of trashy Nigerian music, I don't know that song.... Dbanj and Donjazzy yes?
Fits u perfectly.

I thought u didn't like Naija music?

MrsPhyno:

He don cum again o
Please note the spelling

Funny enough as much as I like all kinds of trashy Nigerian music, I don't know that song.... Dbanj and Donjazzy yes?
Fits u perfectly.

I thought u didn't like Naija music?

ah,if i no rep 9ja artists i no be real nigerian na...

after listening to all those depressing Adele & taylor swift songs,one needs to shake body to proper 9ja beatz na.....

and yes,datz d'banj and donjazzy.

& wic spelling u talking 'bout gurl? coz i aint seen nothing...

except if u referring to ze bold letters....

then.....

IamLEGEND1:


ah,if i no rep 9ja artists i no be real nigerian na...

after listening to all those depressing Adele & taylor swift songs,one needs to shake body to proper 9ja beatz na.....

and yes,datz d'banj and donjazzy.

& wic spelling u talking 'bout gurl? coz i aint seen nothing...

except if u referring to ze bold letters....

then.....

Yeah I know.... Son of the soil
Ndi Fulani

No I'm saying there's no double entendre or whareva d word is. The way I spelled it is the way u should interpret it
Whatever it's getting late and I'm starting to write rubbish
That was my disclaimer

MrsPhyno:

Yeah I know.... Son of the soil
Ndi Fulani

No I'm saying there's no double entendre or whareva d word is. The way I spelled it is the way u should interpret it
Whatever it's getting late and I'm starting to write rubbish
That was my disclaimer

why should i interpret it any differently?

i am a saint pls,i dont misconstrue people's words.

and may the gods have mercy on ur soul.....

good night

#JustInCase

IamLEGEND1:


why should i interpret it any differently?

i am a saint pls,i dont misconstrue people's words.

and may the gods have mercy on ur soul.....

good night

#JustInCase

Loooool

Goodnight

RickRichards:

Then I can't offer any advice.

lol you too wicked

MrsPhyno:

He don come again o
Please note the spelling

Funny enough as much as I like all kinds of trashy Nigerian music, I don't know that song.... Dbanj and Donjazzy yes?
Fits u perfectly.

I thought u didn't like Naija music?

HE WILL USE AND DUMP YOU!!!!!
Now your body is totori -ing you. Dont go and do PM and then visit him o. Before you go come sing
You abbandon me
Love dont
live here any more!
I go use cane flog you that day.

delishpot:


HE WILL USE AND DUMP YOU!!!!!
Now your body is totori -ing you. Dont go and do PM and then visit him o. Before you go come sing
You abbandon me
Love dont
live here any more!
I go use cane flog you that day.

oh lawd

thank you ma/sir

Thanks to you all, got one or two points from your comments.. special thanks to
ronald4lif
Laurelp
Phellamon
$ sexiologist

First offence... privacy intrusion on ur part


Second offence.......No offence about confronting him


Third offence..... Your BF is a douche bag, he shd apologise