Hello NLanders. I met this girl sometime in November last year. At first she seems to be the kinda girl I have always wanted to get. I'm a kinda person that likes balance in everything That I do especially when relationship is involved. I'm beginning to believe that it is always ABOUT HER.. since I met her, she has not contributed anything even thou I haven't asked her to get anything for me. She will always tell me about call cards, my phone is not good again, get me some handbags, shoes and stuffs like that. All those things to be honest I always get for her just to make her happy and understand that I'm so much into her. What I have actually bought for her, I swear I have never done it to any girl in my life. Just few days ago I decided to tempt her about taking me out, she started " oh baby, I don't have no money on me " not only that, she never done anything for me since the start of the relationship. What should I do please

Well that's how most of this stingy girls act, they are just selfish, the choice is yours bro, you don't need anyone to tell you what to do, you should figure it out yourself..God bless..

Love is not always about what you want to get but what you want to give...
She might be telling the truth, just give her some time.

LEBEfirstson:
Hello NLanders. I met this girl sometime in November last year. At first she seems to be the kinda girl I have always wanted to get. I'm a kinda person that likes balance in everything That I do especially when relationship is involved. I'm beginning to believe that it is always ABOUT HER.. since I met her, she has not contributed anything even thou I haven't asked her to get anything for me She will always tell me about call cards, my phone is not good again, get me some handbags, shoes and stuffs like that All those things to be honest I always get for her just to make her happy and understand that I'm so much into her. What I have actually bought for her, I swear I have never done it to any girl in my life. Just few days ago I decided to tempt her about taking me out, she started " oh baby, I don't have no money on me " not only that, she never done anything for me since the start of the relationship. What should I do please

And he is still asking bout what to do

You are very dense....no offence

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harffie:

Love is not always about what you want to get but what you want to give...
She might be telling the truth, just give her some time.

... that she may not have? Someone that once told me she had used some 30k to clear something for her school thingy?

Dotwillis1:


And he is still asking bout what to do

You are very dense....no offence

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.. it ok thanks a lot

to take u out go where exactly? is she working.?Did she use otumophor/cast a do as I command spell on u?Tell us una discipline/work

eleko1:
to take u out go where exactly? is she working.?Did she use otumophor/cast a do as I command spell on u?Tell us unable discipline/work

.. she's in uni. We argued about that and we concluded she can only afford ice-cream which I accept. The time of the appointment reach, no call from her, no text

LEBEfirstson:
.. she's in uni. We argued about that and we concluded she can only afford ice-cream which I accept. The time of the appointment reach, no call from her, no text

if she buy u that ice cream,be rest assured that u'll pay for it in 100 fold.By the way,which state are u both ?

eleko1:
if she buy u that ice cream,be rest assured that u'll pay for it in 100 fold.By the way,which state are u both ?

.. is it too much to ask for?

LEBEfirstson:
.. is it too much to ask for?

u don't even need to ask her b4 she do the needful.U baby is either omo iya ijebu /from south East.Dnt let her use ur head.

eleko1:
u don't even need to ask her b4 she do the needful.U baby is either omo iya ijebu /from south East.Dnt let her use ur head.

.. we are easterners.

Dotwillis1:

And he is still asking bout what to do
You are very dense....no offence
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.wet in he do u?Nah love wan tin tin

What else do you expect? I will be truthful to you even as a lady i noticed that most females see themselves as queens but in economic terms they a big liabilities. They all want to go to school and get married. Thats all! They have no creative spirit and they believe all the hustling is for the man as they were created to give birth ONLY and Enjoy MONEY only. When i see girls do this, i always ask them. WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN YOU AND A MAN? YOUR Only difference is your gender. HE uses his hands to work, so use yours. Sam Adeyemi said " Which other way can you help a man as a woman if not in his finances", if you think its to give him children then you lie. GIVING BIRTH IS YOUR NATURAL DEFAULT AND THAT IS WHY YOU MENSURATE

StephDamielola:
What else do you expect? I will be truthful to you even as a lady i noticed that most females see themselves as queens but in economic terms they a big liabilities. They all want to go to school and get married. Thats all! They have no creative spirit and they believe all the hustling is for the man as they were created to give birth ONLY and Enjoy MONEY only. When i see girls do this, i always ask them. WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN YOU AND A MAN? YOUR Only difference is your gender. HE uses his hands to work, so use yours. Sam Adeyemi said " Which other way can you help a man as a woman if not in his finances", if you think its to give him children then you lie. GIVING BIRTH IS YOUR NATURAL DEFAULT AND THAT IS WHY YOU MENSURATE

. Steph dear, what do you reckon I do?

eleko1:
lobatan! I talk am.i know the characteristics of lady like Dat. Hope u aren't a refrigerator technician, mechanic,spare parts seller. u better run.No future with her.she'll just collect ur money and leave u for one Chief last last.Shine ur eyes

.. hahahaha bro, you are funny aswear.

My gal,was once like dat,buh i changed her mentality,ladies r naturally demanding buh nt all though, some r just sharks,dey blv u v to spend b4 u phuck,buh u do nt always v to oblige to wateva she asks for,she might just b using u....Sit her down n talk some senses into her....

Headlesschicken:
My gal,was once like dat,buh i changed her mentality,ladies r naturally demanding buh nt all though, some r just sharks,dey blv u v to spend b4 u phuck,buh u do nt always v to oblige to wateva she asks for,she might just b using u....Sit her down n talk some senses into her....

.. thanks bro. I wish I can sit her down and talk. Even when I ask her to send me pictures(not nude) it's WAR before she will do it. Every little thing that wouldn't cost her a thing is a big no no or I will not call her for days before she will do it

LEBEfirstson:
. Steph dear, what do you reckon I do?

Firstly i will advise you to talk to her again and pour out your heart without pretense. If she continues living an irresponsible life, then call it a quit. A relationship involves both parties and if one person is shying away from responsibilities, then that one isn't giving priority to that relationship. What you love is what you protect. This African ignorance should be dealt with ASAP and a reorientation be implemented. Most Women go about owing debts and hoping to get married and pay back. Arrant Nonsense. You spend so much time on your looks than developing your mental capacity. Your value in marriage or a relationship isn't dependent on your beauty or the number of children you have given birth to or the gender but your contribution to the growth of that relationship. Stop crying and saying "After giving birth to a male child for him he left me with nothing".... CHANGE AND START BEING PRODUCTIVE.

Bro teach that girl how to be contented with what she has.
Stop being a maga!

ikp120:
Bro teach that girl how to be contented with what she has.

Stop being a maga!

.. I'm wondering how most girls think.. I just want to try her with that taking out thingy. Can you believe even upto this very moment, she hasn't called nor text as to why she couldn't make it with the appointment

StephDamielola:
What else do you expect? I will be truthful to you even as a lady i noticed that most females see themselves as queens but in economic terms they a big liabilities. They all want to go to school and get married. Thats all! They have no creative spirit and they believe all the hustling is for the man as they were created to give birth ONLY and Enjoy MONEY only. When i see girls do this, i always ask them. WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN YOU AND A MAN? YOUR Only difference is your gender. HE uses his hands to work, so use yours. Sam Adeyemi said " Which other way can you help a man as a woman if not in his finances", if you think its to give him children then you lie. GIVING BIRTH IS YOUR NATURAL DEFAULT AND THAT IS WHY YOU MENSURATE

Your a bae...I luv u for this

LEBEfirstson:
.. I'm wondering how most girls think.. I just want to try her with that taking out thingy. Can you believe even upto this very moment, she hasn't called nor text as to why she couldn't make it with the appointment

Bro you're simply a maga! Nothing more! You be her mugu money spender, according to P- Square.

You're being used bro. Use your head.

LEBEfirstson:
.. thanks bro. I wish I can sit her down and talk. Even when I ask her to send me pictures(not nude) it's WAR before she will do it. Every little thing that wouldn't cost her a thing is a big no no or I will not call her for days before she will do it

Bro this is all I needed to conclusively prove that you're being used by that girl.

She's obviously a gold digger.

ikp120:
Bro you're simply a maga! Nothing more! You be her mugu money spender, according to P- Square.

You're being used bro. Use your head.

oh! Why me? Such a shame she doesn't see how much I have loved her

ikp120:
Bro this is all I needed to conclusively prove that you're being used by that girl.

She's obviously a gold digger.

.. I have been thinking with my heart these days. I will start thinking with my head

DumP Her BeforE DusT TodaY.

StephDamielola:
What else do you expect? I will be truthful to you even as a lady i noticed that most females see themselves as queens but in economic terms they a big liabilities. They all want to go to school and get married. Thats all! They have no creative spirit and they believe all the hustling is for the man as they were created to give birth ONLY and Enjoy MONEY only. When i see girls do this, i always ask them. WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN YOU AND A MAN? YOUR Only difference is your gender. HE uses his hands to work, so use yours. Sam Adeyemi said " Which other way can you help a man as a woman if not in his finances", if you think its to give him children then you lie. GIVING BIRTH IS YOUR NATURAL DEFAULT AND THAT IS WHY YOU MENSURATE

You've got a wise head on your shoulders. Don't loose it. Reading something like this from a lady is refreshing.

@op
relationships are not meant to be one sided. A time should come where u take a pause, clear ur emotions and see if ur partner cares about it. I think you've got to that stage though a bit late and should just have to take a walk if you don't see any change after talking it over with her.

jedisco:


You've got a wise head on your shoulders. Don't loose it. Reading something like this from a lady is refreshing.

@op
relationships are not meant to be one sided. A time should come where u take a pause, clear ur emotions and see if ur partner cares about it. I think you've got to that stage though a bit late and should just have to take a walk if you don't see any change after talking it over with her.

.. I'm sincerely very pleased about all the response so far. It really hurts to see that people you cared about doesn't care about you as well. Selfishness is very bad. Can you imagine she has not even called to tell me why she didn't make it with the appointment

LEBEfirstson:
Hello NLanders. I met this girl sometime in November last year. At first she seems to be the kinda girl I have always wanted to get. I'm a kinda person that likes balance in everything That I do especially when relationship is involved. I'm beginning to believe that it is always ABOUT HER.. since I met her, she has not contributed anything even thou I haven't asked her to get anything for me. She will always tell me about call cards, my phone is not good again, get me some handbags, shoes and stuffs like that. All those things to be honest I always get for her just to make her happy and understand that I'm so much into her. What I have actually bought for her, I swear I have never done it to any girl in my life. Just few days ago I decided to tempt her about taking me out, she started " oh baby, I don't have no money on me " not only that, she never done anything for me since the start of the relationship. What should I do please

chai, u don Bleep up sortay, human beings generally have a way of taken tins 4 granted