"Where is TRUE LOVE?" Quote me anywhere.

Go and make money for her to wack, simple. You already know the solution

Marrying the wrong person is a straight ticket to hell!

work harder.. if that doesn't work out. send her packing

Oga, let's hear your wife's side of the story first before drawing conclusion.

Slap the nag of her

If u're really a man u'd know u'd shut that nagging wife of urs up. Damnit.

BRAVAGAD0O:
Hello friends, 1st of all, I don't want you to see me as a man that involves third party in his marrital life/affair, am not that kind of man, in fact a lot of things go on that I rather let it stay in my home for us to sort or face together than involving family or friends but this challenge is really heavy for me to bear.

I don't really know what else to preach to her that I don't like her behavior anytime am broke ,for me it's a total turn off because it always makes me feel like am not being appreciated even with all my efforts to make us happy.

My wife nag anytime am broke or notice my pay ain't coming soon, all she does is play blame game like telling me all sort of story, like she never eat since last year, like she's not happy, that the marriage is hell because of just few days broke, and the few days broke doesn't mean no food for us, the few days broke doesn't mean I won't raise money to fuel generator talk less of some more important bills. I am just 10 months old in this marriage, please, real men in the house kindly advice me on what to do, if am the one being wrong here because I don't understand why she's always like that.

Lalasticlala I wouldn't mind front page at all because I really want to learn from all other husbands out there... Thanks

Then dude stop getting broke.

@OP get your wife involve in your family finance,the pay you earn is no longer yours alone it is for the entire family,if you live on budget i see no reason why you should go broke before the next pay day. Please sit with your wife draw up a family budget and immediately the pay comes in distribute it accordingly as stated in your budget. Raising a family requires a lot of financial discipline and sacrifice.

Don`t get upset with her nagging, she is passing a message to you but probably in the wrong manner and this is where maturity comes in, the way you both handle this minor issue will determine the stability of the home. Finance is one of the major issues listed for the break down of marriages, you have to be open and if the pay is not enough for you guys then she must look for something to do to support you.

Nicepoker:
work harder.. if that doesn't work out. send her packing

No matter how hard you work,you will get broke at some point and pick up again few days later,even if you are a billionaire
OP lol,its your wife who nags,as for me i always switched off anytime am broke
I wont even call my girl friend
From your write up,she is not working or she doesnt have a good job
You need to set up a business for her anytime you have extra cash

ladyF:
Eeyah....you can't blame her completely. Being broke can be frustrating at times. Don't listen to these people telling you to end the marriage o Hian!

Talk to her about the nagging ish, nagging irritates me frankly! you should also try and save since you earn salary. Plan towards having money at all times even if salary doesn't come early. She should go and look for work to do too....relying on you for everything isn't fresh!

It's [size=20pt]LadyF[/size] again

Good advice, thanks

If you people have divided roles that you must provide and she must face the home keeping, then don't complain that she's nagging.
Do your own part.
I'm sure you will nag her if she doesn't cook for 3days.

When they tell people to relax their rigid rules of who does what in the home, they will think someone wants to divide their home.

If she doesn't see you as sole provider, why would she have problem bringing her own money to supplement your income?

bjprodint:
Two reasons (1)mayb u used money to entise her to marry u. (2) she might b pregnant...abeg shey I spell ''entise'' well?.pls correct me if I make mistake

dictionary on your phone don corrupt, abii ur Google don expire....,
c----s sha

BRAVAGAD0O:
Hello friends, 1st of all, I don't want you to see me as a man that involves third party in his marrital life/affair, am not that kind of man, in fact a lot of things go on that I rather let it stay in my home for us to sort or face together than involving family or friends but this challenge is really heavy for me to bear.

I don't really know what else to preach to her that I don't like her behavior anytime am broke ,for me it's a total turn off because it always makes me feel like am not being appreciated even with all my efforts to make us happy.

My wife nag anytime am broke or notice my pay ain't coming soon, all she does is play blame game like telling me all sort of story, like she never eat since last year, like she's not happy, that the marriage is hell because of just few days broke, and the few days broke doesn't mean no food for us, the few days broke doesn't mean I won't raise money to fuel generator talk less of some more important bills. I am just 10 months old in this marriage, please, real men in the house kindly advice me on what to do, if am the one being wrong here because I don't understand why she's always like that.

...guy
any time you have money, make sure you do a whole lot of nagging too
the trick is that in some future discussions, she'll complain that you nag when you have money, while you'll complain that she nags when you have none. And both of you will realise that it is true ooo and laugh about it (....although u already knew)

It will tone down her 'nagg-iness' in the future anytime she remembers the discussions

however, if in your moment of mushiness, you make the mistake of telling her that you set her up
na you know....
just like Delilah did with Samson, your locks will be cut off

.....db

After seeing such thread, i always ask myself if i would ever marry.

look her straight in the eyes and tell her baba NEED HER FOR MONEY RITUALS she go chill pass Ice

my sincere advice.....neva go broke[center][/center]

She's a gold digger.. period

Maybe You started the whole ish With always tending to all her needs, now that u are cash strapped she doesn't know any other way to get angry than to Nag, u can't kill or steal if u don't have it. Just grab a shirt and ur charger go to a friend's place when she start,and come go back home later.Cos thr won't be any advice that's gonna solve this cos I don't have money to borrow u neither will I ask ur wife to come and marry me.... So be a man and continue ur humble lifestyle... Soon she will get tired and go and work to support you..don't beat her tho....or talk to her back....just remain calm...

She's a gold digger!
Divorce her now!!!

Just 10mnth and she's nagging

Broz u sef learn to save 2 na @least 2 avoid wahala

What a selfish wife. Bro na your cross. Carry am.

who no like better thing?

who want monkey wey no like banana?

u see for my life i dont pretend..

she like money but who no like better thing make i see?
bring money she go love u die.

her aunt ryt nau telling her she no see otedola pikin, she no see mike adenuga son, dangote self she no see..

but who no like better thing make i see..

for story to cha ge na just one signature

BRAVAGAD0O:
Hello friends, 1st of all, I don't want you to see me as a man that involves third party in his marrital life/affair, am not that kind of man, in fact a lot of things go on that I rather let it stay in my home for us to sort or face together than involving family or friends but this challenge is really heavy for me to bear.

I don't really know what else to preach to her that I don't like her behavior anytime am broke ,for me it's a total turn off because it always makes me feel like am not being appreciated even with all my efforts to make us happy.

My wife nag anytime am broke or notice my pay ain't coming soon, all she does is play blame game like telling me all sort of story, like she never eat since last year, like she's not happy, that the marriage is hell because of just few days broke, and the few days broke doesn't mean no food for us, the few days broke doesn't mean I won't raise money to fuel generator talk less of some more important bills. I am just 10 months old in this marriage, please, real men in the house kindly advice me on what to do, if am the one being wrong here because I don't understand why she's always like that.

Lalasticlala I wouldn't mind front page at all because I really want to learn from all other husbands out there... Thanks

you don see am by THE TIME WERE YOU DEY USE SHINE SHINE THINGS TAKE CHARM HER MAKE SHE DEY FOLLOW YOU, NOW YOU WON RUNAWAY FOR HER BECAUSE YOU DON BROKE.

NO BE UNA GUYS DEY ADVICE US MAKE WE DEY USE SHINE SHINE THINGS TAKE GET WOMEN

GUY!! IF SHE NAG YOU AGAIN, YOU FIND WORK TAKE GIVE HER OR ENGAGE HER IN SOME KIND OF BUSINESS. NO DEY KEEP WOMEN FOR HOUSE LIKE FOWL COME DEY FEED HER, WHY SHE NO GO NAG.

Hope she is really a wife.
Check my signature

BRAVAGAD0O:
Hello friends, 1st of all, I don't want you to see me as a man that involves third party in his marrital life/affair, am not that kind of man, in fact a lot of things go on that I rather let it stay in my home for us to sort or face together than involving family or friends but this challenge is really heavy for me to bear.

I don't really know what else to preach to her that I don't like her behavior anytime am broke ,for me it's a total turn off because it always makes me feel like am not being appreciated even with all my efforts to make us happy.

My wife nag anytime am broke or notice my pay ain't coming soon, all she does is play blame game like telling me all sort of story, like she never eat since last year, like she's not happy, that the marriage is hell because of just few days broke, and the few days broke doesn't mean no food for us, the few days broke doesn't mean I won't raise money to fuel generator talk less of some more important bills. I am just 10 months old in this marriage, please, real men in the house kindly advice me on what to do, if am the one being wrong here because I don't understand why she's always like that.

Lalasticlala I wouldn't mind front page at all because I really want to learn from all other husbands out there... Thanks

Bros, your wife na cripple

Shebi u follow psquare sing "if i no get money i get where to borrow" this is d impression u created when u were dating her now she married u afterall and u complain she nags. She's b nagging right frm dating stage

Op, tho I'm not marry yet, buh my advice is that u should talk to her, set her up in some biz for her to know what it means to raise money. When we give women opportunity to sit at home and watch African magic this is always the result, she is a woman, they want to talk, you will learn to listen, ask her for advice, and u ll c that she will commit herself with her advice, that she won't have gut to complain again.