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Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Nobody: 10:22pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
martyns303: She should repeat this statement to her mother..., Iranu! 3 Likes |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Tallesty1(m): 10:22pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
GboyegaD:That could be true. Well, they ain't going nowhere if that's the case. 1 Like |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by masseratti: 10:22pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
Omotayor123:lol,very funny, the helping hand will also help on the bed. 2 Likes |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Nobody: 10:22pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
jaymdee: As in i tire o, you find the dumbest statements on NL, just an excuse to attack a tribe |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Nobody: 10:23pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
Maybe the guy complains whenever she cooks for him So she feels intimidated. Anyway, am waiting for her own thread where she will come and tell us stories that touch the heart. |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Ugomba(m): 10:23pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
The lady is a feminist 1 Like |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by cococandy(f): 10:24pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
Tallesty1: Well obviously OP's friend's wife Your answer is right in your face. 3 Likes |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Nobody: 10:25pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
lols story that touches the heart
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Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Nobody: 10:26pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
misspicy:Who brings money to that house? If it's the woman then the man has no choice than to cook and wash plates. Just kidding. OP, look for much better advice to give. Or maybe you cook for them. Why not? |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Nobody: 10:27pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
Ugomba: Well feminism is about equal rights and improving women rights and their welfare, i doubt this has anything to do with feminism, maybe laziness or childishness on her part. Most people don't know what it means to be married. They think it's all convenience 5 Likes |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by bummyla(m): 10:29pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Nobody: 10:31pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
She refuses to cook or foesnt know how to cook? 2 dfferent things with 2 different solutions The man is not wrong by expecting his wife to cook his meals, just as she would expect him to be the main provider. Of course every marriage is different and they can deviate from the norm, but it will only work if both parties agree which isnt the case here. madam. they say you are a Nairalander. So if you are reading, go and cook for your hubby. They say the way to a mans heart is through his stomach. They also say a hungey man is an angry man. Dont sow seeds of conflict into your marriage. You both have a long way to go still. Marriage is not a 5 year journety. A word is enough for the wise. 7 Likes |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by abbey621(m): 10:32pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
Hate to be the bearer of bad news but the couple are in for a rocky ride! Firstly, how do you marry a woman that has never cooked for you? Mr. man which mouth did you use to tell your friend your wife does not cook for you? Aren't you ashamed? Seems most of the youths nowadays have lost their self-respect. Mr. man sit your wife down and lay down the law, this is not about being commanding but actually doing your duty as a man. It is your duty to guide your wife, let her know your feelings and how you want things done! You shouldn't be running to friends and families over issues such as this. To the woman, all I can say is thank God you married a jellybean, a softy, a 1/2 liver kind of guy. Most men would just start eating outside rather than complain, no one would teach you before you start cooking 3 square meals 6 Likes |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Nobody: 10:32pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
GboyegaD:Woman wrapper. For the dude to nag, it's obvious the wife just spreads her leg like umbrella while he explore all culinary skills just to feed that her watery brain. Oga, don't equate all men like you. 3 Likes |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by craleonic: 10:33pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
'she said he had always cooked while they were dating and don't know why he his fussing now' That statement says it all. Your friend had painted a picture during courtship that he is not willing to continue with now. To me that's deception, don't do anything in courtship that you are not prepared to keep doing in marriage. Most guys are fond of this. At least SHE was true to herself. She wasn't cooking during courtship and he accepted it, he shouldn't expect her to suddenly change because she's now married. 2 Likes |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Ishilove: 10:34pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
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Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Toks2008(m): 10:34pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
I would have said she is intimidated but since she has been doing some cooking while they were dating i will only ask her to brace up and play her role as the woman to avoid unpleasant situation of divorce that is if she does not mind been divorced else i do not see why a lady will refuse to play her vital role. For me i go run o because i no even sabi cook at all except rice and eba. |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Ishilove: 10:35pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
cococandy:My sister, it is an age long fact, from generation to generation, cutting across every culture in creation. Well, like you said I hope they work it out because they are just newly married and need counselling. If the lady thinks dating and marriage are the same then she is on a very long thing 2 Likes |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Haywhymido(m): 10:36pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
I heard u r on nairaland, dis is my msg 4 u : fu*k u fu*k u n fu*k u ova again. I guess 4 ur father's house, na ur father dey do d everyday cooking. N for the guy, get a divorce if she refuse to change. 3 Likes |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Nobody: 10:37pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
Ishilove:Once again, you made sense. Mr. gboyega is just expressing all his illusional ideas. Bleep western culture. Black women cook for their husband, do laundry. No be thesame Western world we dey? 4 Likes |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by kossyablaze(m): 10:37pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
misspicy:so na cutehec...u dey mention abi?come 4get me 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by legendsilver(m): 10:38pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
loooooolz, oga has married one chance o |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by guiddoti: 10:40pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
God knows no say no woman can make.yanga for me, man enter kitchen cook yur fud, month end make she con.ask me waytin we go cook |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by lilmax(m): 10:40pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
Your friend is weak 3 Likes |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Captain001(m): 10:40pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
That is why I always advice people don't overlook certain things during courtship. What you know you can't tolerate in marriage , don't manage it while dating with the hope it will get better after marriage. Marriage hardly changes anything, it rather consolidates. My bro. Marriage don consolidate ur culinary prowess.. 3 Likes |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Nobody: 10:42pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by flokii: 10:42pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
martyns303: @OP shey d wife dey allow am do that kini sha... if not den problem don dey 1 Like |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Omotayor123(f): 10:43pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
masseratti:Of course... She's ghat no choice! |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Eluwilussit(m): 10:44pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
gabazin080: The babe didn't hide nothing. Dude did all the cooking in the past. Did u ever wonder if that was part of the reason the girl loves him? U don't change the rules halfway. Marriage is not overrated. Being single is. Nature and providence have made provision for it. Only those who are selfish, stay away from it. Every marriage can be heaven. It is all in our hands. What u put into it is what u get. Dude was forming chef and gentleman, but suddenly he wants to change tactics after tying the babe down. That's fraud. Why didn't he marry the ones wey like cook? He needs to be patient and gradually change the rules. Else, he will destroy his marriage. I am sure he was always boasting to the girl of his skills. So let him cook. It's no big deal. 9 Likes |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Ishilove: 10:44pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
slimmy05:Not just black women, slimmy, but women across all cultures |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by freshvine(f): 10:44pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
RedCard1: No blood vessel connecting your medulla oblongata no wonder it malfunctions |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by godoluwa(m): 10:45pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
GboyegaD:I love this. 2 Likes |
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