awesome11:


Now, explain to me. What's the hypocrisy there?

mashin:
I feel conserved about this, am not writing this because am a proud type, but for the Glory of God almighty, i have stayed with my fiancee for 7 years and 6 months, we graduated from the same university, we did our traditional wedding on the 24th of October 2015, our white wedding comes up by November 7th, though we trusted each other, but i still have to confirm from my Gynaechologist, that my wife to be is a virgin @ 27, and currently running her Msc.

You too can do it to the glory of God, it pays to be faithful to God. We hope to wed next week and hope for a good job and a God fearing family.

If you practice, you can get use to it. It was hard for me, to take my mind off at initial stage, but God helped us till, we became the last one standing among our peers.

all4naija:

Those who choose to remain virigins are doing it for society sake. To be seen as people with good reputation whereas they would do otherwise on a plain ground. Give it a break - if you think it is not hypocrisy.

awesome11:


Flawed argument. You committed a falacy of hasty generalization. I'm a virgin; and I'm not doing for any hypocritical reason!
Sexual acts are things that could be carried out in secrecy, without people knowing about your involvement in them.

all4naija:

Do you even know what society sake means in that context? It means for the society has made us to understand keeping virginity is a moral rectitude. If not for the way it has been defined or portrayed you would keep it on a plain ground, whether it is done in secrecy or openly. Is not important here the reason for the hypocrisy I mentioned earlier. You seem to be lost in this argument, dude. You think you are the first person to be a virgin. As if I give a f**k if you are a virgin or not.

awesome11:


You typed all I wanted to see! "As if I give a fxxk if u are a virgin or not". Statements in that mould has always been the remarks of those pained reckless individuals who have lost their virginity.

By the way, your argument is baseless and incoherent!
Is there anything wrong in society making us understand keeping virginity is an ethical decision? I hope u know it is part of the duties of the society to raise individuals who will be responsible enough to guarantee our continued existence.

Now, society told you stealing was bad, you accepted.
Society told you, Accountability was good, you accepted.
Society told you sexual looseness was wrong, you rejected because it doesn't suit you!

. You are really a primitive person. Did you say pain? You should be the one who doesn't know what you have been missing that needs to feel pain. Bwahaha... Get out of here you country guy!

There is nothing wrong in society telling you about virginity but doing that based on societal reasons and would do otherwise when given a choice is hypocrisy. You are the one who is incoherent here because you seem not to grapse the fact of the matter and know what hypocrisy stands for.

Your analogy is flawed because sex is not bad but stealing is. I don't understand why you are so shallow in comprehending what I am talking about here. Stop postulating or promoting sex as a bad thing because it is not. Oh, please! Society doesn't own and control my life as it does with yours.

Classicman47:


Why are you taking it personal? It isn't like he is addressing you in particular.
I mean if sex is your hobby, do you have to get angry cuz someone has more self-control than you do?
Smh

PunkyVeer:


I'm angry because someone has more self-control than me? You must be high! Do you know how much self-control I'm exercising just replying to this right now? Mumu. As if there are no other temptations out there other than sex. Must everything revolve around sex just because it is the only area you've managed to control yourselves in? Big fucking deal! Nobody cares. You're not going to get a medal or a round of applause for that from me. It doesn't make you a super human.

Classicman47:


Oya, Clap for ursef. However ur anger makes u come off as a cheap LovePeddler who has so messed up her self worth thru random sex that she becomes insecure anytime the issue of virginity is mentioned.
Dear girl you shld be angry with yourself for losing it too quickly and without any element of resistance.
And you are here trying to justify your wayward lifestyle.

Classicman47:


Oya, Clap for ursef. However ur anger makes u come off as a cheap LovePeddler who has so messed up her self worth thru random sex that she becomes insecure anytime the issue of virginity is mentioned.
Dear girl you shld be angry with yourself for losing it too quickly and without any element of resistance.
And you are here trying to justify your wayward lifestyle.

awesome11:


Now, this is a woman.

Do you mind me according you the honour of being the first lady I'm gonna send a PM to on NL?

all4naija:

. You are really a primitive person. Did you say pain? You should be the one who doesn't know what you have been missing that needs to feel pain. Bwahaha... Get out of here you country guy!

There is nothing wrong in society telling you about virginity but doing that based on societal reasons and would do otherwise when given a choice is hypocrisy. You are the one who is incoherent here because you seem not to grapse the fact of the matter and know what hypocrisy stands for.

Your analogy is flawed because sex is not bad but stealing is. I don't understand why you are so shallow in comprehending what I am talking about here. Stop postulating or promoting sex as a bad thing because it is not. Oh, please! Society doesn't own and control my life as it does with yours.

PunkyVeer:


Typical response of a rètard. Not the case. Come again. Do you really really think anyone envies virgins? Because to me, they're just one level below circus clowns. Not everyone centers all their self worth on their groin, that's what you idiots don't seem to be getting.

HaneefahRN:
Wow! This place has gotten more interesting! Me likee.
I think there is a form of hypocrisy in every1, the OP decided to announce to the World his fiancee is a virgin wc I don't see a reason for anyway, but I don't understand why some pple felt pained by the virginity status enof to bash any1 that decides to keep her virginity. I'm sure if the thread had said his fiancee was very gud in bed the response might av been different with most people probably hailing- if that isn't hypocrisy I don't know what it is.
We all decide to lose or keep our virginity for different personal reasons. To some women the hymen myt just be a veil put there by God for no reason. And they myt chose to lose theirs while some wld maintain it. As bad as the Western World is regarding sexuality, some women still keep theirs, that's a personal thing. But I don't understand why pple are quick to bash virgins and look for bad accolades or things to associate with them. With the way our society is nw, a virgin at 27 shld be commended no matter what sentiments u myt bring up to rubbish it, becos nowadays kids as young as 16 yrs av lost theirs even without being raped. But like someone pointed out being a virgin doesn't make a woman a gud person at heart so pray well.
U chose to lose urs, they chose to keep theirs, be happy with ur choice. No matter how we twist it to suit us, the Society influences us all.
We can't blame ladies though, who are disvirgining them, no be guys? In most relationships women are pressured by guys into having sex, saying that's the only test of love. Although some chose to of their own volition even seducing.
Anyway, no matter what choice u make, make peace with it

all4naija:

. You are really a primitive person. Did you say pain? You should be the one who doesn't know what you have been missing that needs to feel pain. Bwahaha... Get out of here you country guy!

There is nothing wrong in society telling you about virginity but doing that based on societal reasons and would do otherwise when given a choice is hypocrisy. You are the one who is incoherent here because you seem not to grapse the fact of the matter and know what hypocrisy stands for.

Your analogy is flawed because sex is not bad but stealing is. I don't understand why you are so shallow in comprehending what I am talking about here. Stop postulating or promoting sex as a bad thing because it is not. Oh, please! Society doesn't own and control my life as it does with yours.

awesome11:


It's just funny. You are not angry and you keep using insultive words on him. That's awkward!

The fact that you've pushed the limits of your moral boundaries does not mean everybody has lost their sanity to do so.

One level below circus clowns? You really don't have to say that just to psych yourself up. I'm sure you will be a proud mother if your daughter remains a virgin till her wedding night!

awesome11:


Firstly, you need to learn there's something called "Pride", and another one called "Dignity".
You r thinking as though money is the most important thing and a test for one's standard of morality.

It is the same as:
Someone told you he's never being into gayism and your response was: "Can you exchange that for money in the bank?"

awesome11:

Obviously, it has something to do with the devil...

MzNelly:

Yeah... Yeah... So?

OmolodMilkman93:
He wants to help you out.

krissy213:



It has gained me respect and a high self esteem. Ama prrroOooOuUDdd virgin and I just need one man to pop my cherry. Just one man

PunkyVeer:
So who cares? You made your decision. You quacks need to quit shoving your medieval beliefs down people throats. It's a free world.

awesome11:


You know what?

Na beta pikin ur mama born!
I'm just proud of you.
There must still be some virtuous women out there.

cally3D:
Good for you @op!
However wat I see here as replies are people who have carelessly lost their virginity and they be like:
"This virginity thing is over-hyped"
"Who has virginity helped"
"This is a free world"
"A virgin does not guarantee a good wife" blah blah blah!
Truth is, they all have foolishly lost something so important to them and are ready to console themselves with lies, excuses and what ifs.
If u have eaten the apple, then chew it if you find it sweet! Leave others who don't want to eat yet and do not envy them! It's that simple!

mashin:
I feel conserved about this, am not writing this because am a proud type, but for the Glory of God almighty, i have stayed with my fiancee for 7 years and 6 months, we graduated from the same university, we did our traditional wedding on the 24th of October 2015, our white wedding comes up by November 7th, though we trusted each other, but i still have to confirm from my Gynaechologist, that my wife to be is a virgin @ 27, and currently running her Msc.

You too can do it to the glory of God, it pays to be faithful to God. We hope to wed next week and hope for a good job and a God fearing family.

If you practice, you can get use to it. It was hard for me, to take my mind off at initial stage, but God helped us till, we became the last one standing among our peers.

awesome11:


Sex is never a bad thing as it is an experience I'm patiently waiting for. What is the basis of your assertion that who have kept theirs wouldn't have if they had the chancd? They more often than not have the avenue to have a go at it. The key has always been SELF-CONTROL!

I'm sure you belong to a religious group; and sex out of marriage is a good thing, abi?

marlockj:


Pls I Dnt knw Wat respect is,also self esteem!!is it tangible something n where cn I exchange my gift n get it.

Because I don't understand again Ohh,this same respect Dat president wife has,Evn celebrities.

Cuz I did to us this virginity And achieve some else is of no use.

Please I need advice

awesome11:



If having self control and dignity makes me primitive, then I accept being seen as such!