EZEIGBO1OFIMO:

I'll have to be mean here. But you're the exact definition of a magina; a by- product of nonsense female idealism.
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It may tok late to teach an old dog a new trick, but we can always modify the previous one. Since you posess undying love, it would be logical to channel this " Apollonian Eros" to other non human stuff, or activities. Nerds do it all the time; Do you like programming?, strive to please programming like it was your unseen girlfriend. do you love art?, immerse yourself in a picasso-like state of nirvana. The moment you begin to channel this pure love to other things, there'd be little left for the female folk.
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Women generally like men with a passion for other things other than they themselves. Thats why women of old preferred warriors, scribes, knights. These man hve kne thing in common, love for their trade.
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lastky , start watching action movies, TV fûcks with the mind. too much of romantic nonsense gives you a meaningless utopia which doesnt exist, never existed, and never will exist.

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BUTCHCASSIDY:


Still awaiting the proof

Patience, my little darling, patience

Butch, where are you from in Nigeria? It's like most of the Nigerian population is crammed in Lagos. Every Nigerian I know in real life says they're from Lagos

PunkyVeer:


Cute.

BUTCHCASSIDY:
Oops *looks left and right* I was so enamoured in your presence I wasnt aware the others had run off

PunkyVeer:


Cute.

Would u guys just meet up already?

Reborn5:





Would u guys just meet up already?

Only if he is a true lover like us

400billionman:
I am not hopeless like you.

Next !

Lol sorry na + those who weren't hopeless didn't have to loud it, we noticed all the same #food for thought -peace

PunkyVeer:


Patience, my little darling, patience

Butch, where are you from in Nigeria? It's like most of the Nigerian population is crammed in Lagos. Every Nigerian I know in real life says they're from Lagos

Hehehehe
Naaah Im not from Lagos Im far from Lagos waaaaay up north

PunkyVeer:


Only if he is a true lover like us

Hmmmmmm

BUTCHCASSIDY:


Hehehehe
Naaah Im not from Lagos Im far from Lagos waaaaay up north

A bit vague but I'll take it

Reborn5:



Lol sorry na + those who weren't hopeless didn't have to loud it, we noticed all the same #food for thought -peace

I was not dissing you.

It is fair that if you gave too much in love in the past and got hurt. You should learn the game for future purposes.

Some people's love is actually wicked. Giving your all should be reserved after marriage.

PunkyVeer:


A bit vague but I'll take it

Yeah. For now... let's leave the specifics for later y'dig

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The force.... It's strong

BUTCHCASSIDY:


Yeah. For now... let's leave the specifics for later y'dig

Yessir!

Reborn5:

true but masking feelings just leaves u in pain later, u expect her to react one way and she does something else, then ur heart beats painfully.... sigh....really most ladies cannot

Yeah, at first it felt like I was fooling myself and there's this heartache (literally) every time she toys with your feelings but with time you'll settle into character. I advice people to mask their feelings. Girls can frustrate any guy who's romantic. So I keep the romance on "low heat" to be fired up only occasionally.

It works for me. I remember a babe who once took my sincere feelings for granted, begging me (later on) to tell her I miss her and I love her. Then I said it like a boss.

If a guy makes a girl feel irreplaceable, she's going to test the verity of that statement.

PunkyVeer:


Yessir!

hey hopeless romantic.

PunkyVeer:


Yessir!

Hehehehehe
what about you. Are U from Johannesburg, cos everyone I talk to seems to come from there

BUTCHCASSIDY:


Hehehehehe
what about you. Are U from Johannesburg, cos everyone I talk to seems to come from there

No, Pretoria.

PunkyVeer:
Lol, you & me both. So where do I sign up for the bleeding hearts club?

It's pretty simple imo, people just don't deserve true lovers like us So to hell with them if they can't appreciate realness.

You are a true lover?

TjNoobsaibot:


You are a true lover?

Of course. You doubt it?

Worst feeling....case of unrequited feelings , Sleeping and rolling round the bed, thinking of one shit... .SMH Hell No......have learnt my lessons,won't Eva happen again.

PunkyVeer:


Of course. You doubt it?

Not really

TjNoobsaibot:


Not really

Op , I luv loyal nd sincere guys lyk yu, wud luv to be a friend? Dnt change o cos someone luvx u for dat

Op I luv u for being loyal

PunkyVeer:

Guess i'll find out

PunkyVeer:


No, Pretoria.

I see. Interesting. I got some other questions but Im sure with time.......

nikkyharry:
Op I luv u for being loyal

Thats what you all say. When he asks you out you will be doing shakara

TjNoobsaibot:


Guess i'll find out

Sure

PunkyVeer:
Lol, you & me both. So where do I sign up for the bleeding hearts club?

It's pretty simple imo, people just don't deserve true lovers like us So to hell with them if they can't appreciate realness.

that makes us 3…no 2 coz now i intentionally play tough and heartless at some point.
side effect= I'm been hunted by my conscience afterward…… well its a little price to pay

once upon a song i was n still is a helpless but not hopeless romantic.

i always believe that anything worth doing is worth doing well, inasmuch this softheartedness didnt help so much in my past relationship but it really thought me how to refine myself properly

dear OP, DO NOT BE DECEIVED, i repeat DO NOT BE DECEIVED. for what rocks my boat can/may/will sink yours.
the best advice is the advice you give yourself because its born out of your being. look inwards and find solace in your soul, some may say mask your feelings, this, that. but i say 'guard your heart jealously'.

#peace

PunkyVeer:


No, Pretoria.

Noted

Reborn5:
so, gather round children and let me tell you a story. I know I am not the only guy who loves too much, and I definitely know am not the only one who has gotten hurt in the process.

I am a hopeless Romantic and it hurts like hell.. once I like a girl, I mean really like a girl, I would go out of my way for her, trust me all out, I give my all, I am there for her, I listen to her vent, I chill with her when she's ill, I tell her or love her and I mean it, name it All but then boom heartbreak. this is when it becomes annoying, because the thinking starts, I try figuring out what I did wrong, why a girl I like will tell me she can spend the rest of her life but go nack someone else... I analyze and analyse till my mind becomes weary n I get distracted in real life.... affecting my work and what not.

so in my definition, from what I have gathered I am a modern day nice guy, when I like a girl I just wanna make her happy and talk to her ever day... there maybe other girls but there is always this one girl... and the last one girl In my picture told me along the line her feelings for me became like that of a family member... somebody say ouch..

This is someone I would have done anything for according to my capability .... the girl before this I actually liked told me she wasn't ready for a relationship, and strung me along using me for emotional and other support whenever she needed and as always I was always there. then a few months later she tells me she just broke up with another bf.... and m like when exactly did u have a bf and why was I the last to know? well she didn't wanna hurt my feelings she says.... wow who knew my feelings mattered...

so maybe I have bad luck, but in my analysis my problem is simple... I love till it is taken for granted, I care too much, I don't play games and maybe it becomes boring along the line....

maybe I started this thread to vent, or probably have too much time on my hands or maybe I need to find others like me with fragile hearts, male and female alike.... where are you guys? come relate with me, come tell I am fine, and come tell me I am not alone, you who treat us this way u are also invited, come tell us why, feel free to diss me but I can't help being the way I am, but for the time being.... all ye folks with fragile hearts come tell me your stories and let's all become heartless together.

Sorry but you are setting yourself up for disappointments esp in a hell hole called Nigeria where girls and guys take advantage of such character. Under Neath it all we are all savagaes so left to me I'd say tone it down or stop it am sure you've been disappointed already. Its a dog eat dog world out here.

I used to think like you so you don't think am an a$$hole and trust me I've learnt my lesson the hard way. You don't want to be the guy the girls tell all their issues to while they go f@ck someone else and come back crying.