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Re: If U Love Slim Pretty Ladies Or Dark Chubby ones Pls Marry Your Preference by Nobody: 11:45pm On Nov 14, 2015 |
damilareoye: Okk |
Re: If U Love Slim Pretty Ladies Or Dark Chubby ones Pls Marry Your Preference by Nobody: 11:48pm On Nov 14, 2015 |
Drfinn: Who is dis guy ....are you married ... ....jst saying thank you. Ur comment is on point |
Re: If U Love Slim Pretty Ladies Or Dark Chubby ones Pls Marry Your Preference by Nobody: 11:48pm On Nov 14, 2015 |
Drfinn: Who is dis guy ....are you married? ...I hope u are not pls don't be ....jst saying thank you. Ur comment is on point |
Re: If U Love Slim Pretty Ladies Or Dark Chubby ones Pls Marry Your Preference by Drfinn: 12:04am On Nov 15, 2015 |
Zaragirl, am glad you found my contribution helpful. Should you need further advice on this issue kindly contact me. I saw a touching movie earlier today. A decent lady with a promising future, married to an old fashioned but loving young man got lured by some rich dude. She ended up not only destroying her marriage and career. She contracted HIV. The Apple always looks irresistible but once eaten it goes sour. I believe you have a bright future ahead of you. Don't mortgage it. Keep faith. The right guy will locate you not some confused married man. 4 Likes |
Re: If U Love Slim Pretty Ladies Or Dark Chubby ones Pls Marry Your Preference by Nobody: 12:21am On Nov 15, 2015 |
Drfinn: Thnx dear...y do I feel dat movie u watched is a "mount zion movie" trust my people dem no dey carry lol...I could be wrong...thnx all d same...It kinda amazing wen I told God I needed a best friend, a mentor, cos I needed some motivation is some part of my life and @ some point confused dat was wen he came alone...I was happy he was God sent cos @ first he was jst evrything I wanted, he encourages me, he motivates me, am someone crazy for education and knowledge he also gives room for dat...like we study together and I throw questions @ him even @ mid night...I was happy I found him plus I was happy he was married cos I knw no matter wat I cnt hav a crush on a married...I wanted someone mature, someone married becauseif I do a single guy instead of him being my friend, motivator etc he will become a lover lol I might start crushing on him most esp wen he is intelligent jst like dis married man because it's difficult to get a single guy dat share the same line of vision and purpose so I wanted to keep it low...plus dis days pre-marital sex is a prove of love in a relatnship and am a very strong supporter of "NO SEX" relatnship so I didn't want a single guy to cum alone...I jst wanted to stay single so as not to mess up myself in the "so called relatnship " so I prayed for a married man or an elderly person dat I see as a mentor...but now I don't understand any...dis doesn't seem like God sent... Am not always lucky with married men...we became friends and dey want something.gosh! Tiring 3 Likes |
Re: If U Love Slim Pretty Ladies Or Dark Chubby ones Pls Marry Your Preference by Drfinn: 12:36am On Nov 15, 2015 |
Zaragirl, I may not fully understand your disappointment at the turn of events with this married man. However, know that whatever happened is for a reason. Am thrilled you cherish education and knowledge. That explains the attraction between you and this man. Like I said initially it's no fault of yours neither his. I understand your frustration as regards maintaining platonic relationships with single guys. No matter how civil you both might try to be, emotions will set in. Opposites attract you. More so when it involves shared values and beliefs. There are still sensible young men out there. Hopefully, you will meet one soonest. You need some time to clear your head. You may think your prayer went unanswered. But be rest assured God is bringing someone that will be a friend, counselor, mentor, motivator etc your way. He never takes his eyes off those who look to him for help. He allowed this for a reason. Pick the lesson and move on. The movie isn't Nigerian. It's Tyler Perry's Temptation Confessions of a marriage counselor. It was quite educative. On a lighter note, you should be resting your head now . lol! Goodmorning. HAPI Sunday. 2 Likes |
Re: If U Love Slim Pretty Ladies Or Dark Chubby ones Pls Marry Your Preference by Nobody: 12:54am On Nov 15, 2015 |
zaragal: I didn't call you an id.iot. The guy obviosuly is irresponsible. He should not have gotten close to you. My problem with you was that you believed the lie he told you. He can give you the world yet he might not love you like you have assumed. Think deeply about this and ask yourself what type of man would maintain a relationship with a slim fair lady knowing that she id his weakness. Also, The title of your thread suggested to me that you are making excuses for him like the attraction he has for you is not his fault, probably it wouldn't have happened if he had married a slim lady. I believe you might likely end up with him(Yes, you will because you feel bad for the choice he has made) . Don't you think that it is very convenient of him to have gotten married to not just a dark lady, a chubby one too . Ask yourself what type of man would marry a woman who is a complete opposite of what he likes in a woman, don't you think that is unfair and cruel on the poor lady? |
Re: If U Love Slim Pretty Ladies Or Dark Chubby ones Pls Marry Your Preference by Nobody: 12:55am On Nov 15, 2015 |
Drfinn: It is his fault. If he cared for his marriage and his wife, he would have created a boundary 1 Like |
Re: If U Love Slim Pretty Ladies Or Dark Chubby ones Pls Marry Your Preference by itstpia8: 1:08am On Nov 15, 2015 |
zaragal: aunty, men will say anything if they are trying to bed a woman. when he's done with you, the next in line may be a dark chubby or dark slim or light chubby or another light slim and he'll tell her/them whatever is needed to get them to believe he's not a womanizer. if you like, don't find your own man, keep opening d.umb threads here. |
Re: If U Love Slim Pretty Ladies Or Dark Chubby ones Pls Marry Your Preference by Youngpo413: 6:18am On Nov 15, 2015 |
spicy244:lol,I no be peak milk o...happy sunday. |
Re: If U Love Slim Pretty Ladies Or Dark Chubby ones Pls Marry Your Preference by Youngpo413: 6:18am On Nov 15, 2015 |
spicy244:lol,I no peak milk o...happy sunday. |
Re: If U Love Slim Pretty Ladies Or Dark Chubby ones Pls Marry Your Preference by femi4: 6:27am On Nov 15, 2015 |
zaragal:You can't need a married man or get so attached to him and you think some feelings won't develop. If you really want to be motivated academically, look out for your female course mate that are brilliant. Get close to them, let them motivate and help you. This goes beyond the shape of his wife, we men can give you 1001 excuses why you should allow us to have sex with you |
Re: If U Love Slim Pretty Ladies Or Dark Chubby ones Pls Marry Your Preference by ipledge10(m): 6:27am On Nov 15, 2015 |
halfrica:you are inexperience ..the best thing is to push him off 1 Like |
Re: If U Love Slim Pretty Ladies Or Dark Chubby ones Pls Marry Your Preference by femi4: 6:36am On Nov 15, 2015 |
halfrica:Then, you must be living with your grandmother. Though the best thing is to push him off 1 Like |
Re: If U Love Slim Pretty Ladies Or Dark Chubby ones Pls Marry Your Preference by Bonethugss: 7:08am On Nov 15, 2015 |
No offence intended, but from your post you seem to have fallen for him. Or maybe you are just fond of him. The truth is that the more time you spend with someone of the opposite sex, the more the laws of attraction take place. I would recommend you keep your distance, find another tutor. It is never ideal to get too close to a married man, the brain works funny, soon you will get emotionally attached (if you aren't already). In other news @DrFinn pls are you married, if no... Hmmm that would be interesting... |
Re: If U Love Slim Pretty Ladies Or Dark Chubby ones Pls Marry Your Preference by Nobody: 7:26am On Nov 15, 2015 |
ipledge10: Push him off She cant push him off The man has showned a sign he is ready to cheat on d wife so even if op push him away he wud cheat wit anoda lady Once a man can start developing feelins for anoda woman it takes d grace of God to stop All am saying his she shdnt push him off she can as well save his marriage Why u humans self centered so its bad again to help save ones marriage ?? so op shd push him away wil dat stop him from cheatin on his wife with anoda entire lady?? |
Re: If U Love Slim Pretty Ladies Or Dark Chubby ones Pls Marry Your Preference by qhutetomsel(f): 7:26am On Nov 15, 2015 |
Youngpo413:excuse me did u read d part she said he was her tutor, nd d guy was d one making advances.. why can't we blame d guy who obviously has a woman at home. calling her degrading names is uncalled for.. 2 Likes |
Re: If U Love Slim Pretty Ladies Or Dark Chubby ones Pls Marry Your Preference by Youngpo413: 7:32am On Nov 15, 2015 |
qhutetomsel:my apologies. |
Re: If U Love Slim Pretty Ladies Or Dark Chubby ones Pls Marry Your Preference by Nobody: 7:40am On Nov 15, 2015 |
Drfinn: |
Re: If U Love Slim Pretty Ladies Or Dark Chubby ones Pls Marry Your Preference by Nobody: 7:42am On Nov 15, 2015 |
Drfinn: Thnx a million |
Re: If U Love Slim Pretty Ladies Or Dark Chubby ones Pls Marry Your Preference by Nobody: 7:48am On Nov 15, 2015 |
Bonethugss:Thnx haven't talked to him...have kept my distance ever since...still haven't picked his calls 1 Like |
Re: If U Love Slim Pretty Ladies Or Dark Chubby ones Pls Marry Your Preference by spicy244(f): 7:56am On Nov 15, 2015 |
Re: If U Love Slim Pretty Ladies Or Dark Chubby ones Pls Marry Your Preference by Nobody: 8:05am On Nov 15, 2015 |
u too na runz girl jor why all these comments... the man is married is enough reason to stay off him... what does he teach u that another person cant teach you? have u ever heard of T.T before? (Teaching to Touching). |
Re: If U Love Slim Pretty Ladies Or Dark Chubby ones Pls Marry Your Preference by Nobody: 8:08am On Nov 15, 2015 |
noblemails: Get some sense jare...it's early Sunday morning |
Re: If U Love Slim Pretty Ladies Or Dark Chubby ones Pls Marry Your Preference by ipledge10(m): 8:31am On Nov 15, 2015 |
halfrica:she should be more concerned about herself...I don't trust d op if she doesn't stop seeing him |
Re: If U Love Slim Pretty Ladies Or Dark Chubby ones Pls Marry Your Preference by Nobody: 8:48am On Nov 15, 2015 |
ipledge10: Hmmmm...Wat language do I speak so u cn understand have stopped seeing him |
Re: If U Love Slim Pretty Ladies Or Dark Chubby ones Pls Marry Your Preference by Nobody: 8:52am On Nov 15, 2015 |
halfrica:This one would be fat... bet! |
Re: If U Love Slim Pretty Ladies Or Dark Chubby ones Pls Marry Your Preference by Nobody: 8:53am On Nov 15, 2015 |
Re: If U Love Slim Pretty Ladies Or Dark Chubby ones Pls Marry Your Preference by Nobody: 8:57am On Nov 15, 2015 |
zaragal: Lala no Geh ur time >_< |
Re: If U Love Slim Pretty Ladies Or Dark Chubby ones Pls Marry Your Preference by Nobody: 8:58am On Nov 15, 2015 |
pinceprinz: Mtcheeeewwww.... ..gerrahere |
Re: If U Love Slim Pretty Ladies Or Dark Chubby ones Pls Marry Your Preference by Nobody: 8:58am On Nov 15, 2015 |
Youngpo413: This one had a bad night... bet |
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