@poster: u can move in, but dont return here lamenting ow bad guys are, a word is enough

This people are dating for God's sake and whether she leaves her clothes there or not will get to sleep some day.What's all this talk about fucking and dumping?

Girl, Don't let this people spoil that beautiful relationship you have out there,savour every minute while it last.

mi2009:

Refrain from posting,Just quietly read the posts on the subject matter and learn some lessons. If you do so, You won't be coming back here crying blue murder.



First of all, I am not stupid in the way of education, but naive to the way of African etiquette. The nigerian customs are different from American culture. I am an American woman dating a man from Africa. I have dated many American guys. I am not a bad looking girl. I get dates all the time. Don't ever think that I have to settle for this guy. I do have other options. I didn't mention this before, but I know a lot of women who are living with their boyfriend and they end up marrying them (meaning the guy is taking care of the girl). On the same token, I know guys that don't marry their girlfriend who are not staying together. Everyones situation is different. Some of you guys seen so tough, but I know some girls that could easily tame that. Not every girl end up being dumped and hurt. You guys sometimes become victims of love too. Never forget that.

Get me right I never meant to impugn you,I was just speaking from my own perspective as a Nigerian(Didnt even know you weren't a Nigerian).
Am glad you know our custom differs seriously from yours.

@poster

don't u have a house
or is he a dry cleaner?

@ Maray,u are the funniest person i have ever met.Wont tell u why

I didn't know the site was only for Naija. Please forgive me.