nairalander what is your opinion on this, do you good or bad sex has an impact on the longevity of marriage? In the sense that is it advisable to know how good or bad your partner is before getting married or not?

ugo_2u:

nairalander what is your opinion on this, do you good or bad sex has an impact on the longevity of marriage? In the sense that is it advisable to know how good or bad your partner is before getting married or not?

Yes i know its against God's will but i must test drive dat shyte. Lol, dnt want to end up wit an impotent dude abeg. We r all sinners anyways so God will 4give. Lol

tope5000:

Yes i know its against God's will but i must test drive dat shyte. Lol, dnt want to end up wit an impotent dude abeg. We r all sinners anyways so God will 4give. Lol

Thatz the spirit, babes.
It's a bank holiday tomorrow. . . . . .Can i cum over for some test driving??

~Sauron~:

Thatz the spirit, babes.
It's a bank holiday tomorrow. . . . . .Can i cum over for some test driving??

Rofl. . .u can cum over anytime u want, but i think its my turn to cum over o

This has always been a big debate in the church. Follow your instinct, your heart is where your God stays.
For me . I test drove my property before marriage o and we are still strong after 7yrs of dating and 4yrs into marriage.

tope5000:

Yes i know its against God's will but i must test drive dat shyte. Lol, dnt want to end up wit an impotent dude abeg. We r all sinners anyways so God will 4give. Lol

pls are u d same as tope2000 or another person?

There are no laid down recipes in marriage.
It worked for some,it did not work for others.whatever rocks ur boat.
Personally,i wud say a little testing aint bad.

I must test drive before marriage. No way around that for me.

annyplenty:

pls are u d same as tope2000 or another person?

Yep

tope5000:

Yes i know its against God's will but i must test drive dat shyte. Lol, dnt want to end up wit an impotent dude abeg. We r all sinners anyways so God will 4give. Lol

SISTER TOPE!!!! I go tell pastor o!!! 

biina:

SISTER TOPE!!!! I go tell pastor o!!! 

Lol . . . . can pastor swear to me that his wife was a virgin when he married her

I think the problems stems from the questioned sincerity when you start test driving every bf/gf, even when you have no intention of marriage.
One has to draw the line somewhere, and where it is drawn becomes an individual choice.

tope5000:

Lol . . . . can pastor swear to me that his wife was a virgin when he married her

Have you not heard that it is written: do as I say, don't do as I do!

@ 'sister' Tope
When is the recommended point for test driving?

@ topic,
 

biina:

@ 'sister' Tope
When is the recommended point for test driving?

Lol . . .well when they are both ready, i guess

ifyalways:

There are no laid down recipes in marriage.
It worked for some,it did not work for others.whatever rocks ur boat.
Personally,i wud say a little testing aint bad.

gbam!!!, i so agree, different strokes, for different folks, . . .what ever rocks ur boat, . . . .

I think sex before helps You dont want to end up with a person not sexually compatible unless you intend to cheat, divorce or remain unhappy for the next 50 years of your life

Thats my point of view

TOYOSI20:

gbam!!!, i so agree, different strokes, for different folks, . . .what ever rocks ur boat, . . . .

you can rock my boat anytime anyday.

oh wait, what was the thread about again.

dayokanu:

I think sex before helps You dont want to end up with a person not sexually compatible unless you intend to cheat, divorce or remain unhappy for the next 50 years of your life

Thats my point of view

do you have to engage in the act itself to know if you are sexually compatible?

that seems like a flimsy excuse. People have sex before marriage because they love to bust a nut. nothing much.

bawomolo:

that seems like a flimsy excuse. People have sex before marriage because they love to bust a nut. nothing much.

ahhaha ma nigga you got that right. these fornicating ass niggas always looking for excuses to nutt.

bawomolo:


do you have to engage in the act itself to know if you are sexually compatible?

that seems like a flimsy excuse. People have sex before marriage because they love to bust a nut. nothing much.

Never did I expect this from you.

bawomolo:

you can rock my boat anytime anyday.

oh wait, what was the thread about again.

LOL!!, . . . .u too funny oo. . .shay na the Cavs dey make u dizzy ni??

Peroxide, sharap dia. Can u even count how many women u've test drive?

TOYOSI20:

LOL!!, . . . .u too funny oo. . .shay na the Cavs dey make u dizzy ni??

kobe better pass Lebron jo. I still haven't gotten ova that shot on Friday. Was this close to Cardiac arrest o

stillwater:

Never did I expect this from you.

abi i dey lie

Sex Before.

I need to test what I'd be spending the rest of my life driving. If he needs more oil or if the oil is just right.

bawomolo:


abi i dey lie  

Naaa. It was perfect the way you framed the whole "test drive craze". You deserve a medal.

bawomolo:

kobe better pass Lebron jo. I still haven't gotten ova that shot on Friday. Was this close to Cardiac arrest o

Aint that the truth. . . . . .thats shot was like WOAH, . . i was like its A-M-A-Z-I-N-G!!, LOL!!

It just goes to show that one should never underestimate the power of catching and shooting, it was like his airness all over again, . . .

So U like Gators also believe in "test driving" ehn??, o ma ga fun yin oo, , . . .

TOYOSI20:



So U like Gators also believe in "test driving" ehn??, o ma ga fun yin oo, , . . .

They don't call me esin baba for nothing.

as for gators and tope, those two need to stop fronting.

Tope, come on baby you know I never do tha test driving stuff.

I believe i test driving too

My little sister and her fiance do not even kiss. They do not want to fall into temptation but they love each other dearly. As for me I wanted to but my husband just whined and whined. I ended up giving in and rationalized it somehow. I cannot call anybody a sinner because I failed in that aspect myself.

your sister try. no be me.

Kissssses