Did you just say you are a single mother of three?

$osisi:

does the poster have kids?
I'm almost certain she does.
Which mother wants her young son entangled with an older woman and one who has kids already?
who prays for all that baggage and drama for their beloved son ?

Treetop20:

lol

$osisi:


My dear see me see motorcycle
It;s not hard to figure out why the mother doesn't want this woman near her son.
She probably shops in the big and tall knowing how massive those Lousiana girls can be

oh God!

follypimpi:

If the dude is raised in 9IJA it will be very difficult for the Mum to approve your union with him,NO Mother will watch his 1st child who happen to be a SON to get married to a Mother of 3 and whose also Older as well regardless of how Happy y'all are.

$osisi:


My dear see me see motorcycle
It;s not hard to figure out why the mother doesn't want this woman near her son.
She probably shops in the big and tall knowing how massive those Lousiana girls can be

$osisi:

does the poster have kids?
I'm almost certain she does.
Which mother wants her young son entangled with an older woman and one who has kids already?
who prays for all that baggage and drama for their beloved son ?

bluespice:

dead!!!!!
haba thats harsh nau
we cant go slinging words like this about
true true
her having kids and being older is certainly going to be a problem


@ poster, ummm i guess its all out in the open listening to blundering fools like sillyme is at ur own peril
seriously a non nigerian that derives pleasure in talking down nigerians, nigeria as a culture and the entire nigerian culture when she has absolutely no idea who or what she's talking about is surely not the kind of sounding board u need rite now
not that the unnecessarily rude nigerians here are any good to u either im just saying u need to be wise enough to filter what u want rite now
from the ton of unnecessay info uve got here
good luck ma'am
i really wish u goodluck

sillyme:


who said that i'm not nigerian?

can i not be the only nigerian who actually has the guts to speak the truth about this f'd up culture?

look at the stupid advice and judgemental fools on this post. like they haven't done anything unsavoury in their lives. if anything, half of these men have tried to rape their niece and half these women have fukced another woman's man.

but no, they will still come down on you like a ton of bricks for daring to marry an nigerian man, when you are AA and *shock horror* have kids.

how many of these women have illegitimate children and they are looking down on you?

anyway, like i say, listen to these baboons at your own peril.

i've thought about leaving these idiots be on this forum so many times. but everytime i log on they prove me right.

they will never change.

they yorubas wonder why they can't prosper when everytime they cuss someone it's a curse. an actual CURSE! and to top it off, they call themselves religious!!

how can you expect your fellow country men to prosper, when everytime you have a disagreement with someone, they put a curse on you?

they will all attack me for making these points, and that is the reason why the nigerian diaspora laugh at the idea of going 'home'. why should they leave the comfort of the west for intermittent electricity, poverty all around them, extreme corruption (police, politicians), no 999 services, unclean hospitals, bad education.


A FUKCING JOKE OF A NATION


these words will hurt, but retaliating against me isn't going to solve anything

best look at YOURSELVES FIRST.

DONE.

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the point here is that the poster doesn't see anything in her age and having three kids out of wedlock as one of the issues. Its Yoruba "culture" in her mind that is the problem. There is no correlation between some of his siblings not being allowed to marry Igbos or vice-versa cos she is neither Igbo nor Nigerian. Her greatest challenges are how to convince her man's family that a woman who's got three kids and some what older is good for him and his family. It seems she doesn't have a clue on how marriages work in Nigeria. She thinks that a mama boy for that matter would marry her without her mother's consent. This is "impossicant" unless she means secret marriage without the knowledge of the parents. Ask the guy how many of his siblings got married to someone who had kids from previous relationships. Maybe , nada, nil. zilch. If we are taking about a kid, it might be understandable to his parents, but three will be a big snag.

Ibukun O:

I'm only hearing a culture that refuses to advance thinking. Prejudices against those that look like you, Speechless,

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_{I'm only hearing a culture that refuses to advance thinking. Prejudices against those that look like you, Speechless,} Another insular American talking to the rest of the other world . I thought Sarah Palin had few siblings who derived joy in mediocrity. This sounds like another Sarah calling Africa a country. You really need a lot of Geography 101 assignment make overs to do.