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Re: Please Help! My Girlfriend Has Really Changed by untainted: 6:08am On Dec 26, 2015 |
OP, I seriously beg you to go with this guy's advice. Don't FEAR! pharmroyle: pharmroyle: |
Re: Please Help! My Girlfriend Has Really Changed by timmyblast(m): 6:56am On Dec 26, 2015 |
This is the CHANGE season, thank your star she is just your girl friend. But wait first, you guys have been dating for 2 years maybe she is expecting you to pop the question. |
Re: Please Help! My Girlfriend Has Really Changed by Qualer: 7:02am On Dec 26, 2015 |
waley007:
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Re: Please Help! My Girlfriend Has Really Changed by segzy0i(m): 7:10am On Dec 26, 2015 |
Hmmmm Bros free her she has turn u 2 side chick now u re a man let her go if shes nt willing to do what u want bros shes showing u a green lite of an irresponsible wyf now so wake up |
Re: Please Help! My Girlfriend Has Really Changed by Vikky014(f): 7:25am On Dec 26, 2015 |
All these boyfriend girlfriend gist self. my advice to u is u shld focus on ur future if u r nt yet ready for marriage nt girlfriend...if i ws created a man i wunt hv time for girlfriend drama. i dnt evn hv dt time as a girl slf |
Re: Please Help! My Girlfriend Has Really Changed by waley007(m): 7:48am On Dec 26, 2015 |
jemype:thanks bro,tho I always wish I can control mysef not talking to her but I find mysef still talkin to her afta some days,I trully love her and she knows dis,attimes I feel she takes me for granted cos she knows I love her...I always try to let go of her but I find it difficult.I av talked to her several times,even wen she came to my place my mum talked to her too also my dad on phone...but yet I don't understand her behaviour anymore...dis is a woman I already planned marriage wit,infact I asked her to use my pics on WhatsApp,but she wouldnt, she told me I want to drive her toasters away,can u imagine 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help! My Girlfriend Has Really Changed by Nobody: 8:01am On Dec 26, 2015 |
pharmroyle: Guy, i salute you. Am currently sailing in dis same ship. I will apply this your post to my own problem too... |
Re: Please Help! My Girlfriend Has Really Changed by oyindare(m): 8:13am On Dec 26, 2015 |
Good question my friend...u get mouth delectablegyal: |
Re: Please Help! My Girlfriend Has Really Changed by summerflame(m): 8:15am On Dec 26, 2015 |
seriously OP, u are a fool and not even man enough. A real man takes charge and is always in charge. Why begging for love when there are other spinsters awaiting your proposals? Show her the BRT red card lane and pull yourself together, a better companion and a decent girl is very close to your door step. Stop stalking a hoe, it will be painful if she gives u a red card herself, it will definitely makes u a pvssy, show her the red card yourself and be a champion. In conclusion, relationship is a 2 way door, it is either u come in or you go out for another person to come in and have a space. Thank me later next year . NB - Not all these NL girls that are giving you advices are loyal as well, they will soon post their and ask we guys to help them appeal to their bf for their infidelity 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help! My Girlfriend Has Really Changed by misspicy(f): 8:18am On Dec 26, 2015 |
discoprophet:and who told you delectable is a girl?that is a troll with identity malfunctions,she could be a guy tomorrow seems you believe everything you read online merry xmas |
Re: Please Help! My Girlfriend Has Really Changed by Nobody: 8:19am On Dec 26, 2015 |
To begin with, I doubt ur gf 's cheating on u. U guys have been dating for two years, yeah? That's some good time. Perhaps, she's gotten a bit bored.. It's a phase, don't worry. But the sad thing seems to be that this friend of hers is feeding her with trash. She wants to explore other options now. I think she's even attracted to one of those her numerous admirers. It happens sometimes. Her recent attitude's just an affront. She's allowing those guys flocking around her to get into her head. She feels she's got nothing to lose should u break up with her now. There's a guy to fall back to. In fact, she may just be intentionally or subconsciously pushing u to break up with her, so she kicks off with the next guy, with less guilt. I think she still loves u, though. But she's being really silly. She's trying to destroy her relationship she's built over 2 yrs because she feels there's a better guy out there. If things are to work out fine between the both of u, then u've got to give her a wide berth,for her to come to terms with what she wants on her own. Stop paying her attention. Stop calling, texting and visiting. She'll show concern, but be slow to allow things get back to normal. Allow her have a feel of what it would look like to lose u. Allow her press harder to save ur relationship. If she doesn't put in much effort, then, pls... Let her go. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help! My Girlfriend Has Really Changed by Nobody: 8:23am On Dec 26, 2015 |
bronzegoddess: If her heart is not in it anymore, whats the use then? I suggest the OP lrts her know she's disappointing him and if no headway, he should just pack his load and move. Similar thing happened to me.. I was just still there trying to salvage, my friends told me to leave but i was still persevering. Until she just stopped contacts with me. Thats how ladies just destroy things that took time to build... |
Re: Please Help! My Girlfriend Has Really Changed by Nobody: 8:24am On Dec 26, 2015 |
Oliviaarims: She doesn't love the dude anymore.. Not a case of being silly here..you're a female you are supposed to know the dynamics of these things |
Re: Please Help! My Girlfriend Has Really Changed by Nobody: 8:27am On Dec 26, 2015 |
waley007: Yes, yes... She's taking u for granted. U love her so much and she knows it. She feels u'd always be there... Available for her anytime any day. Rather than be extremely grateful for that, she's toying with u. U sure deserve more than that. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help! My Girlfriend Has Really Changed by Nobody: 8:31am On Dec 26, 2015 |
NakedSnake: Yes, it's a possibility that she doesn't love him anymore. But the OP claims to love her very much, therefore, he needs to find out for certain if she's still worth fighting for. If after that, he realises that her love for him has gone cold, then he'd most definitely move on, knowing there's nothing for him in the relationship anymore. When the love's dead! |
Re: Please Help! My Girlfriend Has Really Changed by yonextbf: 8:55am On Dec 26, 2015 |
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Re: Please Help! My Girlfriend Has Really Changed by lalasticlala(m): 8:59am On Dec 26, 2015 |
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Re: Please Help! My Girlfriend Has Really Changed by PrinceChester: 9:10am On Dec 26, 2015 |
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Re: Please Help! My Girlfriend Has Really Changed by tens4real(m): 9:34am On Dec 26, 2015 |
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Re: Please Help! My Girlfriend Has Really Changed by BuddhaPalm(m): 10:41am On Dec 26, 2015 |
waley007: Deep down, you already know what's up, but you don't want to believe it. |
Re: Please Help! My Girlfriend Has Really Changed by Nobody: 10:49am On Dec 26, 2015 |
Oliviaarims:Wow Didn't know Ure capable of writing long posts |
Re: Please Help! My Girlfriend Has Really Changed by Nobody: 10:52am On Dec 26, 2015 |
BUTCHCASSIDY:Lol. Why'd u assume that? |
Re: Please Help! My Girlfriend Has Really Changed by psalm1man(m): 10:53am On Dec 26, 2015 |
Enough have been said already, get busy yourself, go out there on some self discovery (lol), for real, hang out with your friends the more and do stuffs you enjoy. This will allow you to stop the sobbing. We always want things we don't have. Ease the attention and care a bit. You giving her that TOO much. If she 'Hi' you, take a while to respond, intentionally miss her call, if she wants to see you...form 'busy-ness' for her. You still yourself bro, buh jst taking measures. QUE SERA SERA, always remember that! 1 Like |
Re: Please Help! My Girlfriend Has Really Changed by lolaluv1(f): 10:54am On Dec 26, 2015 |
You seem controlling.... |
Re: Please Help! My Girlfriend Has Really Changed by jemype(m): 10:54am On Dec 26, 2015 |
waley007:bro I was going thru the exact same thing as u. I wanted marriage despite everybodys advice but she was acting up. it. almost brought out the beast. in me till sm1 adviced me to giv her distance and see her reaction. i didnt break up with her or anything I jus gave her distance without letting her know my stance in the relationship. I worked on myself by making myself look more attractive, reading more books and body building. also practiced. how to listen more. men she calls me every morning now after she has seen that all these guys want is the colour of her pant. most of them only hv temporary plans. I overloved mine too and it was affecting my whole psyche. what I will tell u I discovered is that marriage is "for better. for worse" and the last thing u want to do is to make "permanent plans with temporary people". forget all the familys meeting and all because they wont leave with u when u are married eventually. and the last thing u want is a divorce. if u dont like any habit or thing she is doing tell her to choose between you and those suitors who she really loves and u will see the true woman you are dating that moment. if u see that both of u are incompatible end it swiftly and calm. It. may be hard but u have to brace up cuz u are the man and men make decisions women hold the home. friend its a. mans world always remember. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help! My Girlfriend Has Really Changed by Nobody: 10:57am On Dec 26, 2015 |
Oliviaarims:U usually keep it short and sweet but this right here. .... U made plenty sense sha |
Re: Please Help! My Girlfriend Has Really Changed by Nobody: 10:59am On Dec 26, 2015 |
BUTCHCASSIDY:Thanks. |
Re: Please Help! My Girlfriend Has Really Changed by cashcity: 11:11am On Dec 26, 2015 |
like the first commenter said.. have u started fvckin her.if yes pls increase the no of time u sleeps wit her. if no then stop calling her ur girlfriend from today. it will save u a lot of hrtbreak. distance urself from her. |
Re: Please Help! My Girlfriend Has Really Changed by Karleb(m): 11:12am On Dec 26, 2015 |
This thread really disgusts me. I mean cut the "I really love her" crap already. |
Re: Please Help! My Girlfriend Has Really Changed by odaniel1(m): 11:32am On Dec 26, 2015 |
F**k all dt "be-a-man-and-try-to-resolve-this" everyone comin on here's sayin! Dude, u jst lost ur woman. No offence homie but dx hoes aint loyal bruv. Had d same experience with a reltnshp of 5yrs. But I cn tell u somfn bruv, women and religion? Dy abt 2 b d two worst things 2 happen to Mankind. |
Re: Please Help! My Girlfriend Has Really Changed by tommychow(m): 11:35am On Dec 26, 2015 |
I beg you, don't marry a woman who has poor self control over peer pressure. One of the traits of a keeper is her ability to cut off any and every friend to make the relationship work. People go as far as cutting off family members. Guy, if she's very reluctant now after few years of being together, what makes you think it will be better years later? Every marriage gets boring and partners will definitely wanna feel the spark again and think of cheating, that's when maturity and self control kicks in, NOT LOVE. She's showing you a bloody red flag. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Please Help! My Girlfriend Has Really Changed by Justbeingreal(m): 1:33pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
pharmroyle:100% on point |
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