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Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by MrLP: 12:38pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
StPete: wow....it was dec last year truly. lol. you are so smart. i wish her luck...... moving ahead..deleted all her contacts and all messages so i dont get tempted to call again. even call records. the only way i can have any of it back again is if she ever calls me or i ask for it again in person. which is most definitely not likely... 18 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by misspicy(f): 12:55pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
The babe has a lot of niggas on her radar...Mr move on 4 Likes |
Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by biz2get(m): 1:02pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Intrepid01: ahahah this is amazing ... 4 Likes |
Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by happyjuliet(f): 1:12pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Op u just dey fall ur other fellow guys hand sha... see d can stress way u pass thru just becoz of a lady, dat lady does not deserve those can of treatment u are giving her, some ladies are just, move on d right person will come along. 1 Like |
Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by Nobody: 1:18pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Evathyst:Haha! you gave him the best advice jaweh! |
Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by Phrankin(m): 1:35pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
The OP is the type of guy that I would love to have as a boyfriend. God fearing, nice, a gentleman, drives a car and above all very caring and generous. Now to my advice : go on your knees before her and apologize for. ...? Just apologize. OK on a serious note, Honestly, if it was me, I would've done the same thing as the girl. Imagine all the red lights he received from the girl, he still didn't get it. She told you she had a boyfriend, you didn't get it; she ignored you, you still didn't get it. What else do you expect from the girl. Guys should learn not to force themselves on a girl else you get what the OP is getting ie frustration. 4 Likes |
Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by kaziblake(f): 1:35pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Don't call her again till she comes back even if you see her, ignore her,if she really likes you,she will apologise to you. 5 Likes |
Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by Phrankin(m): 1:37pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
MrLP:if that's the case, then why are you boring us with this cockk and pusssy story? 1 Like |
Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by DipoDee: 3:28pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Intrepid01: As sad as this is, it is the whole truth. I wonder at the kind/breed of hungry girls swarming the whole place. They are never satisfied with what their parents can offer, they are also not satisfied with their own money if they have a job, always hungry, always decietful and playing Smart; in all of their gross stupidity. A pity, really. 10 Likes |
Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by ColeworldMD(m): 3:41pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
OP either you're ugly, rich & extremely patient or u're just well.. A GOOF! Rule no. 1 thou shall not profess their love too early until the opposite sex admits to the same or shows positive signs of interest. OP u're obviously a learner, these are experiences u should have gained in skool. I was once in ur shoes & I know exactly what u feel, unfortunately not all of us are born with such charms & charisma. I mean u didn't even insult her, rather only stating the obvious. I think she saw u as immature & easy so she took advantage of u. Now she feels like she's tired of u besides since she's working she doesn't really need ur money. My advice is to let go, if she had any atom of like for u she will come back and if she does try to be friends first before escalating from there. And never forget rule number one. The fact is it's difficult to convince ppl to like or love u what u can do is hope there like u a little and then build on that. Nonetheless if I had the type of ur patience bro I would rule the world talk less of girls. 7 Likes |
Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by AbuadStudent(m): 4:11pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
You Goofed. You were a MAGA, and a MUGU tempoarily! I know you probably still love the girl, so you need to garner the strength to let her go! 4 Likes |
Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by demzylahot(m): 4:39pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Evathyst:I tire for d niggur o.. |
Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by Mcslize: 5:01pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Obudupikin: Pls can we get in touch on PMs? You could be of help on one particular damsel forming hard to get. I inspired when I saw this your post. Help a Nigga out! 1 Like |
Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by Nobody: 5:10pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
MrLP:stop being stupid boy; do u just fall "in love" with someone becos of looks? What is it about her (from what U'v wrote) that will make u Love her? This is where u children get it wrong.... U don't just Love someone for no reason; u should see reasons to Love someone; u were Lust my brother; thanks to God u out... What u should have done (in case of subsequent time). Lay the card straight ; tell her u want sex; tell her U'll pay her; she gives her price; u pay and sex, afterwards ur body will calm down; u delete her contact from ur fone. If she doesn't respond ; still delete her contact 4rm ur fone.. Many Ladies are bitches (she is obviously one), that's how dey like it, that's how U should treat them.... N/B : can bet u with my most valuable asset; that hoe sleeps with men 4 money ; I think u deserve better Good luck in ur future endeavour... 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by MrLP: 5:15pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
ColeworldMD:i am a normal average Nigerian and i am far from ugly. this babe have not said yes hence anything i do or choose to do is my business....she wasnt forcing me. i have seen guy go tru much more stress and later have the babe to their full control. if we were "dating"i would have understood most of what the guys are spilling here. this is not about maga...what have i spent? It's normal for babes tk be difficult at first.... i sent that message to her when my level of patience expired. that message was too see her reactions. she is still childish with her acts...i really liked her so i have to cope to a fault with her childishness. afterall im the one after her. thanks bro 1 Like |
Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by ellafuchsiaordi(f): 5:33pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
..naaah..yhu didn't goof at all..yhu even allowed her manipulate yhu for too long self..even a blind man can see dat yhu were being used..pls move on with ur life.. 2 Likes |
Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by Nobody: 5:39pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
OP, the message you sent to her was beautiful up until i read the "cos i love you part" Niqqa what the fvck where you thinking, lol. But on a serious note, you did the right thing 7/10... Would have been a 10/10 if you didnt say that love thing. 4 Likes |
Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by Walesadeyemi(m): 5:53pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
First question: when did you start having gfs Coz most of us experienced this when we were 18/19 Secondly: don't you have male friends that would have advised you against all this silly stuffs that you did or maybe you hid it from them. I probably wouldn't have someone like you as a friend though Coz you would dull me. Anyways, women are not to be taken serious, they only like proud and mean guys. Bro next time any babe sends you on an errand, tell her to come with you or else you nothing for her except she's your wife. When she starts forming that she doesn't wanna go out when you guys have planned on going out. reply her immediately with "thank God I'm even tired sef". Call her twice, so she wouldn't feel you flashed her and so on Don't be too clingy and stop acting like a pvssy. No girl wants to date a pvssy. How I wish I know you personally, I for yab you die. Pls start acting like the BOSS. 24 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by ucheHapers(m): 5:53pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Bros, one bottle of Heineken for you ...U said my mind... quote author=douchesnozzle post=41639977]After ur so called outburst u still called her?? That's where u got it wrong. What I do to such ladies is to activate the ignore button. By activating the ignore button I mean deleting all contacts on my phone ND whatsapp. I don't add ladies on bbm so this method works without the lady knowing I deleted her. This action of mine works 9 out of 10times. I had this girl who was proving hard to get besides that was taking me for granted. I just simply deleted her contacts ND never chatted her again. She called after a month of not hearing from me. To cut long story short I just told her I was too busy to call her. That was the beginning of another episode. The same girl that always give excuses when we were supposed to hangout started making frantic efforts to hangout with me. You didn't have to shred her on whatsapp as this paints a picture of frustration, activating the ignore button would have done the trick. But this trick only works for guys who are well to do. If you are a broke guy ND u try this OYO go be ur pseudonym.. [/quote] 2 Likes |
Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by MrLP: 6:05pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Obudupikin: i already made the decision of not calling her again...and i will simply ignore her when i come across her again. i posted this online after i made that decision. the essence of the message i sent was to see her reactions. if she was for real...she would have defended hersef instead of blocking and deleting me. at least at first... i think she knew i was tired of her acts and decided no point keeping me in abeyance. the truth is if she really gives a damn.....she will call or text sooner or later. aint making any moves again. after the screen shot below. she blocked me on whatsapp too. she swore i will never get a babe cos of the way i talk. that was y i sent the below. she said my exes came and went cos of the way i talk....that my words are too heavy. i have only had 2/serious relationships which i told her about. first left me cos i graduated and i was an hindrance to her concentrating on religious stuffs and studies. she came back a yr late...thats after she graduated but it was too late. 2nd went to serve in ABJ...that was were she got lost. i wonder what she meant by they come and go cos of my attitude. 3 Likes
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Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by Obudupikin: 6:14pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
MrLP: Except you delete her number from your phone,you will likely contact her again. Well,ur decision to forgone her is probably the best. You can direct your attention and affection to someone that deserves it. 2 Likes |
Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by 49cents(m): 6:26pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
cruzita: thats not love but that is trashy foolishness 3 Likes |
Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by Sexiestcrown(m): 6:28pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
I "KNEE" 4RM D BEGINNING DAT READING DIS WOULD BE A WASTE OF TYM. N U DIDN'T DISAPPOINT ME. *SCADUSH* |
Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by koboko69: 6:31pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Obudupikin:Na so 1 Like |
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Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by MrLP: 6:41pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Obudupikin:i already did all that...if u scroll up. i just have the grabs on my phone because i sent it to my guys that have met the babe. |
Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by ColeworldMD(m): 8:59pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
MrLP:sorry if we're sounding harsh but we have to look out for our fellow bro. Truth is bitter & we have to spill it to protect other bros from being hurt just like u're hurting now. It's okay for girls to be defensive but in ur case she was manipulating u they are different. She wasn't even willing to be ur friend. The same girl u claim is "childish" is the one sending u up & down. She's ur future gf not ur future kid sister that u have to look after. Please follow our advice it's heartbreaking to see a fellow bro being taken advantage of in the name of "love". In ur case it's called infatuation/crush the difference many are yet to understand. The only way to learn about these things is from mistakes. So keep trying but make sure u're learning the hard lessons. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by Nancywill(f): 11:52pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Love can actually turn someone in2 a dummy. Sometimes when you love someone, what yu get in return is the reverse. Never knew this kinda guys do exist again. Thought their heart has been replaced wiv steel 4 Likes |
Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by treasuress: 11:56pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
MrLP:Bros one thing you should know about these girls...show only 50percent of ur emotions and use the rest of your brain... Go to her apartment.. Tell her you did not mean it that way that you don't mind being friends with her... Then give her space... Trust me... Just space out but play the fool first... Trust me she would start missing you... Subconsciously she would start missing you even if she doesn't want to and also she is a working girl learn to call at the right time. Just be fun and learn to give her... Her space.. Simple as abc things will work themselves out |
Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by jayceekaJ(f): 11:56pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Lol.. For real? Let her go 1 Like |
Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by Annruby: 11:56pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
[email][/email]God dash u sense my brother *in bovis voice God dash u sense my brother *in bovis voice |
Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by ikedi94(m): 11:57pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
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