Themhi1:
Hello!!

I just met this girl recently and we have chat alot on whatsapp
Sometimes when am not online she will call me so that we can chat.
And she usually ask about my crush and also the last time I fell in love..
I told her I don't have crush and it has been long I fell in love!!

She say I get wahala, I ask her which wahala she say if the time come I go know.......


I love her but don't want to tell her or show her...

How should I go about this pls

Davidthegeek
Hardon

kollinzgee:


bro you already have the girl just flirt with her amd take things physical.

kollinzgee:


bro you already have the girl just flirt with her amd take things physical.

Themhi1:

Ook bro!!

But pls should I tell her my feelings too or keep her on suspense??

Themhi1:



Ook bro!!


Should I tell her my feelings too or keep her in suspense??!

Themhi1:



Ook bro!!


Should I tell her my feelings too or keep her in suspense??!

Mrcapability7:
please how do you deal with an ex disrupting you from having peaceful relationship with your girl.

he'd be calling her on phone everyday you know trying win her back, sent money and bought her expensive handbag

Mrcapability7:


please you guys should help me out

Davidthegeek
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kollinzgee

kollinzgee:


fitst of all it depends on your girls responds to the guy ,does she pick the calls from the guy,does she accept the money or gifts from the guy if she does tell her to stop or else you both will have problems then manup ask her to give you the phone whenever he calls if she does warn him never to call her again with some light threats that she is in a relationship.

Mrcapability7:


You know what i used my female fb account to discourage him from disturbing my girlfriend yesterday, unknown to me the idiot has done his FBI job on me and find out it was me. He reported it to my girl and the foolish girl really got mad at me accusing me of not loving and trusting her yesterday.


she is always pick his call i hate being controlling freak I've told her if i ever exercise my anger she will hate me, something ama afraid of doing anyway cos i knew what my anger are capable of

Mrcapability7:


You know what i used my female fb account to discourage him from disturbing my girlfriend yesterday, unknown to me the idiot has done his FBI job on me and find out it was me. He reported it to my girl and the foolish girl really got mad at me accusing me of not loving and trusting her yesterday.


she is always pick his call i hate being controlling freak I've told her if i ever exercise my anger she will hate me, something ama afraid of doing anyway cos i knew what my anger are capable of

BIGGIE121:
Kudos to our bro's in the house i would love u to advice me on this

there is this girl like very much infact i love very much and we have been friends for a while now

she is jovial ,fun to be with and open ,she tells me all her dark secrets ,i already told her i had crush on her , there was this day she said we should go on a walk together , that day i told her i was still reluctant in asking her out(maybe it was because i was not bold enough to ask her out)
that same day i composed a text asking whether we can date.

The next day i noticed she started acting cold and kind of withdrawn to me , she does not give me the attention she gives me like before, she even told she did not see the text i sent her whereas she saw it .....pls advice me i am confused

cc:
harddon
kollinzgee
davidthegeek

BIGGIE121:
Kudos to our bro's in the house i would love u to advice me on this

there is this girl like very much infact i love very much and we have been friends for a while now

she is jovial ,fun to be with and open ,she tells me all her dark secrets ,i already told her i had crush on her , there was this day she said we should go on a walk together , that day i told her i was still reluctant in asking her out(maybe it was because i was not bold enough to ask her out)
that same day i composed a text asking whether we can date.

The next day i noticed she started acting cold and kind of withdrawn to me , she does not give me the attention she gives me like before, she even told she did not see the text i sent her whereas she saw it .....pls advice me i am confused

cc:
harddon
kollinzgee
davidthegeek

kollinzgee:

she loves you like mofedaku!!!!

Themhi1:



Impressive!!

Bro watin I go do next??

Guide me jare!!

kollinzgee:


flirt with her confidently, you be sharp guy now whenever you communicate introduce sexual topics for example say she has one of the biggest hips you have ever seen,you can also tell her she has a very nice butt .i mean behave like you are a bit corrupt but do it in a funny way so she will subconsciously know you are sexually interested in her.

Broda this is the time you have to exude a lot of confidence in yourself .with women you have to be making the moves fearlessly dont wait for her permission for example asking a girl out is a way of asking for her permission. flirt with her constantly and confident take things to physically like asking her to sit on your laps looking deep into her eyes or you can peck her and lastly if she kisses you back and or have sex with you the deal is done hope you get....

hope you get

Mrcapability7:


You know what i used my female fb account to discourage him from disturbing my girlfriend yesterday, unknown to me the idiot has done his FBI job on me and find out it was me. He reported it to my girl and the foolish girl really got mad at me accusing me of not loving and trusting her yesterday.


she is always pick his call i hate being controlling freak I've told her if i ever exercise my anger she will hate me, something ama afraid of doing anyway cos i knew what my anger are capable of

VERTEX1:
Please guys, I've not dated any girl in fact I'm not sexually active, so there's this girl that came for IT in our office, we play a lot and we insult each other much in a playful manner. she always jokingly said I'm her hubby and hold my head as to kiss me but removes her head immediately I headed towards kissing her. Many times she slaps me and I slap back.she even told me her health issues and about her bf, as she's sexually active. The problem now is that she's begging me to subscribe for her . even though I've done financial something before for her. she's pretty and doesn't look hungry. So guys please help I don't know whether she wants to dry me or just testing if I'm stingy. we're not dating and I don't have plan of sex with anybody.

VERTEX1:
Please guys, I've not dated any girl in fact I'm not sexually active, so there's this girl that came for IT in our office, we play a lot and we insult each other much in a playful manner. she always jokingly said I'm her hubby and hold my head as to kiss me but removes her head immediately I headed towards kissing her. Many times she slaps me and I slap back.she even told me her health issues and about her bf, as she's sexually active. The problem now is that she's begging me to subscribe for her . even though I've done financial something before for her. she's pretty and doesn't look hungry. So guys please help I don't know whether she wants to dry me or just testing if I'm stingy. we're not dating and I don't have plan of sex with anybody.

cc:
Kollinzgee
Harddon
Davidthegeek

Mrcapability7:
please how do you deal with an ex disrupting you from having peaceful relationship with your girl.

he'd be calling her on phone everyday you know trying win her back, sent money and bought her expensive handbag

sconp:

WTF man!! Why will you do that! I know you think you were trying to safeguard your girl/protect your r/ship but that was a real dumb move, it brings you out as being insecure. You're scared of this guy winning back your girl, you're scared of loosing her to him and it's leading you to do things you shouldn't be doing.

Someone asked you some questions you didn't amswer. Does she accept the gifts? What are her reasons for accepting? Do you give her gifts? Does she give you gifts?

I don't know how strained things are between you two, explain that you did what you did cos you indeed love her and that if she doesn't that there's little you can do.

Then give her space, yes I know, it's hard. It hurts like hell but then you'll survive. Engage in other stuff, work, chat with others etc
Also, you're free to get angry just don't get physical. Anger however would only ruin this even further.

kollinzgee:


flirt with her confidently, you be sharp guy now whenever you communicate introduce sexual topics for example say she has one of the biggest hips you have ever seen,you can also tell her she has a very nice butt .i mean behave like you are a bit corrupt but do it in a funny way so she will subconsciously know you are sexually interested in her.

Broda this is the time you have to exude a lot of confidence in yourself .with women you have to be making the moves fearlessly dont wait for her permission for example asking a girl out is a way of asking for her permission. flirt with her constantly and confident take things to physically like asking her to sit on your laps looking deep into her eyes or you can peck her and lastly if she kisses you back and or have sex with you the deal is done hope you get....

hope you get

sconp:


The onus lies on you bro, what do you want? Are you drawn to her sexually or emotionally? Is there a part of you that feels like you want to get active with her?

You can sub for her as a friend if you want. However watch out if more financial requests would come and use your head.

The problem with giving sometimes is that some people will never stop asking.

lahp:


My advice dont sub for her bro if u start giving her things at every request she will see u as her giver
if u dont sub for her bro others will even then u can still get to talk with her
if u observe so well she does the same with u why will she want to kiss u and when u oblige she runs away?

VERTEX1:


Thumbs up man, I'm just emotionally drawn to her even though she is very sexy. I've not engage in sexual activities before. She too gives me food anytime she bought. but I'm scared on her motive of asking me always. she once show me picture with this caption "you're testing her to know if she's too demanding and she's testing you to know whether you're stingy, continue Satan is testing both of you" I still don't understand.

VERTEX1:
. Thanks bro, you see that's my fear, even though she romance me a lot in public especially my head. but she won't allow me to even touch her hand, we discuss nude things a lot she will said I'm corrupt and naughty, wicked and stingy if I refuse her plea. I don't know whether to be harsh or soft with her.

Themhi1:


Thanks!!

That same girl still said am her joy giver last night!!

I don't really know what she meant!...

Am still new into the system!!

HARDDON:
for a lil sniff of a lady's pants they can sell their soul!

You see them on fb thanking ladies for accepting their friends's request. they like every post of their crush and no matter how ugly, fat and fuggly she is, they wud wax lyrical how beautiful she is.

they try not to annoy them ladies, say the seemingly right words and hope they get noticed. they are the type that go flooding a gurl's inbox with messages thinking one day she wud respond
they go spending on gurls thinking that they can BUY them with gifts and gets frustrated when they have been friendzoned

you can overcome all these and turn the tables arround if this write up describes you. kindly note that behaving like this, turns ladies off emotional and wud only hang arround to milk you.

Next post, i would share with you the way out of this weak lane