You are done with work, and headed home. It's been a really hectic day. Your colleagues are off, they can't wait to be at home as they zoom of using whatever means of transport available just to arrive home in time into the arms of their loving wives. It's 5:00pm work day is officially over but your day has just begun. You know who lurks at home waiting to devour you with tantrums. It's not the arguments or the abuse, nor the insults you are worried about but the excessive nagging over little things that would drive even a crazy man into further craze.

Men are also known to nag but the nagging syndrome is soley occupied by women. It has plagued married men like a disease for centuries. Some men live with their nagging wives in constant sorrow, while others don't mind joining the divorce club just to sleep well at night. There is no perfect wife but a nagging wife is every mans nightmare.

The really sad news is that there is no cure for a nagging wife but there are quiet a number of effective control measures that would enable you live in harmony with such a wife. One fact about nagging women is that they believe every statement they make has to be pounded into your ear drums a thousand times before they finally ease off, believing that their husbands have fully absorbed the message. This psychological behavior is a chronic habit that have developed over the years before they settled down into matrimony.

• How Can A Nagging Wife Be Put At Ease?

1. It is very vital that you don't ignore them, when ever they have a problem or a complaint, whatever that needs attending to, you just have to be there for them, else she would be very persistent and be much more vocal if she is ignored.

2. Never try to shut her up she would become even worse and her nagging would grow to an unimaginable level. If she doesn't find common ground with you as a husband, she would become quarrelsome and that's when the neighbor's would begin to step into your lives to either eaves drop on your problems or try to solves them for the sake of being good neighbours

3. Think of ways which you can satisfy your wants mutually and respectfully. Try as much as possible to understand your wife. Patience is the key always be patient and also control your temper as a man. This is not an eye for an eye or fire for fire. Why fight her? you already know you she would always loose a fight, so why fight her?

4. She just might be right sometimes, if you left clothes on the floor or boots on the bed, and she complains about it, just tidy up yourself immediately and don't forget to apologize. Simple "sorry" could have stopped many wars. Try to look inwards if actually you might be doing something wrong that sure warrants the nagging and take appropriate steps to curb it.

5. You really don't have to be attached to everything your wife says and take it really seriously. As a man, nothing of such should move you so you must be unemotional to her words and disengage from sounds of her nagging.Take it as her usual self and nothing more.

6. Sometimes it's best if you just can't contain yourself after applying every possible formula, just walk away when you feel the urge to react to her every statement.

Some wives who nag, usually want to be at the top chain of the relationship, some crave control, while others are just addicted to such repulsive behavior. Some might decide to ease up on their nagging when duly notified that it has become extreme and excessive, while others just can't control themselves. The choice is yours how you want to go about with the marriage.

If you exhaust all options, it would be more realistic to seek the help of marriage counselors and professionals in such fields who who adequately advice you on the best course of action to take to save your marriage or save yourself . One less headache a day saves you from an early grave.

source: http://www.chupsoup.com/2016/01/how-to-live-in-harmony-with-that.html

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The best is to avoid them, only if you want to have peace of mind.
They can't be contented, the must look for one thing to complain about.

I have one in my place of work, same department.

You don't live with nagging spouses,you do away with them before they do away with you. Some are just lucky they aren't dead.