Mister Joseph, guys aint a big deal for me, they r everywhere, if u understand the purpose of my post u would see it's more of me staying away from any possible relationship at this point not searching 4 one. as for my pic, it's in my profile for a lil bit, then off it goes, not here for display.

Nikky23:

desperation way out of it, i wish i was if that's the case. If i tell u the number of guys after me, a lot and that's y i came on here in d first place. i go on casual dates and want something casual for now esp after my last relationship but they dont understand, always wanting more. dats y i asked if i was wasting my youth and beauty because i dont have the strength for something serious as at now.

in that case, ur not wasting anything
on the contrary, ur being wise n cautious

berra now i c u're actually fyn i'd say u say u wanna stay away buh ur appearance is sayin 'hooooooo' 2 da guyz ,u can lyk 2 change dat i mean if u truly an rily want guys at bay. . . . . .buh iono look @ dat face. . . .i'd say i lyk it jst d way it is sori sis. there's notin u can do 2 hide dat beauty

Nikky, I like ur pix, ur mouth particularly, it reminds me of chin chin, u know? biting them chewing them

back to topic
everybody needs a companion. natuarally it enhences sense of being and self worth. even insects, birds and animals and even lizards walk in pairs.
being alone is ok if u can handle it, but we all need the drama of breakups, sweet times and exciting moments.

thats what i call living life

u r not wasting anything, i think u r just taking ur time!

My dear you are wasting your beauty, that you are not dating is not the end of the world, you can use your beauty and youth as you claim for God. Work in the Lords vineyard, may be from there you will see a comitted person that will not bring disappontment to you in future.

Gud Luck.

Sorry it was meant to be THAT YOU ARE NOT WASTING YOUR BEAUTY, Sorry for the ommission.

beauty._._._._._._.i think its wen u die dat beauty can truly be wasted

hi nicky, i dont usually put my cell phone no on the web for everyone to see. but, i did that to see your reaction anyway. now, we are getting somewhere.i will like to be your frend. no strings. if u dont mind, reply my post. cheers

l.l.l.l

frank3.16:

Nikky, I like ur pix, ur mouth particularly, it reminds me of chin chin, u know? biting them chewing them

back to topic
everybody needs a companion. natuarally it enhences sense of being and self worth. even insects, birds and animals and even lizards walk in pairs.
being alone is ok if u can handle it, but we all need the drama of breakups, sweet times and exciting moments.

thats what i call living life

hehe and yours reminded me of kokoro

@poster
are u sure ure beautiful so
i mean dats wot all gurls say even wen
they have asses like dat of an indian elephant
checked ur profile and i cud see was a SHOE
na shoe guys go chop

190 has spoken yet again

You all have looked at this issue in ways that amazed me.haba.Why do u think she is pretending or lying or not beautiful or desperate or sth?Amazing conclusions…,

Nikky has got no problem. It’s a phase in her life.She is probably going through a phase necessitated by d drain caused by previous relationship(s) in her life. This is not to say she is heartbroken. NO she is not. The issue here can be likened to d ‘loss of job satisfaction’ we sometimes experience. Its not as if she aint got feelings or dat her emotions 4guys is gone. Its Just The ENERGY.I feel her so much but cant exactly put it in words. Just like for a radio signal dat is sometimes not clear no matter how u tune depending on where u r located, her psych is not just tuned dat way at the moment. I bliv with this most people would understand her case.

To NIKKI-you aint actually wasting your beauty. Allow yourself gather enuf energy b4 u get into any relationship. Enuf to carry u 4lyf irrespective of wat sorrounds you. That is to say dat if u do not get energy enuf u would breakdown along the road. Even if others don’t understand I’m sure You should Nikki.I know u know what u want.Just take ur tym.dont be scared of d beauty thg.Keep ur heart beautiful n u would enjoy whateva u miss right now anytym in life.
If u think u want 2talk with me state it n we find a way to communicate via chat or phone.
I would love to if I can create some tym.

I will continue when I have time.Bye 4now

you are one of those that give up pretty easily, cos they've had one oe two bad experiences

the truth is life is not all smooth, we all have our ups and downs, good & bad, but the most

important thing is how we respond to this experiences. like i always tell you like, you just

have to keep pushing, and having faith till u find love. thank God the experiences havent

dented your psychic like it does to others. you still know you are beautiful. so get out there

keep an open mind and date again, & i will advise you get your pics up there instead of that shoe

cos u never know. the right guy to change your perception, may be in here. goodluck!!!

smooooooth:

you are one of those that give up pretty easily, cos they've had one oe two bad experiences

the truth is life is not all smooth, we all have our ups and downs, good & bad, but the most

important thing is how we respond to this experiences. like i always tell you like, you just

have to keep pushing, and having faith till u find love. thank God the experiences havent

dented your psychic like it does to others. you still know you are beautiful. so get out there

keep an open mind and date again, & i will advise you get your pics up there instead of that shoe

cos u never know. the right guy to change your perception, may be in here. goodluck!!!

I am pushing hard, but the more i get weaker, I believe so that's why I'm taking my time but I don't know how long.   As for my pic, u missed it , i had it there for a while.

cutemike:

You all have looked at this issue in ways that amazed me.haba.Why do u think she is pretending or lying or not beautiful or desperate or sth?Amazing conclusions…,

Nikky has got no problem. It’s a phase in her life.She is probably going through a phase necessitated by d drain caused by previous relationship(s) in her life. This is not to say she is heartbroken. NO she is not. The issue here can be likened to d ‘loss of job satisfaction’ we sometimes experience. Its not as if she aint got feelings or dat her emotions 4guys is gone. Its Just The ENERGY.I feel her so much but cant exactly put it in words. Just like for a radio signal dat is sometimes not clear no matter how u tune depending on where u r located, her psych is not just tuned dat way at the moment. I bliv with this most people would understand her case.

To NIKKI-you aint actually wasting your beauty. Allow yourself gather enuf energy b4 u get into any relationship. Enuf to carry u 4lyf irrespective of wat sorrounds you. That is to say dat if u do not get energy enuf u would breakdown along the road. Even if others don’t understand I’m sure You should Nikki.I know u know what u want.Just take ur tym.dont be scared of d beauty thg.Keep ur heart beautiful n u would enjoy whateva u miss right now anytym in life.
If u think u want 2talk with me state it n we find a way to communicate via chat or phone.
I would love to if I can create some tym.

I will continue when I have time.Bye 4now

Thnx , where do u reside?

190:

@poster
are u sure ure beautiful so
i mean dats wot all gurls say even wen
they have asses like dat of an indian elephant
checked ur profile and i cud see was a SHOE
na shoe guys go chop

190 has spoken yet again

i'm not beautiful lol, maybe u help me tell if i am.

olagboye:

hi nicky, i dont usually put my cell phone no on the web for everyone to see. but, i did that to see your reaction anyway. now, we are getting somewhere.i will like to be your frend. no strings. if u dont mind, reply my post. cheers

Don't worry we are already friends, aren't we?

kachiside:

My dear you are wasting your beauty, that you are not dating is not the end of the world, you can use your beauty and youth as you claim for God. Work in the Lords vineyard, may be from there you will see a comitted person that will not bring disappontment to you in future.

Gud Luck.

Thnx

Joseph6:

berra now i c u're actually fyn i'd say u say u wanna stay away buh ur appearance is sayin 'hooooooo' 2 da guyz ,u can lyk 2 change dat i mean if u truly an rily want guys at bay. . . . . .buh iono look @ dat face. . . .i'd say i lyk it jst d way it is sori sis. there's notin u can do 2 hide dat beauty

Thnx but i'm not trying to hide any beauty, i'd rather want to see if i could start again but i need some push, maybe as some others said, God help me with such energy and push.

frank3.16:

Nikky, I like ur pix, ur mouth particularly, it reminds me of chin chin, u know? biting them chewing them

back to topic
everybody needs a companion. natuarally it enhences sense of being and self worth. even insects, birds and animals and even lizards walk in pairs.
being alone is ok if u can handle it, but we all need the drama of breakups, sweet times and exciting moments.

thats what i call living life

I've already had my fair share of break ups and a horrible one at that.

I stay in lag, but will be outa lag this weekend.Where do u stay? I dont want disturbance and unnecessary calls 4rm others,would ve droped a contact.Sha just think n let me know how we could communicate.I will see if I can work sth out.I really feel you deeply sha.Just be soft on yourself and bliv me by d tym u r really ready, u wld be as , (cant place d word now), as a baby.
Take care Nikki, be you, byeeeeeee

Nikky23:

I am pushing hard, but the more i get weaker, I believe so that's why I'm taking my time but I don't know how long.   As for my pic, u missed it , i had it there for a while.

well, its good to take your time, cos like they say, once beaten, twice shy. besides it will be wrong if you make anoda hasty wrong decision, again.

cos thats what experiences are for. to make us learn. i blive you will get it right this last time. as for the pic, why not put it up again for all to see,

mostly those of us who missed it. afterall attraction starts from seeing, then getting to know the person behind the face, and who knows, u guys

might go all the way.

You must have been hurt to sound the way you do. Now you are blase and jaded about it all. So far so good but if I can read between your lines I suspect a little nostalgia. The reason why you have this is because you feel guilty about wallowing in the aftermath of your experience. Stop the guilt feeling and stop being lethargic, I would softly say to you. You would only end up being depressed and shall I say, bitter. Its ok to run off to a corner to lick your wounds but dangerous if you do not date your hibernation. With no proper check, it could go on and on, for years and years and then, you would have wasted your youth and beauty. Time the period you want to heal. Do just that and get back into the land of the living
I contribute to this post cos years ago I ran away to lick my wounds. It was enormous, collosally masive, and my parents had passed away. I was alone in my sorrow and I wallowed. More than a decade later I am still wallowing cos I had become housebound, listless, careless and hughly depressed.

Please shake it off.
Do not write men off, never. They are not all that bad, really.

Poster is stylishly tellin us she's a virgin

Couple of thoughts:

Can anyone really, really, be happy curling up in bed alone every night? or Lazying about in bed watching TV on saturday morning alone? , i really don't think so. Anyone can think they are happy, cos they've got a nice job, nice car, nice apartment, nice friends, but then sometimes, you need to just chill or talk with someone about really deep stuff.

Again, you say your a fine girl, you may want to know that for now you may be thinking that whenever your ready to hook up, that you'll definitly find someone. I pray you do, however I know loads of really pretty and desperately seeking girls round about 30yrs old and heading for menopause.

Finally, Its always better to be in relationships before you get married. Theres a whole lot to marriage and it's just wise you get involved with someone (or more), and learn and make all the mistakes you can before you get married.

, just my tupence

@nikky
how do u want me 2 know wen i cant see ya faze!

cutemike:

I stay in lag, but will be outa lag this weekend.Where do u stay? I dont want disturbance and unnecessary calls 4rm others,would ve droped a contact.Sha just think n let me know how we could communicate.I will see if I can work sth out.I really feel you deeply sha.Just be soft on yourself and bliv me by d tym u r really ready, u wld be as , (cant place d word now), as a baby.
Take care Nikki, be you, byeeeeeee

Thanx, if u want, yahoo im is ok.

smooooooth:

well, its good to take your time, cos like they say, once beaten, twice shy. besides it will be wrong if you make anoda hasty wrong decision, again.

cos thats what experiences are for. to make us learn. i blive you will get it right this last time. as for the pic, why not put it up again for all to see,

mostly those of us who missed it. afterall attraction starts from seeing, then getting to know the person behind the face, and who knows, u guys

might go all the way.

I would again but u might miss it again

zenatta:

You must have been hurt to sound the way you do. Now you are blase and jaded about it all. So far so good but if I can read between your lines I suspect a little nostalgia. The reason why you have this is because you feel guilty about wallowing in the aftermath of your experience. Stop the guilt feeling and stop being lethargic, I would softly say to you. You would only end up being depressed and shall I say, bitter. Its ok to run off to a corner to lick your wounds but dangerous if you do not date your hibernation. With no proper check, it could go on and on, for years and years and then, you would have wasted your youth and beauty. Time the period you want to heal. Do just that and get back into the land of the living
I contribute to this post cos years ago I ran away to lick my wounds. It was enormous, collosally masive, and my parents had passed away. I was alone in my sorrow and I wallowed. More than a decade later I am still wallowing cos I had become housebound, listless, careless and hughly depressed.

Please shake it off.
Do not write men off, never. They are not all that bad, really.

That's right i have been hurt but I don't think that's really the reason or maybe. be4 i got hurt, i was a boy/man freak,meaning i had a free spirit, going on dates, relationships but after i got hurt now, there's no energy or effort to put in, i'm just doing my thing though i would love to but i need a push i suppose.

Phemour:

Poster is stylishly tellin us she's a virgin

do u think so, i'm a virgin?

190:

@nikky
how do u want me 2 know wen i cant see ya faze!

ok i would but u might miss it again

@nikky
lets chat immediately on Y.M
just saw ur pic

l.l.l.l

Are u wasting ur Beauty by chilling for now to date just because ur previous relationship was somehow?

Gurl what has staying away from dating got to do with ur beauty being wasted?

Oh so now if u dnt date, u'll gradually be withering away like an alaskan flower?

Listen up, alot of our youth waste their beauty and Youth due to unstable relationships, jumping from one man to the other, there are some guys out there that would f.uck away beauty out of you.

I have come across a lot of beautiful girls, that in these day they are nothing to be compared to those years that their youthfulness was glowing and beauty flourishing, WHY It is because they are not stable in relationships, they become strained mentally,physically and emotionally, and this automatically leads them to losing their womanly virtues.

So to me now, you are actually saving your beauty and youth by chilling out from relationships, reverse is the case to your subject. Alot of our women these days are in the early 40's and 50's unmarried because they have wasted their youth and beauty, and their main pride (toto).

What people call beauty; the outer glitz/glamour is nothing but a transient object, many girls have become so deluded by it that they thought it could guarantee them happiness; on the other hand many a men are enduring a lifetime of matrimonial regret simply because their main criteria for picking a life partner is the looks.
True beauty cannot be wasted, once you strip the outer cloak and get to the true virtues of a woman, then and only then can one truly find happiness and fulfilment in any relationship.

@Post u r a very beautiful girl. Don't mind what some others here are saying. You might not see it now but later on in the future, when u r older, you would one day sit and remember when u were younger and wish you had done a lot of things like dating, socialising. A heartbreak should ot hold you back from living ur life. D o not wait for too long, go dating so that you would not regret it in the future.