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Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by Nobody: 8:32pm On Mar 01, 2016
If you believe this story really happened, then you can as well believe nollywood movies are real too.
Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by ADELL(m): 8:34pm On Mar 01, 2016
This cannot be a true story. This is an insult to the readers who visit Nairaland abeg. However, if u are still contemplating marrying that girl in this ur nollywood-like story, then I think u need a brain test. Dasall
Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by bobkezel(m): 8:37pm On Mar 01, 2016
Somebody should as a matter of urgency explain to me why i refused to believe this c0ck and bull story.
Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by loadedmax(m): 8:40pm On Mar 01, 2016
[size=8pt]If you go marry that geh, na so u go turn to Kanye West. #kadeshian shit hole. People go dey rap and sing of how ur wife's p@#$y is. Dump the bitch and move a head.
Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by spafu(m): 8:42pm On Mar 01, 2016
Guy by the time you are done writing this book, it will be a Bestseller o. You can't be serious that this really happened and you are asking me if you should call of the wedding. For me, the calling off of the wedding will take effect two months before that incidence.
Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by Nobody: 8:45pm On Mar 01, 2016
Honestly speaking, I doubt if the story is genuine but all the same, I have to drop my cent cause I believe someone here maybe in the same predicament.

For you to see your 'wife to be' pant down in your own house. Not even with anyone else rather your best friend, moaning in estacy and possibly begging for more shows the true colour of her blood.

I don't know whether to entirely blame her cause some certain emotions can be overpowering. Ladies tends to feel attracted to someone they spend more time with and your description of your friends shows he's indeed a hot cake. it will take a strong willpower to overcome such a person. But her not being able to overcome him means she's weak in matters of feelings. Am not gonna tell you to quit or carry on. All I wanna say is; if u still love her deeply, go for her. But if the love u have for her have diminished after the incident, better leave her now without looking back.

one thing is certain, if you marry her, the trust won't be there anymore.

shalom!

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Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by Obason22(m): 8:50pm On Mar 01, 2016
Well, u have said it all, many days 4 thief one day 4 d owner. I'm hapy that God shows u d type of wife u were abt to mary, so to me give tanks to God and move on a better once are stil waiting. Congratulations.
Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by Larryhoover(m): 8:51pm On Mar 01, 2016
@Op even if your wife to be was under the influence of charm, you also contributed to the pandemonium by allowing a friend known of crude and inappropriate antecedents when it comes to matter of ladies to be under the same roof with your woman to the extent of shopping together and like wise not getting a clue from her reaction when you were trying to make move...


Guy.... You didn't act like a sharp Nigerian, seriously you need to be drilled for that.

Simple Advice: find your friend and castrate him and set your woman free.

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Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by lastpage: 8:59pm On Mar 01, 2016
Truckpusher:
Wtf is happening to men of nowadays ? You caught your fiancee pants down with a friend in your own very apartment and you're still here seeking for public opinion on what to do ? undecided
Well , the fact that you fainted after witnessing that shiit shows you're a puccy.

Charles deserved a broken head with one eye gone bad forever before leaving for Canada but you chose to faint over a hoe ? grin smh

Men have been Foolish, ..since the day of Adam and Eve.

But the foolishness of "men of Todays", ...e nor get Part 2! grin grin

Imagine the Mugun "fainting"? ..when he should be "pounding the life out of the back-stabber friend", with his fist!
shocked shocked

No wonder women have learned to take advantage of these "pus.sy-whipped" whim.ps who call themselves "MEN"! grin grin

My advice is "he should please marry the woman"....... the world can do without one more whi.mp, am sure he wont live too long before she finishes him off and go meet her sweet heart, Charles.

It is obvious she is in-love with Charles, not you.... so, just make yourself the ATM and figure-head husband!
Oloshi buruku!


Look, nor make me vex dis nyte o! angry angry


Lastpage!

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Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by NaWetinDey(m): 9:07pm On Mar 01, 2016
It's a pity but you have no alternating but to man up. You have joined the lifetime victims and dont believe anyone who tells you u will heal Those two have ruined your love life, it ca never be the same. Put your whole strentgh in your carrier and keep making money. When you marry, it will be for children. It could take decades for any woman to cinvince u to care about trust and faithfulness in marriage. Sadly, that is it. But take heart, many men have survived it. They just dont share their hearts with any woman.
Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by therapistmrs: 9:08pm On Mar 01, 2016
thank God you found out now not after marriage.well she is no wife material and your friend is no friend I tell you.all the best.

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Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by UkanirehMkpongke: 9:10pm On Mar 01, 2016
My if this story of yours is true, just run for your dear life. To be forewarned is to be forearmed.
Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by Sheikhmd007(m): 9:11pm On Mar 01, 2016
[color=#006600][/color]My brother 'am so sorry for what happened to you is very bad experience and it has been said that "Anger and unforgiveness is a disaster" but for this tell whom it concern to know and call it quite between you and the girl never to see her again for a saying that "Word is enough for the wise"
Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by yemynzo(m): 9:16pm On Mar 01, 2016
Sounds like a movie script tome too buh I kw dis things happen,my take on dis issue is for u to let d woman be and move on with ur life bro u'll definitelly feel hurt buh all wounds eventually heal up.bottom line DO NOT MARRY DAT WOMAN friend
Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by hardeyincah(m): 9:17pm On Mar 01, 2016
alberson:



I appreciate your advice.
May you never experiences this, it's gonna sound like jokes to someone....thanks!!!
I swear its sounds like a joke to me!
Pls bro! Let's go stupid can it be a charm? NO! Because she refused romances of late... DONT MARRY A LovePeddler PLS
Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by Oluuuuuuu: 9:20pm On Mar 01, 2016
Once debe is ever debe
Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by mizlovette(f): 9:22pm On Mar 01, 2016
Hmmmmmmm bro I feel ur pain, seriously I do but what can one ever say or do to pacify whatever ur going through. It will only take the grace of God for u to get through this. Back to d main point my advice is, am a lady am not gonna lie to u, if ur wife to be could cheat on u with ur best frnd few days to ur wedding then she's always had a crush on ur frnd. A lady who coudnt kip her legs closed few days to her wedding can't keep it closed for d rest of d marriage if u guys have been together this long and she never thought of how hurt u will be then she dsnt deserve u. I don't know about u but that's what I'll do if I was in ur shoes. It hurts but get up, dust it off, shake it off, the best is yet to come and d Lord gat u. He will send u dat woman whose meant to be ur better half. Even if u go ahead under d guise of love u will never forget or forgive her she will be a constant reminder of whatever u saw that day. It's well
Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by Ruttashobolwa(m): 9:23pm On Mar 01, 2016
If i were in your position i would have councelled the wedding
Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by tosyne2much(m): 9:28pm On Mar 01, 2016
Oga ooooooooo
Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by zynzyn(m): 9:33pm On Mar 01, 2016
If this story is real!!!!

As I always say. Op u don't need advice!

Avoid becoming a murderer in future!! undecided
Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by Nobody: 9:45pm On Mar 01, 2016
Life is good and life is sweet. One thing I know is that God has a way to protecting His people. Your story has happen to me. One thing I want you to know is that, that lady is not your wife. That is the fact. But you will be surprise to know that they might have been meeting for years. The decision is left for you to take. God will help you to take the right decision (Amen)
Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by chrystalC(m): 9:47pm On Mar 01, 2016
I'd strongly advice u call off the wedding, for ur supposed beloveth wife to be frolicking wif ur bestman nd friend? u can forgive her buh u gotta call off d wedding. Itz good riddance, thank ur stars u knew before the wedding, u still have the chance to get off d mess... as for ur frnd charles, one word for him.... SPANNER
Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by professore(m): 10:03pm On Mar 01, 2016
Sparkles003:
move on
The most essential commodity which is trust has been broken.
I so much like your contribution,though I don't believe in this story.
Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by favouryemmy: 10:05pm On Mar 01, 2016
alberson:
.I Caught My Best Friend And Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding.

I walked into the room and met my best man making love to my wife
I met Charles on campus. I was in my first year in the university. I had just resumed and was trying to grapple with the demand of university life. One morning I had gone to the cafeteria. While paying for my food, I ran into a young handsome looking guy and we ended striking an acquaintance.
I later found out that we are both in the same department. From then we became friends. In the second year, we ended up being roommates. Our friendship grew from there. We were like brothers. We helped one another in our studies. We looked out for one another. In fact many people on campus thought we were brothers. Charles was a great guy. He was handsome tall and good looking. In fact in our third year on campus, he entered the Mr. Campus contest and won.
That made him become very popular. He was especially popular with the girls. They loved. In fact the attention was so much at a time that he lost focus and his grades suffered.
There were just too many babes jostling for his attention. In our fourth year, Charles had become very used to the attention that it meant nothing to him again. Our association blossomed.
As his fame grew, I became his manager when he attended shows. He also worked as the Master of Ceremony at school events. I was the calmer guy. I made sure I kept my head so I could put my best friend in check. At last we graduated and our parents, who had become friends because of our association, came to celebrate with us. When we left school, we continued our friendship.
We got jobs in two blue chip companies. We also continue to date our campus sweet hearts. Charles and I met our future partners at a departmental event on campus in our second year in the university.
They were both in another department. But we had continued the relationship even when Charles derailed and become way ward. I convinced his girlfriend not to give up on him. Eventually we all graduated and our relationship continued. After about two years of working I proposed to my fiancee. I did not want to waste any more time. But something bad happened to Charles relationship with Adaeze, She had caught him again cheating and had decided to call it quits despite all my pleading. Charles was left to spend more time in my place as he complained of boredom. Adaeze doesn’t come to keep him company again. She had left the relationship for good. I was sorry for my friend. But how many times will I keep interceding on his behalf? Charles now practically was living with me. He also became close to my woman. Gradually I discovered they were both unusually close. When I am at work, they will call me they went out together as Charles had been on leave from work. I noticed their relationship became closer.
But I still thought nothing of it. Many times, I my wife to be will stay glued to her phone chatting. I never thought nothing of it as she could be chatting with her sister s and friends. As the days turned into months, we began the planning for my wedding. Naturally, Charles became the choice for my best man. I had pacified my brother who returned from the United States that I and Charles had gone way back since our campus days. The day of the wedding was set. I was also so busy that I did not notice the change in my fianceé body language. Every time I asked for romance, she was always reluctant and unresponsive. I had thought then that she was reserving her body until we get married. One day, instead of calling my name, she mentioned Charles. Well, I did not get angry because I and Charles are like blood brothers.
About two weeks to our wedding, I had gone to the office to retrieve my computer as I had been granted leave to prepared for the weeding. Charles was home and busy with preparations as usual. I returned home an hour short of when I told my fiancée I would returned.
I parked the car outside our gate as someone had already taken my parking space.I walked the distance to the house. The entire place was silent. I called out but no one answered. I climbed the staircase, and as I made to enter my room, I heard an unusual noise from the guest room. I went to the door and listen.
The noise was a moan of pleasure from an excited lady whose voice sounded like my wife. Why they refused to lock the door is what I can still not decipher. But according to the saying, every day for the thief, one day for the owner.
I pushed open the door and met my best friend, my best man for my wedding on top of my wife. They were both Unclad as they made love furiously. I shouted Charles name and became unconscious. I later found myself in the hospital. My cheating wife was at my bed side but Charles was nowhere in to be found.
He had packed all his things and absconded. I cried profusely as I looked at my wife. When my parents and sisters came into the hospital, I could not reveal to them what brought me to the hospital. I only lied to them that I was stressed out because of the wedding preparations. When they asked for Charles, I could not give any sufficient explanation and I could not tell them that he had been sleeping with my wife to be behind me. I was discharged from the hospital and I am back home.
My fiancée has gone back to her parents place and Charles is still missing. I was later told by his brother that he had travelled finally to Canada and had apologise for the short notice. I know Charles had escaped being confronted with his guilt. But I know he can run but not hide. My fiancée has been pleading that it was the devils work. She said she did not know the charm Charles used for her.
She has refused to tell me how long Charles has been sleeping with her though she swore the time I caught them was the first. How do I believe her? The wedding in two in two weeks and I still do not know what to do. Do I tell my family and cancel the wedding or should I forgive my wife to be.
This is the dilemma I have found myself. I love my wife to be but how can I live with the thought of seeing my best friend Unclad on top of my wife? Should I cancel the marriage and look for another woman or should I accept her apology?
matured comments please ..

Please, forgive her but never marry her because of your future.
Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by Dejiemmanuel(m): 10:27pm On Mar 01, 2016
Marriage is a life time commitment. My brother, can you live the rest of your life with the picture of what you saw? If not, please let go of the relationship, to avoid a lifetime of torment. Above all, please be wise and bold enough to let those that matter in your life know the truth. You deserve the best.
Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by kherlly(m): 10:40pm On Mar 01, 2016
I dont like to preach so i will go straight to my own opinion.



Whenever a lady wrong a guy is either devil's work or charm you go hear dem say cause am.


Bros, no go wiv the wedding oooooooo buh u gat to make d final decision ursef. God bless
Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by rhymesnoni(m): 10:40pm On Mar 01, 2016
No wonder he's ya best man.
Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by sule5727: 10:45pm On Mar 01, 2016
alberson:
.I Caught My Best Friend And Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding.

I walked into the room and met my best man making love to my wife
I met Charles on campus. I was in my first year in the university. I had just resumed and was trying to grapple with the demand of university life. One morning I had gone to the cafeteria. While paying for my food, I ran into a young handsome looking guy and we ended striking an acquaintance.
I later found out that we are both in the same department. From then we became friends. In the second year, we ended up being roommates. Our friendship grew from there. We were like brothers. We helped one another in our studies. We looked out for one another. In fact many people on campus thought we were brothers. Charles was a great guy. He was handsome tall and good looking. In fact in our third year on campus, he entered the Mr. Campus contest and won.
That made him become very popular. He was especially popular with the girls. They loved. In fact the attention was so much at a time that he lost focus and his grades suffered.
There were just too many babes jostling for his attention. In our fourth year, Charles had become very used to the attention that it meant nothing to him again. Our association blossomed.
As his fame grew, I became his manager when he attended shows. He also worked as the Master of Ceremony at school events. I was the calmer guy. I made sure I kept my head so I could put my best friend in check. At last we graduated and our parents, who had become friends because of our association, came to celebrate with us. When we left school, we continued our friendship.
We got jobs in two blue chip companies. We also continue to date our campus sweet hearts. Charles and I met our future partners at a departmental event on campus in our second year in the university.
They were both in another department. But we had continued the relationship even when Charles derailed and become way ward. I convinced his girlfriend not to give up on him. Eventually we all graduated and our relationship continued. After about two years of working I proposed to my fiancee. I did not want to waste any more time. But something bad happened to Charles relationship with Adaeze, She had caught him again cheating and had decided to call it quits despite all my pleading. Charles was left to spend more time in my place as he complained of boredom. Adaeze doesn’t come to keep him company again. She had left the relationship for good. I was sorry for my friend. But how many times will I keep interceding on his behalf? Charles now practically was living with me. He also became close to my woman. Gradually I discovered they were both unusually close. When I am at work, they will call me they went out together as Charles had been on leave from work. I noticed their relationship became closer.
But I still thought nothing of it. Many times, I my wife to be will stay glued to her phone chatting. I never thought nothing of it as she could be chatting with her sister s and friends. As the days turned into months, we began the planning for my wedding. Naturally, Charles became the choice for my best man. I had pacified my brother who returned from the United States that I and Charles had gone way back since our campus days. The day of the wedding was set. I was also so busy that I did not notice the change in my fianceé body language. Every time I asked for romance, she was always reluctant and unresponsive. I had thought then that she was reserving her body until we get married. One day, instead of calling my name, she mentioned Charles. Well, I did not get angry because I and Charles are like blood brothers.
About two weeks to our wedding, I had gone to the office to retrieve my computer as I had been granted leave to prepared for the weeding. Charles was home and busy with preparations as usual. I returned home an hour short of when I told my fiancée I would returned.
I parked the car outside our gate as someone had already taken my parking space.I walked the distance to the house. The entire place was silent. I called out but no one answered. I climbed the staircase, and as I made to enter my room, I heard an unusual noise from the guest room. I went to the door and listen.
The noise was a moan of pleasure from an excited lady whose voice sounded like my wife. Why they refused to lock the door is what I can still not decipher. But according to the saying, every day for the thief, one day for the owner.
I pushed open the door and met my best friend, my best man for my wedding on top of my wife. They were both Unclad as they made love furiously. I shouted Charles name and became unconscious. I later found myself in the hospital. My cheating wife was at my bed side but Charles was nowhere in to be found.
He had packed all his things and absconded. I cried profusely as I looked at my wife. When my parents and sisters came into the hospital, I could not reveal to them what brought me to the hospital. I only lied to them that I was stressed out because of the wedding preparations. When they asked for Charles, I could not give any sufficient explanation and I could not tell them that he had been sleeping with my wife to be behind me. I was discharged from the hospital and I am back home.
My fiancée has gone back to her parents place and Charles is still missing. I was later told by his brother that he had travelled finally to Canada and had apologise for the short notice. I know Charles had escaped being confronted with his guilt. But I know he can run but not hide. My fiancée has been pleading that it was the devils work. She said she did not know the charm Charles used for her.
She has refused to tell me how long Charles has been sleeping with her though she swore the time I caught them was the first. How do I believe her? The wedding in two in two weeks and I still do not know what to do. Do I tell my family and cancel the wedding or should I forgive my wife to be.
This is the dilemma I have found myself. I love my wife to be but how can I live with the thought of seeing my best friend Unclad on top of my wife? Should I cancel the marriage and look for another woman or should I accept her apology?
matured comments please ..
The best man part two!!!
Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by rhymesnoni(m): 10:48pm On Mar 01, 2016
If u dnt leave her nown, wen u see her sleepin wit ya uncle o dad dnt be surprised.
Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by Evittorio: 10:50pm On Mar 01, 2016
Forgive her but don't marry her.
Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by prof12(m): 10:51pm On Mar 01, 2016
Call off the wedding and move on my guy. That is exactly what she would do even if forgive and marry her.
Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by Truckpusher(m): 11:04pm On Mar 01, 2016
lastpage:


Men have been Foolish, ..since the day of Adam and Eve.

But the foolishness of "men of Todays", ...e nor get Part 2! grin grin

Imagine the Mugun "fainting"? ..when he should be "pounding the life out of the back-stabber friend", with his fist!
shocked shocked

No wonder women have learned to take advantage of these "pus.sy-whipped" whim.ps who call themselves "MEN"! grin grin

My advice is "he should please marry the woman"....... the world can do without one more whi.mp, am sure he wont live too long before she finishes him off and go meet her sweet heart, Charles.

It is obvious she is in-love with Charles, not you.... so, just make yourself the ATM and figure-head husband!
Oloshi buruku!


Look, nor make me vex dis nyte o! angry angry


Lastpage!
No mind am , Na small Pikin dry worry the boy. grin

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