On Valentine's day, I received a call from my ex. He just wanted to check up on me and ask how I was enjoying my Val. A part of me knew he just wanted to find out if I was celebrating it alone or with someone special. Or maybe I just wanted him to think that. Maybe it would be consoling if I thought that he still cared about me. I secretly wished he would tell me he missed me terribly and wanted me back. But it didn't happen!!

After I hung up the phone, my friend who was listening to our conversation asked who had called and when I told her it was my ex, she just rolled her eyes and hissed out loud. The next thing she said was " na who ex don help for this life?. I was baffled by her question and I asked if she wasn't in touch with any of her exes and she replied with a loud "God forbid". When I asked her why she felt that way, she narrated her ordeal to me. Continue reading on http://www.momentswithjenny..co.ke/2016/02/should-you-maintain-contact-with-your-ex.html?m=1

Makes u look cheap

The sooner you make a clean break and stick with it, the sooner the healing process can begin..

She/He may have been nice from time to time and occasionally very sweet, sexy, etc., but these fleeting moments don’t make up for the pain and damage she /he caused you.Each time you initiate contact or respond to her overtures, you have to start the healing process all over again.

Re-initiating contact only prolongs your pain. It’s the difference between ripping a band-aid off quickly and all at once or peeling off the adhesive very slowly, one arm hair at a time.

Do not apply salt to an open wound..Engaging in contact with your ex, even a little bit,is like rubbing salt into an open wound.

That's true @ donbenedict

@smellymouth, why?

Babyboo92:
That's true @ donbenedict

yeah yeah. Sometimes I dnt blame people who don't gv second chances, it's just a way of makin dem cherish whatever they"ll ever have in future.

if you like



or blame Jonathan for the break up

Sometimes no bcoz they can be bad for ur health.Mine was pretty bad for my health which was i caught ties totally.

Make my generator tank begin leak fuel if I click that link

donbenedict:
yeah yeah. Sometimes I dnt blame people who don't gv second chances, it's just a way of makin dem cherish whatever they"ll ever have in future.

That's right. I guess it all depends on the individual.

Kondomatic:
Make my generator tank begin leak fuel if I click that link

Chai, u too dey fear

Leriebloom:
Sometimes no bcoz they can be bad for ur health.Mine was pretty bad for my health which was i caught ties totally.

Those ones are called unhealthy relationships.

Babyboo92:
Those ones are called unhealthy relationships.

Which was why i said sometimes.

Leriebloom:
Sometimes no bcoz they can be bad for ur health.Mine was pretty bad for my health which was i caught ties totally.

so for hw long has it been?

********************YES********************** REASON:: In case I remember how we use to FIGHT Kung-fu in the bedroom, then I will easily contact him/her and tell him/her that I want a re-match to take place

donbenedict:
so for hw long has it been?

A year and two months

Babyboo92:

A year and two months

urm, are u a twin sister to leriebloom? Cuz last tym I checked, it was her I asked a question.

donbenedict:
urm, are u a twin sister to leriebloom? Cuz last tym I checked, it was her I asked a question.

sorry jare, I got carried away. No vex

Babyboo92:


sorry jare, I got carried away. No vex

lol I gerrit. so ur single nw ryt?

donbenedict:
lol I gerrit. so ur single nw ryt?

yeah, something like that.

not advisable to keep exes, if they want u, why breaking up with u in the first place

Babyboo92:

yeah, something like that.

alright, it's cool.

donbenedict:
so for hw long has it been?

2 years ago.

Leriebloom:

2 years ago.

quite a long tym.. dnt u think it's high time u entered d datin scene again

donbenedict:
quite a long tym.. dnt u think it's high time u entered d datin scene again

Taking my precious pretty time.

Leriebloom:

Taking my precious pretty time.

goodluck in dat.

donbenedict:
goodluck in dat.

Thank you.

Babyboo92:
@smellymouth, why?

Read up bae

Babyboo92, why not put the whole gist instead of giving us link?
Or u don't want Lalasticlala to push it to FP?

Smellymouth:
The sooner you make a clean break and stick with it, the sooner the healing process can begin..

She/He may have been nice from time to time and occasionally very sweet, sexy, etc., but these fleeting moments don’t make up for the pain and damage she /he caused you.Each time you initiate contact or respond to her overtures, you have to start the healing process all over again.

Re-initiating contact only prolongs your pain. It’s the difference between ripping a band-aid off quickly and all at once or peeling off the adhesive very slowly, one arm hair at a time.

Do not apply salt to an open wound..Engaging in contact with your ex, even a little bit,is like rubbing salt into an open wound.

Not every break-up causes emotional damage...Some are mutual and based on understanding.