pro01:

Is the problem here the mere calls, or is it actually what such calls indicate (i.e. infidelity or prospect of infidelity)? You women never cease to amaze with your clever-by-half BS.

GBAM!!!!

tpia@:

Yes, its kidnapping when his nostrils are smelling the food she's cooking and he's sitting there waiting to be served.

Its kidnapping when his mouth is busily swallowing her pounded yam or whatever , maybe jollof rice, and he's lounging there washing it down with small stout.

Its also kidnapping when his legs dont lead him out the door but instead take him to the bedroom where he'll be groaning in ecstacy or maybe annoyance while pounding her mightly on the bed.  Why couldnt he carry his stuff elsewhere long before now or did she use handcuff to pin him down.

blackcat1:

My friend doesn't know why he hates her when she's not in his presence but immediately he sees her he becomes powerless.
Hope she hasn't washed anything for my friend sha

Richvkunt:

@OP,
Men lose it because most women are not understanding![color=#000099][/color]When a man fails to bring home the bacon,there is a limit to the female endurance and before you know it she is running her mouth and calling the poor man all kinds of names.

mimima:

pls i have the same issueooo,i work as csutomer service offcier in a , located in a market branch.The average trader here has ssce as a qualification,most times they ask for phone number for enquiries.For excellent customer service u have to oblige.But guess what,sometime some will call in the midnight only to make one enquiry or blablablabla.I keep explaining to my hussy,but sometimes he dont understand.what i does now is just to switch ma fone off in the nite but when he finds out that ny fone is off he will equally complain,

what in this scenerio what will u advice

megawave:

the only difference between your situation and mine is that you are married and i am about to be married. i will want you to personally seek the face of your creator before you go ahead with the divorce. pls
but .
you keep hurting we guys.
for your information:
the most loving and caring guys are the most jealous
when you look too cool to your woman she will take you for granted
being tough either is not a solution
useless guys please leave married women alone

op if she refuses to change, go against your will turn the house into hell for her.
you don't have to beat her cos that is not accepted but please treat her bleep up, cos you have the license to do that, bend her, break her cos ladies of nowadays are becoming something else[color=#770077][/color]

blackcat1:

To be honest my friend is a gentle guy. He has on numerous occasions told her it won't work. The girl would then call his family and do everything possible to make sure the relationship went on (cry, cook for all the guys friends, give him toto and so on). He tried to break up with her when they were 5 years together, girl refused to leave. He tried to parade another girl in front of this girl, girl intimated the new girl to the extent of bribing the police to beat up and lock up new girl for 3 days (this happened when they were 5 years in the relationship). In the 7th year guy again tried to break up again nothing worked. Every move he makes girl follows. Every plan guy makes to leave;  girl will topple. My friend told me the girl is obsessed with him(he calls the girl one man army). The girl's family have told her to leave the guy, girl has refused. She said it is him or nothing. The guy's family finally told the girl to move on as they can't force him to marry her. Girl said it's him or no one. What should he do? Or should he just marry her out of pity?

naijasexy:

hehehe! I am loving this 2shuz chick. Advice so original and true. Poster, take your time to read through her post and I guess your problem would be half-way solved. The rest is up to you to either ignore or heed to it. Never take rash decisions in a hasty moment as no condition/ situation in life is permanent. In no time, you would be out of your  parents' house and even be the one longing to see them! Dont forget that there are a lot of people out there wishing they had what you want to give away now.  Patience is a virtue hun, imbibe it. Take care.

2mch:

There cannot be two captains in a ship. Endure, your time of liberation is at hand. Just avoid your mama as much as possible and always say "Mummy i have a test, or quiz or exam.", when she starts with you.

chairmano:

@2chuz - I said she is not working now as a result of the new baby.
She will start working once the baby is old enough.
And of course I will work when I get there.
And thanks I don think am well well.
My family is uppermost in ma mind right now.

@collinsefe - Thanks

ronkebp:

OracleFemi, you never see demon you don hit wall!!!!! calm down, everything is not gra!!gra!!!!. How would you feel raising your hands and letting it come down on your wife, just like that na who you marry slave?

ritux:

@ op
I don't see any reason why a married woman will make male friends on her way to market [/color]etc. if it was at work place, it is understood. No reasonable man will call a married woman for 10mins at night if there is no hidden agenda.

pawa4ul:

[color=#990000]No don't do anything! Abi you said she took the call by 10:30pm while you were trying to arrange for love making. The next one will be by 11pm when you are already inside, and she will push you away to take the important calls that matter to her.
She knows that you can tolerate such rubbish that is why she is doing it anyway.
My friend, open your eyes. If they are open and you still seem blind, then use onions to wash them fast.
Guys, can you imagine your wives taking a call by 10:30pm and proudly/boldly telling you to your face that it was their ex-guy that called. I hate to imagine the action that will follow.

Julie1310:

yeah okay, we r dating since one year but its still kind of tough to get use to the different cultures.

i mean he is really liberal and democratic in most things but sometimes he can be so cold especially when it seems like i have hurt his pride. i mean i dont do this because i want to most times its more a missunderstanding, when i translate something from german in english and later i find out that u cant translate it like this.

its kind of tough but he is a great person and i m sure what ever he wrote was a compliment.

Julie1310:

he is from Enugu State

and he is at work right now, i cant ask him maybe later when he come home. He posted it on facebook and i just saw it. Thats kind of mean, lol, i mean i am german and i normaly comment in english when it is about him, its so unfair to do it in a different languaga. I bet if he really wrote i m" fat and ugly" he will never tell me the truth, lol, or it was like a joke between them, i dont know

NnamdiN:

I love you 4ever-m huru gi n'anya ruo ebighiebi. I am 4ever yours-m bu nke gi ruo ebighiebi.Are you dating an Igbo chick

Harry Potter:

well as 4 me "i luv u 4ever" means ahuru'm gi n'anya ebebe.

freecocoa:

Op but the first one sounds like"this girl is fat and ugly"

freecocoa:

Op please I'm igbo but abeg this one pass my power,this is a dialect I don't understand but its sounds like the one the people of EGBEMA in imo state speak,its pretty deep and chonk.

Julie1310:

Hey sexkillz
Thank u for your help. I appricaite this a lot.
These are the sentenses


1. Ejo nwa bu ibu

2. Nwoke i shala madu melu ngulu la uwula. i la akpa ike

3. m. ya duluwa mma wooo

4. Aaa nwele adekwu la okuku etinye olu oshila okpalambo tinye. Dute nwele mma esoo gapaga nkwu elu la Ami. insurance coverlum saa ishieghe?

MRbrownJAY:

^^^ bro, if you date a gal but tell her you would never marry her, YET, she still hangs around and hands over her toto whenever you want. . . . . . . would you turn it down if you had no other gal?!

obviously this man has a problem with marriage (with her), the fact that she kept throwing her toto at him like a frisbee, is the problem here, NOT the guy who happily chop the toto.
was she forced into staying in this union? was she forced into handing over the toto?

the guy said clearly that it wont work and there is NO REASON why that should change (10yr or not)

2mch:

The guy is lying about not having any feelings for the girl for 10years. did his family find and toast the girl for him? Did they force him into the relationship? If he is willing to tell the truth here and confess to the other relationships he has had concurrently you will be surprised. Knock on wood, dude has a woman of interest that has diverted his feelings suddenly. Something shiny and new. Now he has come to the conclusion that all those years were pity. It makes it easy for him to justiify and dispose the girl. He is just looking for confirmation and balls here. Old babe is probably aware, and is not willing to sacrifice her investment in the dude for anyone. He should just be truthful to himself. He would have chased this girl away a long time ago if he seriously did not have any feelings for her. 10years?! He is pitying her but i bet he is still chopping her too. Pity sex abi? . He is as much to blame as she is.

tishat:

jogging and running works magic for me.

obowunmi:

@ OP consistency is key. Small portions and gym. Drink lots of water --- be consistent for about 9 months or so --- you can also only eat baby food and water for the next 9 months or so --- that works.

bekay911:

U guys r young @ hrt and enjjoy your marriage.
BTW wat he call u ?doz he call u 2shuz