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Why Are Some Girls This Heartless? by ettaetta(m): 10:10am On Mar 21, 2016
Guys read and learn. this happened to one of my cousins. according to what he told me he met this girl far back in 2005 by then his business was going on well, he was rich. this girl claimed to love him so much and the guy fell for it. they were like love birds inseperable and with the kind of love the girl showed him he never believed this girl will ever leave him. after dating for about four years the girl got pregnant and gave birth to baby girl. he went to see her family he did marriage introduction. his wife to be really had passion for education and always wished she came from a rich home where she will be sent to school. so after the marriage introduction the guy decided to send the girl back to school with the belief that she would be his wife. every one in the family kicked against it, his mother advised him to futher his since he stopped @ secondary school level but he said he wont be able to combine bussiness and studies since his bussiness involves travelling alot. The were both living together and and planned to get married after the girl graduates. The girl graduated last 2 years and along the line the guy lost a huge sum of money to fraudsters which is really affecting his business. This dude is not as rich as before. To cut the long story short this girl left him without any quarel. The guy travel and came back to see that she has packed all her belongings. He called her and she said she was tired of the relationship, that she wanted to move on with her life just like that. This guy begged and begged but the girl didnt change her mind. this happened in december last year. The girl just got married two weeks ago to another guy forgetting all the guy has done for her leaving the guy heartbroken. They guy only went and collected their 5yrs old child who now stays with him. I really pity this dude because he is really heart broken and d whole thing is still like a dream to him. Women sha... I read a thread here yestertday and d girl said you must have a car,a house and a big bank account before you date or marry. My question is what happens if the money is not there again after marriage? You will pack your load and abandon the man abi? End time girls...

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Re: Why Are Some Girls This Heartless? by Ifakiland(m): 10:14am On Mar 21, 2016
ettaetta:
Guys read and learn. this happened to one of my cousins. according to what he told me he met this girl far back in 2005 by then his business was going on well, he was rich. this girl claimed to love him so much and the guy fell for it. they were like love birds inseperable and with the kind of love the girl showed him he never believed this girl will ever leave him. after dating for about four years the girl got pregnant and gave birth to baby girl. he went to see her family he did marriage introduction. his wife to be really had passion for education and always wished she came from a rich home where she will be sent to school. so after the marriage introduction the guy decided to send the girl back to school with the belief that she would be his wife. every one in the family kicked against it, his mother advised him to futher his since he stopped @ secondary level but he said he wont be able to combine bussiness and studies since his bussiness involves travelling alot. The were both living together and and planned to get married after the girl graduates. The girl graduated last 2 years and along the line the guy lot a huge sum of money to fraudsters which is really affecting his business. This dude is not as rich as before. To the cut the long story short this girl left him without any quarel. The guy travel and came back to see that she has packed all her belongings. He called her and she said she was tired of the relationship, that she wanted to move on with her life just like that. This guy begged and begged but the girl didnt change her mind. this happened in december last year. The girl just got married two years ago to another guy forgetting all the guy has done for her leaving the guy heartbroken. They guy only went and collected their 5yrs old child who now stays with him. I really pity this dude because he is really heart broken and d whole thing is still like a dream to him. Women sha...
don't dey sell acid in ur area?

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Re: Why Are Some Girls This Heartless? by Monalisa185(f): 10:14am On Mar 21, 2016
day light scamming

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Re: Why Are Some Girls This Heartless? by Burnnotice(m): 10:21am On Mar 21, 2016
OK. shii happens...... he should move on ad stop brooding over biiitches... many on the walkway!!!

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Re: Why Are Some Girls This Heartless? by Burnnotice(m): 10:21am On Mar 21, 2016
OK. shii happens...... he should move on and stop brooding over biiitches... many on the walkway!!!

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Re: Why Are Some Girls This Heartless? by solid3(m): 10:23am On Mar 21, 2016
Do not give a girl what you can not forget just incase you break up.

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Re: Why Are Some Girls This Heartless? by Nobody: 10:24am On Mar 21, 2016
ettaetta:
Guys read and learn. this happened to one of my cousins. according to what he told me he met this girl far back in 2005 by then his business was going on well, he was rich. this girl claimed to love him so much and the guy fell for it. they were like love birds inseperable and with the kind of love the girl showed him he never believed this girl will ever leave him. after dating for about four years the girl got pregnant and gave birth to baby girl. he went to see her family he did marriage introduction. his wife to be really had passion for education and always wished she came from a rich home where she will be sent to school. so after the marriage introduction the guy decided to send the girl back to school with the belief that she would be his wife. every one in the family kicked against it, his mother advised him to futher his since he stopped @ secondary school level but he said he wont be able to combine bussiness and studies since his bussiness involves travelling alot. The were both living together and and planned to get married after the girl graduates. The girl graduated last 2 years and along the line the guy lot a huge sum of money to fraudsters which is really affecting his business. This dude is not as rich as before. To cut the long story short this girl left him without any quarel. The guy travel and came back to see that she has packed all her belongings. He called her and she said she was tired of the relationship, that she wanted to move on with her life just like that. This guy begged and begged but the girl didnt change her mind. this happened in december last year. The girl just got married two years ago to another guy forgetting all the guy has done for her leaving the guy heartbroken. They guy only went and collected their 5yrs old child who now stays with him. I really pity this dude because he is really heart broken and d whole thing is still like a dream to him. Women sha...


When you explain the bolded then l'll believe your story

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Re: Why Are Some Girls This Heartless? by wolfgangg(m): 10:28am On Mar 21, 2016
Money over hoe.s but we still underdogs - J. Cole
Re: Why Are Some Girls This Heartless? by wolfgangg(m): 10:29am On Mar 21, 2016
Suigeneris93:



When you explain the bolded then l'll believe your story
Damn sis! you smart

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Re: Why Are Some Girls This Heartless? by Nobody: 10:36am On Mar 21, 2016
Suigeneris93:



When you explain the bolded then l'll believe your story
I second that.... Really confused with what the O.p said there

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Re: Why Are Some Girls This Heartless? by Nobody: 10:48am On Mar 21, 2016
2005-2016=11yrs and he didnt find the time to marry her. OP u support evil!!!
Most Nigerian men simply disrespect women and see us as object of abuse. Yes the only thing left in Nigerian men that attract women is their money. If ur broda was caring enough his girl wuld still be dia but am sure he got lost in d middle of [/b]"I provide all your needs, what else do u want"[b] attitude and lost her in d process.
I will leave any dumb as* man anyday once his money finishes and move on to a respecful man who will make my days worth remembering.
Stop complaining guys and build ur characters cos some of us ladies are finally realising dat an arrogant man is not worth our precious time.
#Let the bashing begin undecided
And I hate all these cultures dat hand over children to men dat didnt pay their mum's bride price, in my village, any child born out of wedluck belongs to d mum and has d Liberty to stay or go to his dad when he is an adult.

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Re: Why Are Some Girls This Heartless? by wolfgangg(m): 10:58am On Mar 21, 2016
Are you sure you read the thread?
Re: Why Are Some Girls This Heartless? by ettaetta(m): 11:03am On Mar 21, 2016
Suigeneris93:



When you explain the bolded then l'll believe your story
believe it or not, its a true life story. Besides i didnt post it for you to believe it, i only posted it for guys to learn before the fall into the love trap of some of you gold diggers

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Re: Why Are Some Girls This Heartless? by modelmike7(m): 11:13am On Mar 21, 2016
ettaetta:
believe it or not, its a true life story. Besides i didnt post it for you to believe it, i only posted it for guys to learn before the fall into the love trap of some of you gold diggers
. . . . can't you read what you typed and just correct yourself pls? It happened last December and she got married 2 years ago? Haba, if na u , you go believe am?!
Re: Why Are Some Girls This Heartless? by NiRfreak(m): 11:15am On Mar 21, 2016
She wants adventure......her eyes don open......Your reward is in heaven man....Take heart and move on....such is life.
Re: Why Are Some Girls This Heartless? by ivyT(f): 11:16am On Mar 21, 2016
Thats a sad story,but hey,bad things happen to good pple..That doesnt mean 'all' ladies are golddiggers.
Re: Why Are Some Girls This Heartless? by Nobody: 11:17am On Mar 21, 2016
ettaetta:
believe it or not, its a true life story. Besides i didnt post it for you to believe it, i only posted it for guys to learn before the fall into the love trap of some of you gold diggers



If you want to shade the so-called 'gold digging ladies' at least come up with a more authentic story undecided that said, most of you fall into the trap of so-called 'gold diggers' cos you're looking for who you can mold and control at your whim. So yea, he got served and so will the others who tread his path tongue

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Re: Why Are Some Girls This Heartless? by ettaetta(m): 11:19am On Mar 21, 2016
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Re: Why Are Some Girls This Heartless? by modelmike7(m): 11:22am On Mar 21, 2016
ettaetta:
ve corrected it. Its two weeks ago
. . . . Good of you bro! May God safe us from such devilish women.
Re: Why Are Some Girls This Heartless? by Debola69(m): 11:40am On Mar 21, 2016
ivyT:
Thats a sad story,but hey,bad things happen to good pple..That doesnt mean 'all' ladies are golddiggers.

And i trust you aint one. Awesome! I've got things other than gold that you may like to dig by the way. *wink*
Re: Why Are Some Girls This Heartless? by ettaetta(m): 11:42am On Mar 21, 2016
mineANDurs:
If ur broda was caring enough his girl wuld still be dia but am sure he got lost in d middle of [b][/b]"I provide all your needs, what else do u want"[bundecided
you think so? Then Why did she agree to marry him before?
Re: Why Are Some Girls This Heartless? by halfricanadian(f): 11:44am On Mar 21, 2016
Good people meet bad people

I pity the guy's next victim like his new gf na she go suffer am pass

If he wanna marry he shd better a woman dat will love him nd his daughter it shdnt b a woman to love only him o
Nuff said lipsrsealed
Re: Why Are Some Girls This Heartless? by tolzy90(m): 11:58am On Mar 21, 2016
mineANDurs:
Most Nigerian men simply disrespect women and see us as object of abuse. Yes the only thing left in Nigerian men that attract women is their money. If ur broda was caring enough his girl wuld still be dia but am sure he got lost in d middle of [/b]"I provide all your needs, what else do u want"[b] attitude and lost her in d process.
I will leave any dumb as* man anyday once his money finishes and move on to a respecful man who will make my days worth remembering.
Stop complaining guys and build ur characters cos some of us ladies are finally realising dat an arrogant man is not worth our precious time.
#Let the bashing begin undecided
Golddigger alert cry

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Re: Why Are Some Girls This Heartless? by ettaetta(m): 12:00pm On Mar 21, 2016
ivyT:
Thats a sad story,but hey,bad things happen to good pple..That doesnt mean 'all' ladies are golddiggers.
not all but @least 80 percent of naija babes are gold diggers.
Re: Why Are Some Girls This Heartless? by halfricanadian(f): 12:11pm On Mar 21, 2016
mineANDurs:
Most Nigerian men simply disrespect women and see us as object of abuse. Yes the only thing left in Nigerian men that attract women is their money. If ur broda was caring enough his girl wuld still be dia but am sure he got lost in d middle of [/b]"I provide all your needs, what else do u want"[b] attitude and lost her in d process.
I will leave any dumb as* man anyday once his money finishes and move on to a respecful man who will make my days worth remembering.
Stop complaining guys and build ur characters cos some of us ladies are finally realising dat an arrogant man is not worth our precious time.
#Let the bashing begin undecided

Please preach
Re: Why Are Some Girls This Heartless? by halfricanadian(f): 12:18pm On Mar 21, 2016
solid3:
Do not give a girl what you can not forget just incase you break up.


Preach!!!!!!! Especiallu wen she never demanded for it
Re: Why Are Some Girls This Heartless? by okuneddie(m): 12:41pm On Mar 21, 2016
see scam....nobody is wiser let's pray to God to give us the flesh orlf our flesh and the bone of our bone....that lady no do good at all
Re: Why Are Some Girls This Heartless? by ettaetta(m): 1:35pm On Mar 21, 2016
Ifakiland:

don't dey sell acid in ur area?
dats not necessary Two wrongs don't make a right.
Re: Why Are Some Girls This Heartless? by Nobody: 1:47pm On Mar 21, 2016
Ifakiland:

don't dey sell acid in ur area?


Shut ur dirty mouth!
Can u let a man date your sister for 11yrs all in d name of *I will marry U* plus a child out of wedluck?
Most of u guys needs a brain cos it is becoming evident that u guys lack it.

Som1 will do it to ur Sister, wen she realises her mistake and leave him,
Come back and tell us ur reaction wen he baths her with Acid.
SLOWPOKE!!!

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Re: Why Are Some Girls This Heartless? by ettaetta(m): 1:52pm On Mar 21, 2016
Suigeneris93:

he got served and so will the others who tread his path tongue
if he was your brother will you talk like dat? Think well before posting trash.

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Re: Why Are Some Girls This Heartless? by Nobody: 1:55pm On Mar 21, 2016
ettaetta:
if he was your brother will you talk like dat? Think well before posting trash.

If its ur sister will u be happy watching her live with a man who did not wed her for 11yrs?

Lets think b4 we judge.

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