marvelck:
Imagine a girl after been dumped by a guy, she spent close to like 3 years with (after all the sex they had and the things they must have done together), now presenting herself as a fresh babe/bride to another guy. What else does such a girl has to offer to her new guy or husband when she eventually get married? Imagine after dating and sleeping with several guys, what is left for her future husband? Thats why girls should stop all this jumping around. It doesnt help them but devalue their worth before men....ur body is ur pride. If you use it anyhow today, it would surely come back to haunt you tomorrow. As a girl, you may be young and fine now, but in the next 10 years or so, your body and beauty would have worn out due to obvious reasons. So, stop living a vain life...for your own good.

It is unfortunate that we are living in a man's world where, if a dog bits a man it's no news but if a man bits a dog,it hits headline. That is why Op is thinking and saying all these. What about the men that boats about how many girls they have slept with?,(which might even include you) are they exempted or...?.Both sex sleep around,don't single out one for crucification.My point is that we should desist from seeing only girls/women as ashawo,it's in both sex,in fact, there wouldn't be ashawo woman if there is no ashawo man.

God have mercy on our Ladies

Timolanki:
Any lady that I'm gona marry 2moro shld better preserve her self cos if i find out that she has been deflowered my love 4 her won't b d same. #teamvirgin#

after u don disvirgin pple daughters finish abi? Seat down dy wait 4 virgin til thy Kingdom come.

marvelck:
Imagine a girl after been dumped by a guy, she spent close to like 3 years with (after all the sex they had and the things they must have done together), now presenting herself as a fresh babe/bride to another guy. What else does such a girl has to offer to her new guy or husband when she eventually get married? Imagine after dating and sleeping with several guys, what is left for her future husband? Thats why girls should stop all this jumping around. It doesnt help them but devalue their worth before men....ur body is ur pride. If you use it anyhow today, it would surely come back to haunt you tomorrow. As a girl, you may be young and fine no, but in the next 10 years or so, your body and beauty would have worn out due to obvious reasons. So, stop living a vain life...for your own good.

, so what of the boys, do they have licence to jump up and down?

Any lady thatI'm gonamarry 2moro shld betterpreserveher self cos if i find outthat she has beendefloweredmy love 4 her won't b d same. #teamvirgin#
Then make sure you are a virgin also.

KingAdeOluomo1:
HAVE YOU MEET YOURS

Single and searching bt in a relationship we owe each other nothing

vague:
why can't parents be used as examples? Are they human too or not? Biko park well

Off course!, parents are humans too bt how can u abuse someone's mother so freely?.

Does it mean some people don't have respect for their own parents Cos the last time i checked parents are nt involved here.

Who gives a fork abt virginity. Jst need me a girl dat is right and tight n ready to stand by me has we build an empire! As dy say no body holy pass. U cant straw wit other pples daughters n sisters n expect to marry a Saint. Period

vicben27:
Who gives a fork abt virginity. Jst need me a girl dat is right and tight n ready to stand by me has we build an empire! As dy say no body holy pass. U cant straw wit other pples daughters n sisters n expect to marry a Saint. Period

And you Sir, have displayed sound reasoning. I love how you used the word "we" not "I". #teamplayer.

marvelck:
Imagine a girl after been dumped by a guy, she spent close to like 3 years with (after all the sex they had and the things they must have done together), now presenting herself as a fresh babe/bride to another guy. What else does such a girl has to offer to her new guy or husband when she eventually get married? Imagine after dating and sleeping with several guys, what is left for her future husband? Thats why girls should stop all this jumping around. It doesnt help them but devalue their worth before men....ur body is ur pride. If you use it anyhow today, it would surely come back to haunt you tomorrow. As a girl, you may be young and fine now, but in the next 10 years or so, your body and beauty would have worn out due to obvious reasons. So, stop living a vain life...for your own good.

I have read this long story and all I have to say is......















What a woman does with herself is NONE of your business; except, of course she is your wife, daughter or maybe girlfriend.

GET THAT

What of the men sleeping around distributing and reducing the litre of their sperm count before they marry? What do they have to when it comes to pro-creation? Do you know that many marriages that are having problem because of childlessness is coursed by the men? You know why, because of their excessive sex life they live starting from age 15 to when they are married.

All I see, are people defending promiscuity, sexual recklessness and illicit Sex.

They think it's ordinary to justify iniquity? You are being made to do so by forces more powerful than you.

This same people shout corruption here and there.

ZeeAfrica:


hehhehe wat r u on abt? R we talking abt age or r we talking abt virgins? Do u think a 20 year old nawadays is a virgin? Hahahhhaha which planet r u from? Keep dreaming my doll

for real?
na wah oo, world don spoil

HateU2:
Thats Op's mentality ore.
So, what about guys dat can't count d number of girls dey have slept with I guess that's right too but bcox it's LADIES!!! They will always have smtin to say. Nobody is saying its good to jump around or sleep with every guy we dates but how do we find the right person Are we suppose to sit and 'manage' a guy when marriage is not 'endurance' but 'enjoyment' .

It's called 'searching' for the bone nd d bone.
Getting to marry 'ur best frnd' not a stranger.


Naughtynaughty, miss ya

swthrt Gudmrng miss yah more. Showapa

ebubey:
GBAM!!! ...kin fada gaskiya

Kin girma a jos ne?

Oghumu1:
What if the gals keep coming??

Then. ZIP UP
Or flee like Joseph!

knightsson:
hmmmmm

but I personally think, first, their parents should be blame. parents of nowadays won't bother caring for their female children even when not upto 18yrs when the whole world knows these girls has things nature has bestowed on them to buy with money.

And if these happens, they would be left with no option other than going outside to look for boyfriends that would foot these bills and in return they offer these guys their puss¡es.

Imagine a 15-17yrs old girl whom is still supposed to be under her parents being abandoned by these parents, with no money to buy bra, panties, pad, etc.

Life I must admit isn't easy and fair for majority of our female folks.

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marvelck:
Imagine a girl after been dumped by a guy, she spent close to like 3 years with (after all the sex they had and the things they must have done together), now presenting herself as a fresh babe/bride to another guy. What else does such a girl has to offer to her new guy or husband when she eventually get married? Imagine after dating and sleeping with several guys, what is left for her future husband? Thats why girls should stop all this jumping around. It doesnt help them but devalue their worth before men....ur body is ur pride. If you use it anyhow today, it would surely come back to haunt you tomorrow. As a girl, you may be young and fine now, but in the next 10 years or so, your body and beauty would have worn out due to obvious reasons. So, stop living a vain life...for your own good.

Why are you vexing and posting this long story on how another person lives her life?

Have you worried about your own life today?

You don chop?

what about the men ?

My question to the Op, Do you have a girlfriend? Or have you ever heard sexual relationship with any girl?


If you give me answers to this questions, I would know what to really comment, thanks.

Adaobi12:
Op, Are you dating without sex?
have you dated with sex?
if the answer is no, you have no right to spew such trash. the girls don't Bleep themselves.

I agree with you my fellow lady. I'm a lady like you but the fact that Girls don't bleep themselves does not mean they should open their legs to every guy that comes their way. You shouldn't have sex with you who know you can't marry. The Op didn't say don't have sex, he only said stop changing boyfriends. A lady should be diligent, courteous and well mannered and should not be a leg spreader. Her dignity must be upheld. Thank you

...And after the guy dumps her he jumps to another babe as a fresh dude. Tell me who is deceiving who Guys stop wasting your life, your youth, your energy, your sperm. Keep it for that special lady so you would have healthy children.
Stop wasting your SEED like it is worthless...
Ladies.... hmmmmm... I dont even know where to start with you!


Say NO to premarital sex.

In my opinion I don't need a girl who's a virgin. I even make sure my babes are not virgins before I date them. Can't stand disvirgining a girl. For me all I want is a sporty girl who knows how to eat right and maintain her body very well chikena. She can thrash it out with as many guys as she likes b4 we meet. That's her past. Once she's appealing and offcourse sporty the rest na story.

donkross1:


You can say that again . How are you ma'am.

I'm fine, tanks. You?

01emek:
In my opinion I don't need a girl who's a virgin. I even make sure my babes are not virgins before I date them. Can't stand disvirgining a girl. For me all I want is a sporty girl who knows how to eat right and maintain her body very well chikena. She can thrash it out with as many guys as she likes b4 we meet. That's her past. Once she's appealing and offcourse sporty the rest na story.

waoh!!!

Are u sure uu ar a Nigerian Bcox dats too mature for 9ja guys to say.

I like ur mentality

dada01:
Xank god say na deeperlife i dey marry.

even the deeper life self.. U know how many of them that I've bang!

ZeeAfrica:
Op i bet u wud never marry a widow or divorcee right?[s] Fyi did u knw dat there r surgeries, excersices and food, which can actualy close de hole as if someone is a virgin?[/s] Did u knw dat wen girls eat clean and gym, dey will still look hot even in dat 10 years? So open yo eyes my dear, u might marry someone who u think is a virgin, just becoz she did de above, n u wil b fooled forever. Wat u r saying is de same as girls wanting rich guys, wat happened to ppl loving de other person just for who they r, n not wat dey can get frm dem? Anyway keep to yo prinscipals oo, bt dnt say i did nt warn u, wen u marry a ''virgin'' who has slept wit more dan 20 ppl, bt did gud tricks so dat u can think she has never been touched before, only for u to b suprised wen yo long lost cousin meets yo new family den mentions dat he and yo Mrs once had something going on. Marry a girl for de heart my sweet, coz even de so called virgin can stil turn out to be a liability

Be der and be foooliing yourself

Go and do it na

naughtynaughty:
swthrt Gudmrng miss yah more. Showapa

I dey ooo but why have been offline Don't tell me it's bcoox of that ish?

jacy67:


Then. ZIP UP

Or flee like Joseph!

U saying it like its that easy,
Only God can help in such situation

Oghumu1:
U saying it like its that easy, Only God can help in such situation

it's never going to be easy but at the same time not impossible

some dumb and senseless ladies would go as far as doing a s*x ta*pe with their so called bf


mofos people.

ZeeAfrica:
Op i bet u wud never marry a widow or divorcee right? Fyi did u knw dat there r surgeries, excersices and food, which can actualy close de hole as if someone is a virgin? Did u knw dat wen girls eat clean and gym, dey will still look hot even in dat 10 years? So open yo eyes my dear, u might marry someone who u think is a virgin, just becoz she did de above, n u wil b fooled forever. Wat u r saying is de same as girls wanting rich guys, wat happened to ppl loving de other person just for who they r, n not wat dey can get frm dem? Anyway keep to yo prinscipals oo, bt dnt say i did nt warn u, wen u marry a ''virgin'' who has slept wit more dan 20 ppl, bt did gud tricks so dat u can think she has never been touched before, only for u to b suprised wen yo long lost cousin meets yo new family den mentions dat he and yo Mrs once had something going on. Marry a girl for de heart my sweet, coz even de so called virgin can stil turn out to be a liability

U ar right honey but in the same vane u are encouraging girls to continue sleeping around. If they must do let it be for love.