marvelck:
Imagine a girl after been dumped by a guy, she spent close to like 3 years with (after all the sex they had and the things they must have done together), now presenting herself as a fresh babe/bride to another guy. What else does such a girl has to offer to her new guy or husband when she eventually get married? Imagine after dating and sleeping with several guys, what is left for her future husband? Thats why girls should stop all this jumping around. It doesnt help them but devalue their worth before men....ur body is ur pride. If you use it anyhow today, it would surely come back to haunt you tomorrow. As a girl, you may be young and fine now, but in the next 10 years or so, your body and beauty would have worn out due to obvious reasons. So, stop living a vain life...for your own good.

You just need to see life differently. Besides you didn't speak of guys. What will they offer to their wives after sleeping around?

Timolanki:
Any lady that I'm gona marry 2moro shld better preserve her self cos if i find out that she has been deflowered my love 4 her won't b d same. #teamvirgin#

What about those gals u have already deflowered ?

michiyke2003:
They no go hear. Nigerian women can do alot of bullshit just to get money. I no blame them,na this our useless govt i blame.

Lol everything na government, very soon u go blame our economy join

I read thru the pages and it all but confirmed girls are their own worst enemies. The first page is the worst of all. The girls are even justifying the action of them sleeping around. Those that also liked their comments are something else. This generation is cursed mehn.

Nobody's talking about the guy's side. So its right for a guy to be sleeping around then say he wants a virgin as a wife?? Gals Una don suffer o, well OP u have a point ..

Prinzecharlez:

Nawaooo. I ain't see nohing!

Hahahahahahaha

Are u surprised?
Don't be.

Is it not a fact that some ladies after a divorce or the death of the first husband, are still sought after and married by men, while the "fresh virgins" are still single for far too long?

hos ain't loyal

jacy67:
Hmmmm

It will be better if guys don't change girls like boxers!

then there won't be need for all these threads claiming holy holy

What if the gals keep coming??

Happiness87:
simple question is your boos the same way they were when you were 16?

Have you not seen a 50 year old man getting married, how many single 50year old women can get a ring?

In sensible societies, 50-year old women get married. In Nigeria, you guys are too consumed by bile, hate and materialism to make that happen

Adaobi12:
Op, Are you dating without sex?
have you dated with sex?
if the answer is no, you have no right to spew such trash. the girls don't Bleep themselves.

Because you've offered your body to different Men does'nt mean you should come and derail this thread...Biko!...don't be an enemy of progress...

ZeeAfrica:
Op i bet u wud never marry a widow or divorcee right? Fyi did u knw dat there r surgeries, excersices and food, which can actualy close de hole as if someone is a virgin? Did u knw dat wen girls eat clean and gym, dey will still look hot even in dat 10 years? So open yo eyes my dear, u might marry someone who u think is a virgin, just becoz she did de above, n u wil b fooled forever. Wat u r saying is de same as girls wanting rich guys, wat happened to ppl loving de other person just for who they r, n not wat dey can get frm dem? Anyway keep to yo prinscipals oo, bt dnt say i did nt warn u, wen u marry a ''virgin'' who has slept wit more dan 20 ppl, bt did gud tricks so dat u can think she has never been touched before, only for u to b suprised wen yo long lost cousin meets yo new family den mentions dat he and yo Mrs once had something going on. Marry a girl for de heart my sweet, coz even de so called virgin can stil turn out to be a liability

You are talking trash. Once a girl is disvergined, there is nothing she can do to renew it. Stop giving your self and other silly girls false hope. Second hand will always be second.

Dollyak:
The ever disturbing physche of a primitive Nigerian man. Sleeping around with every men or women should be frowned upon, but to suggest this reduce the value of the woman is b.s..... quite frankly. Bleeding morality into neo-scientific fact doesn't work too well. There should be a distinction. I am outta here.

U are ryt dear.

Happiness87:
practice self fucking then, lol

Wht ar u sayin here?.......Lolzzzz

well well...you've said well bro but notwithstanding I think the fact that ladies are emotionally weak do make them vulnerable to all sexual "hazards". But when the deed has been done "ki ni olododo fe shey". Many people have married but fairly used wives...my candid advice to guys out there is that try to apply the law of "karmal" to your life style with ladies, whatever you do to another man's property shall be done to yours...i.e if you "eat and dump"... someone else somewhere is eating and certainly will dump your own. and for ladies "we" know you are weak but still try to be strong if only in that aspect..."resist the devil and he shall flee from you"....if truly he loves you sex will be the last thing he will "presurise" you for...open your eyes,mind and heart so you don't fall victim....and if presently you have gbe egun....remember that everyone has past therefore Forget the past Forgive yourself and Focus on the future...Good morning

dada01:
Xank god say na deeperlife i dey marry.

Tah! No even rish dia. Deeper life...? In short no church wey some, dem aren't bado.

Yosifperfect:
This is certainly not about being ''doubled-standard''. Any girl that has slept with more than 4 guys before marriage doesn't deserve bride-price.

Thank you for saying the truth

marvelck:
Imagine a girl after been dumped by a guy, she spent close to like 3 years with (after all the sex they had and the things they must have done together), now presenting herself as a fresh babe/bride to another guy. What else does such a girl has to offer to her new guy or husband when she eventually get married? Imagine after dating and sleeping with several guys, what is left for her future husband? Thats why girls should stop all this jumping around. It doesnt help them but devalue their worth before men....ur body is ur pride. If you use it anyhow today, it would surely come back to haunt you tomorrow. As a girl, you may be young and fine now, but in the next 10 years or so, your body and beauty would have worn out due to obvious reasons. So, stop living a vain life...for your own good.

Wonderful post. Infact u deserve and applaus. But have u forgetten that chastity is not for girls alone to keep ? Do u know dat boys also need to be virgins? We re often quick to hit the ladies when it comes to issues like this but have forgotten that we're also guilty. If the girls are flirting with whom re the flirting with?- Dogs ? of course NO!!! Its with boys. So if the boys keep themselves, the girls will stop and vice vicer. So let our judgement be not one side

story!!!

[quote author=marvelck post=44993083]Imagine a girl after been dumped by a guy, she spent close to like 3 years with (after all the sex they had and the things they must have done together), now presenting herself as a fresh babe/bride to another guy. What else does such a girl has to offer to her new guy or husband when she eventually get married? Imagine after dating and sleeping with several guys, what is left for her future husband? Thats why girls should stop all this jumping around. It doesnt help them but devalue their worth before men....ur body is ur pride. If you use it anyhow today, it would surely come back to haunt you tomorrow. As a girl, you may be young and fine now, but in the next 10 years or so, your body a


when u guys brag that u cannot date girl more than 3 months, that u cant date girl without sexing her and that u must test her engine b4 buy her. car. You guys are d one mockin girl wt no man in her life. YOU WANT TO EAT UR CAKE AND SAME TYM HAVE IT. HOW IS IT POSSIBLE? i dnt knw

Onyochejohn:
4ur mind, deeperlife girl no dey fu**cck? 4get dat thing! Don't make me give u prove oh cos I don't want to change ur orientation oh

abeg i need am.
Bside make u no com use one person crime generalise d whole deeper life girls o.

Op u don find trouble..The Daughters of Eve will skin u alive today..

Olosho ti take over! I know this will happen one day, educated runs girl will look for a way to justify their actions , may be that lady in Babylon hostel is here defending this, in our university days, she was a cheerful giver, she always travel for runs, most guys were shareholders, and some boys later nick named her WELL, I'm sure you know why!

I still don't know why any reasonable woman will condemn the OP for this, is this how you want to raise your daughters?

OP you have made sense.
However it is very difficult to find a girl that values her body nowadays. Cow and eye of the needle stuff. She will value money more.

They say life is about taking the cards that you are dealt with and making good use of them. As men we have to accept that all girls are hoes.

Yanga dey sleep trouble go wake am. I asked my woman how many sexual partners she has had. My guy tears filled my eyes when she counted up to 25 .
She said its because of money. I said ok but you suppose don build mansion now. Wia d money wey u make.

Anyway what attracted me to her was her good character, the character of a bad girl gone good. She has seen it all and is ready to settle. The sacrifices she makes for me a virgin would not. I think the state of a woman's heart is more important than the state of her vagina.

Backstreet boys sang I don't care who you are, what you did as long as you love me. Its true

calliking:



You just need to see life differently. Besides you didn't speak of guys. What will they offer to their wives after sleeping around?

gbayi!!!

That one go be original pass me ajeku.

calliking:



You just need to see life differently. Besides you didn't speak of guys. What will they offer to their wives after sleeping around?

Infact, na helelele.. Lots of experience.

The attack on women in dis forum is becoming alarming. For christ sake. Wht did we do too u guys? In ur first line u said after being dumped by a guy. Only d guy dump, she went out to look for anoda, u still complain.

KingAdeOluomo1:


Come and see my two good nl female padis oooo

@ hate.u2
@herbie27

Thats Op's mentality ore.
So, what about guys dat can't count d number of girls dey have slept with I guess that's right too but bcox it's LADIES!!! They will always have smtin to say. Nobody is saying its good to jump around or sleep with every guy we dates but how do we find the right person Are we suppose to sit and 'manage' a guy when marriage is not 'endurance' but 'enjoyment' .

It's called 'searching' for the bone nd d bone.
Getting to marry 'ur best frnd' not a stranger.


Naughtynaughty, miss ya

Dollyak:
The ever disturbing physche of a primitive Nigerian man. Sleeping around with every men or women should be frowned upon, but to suggest this reduce the value of the woman is b.s..... quite frankly. Bleeding morality into neo-scientific fact doesn't work too well. There should be a distinction. I am outta here.

Clear cut reasoning finely depicted via good grasp of words ..expressionist with a clear message.. .this is a girl i'lld like to meet...can we? ...

As regards post content, the infusion of morality into neo-scientific is simply a tool predominant in this part of the world as a balance element or mechanism....in all honesty, it's fuelled by a believe system birthed on culture, religion, e.t.c...can be myopic but in contrast, it's been a key ingrident that has kept the black man sanity from the demise of mind bulgling global concepts birthed daily... Say homosexialism, sex change, e.t.c...scientifically, it's a go...with a moral infusion via religion, culture , e.t.c, it's a different ball game dear.

Precel1:
with all this emphasis on ladies bodies being their pride.... men don't take pride in their bodies too? if all your gfs and side chics suck your banana what's left for your wife?

in as much as i dont agree with the op, yes we dont see it that way. male species are chasers, It comes natural. Have you studied other species? goats, dogs, birds? Elephant? Thats how it has been and thats how it will be.

marvelck:
Imagine a girl after been dumped by a guy, she spent close to like 3 years with (after all the sex they had and the things they must have done together), now presenting herself as a fresh babe/bride to another guy. What else does such a girl has to offer to her new guy or husband when she eventually get married? Imagine after dating and sleeping with several guys, what is left for her future husband? Thats why girls should stop all this jumping around. It doesnt help them but devalue their worth before men....ur body is ur pride. If you use it anyhow today, it would surely come back to haunt you tomorrow. As a girl, you may be young and fine now, but in the next 10 years or so, your body and beauty would have worn out due to obvious reasons. So, stop living a vain life...for your own good.

How can we be so sure u as a guy didn't jump? Wot do u also have to offer to ur babe or wife...imagin kettle calling pot black....guys we re just too self centered...