Dollyak:
The ever disturbing physche of a primitive Nigerian man. Sleeping around with every men or women should be frowned upon, but to suggest this reduce the value of the woman is b.s..... quite frankly. Bleeding morality into neo-scientific fact doesn't work too well. There should be a distinction. I am outta here.

Adaobi12:
Op, Are you dating without sex?
have you dated with sex?
if the answer is no, you have no right to spew such trash. the girls don't Bleep themselves.

MathsChic:

In sensible societies, 50-year old women get married. In Nigeria, you guys are too consumed by bile, hate and materialism to make that happen

ZeeAfrica:


hehehhehe nope. I no dey vex ooo. M just trying to open yola eyes

donkross1:
Nigerians and their stupid mentality and all na shakara... Here in Jozi, you will see south african ladies of 30 years old that are already grand mothers and am not speaking literally oo(I mean she has a daughter who has a daughter too) still Nigerians men are still marrying them day in day out. An average south african girl has at least a kid at the age of 20, still Nigerians are marrying them here but when it comes to our own Nigerian women, we go dey find virgin Mtcheew.

geni340:
its rily stewpid 4 a lady to keep strings of boyfriends. if uve bagged d ryt guy, hold & stick to him...

HateU2:
I like this bro. We dey stories lyk dis everyday but why is it like this I don't get it!
Some are claiming 'team foreign girls' as if we will notice that someone no marry 9ja girl. We know the stories of foreign girls too. 9ja guy won't stop to amaze me

Gerrard59:
Nairaland is the most misogynistic forum/blog in Nigeria and I say this as someone who "practically" lives online. According to the OP and his likes, a man has the right to sleep with as many girls as he likes but same is not right for the women? Do they girls sleep with themselves? Are they men fvcking ghosts? The guy who "dumped" the girl, honestly, does he deserves a virgin? And IF he does, why not demand same for the lady?
What's good for the goose is good for the gander.


Seriously, the Nigerian mentality is a fvcked up and ridiculous mentality. Men who fvck up and down now demand virgins

donkross1:


Lol I guess it has always been in our habit, placing anything foreign over our own. Even when the foreign thingny is not as good as our own, we will still choose foreign over ours.

ZeeAfrica:
Op i bet u wud never marry a widow or divorcee right? Fyi did u knw dat there r surgeries, excersices and food, which can actualy close de hole as if someone is a virgin? Did u knw dat wen girls eat clean and gym, dey will still look hot even in dat 10 years? So open yo eyes my dear, u might marry someone who u think is a virgin, just becoz she did de above, n u wil b fooled forever. Wat u r saying is de same as girls wanting rich guys, wat happened to ppl loving de other person just for who they r, n not wat dey can get frm dem? Anyway keep to yo prinscipals oo, bt dnt say i did nt warn u, wen u marry a ''virgin'' who has slept wit more dan 20 ppl, bt did gud tricks so dat u can think she has never been touched before, only for u to b suprised wen yo long lost cousin meets yo new family den mentions dat he and yo Mrs once had something going on. Marry a girl for de heart my sweet, coz even de so called virgin can stil turn out to be a liability

marvelck:
Imagine a girl after been dumped by a guy, she spent close to like 3 years with (after all the sex they had and the things they must have done together), now presenting herself as a fresh babe/bride to another guy. What else does such a girl has to offer to her new guy or husband when she eventually get married? Imagine after dating and sleeping with several guys, what is left for her future husband? Thats why girls should stop all this jumping around. It doesnt help them but devalue their worth before men....ur body is ur pride. If you use it anyhow today, it would surely come back to haunt you tomorrow. As a girl, you may be young and fine now, but in the next 10 years or so, your body and beauty would have worn out due to obvious reasons. So, stop living a vain life...for your own good.

HateU2:
yes and that's why we are not even progressing as a country.

Adaobi12:
Op, Are you dating without sex?
have you dated with sex?
if the answer is no, you have no right to spew such trash. the girls don't Bleep themselves.

BitterTruthUass:
As much as girls sleep around, guys sleep around too. There is no place in the constitution where it says "Only guys are allowed to sleep around". Sleeping around is disgusting and I'm totally against it whether from female or male so I think you should rephrase the details of this thread as it seem to be biased and in favour of guys.

goingape:
that's NAIJA WOMEN for you!

that's why I don't date them and will never date them.

team foreign girls!

vague:
if a woman's worth is solely measured by the tightness of her vagina, how worthy is your mother's own?

marvelck:
Imagine a girl after been dumped by a guy, she spent close to like 3 years with (after all the sex they had and the things they must have done together), now presenting herself as a fresh babe/bride to another guy. What else does such a girl has to offer to her new guy or husband when she eventually get married? Imagine after dating and sleeping with several guys, what is left for her future husband? Thats why girls should stop all this jumping around. It doesnt help them but devalue their worth before men....ur body is ur pride. If you use it anyhow today, it would surely come back to haunt you tomorrow. As a girl, you may be young and fine now, but in the next 10 years or so, your body and beauty would have worn out due to obvious reasons. So, stop living a vain life...for your own good.

Gerrard59:
Nairaland is the most misogynistic forum/blog in Nigeria and I say this as someone who "practically" lives online. According to the OP and his likes, a man has the right to sleep with as many girls as he likes but same is not right for the women? Do they girls sleep with themselves? Are they men fvcking ghosts? The guy who "dumped" the girl, honestly, does he deserves a virgin? And IF he does, why not demand same for the lady?
What's good for the goose is good for the gander.


Seriously, the Nigerian mentality is a fvcked up and ridiculous mentality. Men who fvck up and down now demand virgins

geni340:
its rily stewpid 4 a lady to keep strings of boyfriends. if uve bagged d ryt guy, hold & stick to him...

MathsChic:

In sensible societies, 50-year old women get married. In Nigeria, you guys are too consumed by bile, hate and materialism to make that happen