190:

well,i happened 2 go greet my ex some days back
and met her mom,who suggested that we both take some time
off 2 settle our differences,we have been off the relationship
b4 den for about 8months now,so on that good sunday,i came 2
pick her 4rm her house so we could go somewher 2 talk and believe me
rite 4rm her gate, she started asking me 4 money,that she is broke and stuffs like dat
( a girl i havent seen in 8months-didnt know her were abouts,demanding 4 money 4rm me and even suggesting i do an ATM from the bank opposite their house) i refused simply by tellin her that there was tyme 4 all dat and she angrily came down 4rm the car and left back 2 her house,i simply deleted her phone # and drove off,

pls just contribute sometin if u notice sometin abt what just happend

abuja girls are terrible,

@poster, why u go there in the first place? well , just hope the essence of going there wasn't defeated
abi no bi to settle differences ?
men, it cost money if you really want it
but the girl no try at all well jst shows she could be cheap

I wud say u shud forget about her

@ Post

Whats the big deal Why wont you give her money if she needs it? Are you supposed to give only your GF money? Or is the fact that she's ur ex disqualify her from getting anything from you?

It dosen't show any 'mumurism' as far as I'm concerned. Just shows she sees you as friend she could come to when she's in need. Its either you have or you dont.

She was prolly angry cos she knew you had the money and refused to give becase of of one twisted reasoning!!

Sometimes its not about if you are till sleeping with he or not; Its about rendering help to a fellow human being. What goes around comes around. Pray you dont find yourself in her shoes one day!

steve49ja:

Is there something to this 'Welcome back' of yours? just curious. . you dont think he's lieing do you? just curious

Yes steve, there is something to it and you will understand if you know how notorious 190 is. . .

LMAo

IFELEKE:

Yes steve, there is something to it and you will understand if you know how notorious 190 is. . .

Lol. Ok i get it now. thanks for explaining

[b]in gen,we dated 4 like 2yrs,tins were just too perfect durin our 1st year
she was all i wanted and i miss her all the same,she was kinda trust worthy
but we were miles apart (u know these long distance stuff relationships)
durin our 2nd year,my hart was totally wit her,and ther was notin she demanded under
the sun that i wudnt give her,she wud com vistin and go back wit truckload sizez of tins,cloths
pratically everytin she wanted i gave her,even my existin relationship hasnt benefited from
my past relationship,her friends started gettin closer and i accepted them,till late nov last year
i noticed that she spoke rudely 2 me @ every slightest opportunity,she wud go 2/3wks witot callin and wen she does
its always in secs(pls call me back i dnt hav credit)
i did the callin and complained abt her new attitude bt she kept wavin it aside but our 1st year of bliss lingered in my hart and i ignored all signs so back 2 november,weneva she was wit me,i noticed she recieves a heck lot of calls 4rm guys and kept lyin 2 dem that she was in school,on her bed,etc and kept askin me 2 be silent weneva these guys called,i noticed this but kept playin a fool till i was sure,
2 cut the whole story short,she pratically insulted me sometin durin feb wen she asked me 4 some money and i told her i was broke and that was how i quietly 4got abt her,she knowin sometin was wrong didnt bother and dissappeared till last 2weeks wen i met her @ her home wher im servin in abuja the money issue came up and of course how she angrily vibrated, the question i keep askin myself is how do i handle her issues so softly and handle my current relationship wit such hard grip and refuses 2 take a chance on my current one, i missed her anyway but i guess her types are after their dead body not mine, so thats the story 4 short[/b]

@OP, yu obviously know very little about ladies/women, yur ex was trying to send a message across and only picked at wat she knew will scathe yu and used that as her opening line, money!!, so that she can walk off in peace, knowin yu wont give it 2her, afterall, its her mum puttin her up to this (yu know how mums cud be).
So, now yu shud see that as a cue to never come back to her house, cos she needs yu no more!, MY PEICE.

Lord have mercy on we guys, you won't believe my ex told me recently that she enjoyed every thing in our relationship when we were together, but, she needs to move on 'cos she needs someone with more money.

Hum! Watin u sef go look 4 afta 8mnths,u enta d plc again abi? d girl mes up big tym,she 4 allow u enta eatry b4 she show u.who knws,weda na so u dey gve am moni b4&since u don cme bak wit more,she wan tap out of it. Ow much she even ask u sef,he fit b recharge card moni,u dis broke ass 9ja

190 you sound like a sharp guy but i'm afraid you didnt handle it well,

Since u know that she has changed when she asked u 4 d dough,you should have just said  'No Worries', you are about to collect money a friend borrowed from you in the next couple of hours, if possible buy am recharge card to show say you full ground. Then take her home and shag the devil out of her before telling her to BOUNCE asap!!

@ poster, welll wateva she has done u shldnt blab it out so harshly here, as in insultin her further after all u chased her b4, neither am i in support of her behaviour, but u shldnt label all abj chics as same, if u had taken her to ur house n made an attempt on sleepin wit her wld u cum here n label u were beggin her for sex after 8 months, my point, wateva wrong she has done or did just forget bout it n act as a big boy (if u r) dan callin her names here, after all we knw dey der wen e happen, dis might just b half d story,

@La diva
if u want me 2 giv u her # personally so u can try hittin her up 2 get the full Gist
its fine wit me! thats the full story what gain do i hav 2 leave details outta it, each passin day
i think abt what she did 2 me and make me HATE her more and im happy wit the progress im makin on it

!Basildon1
thanks a mill guy,that wud have bin as easy as ABC bt seriously i hate the gurl so pasionately that sex didnt run tru my mind @ all wen i was wit her,durin dat 8mnths,i tried doin all i cud and im happy she's outta my system as i hate her but still miss her anyway,sex is the last issue on ground thats why i neva tot of it,

I saw her again 2day dis tyme staring @ me wit full eyes,i cud feel her eyes penetratin my back and i managed 2 say hi to her and her sista @ the MALL and took my leave immediately wit both of them still staring @me

Have you heard of negative negative = positive? Something tells me you still have some attraction to that lady. What she did might be wrong but that is no reason to generalize.

@otokx
attraction, my foot

blapo:

Lord have mercy on we guys, you won't believe my ex told me recently that she enjoyed every thing in our relationship when we were together, but, she needs to move on 'cos she needs someone with more money.

ROLFLMAO!! This one na something else ooo!
@Topic. Let sleeping dogs lie men!

^^^
how do i let sleepin dogs lie!

I've always held the view that any girl that ask a man for money to do her hair, buy some cream and the likes do not have genuine intentions, what if she had not met the man, will she not still do her hair? hay i know the female folks here would say she needs to look good, i agree, but before he met you, you were taking care of those things, why not continue and let the guy on his own free will give you, i tell you truelly, a man that truelly love you would give when he knows you don't ask, except if he is broke

i tire

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Guy ur story seems real but my advice 2 u is u shldn't hve seperated like dat seeing how much u still feel 4 her u should go back and reason wit her so dat both of u can be frnds again(not lover)who knows she might be sorry 4 acting dat way but if she starts feeling 2 big ignor her and go ur way afterall u hve play a big boys role and i know 1day she will come begging.

She taught you are still a fool as u were before. Mugun

The Girl is Ebina Elebi, Hungry Girl

but com 2 tink of it
why cant she Just rather
apologise and i'll 4get and 4giv her
since we wud no longer be datin anyway!
she has this pride in her and i have mine 2 kip
yes i still like her (i cant say i love her) cos shes
definately not my kind of marriage material but i am not ready 2 spend 1kobo of mine eva on her again,do i Jst bone and continue my life quietly or go and reason and stat been her friend once more, 1 tin abt that babe is that the minute im back,i dnt know where next she wud twist her monetary aspect in2,i dnt have a problem spendin on her but i know that she belongs 2 sm1 else and i have a Gurl as well,so why should she start askin me 4 money(if her current Bf hears abt it,he might not be happy anyway)

ha it seems im missing out on something, ha i need to start demanding for money. i mean after all every babe dey do am

Thanks to iodize salt, you now a little wiser than she left you

I hate contacting my ex. cos of all these nonsense!!!