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Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by ubcandid(m): 9:37pm On May 23, 2016 |
diva90: A WOMAN "MATURES"?? CAN YOU DEFINE MARURITY PLEASE? EVERY WOMAN CALLS MATURITY BUT I FIND OUT MOST DONT KNOW WHAT MATURITY IS. WOMEN ARE FAR BELOW MEN IN MENTAL MATURITY AND REASONING AND ITS A KNOWN FACT EVERY WHERE. EXCEPT YOU ARE REFERING TO PHYSICAL MATURITY. 1 Like |
Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by Samanza89: 9:44pm On May 23, 2016 |
rose54321: Maturity lies in what you have in your brains and age doesn't determine that. These days you can commonly see a matured man behaving like a toddler. Age doesn't comes with maturity. 1 Like |
Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by rose54321: 9:57pm On May 23, 2016 |
joey150: Samanza89: It's the simple truth. Einstein once said, the only source of knowledge is experience. The Bible further buttressed it by saying " "When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things." The older you are the more experiences you've experienced. While I agree that we have some immature adults, the percentage is slim compared to the generality of adults. Hope you are clear now.. 2 Likes |
Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by Onezie(f): 10:03pm On May 23, 2016 |
sunnyeinstein:pls chill my dear,take it easy with op abeg |
Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by Nobody: 10:09pm On May 23, 2016 |
PureWays: I owe thee a bottle of beer... Yu nailed it.. |
Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by PureWays(m): 10:11pm On May 23, 2016 |
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Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by AmahC(m): 10:14pm On May 23, 2016 |
Bros u no get talk. So if u are 25 wants to marry, na 15years old girl u go marry? Marriage is not by age I agree but Blv there of maturities that comes with age. I can't date a girl of 17, not to talk of marriage. How a woman looks after giving birth is determined by her. So many of them don't know how to take care of themselves. Genevieve is about 40yrs now but she still set die. U try but u need to make a good research before u post Thanks |
Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by Bgorgeous: 10:23pm On May 23, 2016 |
Uhhh your father |
Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by AVRecruit: 10:24pm On May 23, 2016 |
AmahC: he did not say it must be 10 years. by 10 years he just means young. 1 Like |
Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by lagosrd: 10:29pm On May 23, 2016 |
Ure on your own. Exactly when you grow old some fine guys will now be admiring you young wife because she is in their age grade. 1 Like |
Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by ubcandid(m): 10:38pm On May 23, 2016 |
rose54321: well spelt. most of our Ladies or should I say girls who always call out for maturity are usually those with a messed up past or life and who have so much to hide, they use that as a ploy that a man should not be concerned with a woman's past lifestyle and everything about their past is wiped off but they would always want to poke into his. NEVER LIVE YOUR LIFE AS A MAN ONA WOMAN'S DEFINED STANDARD. THEY WOULDNT WANT SUCH FOR THEIR BROTHER'S AND SON. THATS WHY YOU SEE THAT A WOMANS BIGGEST ENEMY IS ALWAYS HER FELLOW WOMAN. THEY KNOW THEIR THOUGHTS BETTER. 1 Like |
Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by ComicRelief: 10:41pm On May 23, 2016 |
Wetin concern me sef....
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Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by AmAlbert(m): 10:41pm On May 23, 2016 |
All these ones wey una dey talk na una own o Bae wey me go marry MUST take like 5 years or above sef senior me.. One Man's Groundnut na anoda man kulikuli be dat o My wahala, my headache.. Abeg make nobody drink alabukun for my Headache abeg... *Eats white rice with alligator pepper and kulikuli plus okpete 2 Likes |
Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by Terabyteck(m): 10:42pm On May 23, 2016 |
EVILFOREST: You are the only thinking man here... The rest doesn't know what they need. |
Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by joey150(m): 10:42pm On May 23, 2016 |
rose54321:At what age do people generally stop becoming children? With reference to your child statement. And experience dosent neccesarily come with age. The more you do something or engage in something,the better experienced you are. A person who at a young age has seen the world and travelled places,is more experienced than a 50 year old man that has been stuck in his village doing the same thing. Age dosent mean anything,its no barrier for those who want to soar higher. Cheers! |
Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by ediko5(m): 10:53pm On May 23, 2016 |
OP, in as much as I don't support a man marrying a older lady or age mate. From your own opinion as regards marrying a lady you're 10yrs older it means you fall into the category of men that will marry at 35+ cos if you marry a lady you're 10+ older than and you marry at 28 or 30 then the girl will be 18 or 20 which is not really a matured age for marriage. I suspect you to be an Igbo guy cos is Igbo that marry at old age and marry a more younger lady |
Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by rose54321: 11:02pm On May 23, 2016 |
joey150: Most conclusions are based on probability, odds. Now I ask you, which has the larger probability, what's most probable in reality. A youth (in his twenties) that has seen the world or travelled places (as you put it), or a 50year old man that has done same. The latter of course, this doesn't negate the possibility of someone younger being more experienced, it just shows the chances in relation are slimmer. In life we base most of our decisions on probability, you would rather send your child to a school with a higher success rate, because the probability of your child going there and achieving same is higher. In the same vein, I, and infact most rational individuals, when looking for a mature guy would use age as the first criteria, atleast to shortlist, if not to ultimately choose. 1 Like |
Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by krak101(m): 11:06pm On May 23, 2016 |
Cutehector:... Bro lemme guess you're balding already |
Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by krak101(m): 11:08pm On May 23, 2016 |
drealzum:humanity is just all about obtaining /chancing /extortion /displacement... Men I lack the word self 1 Like |
Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by winningwinner(m): 11:12pm On May 23, 2016 |
That's you! My wife is ten years older than me, and I am okay with her!!!! 1 Like |
Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by Sezua(m): 11:16pm On May 23, 2016 |
9izone: i think we re agemates, u know wara min? |
Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by Sezua(m): 11:20pm On May 23, 2016 |
rose54321:experience isn't counted in ages na? what is thy point? |
Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by benji93: 11:22pm On May 23, 2016 |
marvelck:I expect that all women nearing their menopause, will not by any means swallow this pill. |
Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by Nobody: 11:33pm On May 23, 2016 |
Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by joey150(m): 11:39pm On May 23, 2016 |
rose54321:well said. But if the youth and the man have travelled for the same duration,say 10 years in total,does it still become the man? It is only assumed that been older you ought to have done or seen more. Which is true,only to an extent. This is Clearly not the case in very recent times. Things people learnt in years then are now made up for in months now. Irregardless of marriage,you can relate it to certainly any aspect of life. Been older dosent equate to been more experienced these days. Even if that is the popular illusion. |
Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by 1by1(m): 11:44pm On May 23, 2016 |
A lady's age or beauty doesn't count in marriage. What matters most is d character. U may get married 2 a girl dat is abt 20 years younger than u, yet she wldn't hv any single respect 4u. Moreover, if u marry a grl dat hv dis trait of bcoming old quick and adding much weight after 1 or 2 birth, let she b many yes younger than u. No matter the mak up she wld still look lyk ur mother. |
Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by Cannonleo(m): 11:44pm On May 23, 2016 |
I prefer older ladies at most 3 yrs older than me |
Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by 1by1(m): 11:50pm On May 23, 2016 |
Ok na |
Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by mummydirect(f): 12:05am On May 24, 2016 |
Cutehector:Not much ore, I am a living witness to that age gap and so far so good, it's working perfectly in my favour. Marriage clocking 10 years soonest. |
Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by Nobody: 12:05am On May 24, 2016 |
ednut1:Gerarahere men Olodo |
Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by 9izone(f): 12:54am On May 24, 2016 |
Sezua:We are not age mate Biko Wicked |
Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by Nobody: 12:55am On May 24, 2016 |
Op u think say na lyk yesteryears wey woman still dey respect man , girls of today don't want to marry men that are not in their social corner and on their moral compass where what she thinks is play he counts as disrespect |
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