AmAlbert:
All these ones wey una dey talk na una own o
Bae wey me go marry MUST take like 5 years or above sef senior me..
One Man's Groundnut na anoda man kulikuli be dat o

My wahala, my headache..
Abeg make nobody drink alabukun for my Headache abeg...
*Eats white rice with alligator pepper and kulikuli plus okpete

drealzum:
Aside looks sef one of the main reasons why you cant marry your mate is "finance". These ladies are desperate to marry after school when their boys mate are starting their hustle. So they marry a man who is already settled and older than you and when you too settle you go after your juniors and chance their boy's mate.

rose54321:
I actually agree that ladies should marry way older guys, though for a different reason.
Older guys are more mature, marrying your age mate, there's high likelihood for mismanaged misunderstandings.
A mature guy would handle all issues maturely.

GloriaNinja:
you are damn right, age doesn't matter and I despise seeing old men seeking for underaged girls to marry, age doesn't make a marriage last.

craziebone:


so a guy his wife's age is not mature? How comes men younger than some ladies are the ones rulling the world, running most of the multi national coorperations we know?

halfricanadian:
Its how well u take care of your body

A yonger person can look older

And an older person can look younger

toprealman:
please educate the teenage OP

halfricanadian:


Smh for all of u stop flauting things to my face pls

Tanx u can tell op ursef

Mind all of u dat teenager is a no go area i will stand my ground!!!!! So dream on

toprealman:
For you mind....

KPhantom:
the OP has a point, for women, they have biological clocks and it runs faster.. If u look at the situation in Nigeria, many 27 yr olds are still hustling, how do u expect them to marry their age mate @ dat time. The girl will bounce herself. So i think marriage has to do with your resources not age. if a 20 yr old that has enuff money to start a family he can marry his agemate, but a 30 yr old man still looking for a job can never afford to marry his age mate except d girl is ready to wait (but hw many 30yr old women can wait eh?)

rose54321:

It's the simple truth.
Einstein once said, the only source of knowledge is experience.
The Bible further buttressed it by saying " "When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things."

The older you are the more experiences you've experienced.

While I agree that we have some immature adults, the percentage is slim compared to the generality of adults.
Hope you are clear now..

Kachisbarbie:
I agree with you OP.
My hubby is 18yrs older...

rose54321:


Success in your profession doesn't equate to success at home. The most successful business men aren't the best husbands.

It's often the opposite, quite frankly, as you cannot serve two masters, you focus on one at the expense of the other (but that's an entirely different topic).

Life is a journey, the longer you're on the road, the better equipped you are at maneuvering potholes and other hurdles on the way.

Older men have this experience.

9izone:
We are not age mate Biko Wicked

drealzum:
Aside looks sef one of the main reasons why you cant marry your mate is "finance". These ladies are desperate to marry after school when their boys mate are starting their hustle. So they marry a man who is already settled and older than you and when you too settle you go after your juniors and chance their boy's mate.

marvelck:
Since women naturally age faster than men, its not advisable for a guy to marry a girl his age or within his age range. Guys need to marry girls they are far older than with at least 10 years, so that when she's aging everything will still be balanced. You can still be enjoying her breast, and also admiring her full waist line for a long time to come. Compare to when you marry a girl that's only 3 or 5 years younger than you. Before you know it, she'll start looking older than you apart from adding weight anyhow after giving kids. So, let there a space of like 10 years between you and the girl you want to marry, just like fathers used to do it in the past.

halfricanadian:
Its how well u take care of your body

A yonger person can look older

And an older person can look younger

edetty:

how long can u take care of ursef before nature finally wins out,besides u can only take care of ursef to look fresher not younger,the elastic fibers of the skin and muscles will eventually be completely replaced by collagen fibers,period,a medical field personnel quoting u

rose54321:
I actually agree that ladies should marry way older guys, though for a different reason.
Older guys are more mature, marrying your age mate, there's high likelihood of mismanaged misunderstandings.
A mature guy would handle all issues maturely.

skywalker240:

And since when does maturity do with age only...i mean ive seen men in dia late 30's and early 40's behave immature and handle marraige in silly ways and youn men of 24 does it better even than most..

I think It bores down to the individual.

halfricanadian:


dunno na

Tedassie:

olodo

halfricanadian:


Long story

Thats why we av comestic surgeons ohkay?

edetty:

cosmetic surgery is because nature is winning, how long will the cosmetic surgery also last before nature finally and totally and completely wins out,period, take my word or have urs.

halfricanadian:

ok sir
Ehn boss mi
Talk tru

halfricanadian:


Oya talk true!!!!!!!!

halfricanadian:


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edetty:

am not attacking u,just saying medical facts