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Re: Can You Date A 16 Year Old Girl? by Sweetdoct247(m): 12:09am On Aug 26, 2009
There is absolutey nothing wrong in being 12yrs older than your woman even tho personally I cant go for anybody more than 5 yrs younger than me. If you were 37 and she 25 nobody will start to frown but she 16! haba that's child abuse. It really doesnt matter if she claims to love you. You must understand that at that age she doesnt really know what she wants out of life no matter how intelligent she is and probably just infatuated because of the care of an older guy, most of the girls in her age group the same if they find themselves in her shoes. If you really love her and not just want to take advantage of her naivety you have to make her know this and if you want her still you will have to wait until at least she's 21 before you introduce the subject of love to her. For now the right thing is to care for her as you would your own sister and pls dont treat her as an adult or your gf. Let her know that all she needs to face now is her studies and by the time she's in the uni and also becomes more matured she gets to meet more people both in and outside her age group and then she would be able to define what her priorities are and also what she wants out of life romantically and otherwise. You will be suprised she might not feel the same way anymore and then both of you will be glad you took that step and she'll appreciate u for it. However if she does feel the same way about you, you can then go ahead, you fit invite me to the wedding sef I go come abi what are friends for. If however you dont give her this chance you are just taking advantage of her gullibility and robbing her of her childhood. If u think u can't wait as u are not getting any younger then u should free the girl and go for somebody more matured and older.

@AMAKA
Seems you are just typing away at your keyboard and I guess you are typing too fast for your brain to keep up the pace cos I dont see why anybody whose brain processes anything he/she does will write that rubbish you've put in this thread. Anybody reading your thoughless posts would think Nigeria is hopless dumb of you. And to think your name is AMAKA or can I safely say it's an abbreviation for something I'm sure it's stupid and not actually the beautiful igbo name. FYI Nigeria is not a lawless nation it just contains some lawless people just like any othe nation in the world including your so much cherished US. And if you want to know if you can get away with anything in Nigeria so long you have the money why dont you come down and commit a crime here and see if you will not rot in prison together with your dollars. To even say you called Nigerian girls bush girls, you really must be deluded, even the ones we refer to as stupid wont display the high level of dumbness you just displayed here. You really need to take a look around and to think you have spent so much time in nairaland. Why dont you take a clue from chiolo, or chigolo really dont get the id now at least you guys made the same point but then she was thoughful about it why you were thouthless.
Anyway in case you dont know US and Europe has more cases of pedophilia and other forms of child abuse,homosexuality and all forms of abominable sexual practices than the rest of the world put together. So no just dey open mouth dey yarn rubbish.

Yes I'm taking it personal!
angry
Re: Can You Date A 16 Year Old Girl? by THEAMAKA(f): 12:43am On Aug 26, 2009
oh please!! get over yourself.
most of the time the laws in nigeria ONLY apply to the rich.
if you are poor and you steal then a group of people set you on fire and then no one does anything about it.
the police are corrupt so come on!! tell me there is a legal system where the police actually do anything besides collecting bribes.
from the airport to my house we were stopped 3-4 times by the police who were "enforcing" the law and all they could ask for was a bribe and then let us drive off.
nigeria may have laws no one follows them and most people do as they wish, especially if they have money to back them up.
and if people do things like steal they get set on fire and no one seems to care about the group that set the person on fire.
hahaha and where did you get that the US and Europe have higher cases of pedophilia? PLEASE!! it goes on ALL over africa just that people look at it as a normal thing and see nothing wrong with it.
when i was 15 in naija i was being hit on from left to right by men anywhere from 20-30 and i LOOKED 15!!
they are attrackted to young girls. just because its a normal thing in nigeria or its not seen as a crime doesnt make it right.
and i didnt say ALL naija girls were bush i said the BUSH naija girls. there is a difference. basically i meant im not those dumb naija girls.


this man is a PEDOPHILE!! stop beating around the bush and trying to find ways to justify his actions. if he cannot find a girl his age he should leave that young girl alone.
young girls always think they are in love. and maybe if he waits until she's 18 and she is still serious about him, then he will know its real. but he needs to leave that young girl alone.

@poster, dont ask for advice if you dont want to hear it and then argue with the people giving you advice.
its pretty pointless!
Re: Can You Date A 16 Year Old Girl? by chiogo(f): 12:47am On Aug 26, 2009
Na my name he finish so?? angry

Amaka may be blunt with her replies but she speaks the truth.
This topic has been over-beaten. Poster, do your thing and stop bringing your wahala here if you're truly confident in your actions.
Re: Can You Date A 16 Year Old Girl? by follypimpi(m): 12:49am On Aug 26, 2009
Illarious Poster's grin grin grin
Re: Can You Date A 16 Year Old Girl? by pikadily(m): 2:02am On Aug 26, 2009
@AMAKA
that profile pic kiss kiss kiss

Pls dont call me a Paedophile wink
Re: Can You Date A 16 Year Old Girl? by THEAMAKA(f): 2:15am On Aug 26, 2009
that pic isnt me.
lol

dont you know the nigerian model nnenna?
SHE'S HOTT!
Re: Can You Date A 16 Year Old Girl? by CrudeOil2(m): 9:35am On Aug 26, 2009
Wait for her till she turns eighteen.
Re: Can You Date A 16 Year Old Girl? by awizl(m): 9:47am On Aug 26, 2009
Agbaya !, hw did she interest u in the first place?, sitting,talking sex n relationship wit a 16yr old, sick weirdo ! we curse dudes lyk you when we were younger,always depriving us of our mates. I bet u've had imaginations bout fingering babies too.
Re: Can You Date A 16 Year Old Girl? by tithe(m): 12:05pm On Aug 26, 2009
@awzil & @ Amaka,

I thinks some NLanders need some brain diagnoses before making any post here. Let me start by saying dat i will prefer guys above 25 yrs and working class to make commets. If you don't meet this criteria plz don't bother bc you ar just starting, you ve a long way to go.

The girl in question is already in Tertiary institution if you must know. And  @Awzil be warned or else you will be kidnapped for a ransom  RUBBISH.
Re: Can You Date A 16 Year Old Girl? by igboboy1(m): 12:19pm On Aug 26, 2009
Amaka mechionu gi,

Do you even know what paedophile means? you are there using words without thinking, He never said anything about f.u.cking the ish out of the girl, so relax
Re: Can You Date A 16 Year Old Girl? by ayobase(m): 12:55pm On Aug 26, 2009
#Awzil

That ur comment needs to be reversed or reserved.
That was totally uncalled for.
Common, lets respect each othere here.


#Amaka

I always feel u, but u need to take things slowly.



God Bless Nigeria!
Re: Can You Date A 16 Year Old Girl? by ayobase(m): 1:00pm On Aug 26, 2009
#tithe

take it easy, I understand u man!



God Bless Nigeria!
Re: Can You Date A 16 Year Old Girl? by ayobase(m): 1:08pm On Aug 26, 2009
@thank u deji2009



God Bless Nigeria!
Re: Can You Date A 16 Year Old Girl? by tboycares: 1:26pm On Aug 26, 2009
yes you can just take it easy with her
Dont mind those who oppose you,
They never felt in love
Re: Can You Date A 16 Year Old Girl? by mystikal(m): 1:56pm On Aug 26, 2009
it would be ok, but the problem is u're probably taking addvantage of her. She is too young to know what she really wants.
Re: Can You Date A 16 Year Old Girl? by oneluvb55(f): 2:24pm On Aug 26, 2009
na choice
Re: Can You Date A 16 Year Old Girl? by THEAMAKA(f): 2:25pm On Aug 26, 2009
PEDOPHILE!
16 years old, isnt that the reason you made the thread in the first place.
now her "age doesnt matter"
hypocrite go your way!
she is an underaged girl and you are how much older than her?
GO AND FIND YOUR MATES!

i still dont understand why you make a post and when someone gives you advice you either dont want to take it, argue back, or want to start a dumb debate.

ITS CLEAR YOUR MIND HAS ALREADY BEEN MADE UP!!
stop asking pointless questions. even if we say leave her alone, im pretty sure you are still going to involve yourself with her.
na wa!!

i think you just made this post as a way to brag about your sickness. why else would you make a POINTLESS thread?
wetin?

and there are people OVER your "age criteria" that are saying leave her alone. what does age have to do with it? i know something wrong when i see it.
and igbo boy stop looking for sick ways to justify your actions since you want to marry a 14 year old anyway. THATS EVEN WORSE.
you all need help.
robbing this girl of her innocence, you are just becoming her latest distraction.

look at this if it was your daughter, would you allow someone at your age to fool around with your daughter if she was 16, BE TRUTHFUL!!! most parents wouldnt.

now take that and SHOVE IT.
grin
Re: Can You Date A 16 Year Old Girl? by davinchi(m): 2:28pm On Aug 26, 2009
@ Poster
As a matter of fact,she is still too young.No matter hw intelligent she might look,she is still immature wen it comes to critical reasoning.For your information they is just no way you will not take the young girl to bed cos u are already in lust with her.Please just advice yourself and leave her alone.There are matured ladies everywhere waiting for you to make the first move.CHEERS.
Re: Can You Date A 16 Year Old Girl? by adaku123(f): 3:11pm On Aug 26, 2009
THE AMAKA:

PEDOPHILE!


now take that and SHOVE IT.
grin

UP YOUR ASS! grin grin grin grin



LMAOF!!! I FELT THE NEED TO COMPLETE THE SENTENCE grin grin
Re: Can You Date A 16 Year Old Girl? by daduke2k(m): 3:26pm On Aug 26, 2009
really nice, next time make a dumb post ,hope u hav learnt ur lessons
Re: Can You Date A 16 Year Old Girl? by pikadily(m): 3:36pm On Aug 26, 2009
@AMAKA
email pls kiss
Re: Can You Date A 16 Year Old Girl? by Sweetdoct247(m): 3:59pm On Aug 26, 2009
U know I'm really interested in what part of Nigeria you grew up in, where u had 25-30yrs old shameless men already making advances at u while u were just 15 or did u just make that up?
I have 2 sisters myself and we re pretty close and they never had men of that age making advances at them while they were in that age range and they never talked about their friends having such experiences too. Even tho it truly might av happened to u (probably why u re so vehement anyway), it still doesn't mean all Nig men are shameless like the ones u were unfortunate to encounter. And contrary to what u said nobody that I know sees pedophilia as a norm and it is still in this same Nig where u said it's generally accepted. Well I wouldn't know of ur area anyway. But it's quite non objective to make such generalizations. Personally I dont even subscribe to girls getting involved in relationship matters until d age of 21 and matter of factly told my sister that despite the fact that she was in 300L at that age. My environment must have influence my thinking to be that way, the fact that u said it yourself that no father here would tolerate a 28 yr old man messing around with her 16yr old daughter even negates that statement of yours and believe u me there are still law abiding citizens in Nig just as there are also lawless people in the US. So pls let's be careful of unjust generalizations. Peace cool
By the way did u just come across the word "pedophile"? Really can't count the no of times u've used it here. Really u should be considering a synonym grin
Re: Can You Date A 16 Year Old Girl? by chiogo(f): 5:14pm On Aug 26, 2009
It's very common ^

Mine was at the age of 10 sef. Believe me this man was in his thirties.

Pedophiles are common here but they thread more carefully compared to their Nigerian counterparts. Over here, you face jail time. In Naija, most of 'em get away with it especially if they're rich.
Re: Can You Date A 16 Year Old Girl? by tithe(m): 6:40pm On Aug 26, 2009
@Amaka pls go and see a man of God, your problem is beyond NL, start with watching tom and jerry from there you can start growing in your thinking.
Re: Can You Date A 16 Year Old Girl? by tithe(m): 6:51pm On Aug 26, 2009
@Amaka, pedophile! pedophile!! pedophile, both the good, the bad and the ugly everybody pedophile because you ar privileged to partake in common reasoning.

What is pedophile? NL is teaching grammar, who told you that sex is involve, i never intend to have sex till marriage and this is the 3year so TBP(think before you post).

I Recommend a post thread for you under children behaviour in this NL " my punishment for disobeying daddy and mummy", i think your childish post will be welcomed there.

@daduke2k, don't vomit more than you can swallow.
Re: Can You Date A 16 Year Old Girl? by Donvilo(m): 7:00pm On Aug 26, 2009
@tithe. I guess u remember what I do u earlier 'bout ur post. Give her time bro but continue to take care of her. She needs time. smiley
Re: Can You Date A 16 Year Old Girl? by rhymz(m): 7:06pm On Aug 26, 2009
@The Amaka,U re a dumb teenager,my younger sister will do far better than the mumbo-jumbo U keep spewing here.U must think U re the only fortunate Nigerian teen in the US,Ur posts remind me of the saying that a lizard in Nigeria can't turn to a crocodile in America.Even with Ur Americana wanna-be mentality,U still come across as dumb,lacking in depth.Ur arrogance is exceeded by Ur arrogance that's why U won't learn.American/whitee wanna-bes like U that still ve the slave-master mentality see everything foreign as God sent and should not be challenged.Ever heard of the word "betroth" before?In africa culture and even in medieval european monarchies,parents bethroth thier daughters to young adults for different reasons,could be in order to preserv the monarchs or for financial reasons.If for instance, it has been outlawed in europe and some parts of Africa do not see any justification for abolishing,it does't mean any of the two continents is wrong or right,it's a matter of moral standards,what the europeans see as wrong might not be wrong to an african.Like I said before,the only way any1 can fault the relationship is if it's done without the consenting support of the parents,if for instance the guy is serious and makes everything known to her parents and then decides to take responsibility for her welfare and maybe wait until he is satisfied the girl is ready for marriage before taking her to the altar,are u saying the guy will still be wrong for falling in love with the teenage girl and bodly come out to be honest abt it?.Does it mean there are no successful marriages that started like this?What is the difference if Amaka decides to 4ck Chiogo(who is a male teen like her) and give him her virginity and tithe who's serious with a teen whom he wishes to spend his life with and is ready to show commitments.I will rather choose to be tithe than be the free for all Amaka who would rather be "effin any teenager" as she boldly wrote.Hypocrite that's what U re Amaka.I wont even come so low to start arguing statistics of social America wif my younger sister's mate,she will be in the best position to school U even about social America.Ur IQ is very low.
Re: Can You Date A 16 Year Old Girl? by IYANGBALI: 7:19pm On Aug 26, 2009
why you wan date old girl like that?16 is too old pls go for a six yera old girl they are the best and the sweetest ode buruku hisses and walks out
Re: Can You Date A 16 Year Old Girl? by rhymz(m): 7:28pm On Aug 26, 2009
rhymz:

At The Amaka,the way U argue makes me wanna call U a kid.What do U mean by "those bush Nigerian girls".The only difference btw them & U is privilege,it does't mean U re better than them,a majority of them won't make that mistake if they had just half of your privilege.U talk abt Nigeria like the ppl there re morons,incase U don't know,the US,your Eldorado is No:1 when it comes to weird cases like paedophilia,child porn,teenage pregnancy,homosexuality,bestiality,incest and so on,so pls save us those innuendos.
@All,let's face the issue here & stop acting holier than thou,this is Africa,it's very legal to ve a 28yr old date a 16yr old provided the suitor has the consent of the girl's parents.The arguement of whether she's a minor or not is a matter of legal technicalities depending on the laws of such country it's not nature's law that only 18yrz re deemed as adult,afterall, i ve seen some very immature ppl in all ramification at 18,likewise a 16yr old that's way mature than her age tellz.My point is,In africa,there is nothing strange abt it as long as the guy is capable of having a family and there is a consenting agreement btw both families.All that paedo name callin should be reserved for those weirdos in the US and europe.   
Re: Can You Date A 16 Year Old Girl? by chiogo(f): 7:34pm On Aug 26, 2009
rhymz:

@The Amaka,U re a dumb teenager,my younger sister will do far better than the mumbo-jumbo U keep spewing here.U must think U re the only fortunate Nigerian teen in the US,your posts remind me of the saying that a lizard in Nigeria can't turn to a crocodile in America.Even with your Americana wanna-be mentality,U still come across as dumb,lacking in depth.your arrogance is exceeded by your arrogance that's why U won't learn.American/whitee wanna-bes like U that still ve the slave-master mentality see everything foreign as God sent and should not be challenged.Ever heard of the word "betroth" before?In africa culture and even in medieval european  monarchies,parents bethroth thier daughters to young adults for different reasons,could be in order to preserv the monarchs or for financial reasons.If for instance, it has been outlawed in europe and some parts of Africa do not see any justification for abolishing,it does't mean any of the two continents is wrong or right,it's a matter of moral standards,what the europeans see as wrong might not be wrong to an african.Like I said before,the only way any1 can fault the relationship is if it's done without the consenting support of the parents,if for instance the guy is serious and makes everything known to her parents and then decides to take responsibility for her welfare and maybe wait until he is satisfied the girl is ready for marriage before taking her to the altar,are u saying the guy will still be wrong for falling in love with the teenage girl and bodly come out to be honest abt it?.Does it mean there are no successful marriages that started like this?What is the difference if Amaka decides to 4ck Chiogo(who is a male teen like her) and give him her virginity and tithe who's serious with a teen whom he wishes to spend his life with and is ready to show commitments.I will rather choose to be tithe than be the free for all Amaka who would rather be "effin any teenager" as she boldly wrote.Hypocrite that's what U re Amaka.I wont even come so low to start arguing statistics of social America wif my younger sister's mate,she will be in the best position to school U even about social America.your IQ is very low.
Are you  ok? who's a male teen? You accuse Amaka of having a low IQ but you can't even decipher from my previous posts that I'm a female. Or is the letter 'f' next to my user name not clear enough? Ask the poster if the girl's parents know about his affair with the girl, most likely not. Abeg just make your points without involving my name. Wrong is wrong, simple. Like you said, people betroth their daughters to older men sometimes due to financial difficulty. Is that right? And 99.9% of the time, it's against the child's wish but who is she to challenge the parents? It's all part of ignorance and lack of civilization on the parent's part. Yes, I said it. I was really done with this thread but my name just keeps cropping up. tsk.
Re: Can You Date A 16 Year Old Girl? by Donvilo(m): 7:39pm On Aug 26, 2009
Hello chiogo, it's nice meeting u again. smiley
Re: Can You Date A 16 Year Old Girl? by ekoair(m): 7:42pm On Aug 26, 2009
im a 25 year old woman in love with a 7 year old. he's very mature. and gives me all the love i need. should i marry him.

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