Pls I need your advice, I've been married for two years now and my wife just brought in a maid into our house about 2 months ago. We've not been able to have kids yet but we've been trying. I noticed since the maid came into the house my wife's attitude towards sex has changed it's like she isn't trying anymore to have kids. i confronted her about it a fews days back but she said she was just stressed from work recently. I said ok. But my mind was still troubling me so I brought the topic again yday and she finally opened up to me that she wants to include our maid in our sex life. Did I mention she's been very friendly with the maid quite unlike the relationship Nigerian women have with their maids. No offense. I told her blatantly that I don't want to include the maid in our sex life that it's her I want and for us to have kids and live a happy life together. She refused. Now I'm beginning to think my wife might be bisexual.. Since yday I haven't spoken to her. Pls nairalanders what should my next step be. Sorry for any error in spelling or grammar above.

Cc lalasticlala, farano, rocktation

True Story?

Sit her down and you guys should have a talk. Cause you will accomplish absolutely nothing by ignoring your wife.

Communication is a necessity in every healthy relationship. Make an effort to understand what SHE really wants. If she confirms your fears, let her know you cannot cope with her DECISION and then you both can seek for a resolution to the problem.

Yes pls i need your advice

HungerBAD:
True Story?

Could be she's trying to spice up your sex life, but she's doing it inna wrong way. You don't involve your help in such intimacy, it will only lead to disrespect and degradation of name.

First of all, are you comfortable with a bisexual relationship? If no, sit with your wife and trash your feelings out like matured people...

But if you are , do not involve your help in it. Its better done with one not related to either of you as a friend, family, or other wise.

Its entirely up to you buddy

I did not read the motherfvcking article but hell me see the title.

Is that a 3some?

Me likey

Hmmm! This one is strong!





Eleyi gidigan!




OP, please hold on lemme quickly consult the elders...



I'll brb!

sir ur case is exact as Abraham in the Bible ur wife Sarah wants u to go in with the maid but believe me if u do u wud cus problem for urself and the family as the defendants of Ishmael wen trouble for the people of Isreal. but believe God look to the heaven and count the stars so shall your seeds be believe it in you heart and call for those tins dat be not as though they were God will surely surprise you.

thanks ivyy, twaci and every oda person who has contributed, your advice will go along way

SKAMM:
thanks ivyy, twaci and every oda person who has contributed, your advice will go along way

You are welcome

Something is wrong somewhere. No normal wife will think that way. Is she now the mother-in-law in her own home ?

Please talk to her asap. There is something she is not saying. May God bless your marriage and give you the wisdom to save it from ruin

My kind of wife

Op i fink u nid a break 4rm ur marriage. . . Who does that?

Interesting...... The painful truth is your wife is a Bisexual which falls under the lgbt spectrum...... Things like this happens when the society choose to live in denial... And yet you Hypocrites claims it's unafrican :

Two choices :you give in or she cheats..

3some. Loading!!
Op just like alaba boys!
Grab ur copy now!

smh,,,,, inbetween

Like seriously what sort of comments am I reading here?




Abraham's wife, Sarah, discussed such issues with him, and he agreed.. did it make Sarah to be a lesbian or bisexual? All she wished for was a kid.

3some is as sure as sure-p

It's a pity I don't talk much. My simple input is this : SEND BOTH OF THEM PACKING.

Lucky guy!
I hope the maid is hot with nice curves sha

To tell you the truth her bodily features have never appealed to me before until all this started. I planned on being a devoted husband

Babzilla:
Lucky guy!
I hope the maid is hot with nice curves sha

calliope:
Interesting...... The painful truth is your wife is a Bisexual which falls under the lgbt spectrum...... Things like this happens when the society choose to live in denial... And yet you Hypocrites claims it's unafrican :

Two choices :you give in or she cheats..

Pls, wiaz dat advice in d bible?

From my small experience, she clearly looks like a LESBIAN. They usually use every available excuse to drive home their point.
My formal gf told me after I found out and confronted her.
Truth is no matter how u fu**k her, it can never be like the feminine finger they are used to unless u adopt their style of forreplay
or introduce their choice of candidate...

Modified: Better Slap Loading For That Woman...
I humbly welcome myself back to Romanceland after disappearing for a while!!!

U shuld know wot u want and discuss it wif ur wife. But y does ur wife want to involve a maid, does she want d maid to bear a child for both of u?

Cutehector:
Like seriously what sort of comments am I reading here?




Abraham's wife, Sarah, discussed such issues with him, and he agreed.. did it make Sarah to be a lesbian or bisexual? All she wished for was a kid.

Impressive... you deserve Sunday school students

demzylahot:

Impressive... you deserve Sunday school students

SKAMM:
thanks ivyy, twaci and every oda person who has contributed, your advice will go along way

all the best dear.

Send both of them packing! Don't ask me why Pls

Your wife may not be bisexual.

Please answer me these and we can conclude on if she is or she just want a child:

1. Have you two gone for medical check?

2 if yes,what was the result?

Cos if your wife is impotent without your knowing, she might have resulted to that maid for a child to make you happy.

Just be careful of wrong conclusion.

Beware of adultery, for man's wickedness is now of such proportions that no one is considered a man unless he is overcome by lechery, while one who overcomes lechery and stays chaste is considered unmanly.
She's bn possessed by spirit of adultery.
Guess she has already eaten d forbidden fruit (committed adultery), so she wants u to taste same.
#rememberAdam&Eve

We've not gone for medical checkup as a couple but I've once tested myself before we got married.

Joe4lv:
Your wife may not be bisexual.

Please answer me these and we can conclude on if she is or she just want a child:

1. Have you two gone for medical check?

2 if yes,what was the result?

Cos if your wife is impotent without your knowing, she might have resulted to that maid for a child to make you happy.

Just be careful of wrong conclusion.