Amaka1725:

Nice guys are non existent

Nah. You are wrong here.

Girls re damn,tell them lies and get what u want.Tell them the truth u don't.

@Eric Nelson as simple as that

Eric Nelson:

Girls re damn,tell them lies and get what u want.Tell them the truth u don't.

Cud u plz give us an example of the lies u r talking about. Would love to learn.

is good to be nice to a women but to certain extent. here in the Uk, if you"re too nice they"ll think you are new arrival and

they way girls relate to you will be different, belive it or not. the sonner you start putting western culture the better for you

you cant avoid to be too lean or too polite as if you"re jesus or the most virtuous man: so therefore some men would

rather hide their true self. everyone want a woman of his own and cant avoid to be too MR nicer guys.

as soon as you start being firm, strong on your ground then you get the respect /attention you deserve

Mr nice count 100% in nigeria sorry if am exegerrating in diaspora doesnt count. 4 years ago a friend of mine came from

nigeria as you and I know when you first come you still have the nigeria mentality but guess what within 6 months of his

arrival these guys has mix up with white guys between man and god you wont belive this guys has started smoking cour

summons argument with his Mum to the extent his Mum will be crying and telling me that he brought my friend from nigeria

now i should see what he has turn into. well, as you expected I try to calm her down and assure her all will be well. withing

that period thus guys has lots of girlfriend mostly from congo, nigeria and Uganda. not that am supporting him but I think being too nice is not good

I run after nice guys I don't run away from them

Moyola:

Many gurlz love adventure, the excitement of d unknown. . . hence, they opt for not so nyz guyz

Some nyz guyz can be tough, 'bad' n all. . . they r not deekkiz, jerkz, pretendaz, boring. . . juz kuz they've got good manners, knw hw to cherish and respect! N yu dare nt take them 4 granted. . . else. . .arrrgghh!

i concur!

sweetpie23:

I run after nice guys I don't run away from them

really? i am nice, plz run after me; on ur marks, get set, go!

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Though everyone have a choice to make. But I don't think your the one to grade yourself as nice person. A responsible lady cannot have anythign to do with a guy whose future is bleak. Let gentleness be our cloak. Don't call your self nice, let the outsiders sing your litany.

be yourself, dont be someone else. for me I dont have time for techniques I have so many things to worry about. rather i will pray to god to lead me to the woman. all this online techniques I dont really buy them. is she said No is not the end of the world at least you know you"re yourself be a man you"re are and strategise yourself

I cant kill myself because of a girl or what you call it, or try to be someelse. MR DEJI IS MR DEJI MR JOHN IS MR JOHN, MISS NIKE IS MISS NIKE MISS OYIN IS MISS OYIN like the saying goes all fingers are not equal.

it's not the bad guy's, it's the confident guys. The girls like the guys that are confident in their looks and don't need the girl. A needy guy is a huge turn off for girls. Be confident when you walk up to a girl act like you don't need her and i promise they will not say you are too nice.

Well there is the saying "TREAT THEM MEAN, KEEP THEM KEEN",

are there nice guys? well al i can say there is an abundance of is a guy acting nice which for that moment makes him nice.i do not fall for such anymore,

@olusolami. What is your defination of a nice guy. Have you ever looked at it from the point of view that it might be you being the problem. (sorry I dont mean you specifically). But I mean women in general.

trust me guys are guys. they will only act nive when it is convenient or when there is a price to it. when they are getting something in return, they will smother with all kinds of NICENESS, if there are nice guys, i hav not seen any, the ones tat i thought were nicem were actually a-holes,

no more nice any more if a girl says hello i wont reply

Whichever way you are coming from the basic truth is:

IF YOU ARE TOO SWEET, THE WORLD WILL EAT YOU UP IN AN INSTANT!

IF YOU ARE TOO BITTER, THE WORLD WILL SPIT YOU OUT IN AN INSTANT!

WHAT THEN IS THE ANSWER:

Combination of the two characteristics; only then will you be able to make head way in everything you do – not only with the ladies.

Sorry. I hope we are not confusing 'confidence with being 'a baddy or arrognt guy'. What i will tell us is, there are guys whom are quiet + confident.
loud + confident.
quiet + low self esteem,
loud + obnoxious.
think sme 'nice guys are quiet and have complex. Me i am quiet but confident. No need to edit ma self, raaise a tantrum to show i am a livewire,or the happening guy. I just do ma thing and hope someone dares me, then u will be the shcocked nitwit. Nd i think being nice is GOOD + A PINCH OF NAUGHTY

Point of correction. . .do your research right Mr Poster!

I love a man who treats me right. . .that's why am gonna stick with him!

Truth is, nigerian ladies don't know what exactly they want.

To me there should be a balance. Yin-Yang.