HateU2:

N
NO
TO
BABY
DADIES

U did not answer my question about natural hair lady

Monalisa185:


Are you going natural? Transitioning or you did a big chop?

Twaci:
I don't see anything wrong in marrying a baby daddy if you really love him.

The child is merely an added joy to the union.

HateU2:
I have been transitioning since last year. I have done my big chop sha b4 easter. But I'm worried, it's Lyk it's not growing

Monalisa185:


what kinda big chop did you do? Sometimes some people mistake cutting off some part of the hair, probably the top for a big chop... A big chop is cutting off your hair entirely leaving just your bare head..was that what you did?

Before you decided to go natural, were you having issues with your hair like dandruff?

What products do you use?

Does your hair cut?

Answer those questions, let's take it up from there

Kayce1:
has any1 asked you to marry him?

chisco82:

See you, can you be able to deal with the ego/jelousy in u? when you have ur own blood kids will u be able to treat them equal?
Nne forget, no come nairaland dey form good woman.

Monalisa185:
women and their wahala...that's how we sometimes miss out on being with some very nice and responsible guys...I'm not in support of anyone being a baby daddy or a baby mama, in fact, not my business..

[b] But, that guy you feel is not a baby daddy and you probably feel he's the right and perfect guy for you simply because there's no child he introduced to you as his... Do you know how many pregnancies he rejected out of his irresponsibility?

Would you prefer to marry that guy and later in your marriage some women start storming your home with different kids saying he fathered them but refused to man up to his responsibility? I bet not..

As people always say, the devil you know is far better than the angel you do not know... Be wise![/b]

ireneony:
Wtf .. most guys i see these days are baby daddies.
Why should i marry/date a baby daddy when I'm not a baby mama? The funny this is; most of them are not ashamed to say they're baby daddiess.

I set my standards and i know what i want.
Ladies don't date/marry a baby daddy, learn to set your boundaries.

Say no to baby daddies#

agarawu23:
it's high time you stop dreaming about se un who is not a baby daddy. I might just tie the knot with u if you are ready to think like other reasonable ladies on this thread think. I wanna hook u up. I have a kid, she is six and I am fvcking single

ireneony:
i see guys blabbing how they can't date a baby mama, so why should i lower my standards because I'm a lady .

rosieluv:
i concur,yeah i say no to baby daddies

ireneony:
i see guys blabbing how they can't date a baby mama, so why should i lower my standards because I'm a lady .

HateU2:
I did not cut everything off o. My hair has become virgin hair during my transitioning. I cut it so low not too low bcox I can't do without having hair on my head.
No, I don't have dandruff issues just that it was not growing at all.
I use 'virgin hair cream' but now using coconut oil, apple vinegar oil and I'm about to get my castor hair. My fear is that my hair is hereditary. My mum's hair too is just scanty and not long.

agarawu23:
you made a good point here. I am openly asking you to date me and I mean it.

..aga...as a side chic abi?

Monalisa185:


..aga...as a side chic abi?

Twaci:
If you don't or can't treat them equally, don't rub it off on me.

My blood or not, the kids are mine and I shall gladly take up their responsibilities. And I am doing this not just because I love my man, but because children are gifts from our Creator.

Disbelieve at your own peril.

ivyT:
Same here, I don't think I can.

Opinions are like buttholes and we've all got one

ireneony:
Wtf .. most guys i see these days are baby daddies.
Why should i marry/date a baby daddy when I'm not a baby mama? The funny thing is; most of them are not ashamed to say they're baby daddies.

I set my standards and i know what i want.
Ladies don't date/marry a baby daddy, learn to set your boundaries.

Say no to baby daddies#

Monalisa185:


what is the length of your hair like now since you cut it off...can I see a picture of it, maybe on another thread, just gimme a mention..

Why did you later lower your hair after several months of transitioning?

You didn't answer this... Does your hair break off while combing?

What kinda protective hairstyles do you make?

You use a lot of products on your hair, maybe hard for you to know which one really works for you

Which shampoo and conditioner do you use..their names?.

Please try and answer these questions, then we'll take another step forward.. By the way, I'm a naturalister as well and I started my natural hair journey on this forum, I mean I got the motivation from this forum... We'll get to that, just answer the questions I asked..
#cheers

ireneony:
Wtf .. most guys i see these days are baby daddies.
Why should i marry/date a baby daddy when I'm not a baby mama? The funny thing is; most of them are not ashamed to say they're baby daddies.

I set my standards and i know what i want.
Ladies don't date/marry a baby daddy, learn to set your boundaries.
Say no to baby daddies#

CashdownNG:


its just a case of rich enough that's your threshold. I'm sure all the annies and banners etc all spewed this crappy line