queencalipso:

Hey honey! I didn't ask you or any1 else to take me serious that's entirely your choice and am cool with it. My point is in an argument pple could say anything out of anger that doesn't necessary mean that they meant their words. His about what he said to her?

And that's why when you get angry you walk away so you don't say hurtful words that are hard to erase. In any case that's women. I have mine and I know what I face with her. You ladies are just so aaaarrrgghhhhhh!!!

abdoolorunwa:
I WANT TO PUNCH U IN THE FACE RIGHT NOW.
BUT FIRST I WILL SAY Y.
IF A WOMAN LIVED WITH A MAN UNTIL HE WAS ABLE TO HAVE THE THOUGHTS OF BUILDING HIS OWN HOUSE-IT IS THEIR HOUSE.
IF U ARE ABLE TO KEEP A HIGH SPIRIT AT WORK AND U R ALWAYS POSITIVE, SHARP, INTELLIGENT ETC. SHE'S BEING THERE SUPPORTING U-SHE SHARES UR JOB.
IF U BRING FOOD, SHE COOKS IT-U BOTH PROVIDED.
IF U PREGNANT HER SHE CARRIES THE BABY AND EVENTUALLY GIVES BIRTH-ITS UR CHILD. PER ADVENTURE SHE DIES IN THE PROCESS-U KILLED HER.
NOW WHERE DID U SAY UR BAE WENT WRONG AGAIN?
OH BECAUSE SHE SAID SHE'S BEING 'MANAGING U' EHEN IS IT NOT TRUE, EVERY WOMAN IS MANAGING HER MAN CONSIDERING THE FACT THAT SHE LEFT ALL HER SUITORS TO SETTLE WITH U PLUS IF A WOMAN DOESN'T SHOW PRIDE WHAT ELSE WOULD.
MY FRIEND SWALLOW UR PRIDE AND TAKE HER BACK WITHOUT DOUBT. SHE'S EVEN STRONG ENOUGH TO CONFRONT U TO TAKE HER BACK. THATS AN IDEAL WOMAN. SUFFICE IT TO SAY THAT "NA SO WOMEN BE"
IF UR TYPE DESIST FROM ABUSING WOMEN, MAYBE WE WOULD HAVE A BETTER SOCIETY.
NOW I CAN PUNCH UR FACE.
PLS LIKE IF U FEEL ME. SHARE IF U THINK AM ON POINT

u made sense at the beginning but fvckd up from middle to the end of your post... Better give yourself brain

alexistaiwo:

she is not the one on my dp. the girl on my dp is my friend who loves nairaland but she refuses to open her own account so she uses my account to comment sometimes. besides she is beautiful (beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder)

Mehn. Where did you learn how to LIE? Have you lived with Liar Muhammad before or were you part of Apc Campaign team? What a Lie.

Apply for my own visa too make me sef enter Alan plane. Meanwhile, as for the the YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO, well, meet me in my office. I will tell you.

eiBADAn:


Honestly, there is no lie in all I said. I'm not trying to brag, but my dad is a billionaire and she knows this. I'm currently planning to leave the country to further my studies for the benefits of the family company. I had to apply for a visa for her which was refused. A blessing in disguise I must say. Now she wants me to try again. I have dropped her sisters CV with my dad tho he doesn't know them. She wants me to buy her brother a phone. Also my expensive wristwatch she wants me to dash her brother. Some times when we argue, she would be like, don't forget we are not married o. That got me thinking a lot. I talk to her mom so I don't know how to dump her without much hassles. I have a very soft heart which she's capitalizing on. I love and I'm sad as I'm typing this. I don't know what to do.

Guy Pls inbox me i nid a Little Cash

bakynes:
You are right abt the " No matter how much you spend on a girl she will still say you havent done anything" I think they think because they give us Sex they are doing us a favour. Thats why i dont know the difference between them and prostitutes. The money you spend on them have expiry date. They wont spend their money to buy you a little gift all is to collect and give sex. Your own money is our money, theirs is my money. All the money na on top cloth, makeup and weave-on. Shameless species.

guy, you nailed it, my Ex once asked me
"how much you don spend on me sef? after giving her 7k to travel "

woman wahala no be here

eiBADAn:


Honestly, there is no lie in all I said. I'm not trying to brag, but my dad is a billionaire and she knows this. I'm currently planning to leave the country to further my studies for the benefits of the family company. I had to apply for a visa for her which was refused. A blessing in disguise I must say. Now she wants me to try again. I have dropped her sisters CV with my dad tho he doesn't know them. She wants me to buy her brother a phone. Also my expensive wristwatch she wants me to dash her brother. Some times when we argue, she would be like, don't forget we are not married o. That got me thinking a lot. I talk to her mom so I don't know how to dump her without much hassles. I have a very soft heart which she's capitalizing on. I love and I'm sad as I'm typing this. I don't know what to do.

Lol Inbox me pls i need a litle cash

alexistaiwo:
My girlfriend and I got into a hot argument last month which degenerated into a break up. During the argument, lots of hurtful words were exchanged but she made the fatal error of saying that she is managing me. This is a girl that I literally 'toshed up' and I had provided all her needs from 2014 we started dating up to that point.
Two weeks later, she came back begging to be accepted back. she said she said those words out of provocation since I was the one that insulted her first. As a sure guy, I accepted her back but made a promise to my self that I will never spend a substantial amount of my money on her again since it seems that she is the ungrateful type.
Her love for me isn't in doubt but guys wise up. Don't go bankrupt because of a girl, at the end of the day she will say that you haven't done anything.

of courae ladies are immature fools with an empty brain.

Rukkydelta:

Just as it's natural for you to defend your fellow man

yes do you really understand what it actually mean to use that term towards your spouse

Dejideji1:


Well I'm not surprised, it's only natural for you to defend your fellow woman. Even if she commits more grievous offenses you would still defend her. I don't expect any guy on this thread to take your comments serious anyway.

I did!!! Cos she just said some real truth, u aren't man enough insulting a lady.... I smh for u

eiBADAn:
Guy, well said. If you do 99 things for a girl, it's the one thing you didn't that she would remember. If I make 300k a month, her personal budget is already over half of it and when there's an argument, she remembers one stupid thing I didn't buy or get for her, I'm talking about my gf. What do I do in my own case? She's not working cuz she's still searching. Let's assume I have 700k now, her budget would be 450k when I finish calculating expenses. She would do hair, change nails, buy makeup, but expensive creams, buy new clothes even tho she just bought few weeks back. She wants to send money to her mom, to her sister, to her brother. She's owing her friend, she has to pay. I do all these and the smallest argument we have, she would suddenly remember one stupid thing I didn't buy for her. How long do I keep up with these. O ti su mi o.

Seriously bro, go and break up with that gold digger

eiBADAn:
Guy, well said. If you do 99 things for a girl, it's the one thing you didn't that she would remember. If I make 300k a month, her personal budget is already over half of it and when there's an argument, she remembers one stupid thing I didn't buy or get for her, I'm talking about my gf. What do I do in my own case? She's not working cuz she's still searching. Let's assume I have 700k now, her budget would be 450k when I finish calculating expenses. She would do hair, change nails, buy makeup, but expensive creams, buy new clothes even tho she just bought few weeks back. She wants to send money to her mom, to her sister, to her brother. She's owing her friend, she has to pay. I do all these and the smallest argument we have, she would suddenly remember one stupid thing I didn't buy for her. How long do I keep up with these. O ti su mi o.

Eleanor Roosevelt admonished us to learn from the mistakes of others because we cannot live long enough to make them all, ourselves.

Bruv, what you put up there is a very unfortunate thing to read about the extent some guys go to prove their love in an unmarried union. Please be advised that relationships do not come with assurances of fidelity, loyalty or reciprocity. It's a gamble that could go either way, so do not stake an amount you cannot afford to lose. Having had a near similar experience, I'd advice you to desist forthwith.

Robert Mugabe said: "sometimes you look back at girls you spent money on rather than send it to your Mom, and then you realise witchcraft is real!".

Run............. run.............. brother, run!!

This matter must be reported to efcc,
She used your money to get herself tushed up....
Now claiming she's managing you?


When is not apc govt we are managing

bakynes:
You are right abt the " No matter how much you spend on a girl she will still say you havent done anything" I think they think because they give us Sex they are doing us a favour. Thats why i dont know the difference between them and prostitutes. The money you spend on them have expiry date. They wont spend their money to buy you a little gift all is to collect and give sex. Your own money is our money, theirs is my money. All the money na on top cloth, makeup and weave-on. Shameless species.

Not all girls are like that bro. My girlfriend is an exception, for example. If I am to calculate, I think that girl has spent more on me than I have on her

eiBADAn:
Guy, well said. If you do 99 things for a girl, it's the one thing you didn't that she would remember. If I make 300k a month, her personal budget is already over half of it and when there's an argument, she remembers one stupid thing I didn't buy or get for her, I'm talking about my gf. What do I do in my own case? She's not working cuz she's still searching. Let's assume I have 700k now, her budget would be 450k when I finish calculating expenses. She would do hair, change nails, buy makeup, but expensive creams, buy new clothes even tho she just bought few weeks back. She wants to send money to her mom, to her sister, to her brother. She's owing her friend, she has to pay. I do all these and the smallest argument we have, she would suddenly remember one stupid thing I didn't buy for her. How long do I keep up with these. O ti su mi o.

U r giving ur gf nt ur wife half of ur salary. Bro, Dnt knw wat to say man bt u gats to wise up.

alexistaiwo:
My girlfriend and I got into a hot argument last month which degenerated into a break up. During the argument, lots of hurtful words were exchanged but she made the fatal error of saying that she is managing me. This is a girl that I literally 'toshed up' and I had provided all her needs from 2014 we started dating up to that point.
Two weeks later, she came back begging to be accepted back. she said she said those words out of provocation since I was the one that insulted her first. As a sure guy, I accepted her back but made a promise to my self that I will never spend a substantial amount of my money on her again since it seems that she is the ungrateful type.
Her love for me isn't in doubt but guys wise up. Don't go bankrupt because of a girl, at the end of the day she will say that you haven't done anything.

Oga truly this girl is managing you,she like you for the kind and big heart you have but she never truly love you...don't be deceived, if she finds what she truly loves...you will forever remain a friend...
A word is enough for the wise..sticks won't shoot you twice in the eyes to be aware when it comes to shoot again.

eiBADAn:
Guy, well said. If you do 99 things for a girl, it's the one thing you didn't that she would remember. If I make 300k a month, her personal budget is already over half of it and when there's an argument, she remembers one stupid thing I didn't buy or get for her, I'm talking about my gf. What do I do in my own case? She's not working cuz she's still searching. Let's assume I have 700k now, her budget would be 450k when I finish calculating expenses. She would do hair, change nails, buy makeup, but expensive creams, buy new clothes even tho she just bought few weeks back. She wants to send money to her mom, to her sister, to her brother. She's owing her friend, she has to pay. I do all these and the smallest argument we have, she would suddenly remember one stupid thing I didn't buy for her. How long do I keep up with these. O ti su mi o.

Hope you are not exaggerating? Are you her father or husband? That woman has no good wishes for you, a woman with your interest and future in mind would be more concerned about your savings and investments not being a pest and spending your money on frivolities.

You can go on with her though, don't come and cry us a river when you go bankrupt and start all women gold diggers.

Defence lawyer.

queencalipso:
But you just said you guys were having an argument when she said the word. Didn't you say hurtful things to her too? And to think you even insulted her first. If you can't take her back wholly please let her go.

You are here now forming boss because she came to beg you without considering the hurtful things you said to her too that made her say those words to you.

queencalipso:
But you just said you guys were having an argument when she said the word. Didn't you say hurtful things to her too? And to think you even insulted her first. If you can't take her back wholly please let her go.

You are here now forming boss because she came to beg you without considering the hurtful things you said to her too that made her say those words to you.

Well said.

eiBADAn:


Honestly, there is no lie in all I said. I'm not trying to brag, but my dad is a billionaire and she knows this. I'm currently planning to leave the country to further my studies for the benefits of the family company. I had to apply for a visa for her which was refused. A blessing in disguise I must say. Now she wants me to try again. I have dropped her sisters CV with my dad tho he doesn't know them. She wants me to buy her brother a phone. Also my expensive wristwatch she wants me to dash her brother. Some times when we argue, she would be like, don't forget we are not married o. That got me thinking a lot. I talk to her mom so I don't know how to dump her without much hassles. I have a very soft heart which she's capitalizing on. I love and I'm sad as I'm typing this. I don't know what to do.

Come lemme tell u hw to dump her...jst tell her its over,simple. Or next time u guys argue jst tell her u are fed up wit her too many demands.tell her she is only interested in ur money and dat u don't tink she loves u. So since u guys are not married,its best u break up now because u don't tink u can continue like dis,simple,case closed. But she go beg u wella o. So Since u hav money,u can travel out jst to keep some distance between her nd give her time to overcome d shock.

eiBADAn:
Guy, well said. If you do 99 things for a girl, it's the one thing you didn't that she would remember. If I make 300k a month, her personal budget is already over half of it and when there's an argument, she remembers one stupid thing I didn't buy or get for her, I'm talking about my gf. What do I do in my own case? She's not working cuz she's still searching. Let's assume I have 700k now, her budget would be 450k when I finish calculating expenses. She would do hair, change nails, buy makeup, but expensive creams, buy new clothes even tho she just bought few weeks back. She wants to send money to her mom, to her sister, to her brother. She's owing her friend, she has to pay. I do all these and the smallest argument we have, she would suddenly remember one stupid thing I didn't buy for her. How long do I keep up with these. O ti su mi o.

And you say she's not working You have employed her o

Are you minding these stvpid guys?

Guys can yarnnnnnnnn but they don't care. It is women that must learn to restrain their tongues because of God-knows-why!

queencalipso:
But you just said you guys were having an argument when she said the word. Didn't you say hurtful things to her too? And to think you even insulted her first. If you can't take her back wholly please let her go.

You are here now forming boss because she came to beg you without considering the hurtful things you said to her too that made her say those words to you.

Try and forgive her, hurtful words can be spoken out of annoyance,she might noy mean it

Mine is hard-working, beautiful (but lack some physical endowments I would love, like big boobs and bombom, but I'm coping), accommodating and supportive but the problem is her tongue and tone when we argue. Her voice is so loud that my neighbors might cone knocking! It's really making me not see d other good qualities in her!

alexistaiwo:

Due to time constraints, I don't want to go into details here but she was the one that caused the argument and breakup. check out this thread
https://www.nairaland.com/2984049/girl-always-interferes-bestfriend-relatonship. after I confronted her on the issue for the like the hundredth time. she frustrated me up to the point that she was like pushing me to beat her. why wouldn't I insult her?

Bro next time, simply try walking away, cos such act is so provocative... trust me it will help you in the future...

alexistaiwo:

she is not the one on my dp. the girl on my dp is my friend who loves nairaland but she refuses to open her own account so she uses my account to comment sometimes. besides she is beautiful (beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder)

Na ur gf b dat oooo... If not, u re a typical cheat. Wetin concern Agboro with overload? Wetin concern another babe with ur own nairaland accnt?
But d guy wey observe dix kin tin sef, u dey 1st rush view dp bfore u open thread?

instead of u 2 use ur money n feed some fish in the river niger that will appreciate u,u r spending on ungrateful elements... atm

Relationships are bound to fail. Lol but "managing you" that's kinda harsh my ex told me some pretty nasty words while trying to check up on her to see how she's doing, the thing hurt me , she apologised later in, but mehn after that I stopped calling to check up on her not to look like a pest.

eiBADAn:


Honestly, there is no lie in all I said. I'm not trying to brag, but my dad is a billionaire and she knows this. I'm currently planning to leave the country to further my studies for the benefits of the family company. I had to apply for a visa for her which was refused. A blessing in disguise I must say. Now she wants me to try again. I have dropped her sisters CV with my dad tho he doesn't know them. She wants me to buy her brother a phone. Also my expensive wristwatch she wants me to dash her brother. Some times when we argue, she would be like, don't forget we are not married o. That got me thinking a lot. I talk to her mom so I don't know how to dump her without much hassles. I have a very soft heart which she's capitalizing on. I love and I'm sad as I'm typing this. I don't know what to do.

It's obvious that you're drunk in love but don't let that becloud your reasoning.

bqlekan:
*In one direction voice* The story of my life.................

yes! you tushed her up, spent on her. so? somethings should be personal.

Yh u're rite buh in dis case we don't knw dem so no big deal.