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Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by akinsmyk(m): 9:00am On Jun 25, 2016 |
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Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by Omonoba1: 9:01am On Jun 25, 2016 |
People are doing great things, meeting with Kings and someone is here wanting to kill himself over some Chit.... Guy, Receive sense!!! If i were your sibling, na better flogging for you. 1 Like |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by BuzzRay(m): 9:01am On Jun 25, 2016 |
amaraedec: Bro, you didnt kill yr self when yr mum died. I see no reason why you should try to take yr life because of a lady. Move on, make yr mum proud. Time heals. Please dont ever go back to that girl, she will only cost you more pain. Most importantly change yr number. You will survive 2 Likes |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by mamaafrik(m): 9:03am On Jun 25, 2016 |
foolinlove:my broda i sincerly appreciate dis ur advice,but is it for all?,OP suldnt be overhonest except she proves (very reliable ) ,90% people and ladies will start capitalizing on ur honesty once you show it,look around on friendship,relationship of the past and u'll reason dat very few folks appreciate honesty.so,OP,do more lady friends,if she calls,if u can handle it arrange and drill her many time wit emotions detached and den discard her aass to OGEPA,but if cant handle dat ,let her do the callings and the talking(most ladies cant survive these 4 long b4 she "fondagbe"while u remain silent(u knw those "i heard u" treatment),you keep spreading your tentacles with lady friends,the way to attract ladies is not by clinging or like "u own my world"attitudes,itz by allowing her to do the chasing. |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by LadyAimy: 9:07am On Jun 25, 2016 |
iamlimo:Watin this one dey yarn? I'm a Christian |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by alizma: 9:12am On Jun 25, 2016 |
Irishrena1:though you aren't interested in long stories, just try and go through this In love, an Aquarian must retain a certain amount of independence. It is unwise to give an Aquarian the feeling of being trapped. An Aquarian can involve themselves in a sexual relationship without getting too emotionally involved and attached. Friendship is a key component of romantic relationships with the water bearer. Often attracted to enigmas and mysterious types … closed books whose pages they enjoy finding a way to open up and read. A mystery intrigues the water bearer and can be rather arousing for an Aquarian-born. These highly social creatures make friends easily, and are most likely to be friends with a partner before they are lovers. In love, Aquarius is tolerant and generous. They give as much freedom as they expect to have, rarely nagging or harping repeatedly about a mistake that was made. They are often reluctant to commit, although once they do they are very loyal and devoted partners. Aquarian woman are great partners because they are so tolerant, easy to deal with, slow to take offence and are never jealous or unreasonable, never clinging or overemotional. She simply asks for respect of her privacy, which is one of the most important things to her and a little independence to go about her many interests. Although the Aquarian male may not jump quickly into an emotionally involved relationship, once he commits he views it as a very serious matter. He looks for a friend as well as a lover. An idealist who believes in true love, Aquarius searches for a best friend and soulmate in one. The water bearer is a brainy, funny and charming soul who is magnetic and fascinating. The distant glamor of an Aquarian attracts like a magnet. Aquarians have a romantic streak … expect the unusual, blending with a futuristic, refined classical style of romanticism. The eleventh sign adores intellectual stimulation. The meeting of the minds will often precede the meeting of bodies. A loyal and loving sign, most Aquarians are eccentric creatures. They are different and they are drawn toward others who are different too. They love a mysterious type, someone to figure out … Humanitarians, Aquarius can become fixated in loving mankind rather than one person, however if the right person comes along Aquarius will fall in love quickly. Although they are friendly with many, the water bearer enjoys few close and intimate relationships. In love, Aquarians are full of surprises … fun, exciting and filled with the unusual. They see beyond the superficialities of appearance and accessories into the minds of their partners. For an Aquarius being in love means a deep connection with their partners minds, with frequent and lively intellectual conversations. Loyal and generous, they never quibble over petty matters. The water bearer is not only different, perhaps even a little strange and unusual at times, they need to be outside of the crowd. They like it. Love with an Aquarian will be exciting and different, unusual and charming. Ruled by Uranus, the planet of freedom, mental studies and electricity, a relationship with an Aquarian is filled with interesting and unusual people, situations, ideas and conversations. It may be electric … An Aquarian love will be interesting and intellectually stimulating. Some Aquarians find sexual intimacy more important than others, however most are enthusiastic about lovemaking. A strong mental connection is important regardless. An Aquarian is usually experimental and quite adventurous. Naturally curious, sex can become an exploration, revealing hidden depth and places of intrigue. |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by terzurum(m): 9:15am On Jun 25, 2016 |
Guy, enter FREE GEAR, release yourself. Begin look other ladies and appreciate the HANDIWORK of GOD. Na that time u go know say God CARVE THINGS. No be only her fine oh! Then work on your STAYING POWER (bad advice for a CHRISTIAN) that is if you are one. When u hold person daughter for ground PIN am down well make she hear am. E bi like u no de clear her doubt on top bed or she no like u, na u just de assume and de live inside ur dream only you. Waite oh you even define the relationship with her at all? There are good mannered ladies plenty and available. Guy no de close your eye when u de find woman. Wetin this lady do you ba? Signs done de show tay tay na you de close ur eye. Look make I tell you if any girl want play monkey play ha! Help am play de play well well na wa 4 u oh! Pack the girl put 4 corner no drive am oh! When she bring the SHARP TOYOTA fire am till e turn 2nd HAND. No b your fault. U wan de straight na her no want. Mean while open your eye de look for another woman. No close ur eye again oh! This thing weh do you been do me but me free myself by myself. |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by andrewutibe: 9:23am On Jun 25, 2016 |
R u alrite? R u insane? On wat ground should u take ur own life because ur suppose GF cheated on u, wat is wrong wit u ? She is not even ur wife 4 cryin out loud she is only exploiting ur generosity 2 her, dis r d 'vicissitude of life' move on wit ur life it may b hard 2 4get all wat u did 4her u hav 2 man up, she's not meant 4u d signs r there already a broken relationship is beta dan marriage. |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by samuelson06(m): 9:25am On Jun 25, 2016 |
amaraedec: Learn what exactly? You have gone through the University without learning a thing. Are you sure you'll ever learn? Had you killed yourself, Satan would've welcome you to the hottest part of Hell. You love a fellow human more than Jesus? C'mon you need to be born again. You can't love a fellow human more than our Lord Jesus. It's sin. Fact is you need to be free - yes, deliverance! If a graduate, a full grown adult man cannot handle a little emotional situation then something is wrong. You are a very weak man - very very weak and full of fear. I wish you stayed here with me. I make men rugged. Nothing should be able to break you just like that. There's more to life than emotions. Stop this kindergarten love. Develop a mentality. Think and act like a man. Next time, walk in love and not fall in love. There are differences between that two, find out. Stop this please. It makes me feel bad. |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by Vivos: 9:27am On Jun 25, 2016 |
I know a friend with similar story,she tried committing suicide,but esaaped the grasp of death,she's now living happily like nothing happened. First you give your life to christ,it's obvious you are not a bornagain because if you would understand that the life that you live is not yours but christ's.The holyspirit is a divine comforter,you will find peace,joy,life and love,that love you seek for,I wish I can talk to you more on this issue 1 Like |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by iPopAlomo(m): 9:28am On Jun 25, 2016 |
olu77: Haha... think of the weight... |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by qualityalone: 9:31am On Jun 25, 2016 |
Really understand how u feel. sometimes u are like a prisoner when it comes to love. I v been there. but one thing u should know is that u can forget her if u want to. U might think she's the best and only one for u. naa lie. like u said "posterity rewards fidelity". ( dnt be surprised some gals here on nairaland have fallen for u already cos of ur genuity & gentlemaness.lol) just give it time, u will find out that wat its in stock for u its far better than wat u v now. mind u, although u v two eyes, u can't look up and down at dsame time. Just let her go. focus more on God. His love is the best. 2 Likes |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by joegigs(m): 9:32am On Jun 25, 2016 |
my guy ,she is calling and disturbing you because she realized she has left diamond for a shiny rock.she doesn't have anyone to provide all you provided for her .she never realized the true value of water until it is nowhere to be found.forget her, thinking about her is you calling yourself a fool 1 Like |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by Mopricelezz(f): 9:32am On Jun 25, 2016 |
Mehn!!! That yoruba adage says 'Eni to lori oni fila, eni to ni fila ko lori' meaning the one with a head doesn't have a cap, the one with the cap doesnt have a head'... She had/has a faithful guy, who loves her and she still chooses to make him miserable? That is serious.. My brother, you should Never commit suicide because of anyone. If you had died, do you think her life will be on hold? Hell No!!! That you didn't die despite all you said you took shows that God still got bigger plans for your life. You really need to get yourself occupied with what will get your mind off her, change your lines if need be, or block her for good. You really need to MOVE ON, she is not worth all that you have gone through and that you are going through right now. PLEASE LET HER GO. SHE IS NOT DESERVING OF YOU.. May God help you. |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by AyamBlaze: 9:37am On Jun 25, 2016 |
My advice is way better than yours, bro! savydo: |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by Mopricelezz(f): 9:40am On Jun 25, 2016 |
qualityalone: You are so so right. 3 Likes |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by layzie: 9:40am On Jun 25, 2016 |
Amaraedec, I think u shud stay off romantic relationships for now. Focus 100% on your job and other hustles while u take ur time to mature relationship wise. You entered a relationship with your heart only, very bad.. delete that girl's number and never pick her calls again, don't jump into a new relationship for now until u re ready. Ready means being matured enough to enter with ur head and heart, more of head. If I'm to recommend, 1 year MINIMUM!! Use the 1 year to learn. Of course u can have female friends on a strictly platonic level, learn from and with them. Your daily routine shud be work, hustle, church. No callingof girls on phone, let them be the ones calling. The point here is to be totally independent of gehls 1 Like |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by Ekeseges(f): 9:41am On Jun 25, 2016 |
TRULY AMARADEC THAT LADY ISNT MEANT FOR YOU AND IF U MARRY HER EVENTUALLY.SHE WOULD BE MARRYING YOU OUT OF PITY.IF YOU MARRY HER I BET YOU AFTER 3 MONTHS SHE WOULD DIVORCE YOU AND RUN TO HER LOVER.SO BE STRONG AND MOVE ON.MAKE OTHER LADY FRIENDS AND I BET YOU LIFE IS BRIGHTER AT THE END OF THE TUNNEL.AM PRAYING FOR YOU. |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by infidelity(m): 9:43am On Jun 25, 2016 |
GEJ:The life of any Nigerian does not worth my ambition.Don't die for any Girl because of 'Ass hole".If you like,graduate from the University of TORONTO without money Girls will continue toy wit your emotions.Solution;Work hard and get money.Money is the language dat Girls of nowadays understand.If you have money, u will not be the one to chase Girls,they will chase you till when you begin to shout 'E don do.Quickly occupied ur heart with the next available Girl.Good luck. |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by zinnywonders(f): 9:43am On Jun 25, 2016 |
Every relationship must not lead to marriage,irrespective of the years both of u have spent together. In every break ups or problems in a relationship have its purposes. Two things are involved,u got to learn from it and God is protecting u from unforseen battle(s)that u will never find the solution. It's difficult to let go of the one we love but when it's not working out the way we want it ,doesn't mean we should end our life,rather pick the lessons and believe that God has a better choice n plan for us. Be thankful and prayerful cos ur predestined woman is out there waiting GOOD LUCK!!! |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by Mopricelezz(f): 9:48am On Jun 25, 2016 |
savydo: And a man that cheats? |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by 99foxxy(f): 9:49am On Jun 25, 2016 |
Nairalanders u dunno what true love is, if he truly loves her, he will not hesitate to coil back in her arms. Dear bros calm down for Jesus. find something to cheer you up, even if it's by hitting her to calm your nerves. Nobi to hit her as beating oh... Yansh her wella n fget ur sorrow. tank me later. |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by Nobody: 9:50am On Jun 25, 2016 |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by ebbybest(f): 9:51am On Jun 25, 2016 |
yommen:Thank You Sir.... |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by ebbybest(f): 9:53am On Jun 25, 2016 |
Harvigh:Thank u, for appriciating it. 1 Like |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by eminent4luv: 9:55am On Jun 25, 2016 |
the Worst mistake is trying to take ur live because of love which u can always get a better one if u allow God to direct u. I which falling in love is like traffic light. because I know how it pains to be hurt deeply by the very Person u luv so much and wish to spend ur life with, maybe it was not main to be, so let go and ask God to give u ur very own because ur own will never want to hurt. please try and let go and move on with your precious life, and don't let her in ur life again because a cheat will always be a cheat. save ur luv for another because a lot of ladies are longing to have u because u sound like a guy with good personality.(I love u) |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by Nobody: 10:11am On Jun 25, 2016 |
Heineken: well bro, I actually think it's one of the best points I made. let me tell you why. rebound relationships are no good to both parties. you are getting into a relationship to forget someone not because you love her. guess what's going to happen next. when another girl whom you really like comes along in 2years time you are going to drop this one. I know. I have been at both ends. you will hurt that girl eventually and the probability of not hurting her is 1 to a 100. |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by splendidbaby(f): 10:13am On Jun 25, 2016 |
Eyaa,sorry bros but you need to understand that you cannot force a relationship to work,and let me tell you something no human being is worth dying for.pls gather yourself and be happy.God is your strength |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by Gorgeousolasco(f): 10:20am On Jun 25, 2016 |
I would advice you NEVER to go into a relationship with that girl again. Dat girl wicked o. Well, no matter care or wealth u flaunt, dat doesn't make a lady loves u. I would also love if u don't put all ur ALL in d next relationship u are going to. Don't spend much on her and DO NOT EVER SHOW HER U CANNOT LIVE WITHOUT HER. Immediately she knows dis, bros u don become ball be dat. Na to dey kick u whenever she wants I.e, she would take you for granted |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by elinah11(f): 10:29am On Jun 25, 2016 |
So if u died immediately afta u poisoned ursef, do u think heaven will av mercy on u. You want to waste ur life when there are lot of achievement to attain in life. You want to die just because of 1 girl. Abeg, u only av 1 life to live n u've gat to enjoy it. please move on wit ur life. Move closer to God, ask Him to guide u according to His will for ur life. D ryt woman wil come at the right. Do gud n b happy. It is well wit you. |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by vallyjohn: 10:30am On Jun 25, 2016 |
I feel your pain bro...if you don't leave now your case would be settled in the nearest mortuary....b strong, change ur contact and stop listening to her deceptive sayings..she doesn't luv u |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by tuco1: 10:30am On Jun 25, 2016 |
foolinlove: Which one come be true love, ,, mtsewww will always be girls |
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